Quote Of The Day

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“As primal beings, men are not supposed to be monogamous. When people ask, ‘Do you believe in monogamy?’ Well, of course that’s what you want. But part of what I love about men is that it’s hard for them to be monogamous. Women, I think, need to spend more time understanding men than changing men. And vice versa.”

- Kate Hudson tells the new issue of Harper's Bazaar

Posted: Aug 8, 2007 at 12:08 pm / Email this »

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nessa!! says – reply to this

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hey!!..
kayaG says – reply to this

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better get tested for stds if you don't mind your men sleeping around
MEME says – reply to this

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ELEVENTH
kate says – reply to this

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i love her!!
Duh says – reply to this

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She already said that like, 4 years ago when she was married to the hairball. She must've gotten some good feedback on it from the guys and thought it was worth repeating…. ho hum…
Lopez says – reply to this

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fabulous
jane says – reply to this

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pretty
liz says – reply to this

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seriously?
Blip says – reply to this

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Ahhhhhh
Nancy says – reply to this

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top ten?
h says – reply to this

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1
MelissaM says – reply to this

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Her mom (Goldie Hawn) said the same thing. Men are getting a break if they're dating Kate!!
Steven Cruz says – reply to this

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20th?
meeee says – reply to this

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wtf i dont understand…. maybe it will show up on the 50 dumbest celeberty qoutes right before what perez sez
beauty_w_brains says – reply to this

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I want to come back in my next life looking like her!
ll says – reply to this

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her quote sucks
Idiot says – reply to this

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I always liked Kate Hudson- but I cannot believe how she can say something so pathetic. I guess I should feel sad for her, that she has no concept of "true love"
and "faithfulness". It must be a lonely world for her.
Deuce says – reply to this

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Kate Hudson is soooo beautiful!! Such a natural beauty, but does she really think that women out there are going to start "understanding men" and not get mad when they arent being monogamous????
cono says – reply to this

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What a total idiot!
circk says – reply to this

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love her lover her…
Tibi says – reply to this

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Guys must love her. "Fuck around all you want honey, I know you can't help it. I'll be here when you get back." She's learned well from her mother's realtionship with Kurt Russell. Ugh.
Kelen says – reply to this

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she's hot girls like these gets me feeling hype
martina says – reply to this

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which is why i'm a lesbian.
nycqt says – reply to this

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WTF?!?!? That's one of thje stupidest statements I've ever heard! Talk about settling for less than you deserve. Geesh! How can someone love that men are unfaithful? Ok, yeah, maybe most men cheat at some point but to fully expect it and embrace it? That's kinda nuts. Maybe she needs therapy for her low self-esteem.
fungi23 says – reply to this

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damn, she's fine, puts out and doesn't care if you cheat. kate will you marry me?!?
BITCH PLEASE! says – reply to this

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IF YOU'RE GONNA BE A HOE, BE A HOE. DON'T TRY TO JUSTIFY IT WITH YOUR PRIMAL BEING BULLSHIT. AIDS, ANYONE?
lkasjdf says – reply to this

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Commitment phobe ya think?
Nat says – reply to this

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That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard…
marsha says – reply to this

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That's bullshit. She's giving every man a free pass.
nat says – reply to this

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i swear shes not even close to good looking, of course men stray, hell i would if i was with her so yeah i understand with her…
Excuses for you man says – reply to this

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make excuses so that you can stay with the wrong men that you choose.
Alli B says – reply to this

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Not sure why I'd take relationship advise from a woman who's divorced before she even hits 30…
DumbBitchAward says – reply to this

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If you like a nice BUCKET OF CRABS!…
Sydney says – reply to this

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dumb blonde
lola says – reply to this

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OMG, how stupid?! What a loser! I wonder if she just says that so she can keep cheating on her boyfriends…..
IS she a MAN? says – reply to this

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Didn't SHE cheat on Her Husband??? Now she is rationalizing why Owen Wilson couldn't be completely faithful to her??
Monstra says – reply to this

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So why did her marriage fail?
N says – reply to this

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Whatever, she's a whore and is just trying to justify it.
kate says – reply to this

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she is a f*cking idiot. seriously.
myspace.com/platinumjah says – reply to this

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I AGREE!!!!!!!
carly says – reply to this

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Everytime I hear someone say something like this, I think they must have been cheated on. Why else would you try to justify your man sleeping around?
mr. Picklefeather says – reply to this

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Good for her! I couldn't agree more.
Shanna says – reply to this

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DAMN —- homegirl was TOTALLY cheated on….okay, well if it was the singer for the black crowes, what a dumbass! He is such a fug, and will NEVER get someone as beautiful and talented as Kate! Way to go Captain Dumbass!
smledoc says – reply to this

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Holy cow…so pretty…so dumb!!
Just proves how dumb celebrities are. Where did she get her college degree?? Oh, that's right…she doesn't have one.
Dino says – reply to this

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That's exactly what her mom Goldie said a long long time ago.

Think for yourself bubblehead.
a n n e c says – reply to this

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Yeah. Far be it for us to expect men to have willpower and resist temptation when involved in a serious relationship. Whatever happened to LOVE?
renn says – reply to this

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Someone implied Goldie and Kurt had the same understanding? gee, I didn't know that!

What garbage. Kate's completely pathetic. As primal beings, we all did a lot of things we don't do now as more "evolved" beings. We have intellect (well, some of us) and we can decide what is more important to us now– a committed and trusting relationship that includes fidelity– or not.
K says – reply to this

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KATE IS FUCKING FAAAAAAAAABULOUS.
Way to land Dax….he's a great guy.
V says – reply to this

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TRUE TRUE TRUE SOO SOO DAMN TRUE!!!
Emily says – reply to this

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Could this woman try any harder to be what men want? She's saying what men want to hear so she's more desirable to them. She's letting men know "Hey, I'm stupid..it's completely ok to cheat on me." Way to set a good example for the rest of us you dumb bitch.
BoredJane says – reply to this

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ok, WTF? that is such bullshit. Wow, I guess I should let my man cheat on me and sleep with other women.

FUCK YOU KATE HUDSON AND FUCK YOUR SEXIST BACKWARD 19TH CENTURY THINKING BULLSHIT!!!! ATTITUDES LIKE THAT MAKE ME SICK.. YOU SET WOMEN BACK 1,000 YEARS YOU DUMB BITCH!!!!!

no wonder men dump her, cos she's a stupid clueless bitch.
zeus's mom says – reply to this

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Sounds like someone who is trying to rationalize the fact that she is getting cheated on….
melissa says – reply to this

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bullshit
LOVE her!! says – reply to this

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Dream girl! Maybe she can invite some friends over for an orgy.
Kristin says – reply to this

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I remember reading somewhere that she said (in so many words) "go out and do what you need to do but don't break up our happy home." All I can say is WTF
POO POO says – reply to this

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Way to save face there Kate !! NOT EVERY MAN is a cheater by the way!! Such a weak statement from someone who has obviously had to convince herself that that is the way it is. The fact that her ex- husband was monogamous contradicts her theory. Hoe.
Mary says – reply to this

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I had always liked Kate Hudson but now I see she tries way too hard to please men. Ladies, if you want monogamy, then you can and should expect it from your man! Don't fall into Kate's sexist, self-hating thinking. She needs to have a feminist awakening and get some self respect — maybe then she'll stop dating jerks who won't commit. And I hate hate hate that young girls are going to read that article and be swayed by it.
cedes says – reply to this

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dumbest shit i've ever heard…i hate when ppl say this s*&%…monogamy is for honorable people who have some f***** self-control…
Chris says – reply to this

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She gets that from her mom, that's how Goldie feels about it. Whatever, they wanna fuck everything in site, got it. Equality's a bitch though, we can do it too.
The R says – reply to this

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Common excuse given by women whose men cheat on them and don't have enough self-confidence to demand more for themselves. Sad.
G.O.D. says – reply to this

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Who cares when she said that you TARDS! she's so right. men get bored.
Leela says – reply to this

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some of you need to re-read the quote PROPERLY.
And she's probably been cheated on and used and has come to the conclusion that guy's (most) are idiots, so she deals with it.
All American Girl says – reply to this

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She must have low self esteem to be preparing for a man to cheat on her. Women must take control of a relationship and if a man sees that then he knows she demands respect. If he cheats it just means he didn't want to be with you anyway.
Jenny says – reply to this

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Keep her (and this article) away from my husband! lol!!
Jake_G says – reply to this

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Airhead Philosophy 101
Char says – reply to this

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That's because SHE likes to sleep around.
m15 says – reply to this

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sounds like she has pretty low self-esteem if she makes up excuses about why men cheat on her.
Diane McF says – reply to this

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This shit is so boring without Lindsay, Paris & Nicole R. Ho Hum.
Sherry says – reply to this

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How did she get the cover of Bazaar? She hasn't had a hit movie in *years*. All she's ever known for these days is her slutty antics.
Sebastian says – reply to this

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I WANT KATE AS MY WIFE! NOW!
Diane Mcf says – reply to this

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I just farted.
Ohreally says – reply to this

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She is setting the tone in all of her relationships if she is actually saying these things to the men that she dates, what a dumb bitch!!!!
Sue says – reply to this

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I think you all don't understand what cheating is. It is when you have a mutual agreement of monogamy and that agreement is broken. Perhaps she doesn't want to be monogamous and doesn't mind if her partner is not monogamous either. Just because she does not want what you may want- does not make her stupid.

That said, I have tried open relationships and I could not do it. I do think women's nature is to generally pick one mate and stick with them and men generally like variety. We have opposing natures- that causes conflict.

I don't disagree with trying to be understanding to the other side. However, you have to be true to your own heart and what you are comfortable with.

I think its time that we respect that people have different lifestyles and that it is their choice. All too often we shame women instead of supporting them and their choices, I think this is an example of that.
trucho says – reply to this

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HAHA!!!!! TYPICAL SLUT!! BLAME IT ON MEN!!! WOMEN NEVER CHEAT OR LIE!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kel says – reply to this

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oh coooooooooooooooooooome on…that's what a girls says when she's been cheated on a million times and tries to act like it didn't affect her so that she doesn't look/feel like a fool in front of the WORRRRRLD.
Jingo says – reply to this

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I hope she gets cheated on in every relationship that she's in. Then she can tell us how 'cool' monogamy is. She's ignorant and has to try and believe what she says to justify the fact that no man would stay with her, she's gross.
alexis says – reply to this

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what a ditz. maybe that's normal when you grow up Hollywood
Vivian says – reply to this

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she's just keeping it real, not condoning. just keeping it real.
april says – reply to this

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gorgeous, i love her…shes such a hippie! FREE love!!
jingle says – reply to this

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perez you are a fat cunt and slow at uploading photos hurry up no-one gives a shit about kate hudson shes a shit actress and untop of that she dates the ugliest guys ever i mean s she trying to say her ex chris cheated?
even if he wanted to he cudnt get a woman shes the only one stupid enough
FAWNA says – reply to this

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HMMMMMMM?? IF SHE HAD A DIFFERENT ROLE MODEL AS A MOTHER,(GOLDIE AND KURT HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP)SHE WOULD THINK DIFFERENTLY,WHAT A SHAME SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN SUCH AS KATE THINKS SO LOW OF HERSELF AND THE MALE SPECIES………………………..
nicole says – reply to this

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does that mean that kurt's cheated on goldie? SNAP!!!!! i've never felt sorry for her until now. that's a pathetic outlook on life and relationships and free reign for every man she'll ever be with to fuck around. oh well some women just like to be treated badly. and some men too. because men obviously don't hold the monopoly on cheating. maybe kate hudson should try and spend some time getting to know that…
uhh says – reply to this

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So then, why was it that she's the one who cheated on her husband and he's the one who left? Sounds like she's the slut, I mean, the primal being.
CATHAZAT says – reply to this

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Well, apparently "Pa" Kurt Russell and Ma Goldie have an open marriage, so it was probably the norm in that household. I think she does have a point–I don't know if anyone is truly a monogamous being. One can be monogamous–male or female–but I don't know if we are necessarily wired that way.
Jo says – reply to this

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bullshit ! she annoys the shit out of me, she's speaking for her self, I would never aprove of my bf cheat on me because of his "primal instincts". She should speak for her self…
Huh? says – reply to this

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Is she trying to tell us that she's a man? because she was the only cheater in her marriage.
Paula says – reply to this

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Ummmm…..I used to be a fan…You just lost one sweetie.

If you really feel that way then why in the hell would you get MARRIED ! Marriage technically is supposed to be about 2 people who fell in love and stood in front of their Pastor or a Judge and declared that they would be together forever and not committ adultry. Obviously you don't truely value marriage….this is your 2ND one.
FAWNA says – reply to this

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HAVE YOU ALL FORGOTTEN ABOUT THE "PICTURES OF KURT"LEAVING THE AHEM MASSAGE PARLOUR!?????????? A KNOWN BROTHEL?! AND WHAT ABOUT ALL THE PICS OF GOLDIE IN THE BACK OF CARS DRUNK/DRUGGED UP WITH "UNKNOWN MALE" BESIDE HER! TRASH! TRASH TRASH!…………………..
www.empressmag.com says – reply to this

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she is just trying to cover her own a$$ cause word is she has a hard time being faithful herself….

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ta says – reply to this

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This is terrible. Let's make it OK for men to cheat. People have reasoning-it's not 500 BC. What a sad woman
IM NOT JUST A FAN, IM A CITIZEN OF PEREZ HILTON says – reply to this

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Men are primal beings and women are _______?
MARA says – reply to this

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COME ON PEOPLE LETS BE HONEST AFTER A FEW YEARS IT GET'S VERY HARD NOT TO STEP OUT IN A RELATIONSHIP…FOR SOME IT TAKES LESS THAT'S HOW THINGS ARE DEAL WITH IT..THE ONLY THING I WISH SHE HAD SAID WAS IT WAS THE SAME FOR WOMEN..WOMEN CHEAT TOO..AND IF ANYONE STILL BELIEVES IN FIDELTY UR LIVING IN A FAIRY TALE ..THAT'S WHY THERE ARE SO MANY DIVORCES IN THIS COUNTRY..PEOPLE EXCEPT TO MUCH EVEN FROM THEM SELF AND THOSE WHO SAY NEVER ME..JUST WAIT IT'LL HAPPEN SOONER OR LATER AND SHIT HAPPENS WORK FREAKING THROUGH IT OR JUST BREAK UP OR DIVORCE JUST DON'T EXPECT FOR YOURSELF OR ANOTHER HUMAN BEING NOT TO EVER EVER EVER SLEEP WITH SOMEONE ELSE ONCE THEIR IN A RELATIONSHIP..PLEASE GET REAL
Dulce says – reply to this

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Madre said the same thing……….
gyeah says – reply to this

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:sigh: woo! that is some deep, groundbreaking, never been thought of before, lightbulb over the head, original, visionary, intelligent, mensa level thinking. …god bless her lil heart.
j. says – reply to this

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Her comments are so '80's. That's the same thing her mother says and has said for years. Boring….zzzzzzzzz…..
Michèle says – reply to this

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that's so sad. That's exactly what Goldie Hawn says about men, and obviously it has rubbed off on her daughter.

Both Goldie and Kate deserve better than the cheaters they fall in love with. There are lots of men who are monogamous and good guys.
Mel says – reply to this

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Spoken like a woman whose husband cheated on her and now she's trying to save face.
gyeah says – reply to this

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translation: "men are different than women, but women are different than men too. And women should try to understand men but men should try to understand women too"
*Holleywood* says – reply to this

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stupid. stupid. stupid.
Mega says – reply to this

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I better make sure my husband doesn't find out about this since men are all just "programmed" to spread their seed everywhere. What a dumb comment - men aren't animals - monagamy os a CHOICE, and also a product of a great relationship sexually and otherwise. Note to all those banging Kate Hudson: Wear a Condom!!!!!!

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