Old Lady Smackdown!
Nan Talese, the publisher that released James Frey's A Million Little Pieces, is blasting Oprah Winfrey "sanctimoniousness" and the way she attacked the author on her show after he was caught in a web of lies.
Oh no she didn't! Nobody messes with our O!
Click here to watch Nan's old lady juices boil up.















































I read the book and thought it was amazing. Who cares if its true or not. If you read it and loved it , THEN found out it was false, you need to shut it because you liked it to begin with. People are stoopid.
Ted C. has recently had items about Oprah. Some celebrity guests (read B-list) of Oprah were appalled by her behavior when they appeared on the show. She basically only talked to them on air; ignoring them before and after. I have seen many shows of Oprah where you can tell once she cuts to commerical break, they become invisible to her and she turns her head away. Ted also said they start blinking red lights when she is about to enter a room.
Unfortunately, many people take her word as gospel. My friend was a huge fan until she realized Oprah was a bit of a reverese racist and celebrity ass kisser.
I'm a writer. I agree with Talese/Frye on this. Oprah felt like she had egg on her face and ripping this guy a new asshole was her way of making the most of what she perceived as an embarrassing situation. Oprah really was out of line, but then that's not the first time she's taken something to the extreme. Did anyone see the fallout from the Don Imus thing? Jesus.
i agree with nan. i saw that show and it wasn't about telling the truth, it was about making the guy look like an asshole on national television so that oprah would feel better about herself, particularly bc details of the book were exposed to be fiction.
OPRAH IS A HYPOCRITE. SHE TOTALLY BEAT UP ON JAMES FREY WHEN SHE DIDN'T HAVE TO. SOME SOCCER MOM, RICH SPOILED IGNORANT BITCHES SENT OPRAH LETTERS ABOUT "TRUTH" (LIKE THEY'RE EXPERTS) AND OPRAH FLIPPED OUT AND DECIDED TO PLEASE THE RICH HOUSEWIVES WHO WATCH HER SHOW (**DO IMPORTANT PEOPLE WHO HAVE JOBS OR WHO ARE ACTUALLY OUT WORKING WATCH HER SHOW?? SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT***) SHE NEEDED TO LECTURE HIM. OPRAH IS A JOKE.
OPRAH IS A CONTROL FREAK. THAT GAY ASS LEGENDS PARTY WHERE SHE ORDERED EVERYONE TO WEAR BLACK WHILE SHE WORE RED - — GIVE ME A F-ING BREAK. THESE PEOPLE BECAME LEGENDS BY **NOT*** DOING WHAT EVERYONE ** ORDERED** THEM TO DO AND THEN OPRAH IS SO FULL OF HERSELF SHE TELLS THESE PEOPLE WHAT TO WEAR. I'M GOING TO GO THROW UP NOW.
Bravo Nan Talese! Oprah, aka, Queen of all media, was "horrified" that James wrote that his girlfriend committed suicide by hanging herself rather than write what really happened, she slit her wrists. Writers string together fiction and non-fiction as a means to tell their stories. I loved the book, as Oprah did, and was not the least bit surprised to find the ex-drug addict had lied and embellished his story! HE WAS ON DRUGS FOR GODSAKES!
I have thought for quite a while that O has been quite full of herself, rude to guests, judgemental as hell, and up so far on a high horse, that I cannot believe the public at large hasn't turned on her yet. What she did to James Frey was tasteless, classless, and I'm glad to see someone educated and respected speaking out on it.
Oprah is not God. I think america is forgetting that.
This is the exact same story i heard directly from James Frey himself. It is 100% the way it occured. After the show he was brought into a conference room and Oprah said, "Sorry James but its just business". He thought he was being brought on a show about truth with 8 other panelists and when he got out in the studio and saw one chair he thought "this is not good". Its not his fault they originally wanted to change the book from FICTION to NON FICTION.
holly crap - Someone brave enough to stand up the Oprah monster!!! I totally agree with Nan.
HOLY SHIT! UNT - THAT'S MY ALMA MATER!
GO EAGLES!!!!
It's not like Oprah is Hitler. I am glad she (the old lady) in hre dignified way stood up for herself.
I agree with Nan also. I am a fan of Oprah but thought she was completely out of line on that show. I read the book and it kept my attention and I read it in 2 days. Who would be dumb enough to think it was a true story. When I was reading it I didn't believe it really happened. So he embellished a little …. big deal! It was still a good book.
Anyone who agrees with this lady is full of shit. Plain and simple. I will tell you why. When Dave Eggers wrote A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius in his foreward he actually writes what is true and what he embellished. He never once said it is all true…this is exactly what happened. As a credible writer that is what you are supposed to do. As a writer you sell it as fiction, truth, or based on truth. He and his publisher had a right to be called out on misleading the public. It's the same with Mili Vanili…they had to give back their grammy and go before the grammy board and explain themselves. If Frey would have said initallly all of this is not true, some things embellished then there wouldnt' have been a problem. Oprah had every right to call him out and she was not that hard on him. People cannot stand to see a woman in power…let it had been a man doing that same interview and nobody would have said anything about.
I hate Oprah. She wouldn't have called James Frey on it had he been black.
I couldn't agree more. Oprah is a bitchy ego-maniacal self-centered diva. Any boss that would treat their employee like that in front of other staffers would have had law-suits all over them. Oprah anialated James Frey in front of Millions. She did so because she made an ASS of herself on Larry King and if she goes down, so should he. She was wrong in her handling of the matter, but she will never admit it. She played the victim card and she played it in the most obscene way.
Now she's playing the race card by doing what every other black celebrity does and supporting the black candidate. Everything Oprah does, she does only to get recognition (how long did we hear about the legends luncheon and her "school" in Africa - Business write-offs completely.)
Philanthropists give quietly. Oprah gives so that she can receive. She should take lessons from Bill Gates. KUDOS TO NAN!!!!
I will make absolutely SURE not to watch the 'Fashionista Diaries' because they have encouraged you to plaster their adverts so that one cannot enjoy your web site. The comments are now virtually unreadable. It's giving me a headache and I'm leaving for now. It is a total turn-off. You should tell this advertiser, what they did is backfiring for you and for them. People note the sponsers, but they should never take over the look of your site.
I always thought about that show, and it confirmed my opinion of OPFRA is this right way to use Fugly, Racists and gave him a hanging in front of the world. She's Wrong WRONG WRONG!! Did she think that was a payback after her holiness didn't have everything go her way SCREW U U Miss FakeAss I hope you get your public lashing that you deserve.
I saw this show. Two days later, I cancelled my subscription to her magazine. I asked the switchboard lady if she wanted to know why. She said "James Frey, Right?" I said "Bingo". Lady said, "Yeah, I've been hearing it all day.
Only oprah would do a full week on a road-trip with her BFF. You do know that once she aired it, every dollar she spent was a business expense. Can anyone say Legends lunch? How many times did we see that? Oh my God, I can't stand this woman.
I'm with James and his publisher on this! Oprah thats an awesome book and who doesnt lie every once and again get over youself,Oprah
All those that agree w/Frey serve as an example of just how useless the truth has become. It's outdated. Not only do people no longer mind being lied to, they actually prefer it to the truth if it's more interesting. A memmoire is not a novel, it's not supposed to be a work of fiction. Frey got everything he deserved, but I only wish it had been served to many others as well. With all due respect to the public's preference for a popcorn diet of lies, I prefer the truth. It's far more substantial. And I used to know where I could find it, but now lying has infested everything. News=bullshit…memmoires=fiction…truth=obsolete
AMEN #107 OPRAH KNOWS WHERE HER BREAD AND BUTTER COME FROM. THE WHITE HOUSEWIVES GRRRRRL !!! NOT BLACK PEOPLE. TO ameN YES GGGOOOO NAN GO NAN i LOVE THIS SUBJECT
I stopped watching her after the t.v. screen became too small to hold her ego. I got tired of the Gospel according to Oprah. good for her she's made lots of money, we all have the right to do that and much of it is because of her hard work and much is luck. However she acts like people without money are less than and she is surrounded by so many ass kissers, she has lost touch with reality. He wrote a book some of it was fiction. Some of the same people who chastised him have probably lied on a resume, lied to their spouses and on their taxes, etc. Get over it!
I have read the book and I had those experiences of that he wrote about, and I related to his feelings of hopelessness and it was very helpful. I beleive Oprah need to get her life in order, she's living in sin with a gay man, and Oprah deceives people everyday on her show. She needs to come to the surface on her self fulfilling agena. BE WELL OPRAH
Oh my god I am watching Kathy Griffin right now on TV and she's talking about Oprah thinking she brought the world to life.
Oprah Winfrey is so not cultivated and is just the spokesperson for the minivan majority. Her attitude was uncalled for on that show. All the soccer moms should stop worshipping her. I can't stand her.
HE lied..point blank…she should be talking about how DUMB james frey was for going on NATIONAL TV and advertise his lies…what you think would happen every1 will open their aims and say everything is OKAY!!
TO YOU DUMB ASS PEOPLE…TALKING ABOUT OPRAH BEING GHETTO OR BLACK…WHO THE HELL IS HER AUDIENCE NOTHING BUT WHITE FEMALES YOU CAN SEE ABOUT 5 BLACK WOMEN BUT NOTHING BUT WHITES FEMALES SO HER FANS WERE MAJORITY ARE WHITE…SO YOU CAN SAY SHE GHETTO OR WHAT EVER THE CASE MAYBE BC OF HER SKIN BUT THE WHITE PEOPLE ARE MAKING HER RICH!!!!
I've seen oprah as a fake, a fraud, and a phoney for YEARS! I stopped watching that show when I began to see her fake getting emotional. I could count her down and watch the fake tears roll. I have had several people to tell me that they had to stop watching because they could see it too.
Oprah is starting to believe her own bullshit. She can be a mean bitch if she is crossed. I have heard some horrible stuff about the way she treats the familys of the girls at her academy in South Africa. O you are NOT the black Jesus
Thanks for posting this, Perez! Bitches gotta know — don't fuck with Oprah!
nan ur the dumbass that published this book, without verifying if any of this was true. u could have called it fiction, but chose to sell it as a memoir. leave oprah alone. she did the rite thing.
This woman is incredibly well spoken, and seems very intelligent. Oprah doesn't like to speak to people who are more intelligent than she because it becomes obvious in a second that she is infact, not God…but a dynamic television personality.
hey mavy, i used to go to UNT, too. thank god i got outta there, quick.
It's a great book..I love it..who cares if some of it's bullshit…and Oprah is a complete moron.
She is right!
UNT, IS a bs school. no wonder they had this ridiculous woman on. That other poster was right, those people at UNT are there cuz they didnt get to go to UT, or Texas A&M.
Make Art, not Gossip! Love Perez! He is so HOT!!!
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Leave Oprah alone!!
She is right. Spiritual Oprah is a hypocrite. I felt so bad for
James Frey when he was on the show, La Oprah spoke to
him as if he was responsible for mass murders. Shame on
La Oprah.
Oprah was pissed because she got fooled by a CRACK HEAD… So she had to set out and teach him a lesson in business….Don't Fuck with Oprah. Now Nan is pissed off because Oprah pulled the carpet from under her feet while she was standing in line at the bank cashing those fat check. Nan don't worry about Oprah you should be more concern about getting tricked and lied to by a James Frey. At the end of the day Oprah and Nan Talese got played by a Crack Head.
THANK YOU PEREZ FOR ELEVATING THE SUBJECT MATTER
NAN IS A LITERARY LEGEND AND GENIUS
LOVE OPRAH BUT HER MOVE WAS ALL POLITICS
SHE PANDERED TO HER AUDIENCE
SHE DOES THINK SHES GOD AFTER ALL
A MEMOIR BY DEFINITION IS ONES ACCOUNT (VERSION) OF THE FACTS
Oprah's a pretentious attention whore. She should rot.
WOW
Oprah is an idiot.. ALL she does is name-drop and discuss her dogs, her diet and her houses. She thinks she is a celebrity and acts like an asshole when they are on her show. James Frey's book was genius, and he is an amazing author. She should worry more about getting a backbone then what her personal chef is making her for dinner. She's a PIG.
The bottom line is that writers of nonfiction, as Frey claimed his book is, need to be as accurate as possible about the detail of the events written about. Oprah should not have to do background research on the validity of Frey's book; that is his editor's job. I, too, thought she was rather harsh on Mr. Frey, but he is a prime example of how people will do whatever it takes to make it, and that includes umitigated lying.
I agree with Nan 100%. People think Oprah is God-like…I am not saying she doesn't go good things…but she is not perfect.
KUDOS TO *ANYONE* WHO TAKES DOWN OPRAH (AKA JESUS OF THE SOUTHSIDE) A PEG OR TWO….. BITCH AIN'T ALL THAT…..
Oprah is a cunt!
We don't care about her.
Finally, this thing is biting Oprah in the ass. She threw a drug addict under the bus…for lying…Got news for you dear, drug addicts lie. She's Oprah, for G-d's sake, she can recover from a minor hit to her reputation. She was really a bully in that program….watch it. You'll cringe. James Frey should have been under a suicide watch after that…humiliated in front of millions for the sake of poor little Oprah's pride.
Ms. Talese has a lot of courage. Because Oprah is all business, she may
not promote any more Doubleday books which will hurt her bottom line. Oprah's good at retaliation, as we've seen.
i was planning to comment about how i agreed with that publisher,oprah totally bullied james frey!!!!!!!!!!!!! i thought i would be the only one to think that. im so glad other people see thru oprah's bullshit. i never watched her again after that show and i wish james frey all the best. it was an amazing book, who cares if he embellished. oprah thinks her shit dont stink. i heard she is having an affair with a married guy.
I absolutely agree with Nan. That Oprah day was the day I stopped liking her. She has become so full of her own self-importance that she feels she can just chop anyone off at the knees.
YES, she gives a lot and helps others, but she is ALWAYS SURE to mention how much she gave and video tapes every act of kindness so that others are sure to see it in action.
I am personally sick of Oprah.
She was a complete Bitch to James Frey and I am 200% on his side.
If I had the time, I would love to comb through everything she has ever written and shout out every wrong word she wrote. I KNOW she has some lies and embellishments in her shit somewhere.
That's Joyce Carol Oates! I love her!!! You have to marry her Perez (woman at podium).
She did that Blonde book on Marilyn Monroe, where she described her getting double penetration!!!!! Whoo-hoo! Well, actually, both ends, technically…not "DP"
:-)
OPRAH is full of shit.
I have not watched a single episode of oprah ever since the James Frey incident!
I hope that bitch burns in hell! Mr. Frey exaggerated/changed three things in his memoir, 1) the amount of time he spent in jail—no relevance to the story whatsoever 2) a drug free root canal—ok sure…had some dramatic impact…but overall has no relevance to the purpose of his story and 3) how his girlfriend killed herself…which was only to help protect the identity of her and her family….which only show the compassion he has and what a truly changed person he has become. I loved every page of "a million little pieces', it was fantastic and I think James Frey is an amazing person for sharing his story which I'm sure has helped a lot of people. I think Oprah should be ashamed of herself for the way she treated James Frey….she built him up and made the book as high profile as it was, all the while claiming it was a great story of addiction and recovery and then tore it down and turned her back on it when it became inconvienient for her to support the book and James Frey.
I will never watch her show again…in my opinion she showed her true colors that day.
Oprah was lied to as was America. It is okay to fabricate a story and when you do that you call it FICTION! I was so upset to find out that James Fey is a liar and he used Oprah in order to get rich and famous. I would confront anyone who lied to me so I do not blame Oprah for doing the same. Everyone is just jealous because Oprah is RICH!
Someone said, "I’ve seen oprah as a fake, a fraud, and a phoney for YEARS!" I have too! I stopped watching her show back in the late 80s (?) so I didn't see this particular show, but I saw parts of it of Talk Soup or something similar. When I saw it, I was like, "Oh lord, Oprah is on her high horse again." She is such a phony. I'm surprised her show is still on. Is Stedman still around? God, I used to feel really sorry for him to be fucking this bossy bitch. Poor guy, you can tell that he's hen-pecked. At least he didn't marry her…he so lost his own identity when he became Mr. Winfrey. Oprah used to make me laugh saying she was a size 14 when she was at her fattest. OMG this bitch was lying! I've been a size 14 and I DID NOT weigh as much as she did. Someone was probably changing the tags trying to make her feel better about herself. Her voice grates on my nerves, and she is ugly inside and out. I remember once my ex-husband once said he wished he could fuck her…I felt insulted–like he'd slapped me in my face. LMFAO As far as I was concerned, I couldn't have felt more insulted had he fucked a crackhead–Oprah was just as bad. The creme de la creme was when Howard University bestowed an "Honorary PhD" on her highness this past May. I was so pissed! I worked my ass off for years while simultaneously going to school, working full time, and raising my kids (one who is disabled) trying to fulfill my educational goals, and this BITCH just has a PhD handed to her on a silver platter??? She should have to earn her education just like everyone else…lord knows she could afford to pay for it. I am so glad people are beginning to see her for what she is, I thought it was just me for a long time.
yay for getting Grapevine, Texas on Perezhilton.com! That's my home town, its just surprising to see it's name on this big of a site! wooo hooo.
damn, i go to unt. wish i'd heard about this shiz!
Denton represent, damn right!! My friend went to that conference and told me about this! Before Nan talked about this, someone had stood up and talked about how terrible James Frey was, so she then stood up to defend him.
Juicy. GO UNT!!
I concur - - I use to love, love, love Oprah…in fact I am still a fan of the OLD Oprah, but she has become increasingly self righteous. I think she has done wonderful things with her billions, but there is something that bugs me now
She's right. Anyway, what does it matter if his book was completely factual or not? Was it entertaining? Was it well written? Was it art? Picasso said that fiction is the lie by which we come to learn of truth. Oprah is a linear and unimaginative thinker.
Oprah's retarded. She freaking flogs this guy, but lets Bill Freakin' O'Reilly off the hook on her own show, when he says boys who have been abducted and sexually abused LIKED it….and then he goes on to host benefits for abused children.
LET'S GET REAL.
YEah Nan is standing there dissing Oprah because she's the one who made Frey publish the book as a memoir and non-fiction, and if that wasn't bad enough, the first time he was on Oprah he REINFORCED his lies, like the whole bit about the dentist, DUH! A dentist can give you novocaine and freeze you even if you're an addict because it is a topical anesthetic, it is not mind-altering (I know because I AM an addict). From the first paragraph I knew the dude was lying, he's talking about waking up on a plane with a hole in his face and blood encrusted there, yeah sure JAmes, like an airline lets you board with an OPEN WOUND on your face. I mean I could go on and on about all the falsehoods in that piece of crap. He deserved the tongue-lashing he got for being so full of shit. NAn is just upset because she was behind the whole fiasco!
Love this video clip. Thanks for finding new ways to create controversy. I am tired of Oprah.
OOOHHHH HHHHHeeeeelllll to the naaaww. I know ya'll not bashing Big O.
I have to agree with Nan. I think Oprah is above all things a corporation. The whole thing smacks of Oprah's usual, 'holier than thou' attitude to morality. The fact is that the book was inspirational to some, and a ripping good yarn to others and that's enough. That whole show was a stunt for Oprah to clear her own name and place the blame squarely on someone elses shoulders. Heaven knows she's a powerful media figure and she could have taken the responsibility to fact check the book herself before she endorsed it. But she didn't, and then she ripped someone else a new one for failing to do what she didn't do herself. It's pathetic- clearly a case of a media-savvy popularity addict saving her own skin.
Shut up! You have to give Nan her props!
I used to talk to a lady who had been a guest on Oprah's show, and she said that Oprah was the BIGGEST bitch that she had ever met in her life!
As soon as they cut to commercial, Oprah started bitching and complaining, and starting scolding them for their problems! She also felt that she had to remind everybody that she was the star of the show, and that no one was going to take any air time away from her.
This confirmed what I had thought all along, that Oprah was a self-centered bitch who enjoys nothing more than riding her high horse! Yay to Nan for being brave and calling this bitch out!
Oprah's a self-rightous douce bag. It was embarrassing how she verbally lashed James Frey on her show, if that wasn't reason for a re-lapse i don't know what is.
Nan is so right! Oprah, sucks and she totally blind sided James. His book was amazing, the fact that he bent the truth a bit doesn't change the meaning of his book. By the way he was a drug addict, not a writer how the hell was he supposed to know if the book was going to be published as fiction or non fiction. All Oprah did was set the people "addicts" back and give them a new excuse to use drugs again. Oh James lied in his book I guess that means I should go get high again. F**K Oprah. James Freys book is one of the best accounts of rehab and addiction. Oprah should have researched the book before she decided to get her herd to follow her and read it. Stupid Idiot!
Yo, Number 158. Oprah didn't make James Frey famous; you did and every other person who just because Oprah says to buy it, you do. That book had been out long before Oprah toughted it as being fabulous. People who read don't read books because some celebrity says to. They read because they see an interesting or appealing book in a bookstore or library or a friend passes it along. Maybe you should form your own opinions instead of waiting until the big O tells you what opinion you should have.
#127 - Your name says it all. "she’s living in sin with a gay man"… isn't that an oxymoron?
It's about time someone called Oprah out about her behavior. Oprah has gotten way too full of herself, is a big grandstander and is always basically saying "Look at me and how wonderful I am." She's out of control. She and her enormous ego need to come back down to earth. She loves to rip people apart and I'm sick of it. Just like that time she ripped apart that store that wouldn't let her in to shop after they had closed. They were trying to get rid of the customers that were already in there, they had to set up for a special evening event, they were closed and they didn't know or care about who she was. They were closed. So of course she played the race card and bad mouthed the department store. Who does this broad think she is?!
Please….He may have fabricated some parts of the story but it's a hell of a book and the 2nd book "My Friend Leonard" is even better
I am so glad someone from Frey's camp spoke out about that incident. I love O, I think she means well, but I think that show was a testimony to her needing to be careful with her fame. She belittled him in order to save her name and reputation. I loved the book, but even if I didn't, anyone with class would know better than to rip someone to shreds for the advancement of their own reputation. I think she should be embarrased for her actions.
#48 totally agree. I had the same though for so long. And am so glad that you described it
so well! 0prah knew the whole thing. I knew i was reading a fiction well written fantastic
amaze book and i could not put it down! loved it. But i knew it was "fiction!"
Lilly did not hang herself but miss 0prah hung James Frey.
I notice it that people is so afraid to speak out about miss 0prah…..probable it is a
kind of "superstition!" In fact these bloggers surprise me! Though
Miss 0prah does not like Rosie because DT is a good friend of her?!! Can you believe it?
it's about time someone put oprah in her place
bitch needs to get over this book thing, shiiiit son.
do you know the really weird thing? That's Nan Talese's VOICE, but that's Joyce Carol Oates at the podium (at one point, Nan refers to Joyce, i.e. Carol Oates). pls. explain this weirdness!
"Anyone that thinks Oprah is above criticism is not using their own brain." - V
I LOVE THAT!!
and im loving the comment about OPRAH!! I didnt think she was this bad!! =-0 Goo ROSIE GOO!!! Shes the futurr!!
Anyone that thinks Oprah is above criticism is not using their own brain.
Oprah was such a hag in that situation.. Like everyone couldn't see right through her.. SHE was PROTECTING HER Biggest Asset. Her Brand. Her name. Her stupid book-club credibility. BLOW ME.
i really felt for the guy - it's my understanding that he wanted it out there as a novel, not an auto-bio - oprah did tear him apart, i was surprised - still, if you haven't read the book, do so, it changed my life in helping me to understand addiction and to answer (as good an answer as I'm gonna get) some horrific questions as to why my brother killed himself. james frey got screwed by his publisher
Oprah really can be a pompous ass
He twisted the truth and lied about some things? Really? A drug addict did that?
The way she tore into him made me want to puke… but not as much as her followers do. She's a human being… she's not some kind of angel or saint, holy shit people get a grip