Let It Die Already!
Terry McMillian ended her relationship with her ex-husband a long time ago, but she's still talking smack. And it ain't pretty - which means we LOVE it!
The jilted author, who found out Jonathan Plummer is gay after she married him, just talked to UNEQ Magazine and told them - amongst other things - that he is an "evil man" and a "pimp."
CLICK HERE to read an excerpt from the juicy interview!
Terry McMillan sets the record straight and reveals new details of her relationship with ex-husband Jonathan Plummer with a never heard before 'tell all' interview with UNEQ Magazine!
New York, NY - October 25, 2007 - The female phenom and literary icon takes a break from writing her seventh book Getting To Happy to bring closure to the public frenzy and misinterpretations around her actions during her divorce in an interview that will post to UNEQMagazine.com on Thursday November 15, 2007 at 8:00am EST.
In an exclusive interview with one of the most famed writers in contemporary African American literature, Terry McMillan has issued this statement as to her reasons for speaking out:
"I am not doing this to literally demonize Jonathan Plummer, but he is an evil person to have done the things he has taken pains to achieve. I loved him for years and did everything I could to help him evolve. The reason I told UNEQ Magazine so many of these previously undisclosed details is because he needs to be exposed to the community he is also pimping. He forgets that gay men have sisters and mothers. And it is because he doesn't care, just like he doesn't care if he ever goes back to Jamaica. It is the main reason he went on television to announce his homosexuality. He wanted the people in Jamaica to be embarrassed and to hate him so that in the event that our marriage were annulled - his goal was to use the self-generated hatred sure to come from Jamaica so that he would qualify for asylum and be able to stay in this country if his citizenship were revoked or in jeopardy. This is how slick he is. This was the main reason he and his attorney went on Good Morning America and leaked my so-called homophobic insults to the media and included them in court documents. But the public had no idea of this goal because the focus was on 'Terry the Homophobic Witch' and not his theft, betrayal or deception. What was it that he gave me that would make any man think that I should pay him spousal support? A grown, healthy, gay man who was all of 31 years old? I did not rent a husband. He tried to paint me as Mommie Dearest and apparently some people bought it because he did to the gay community what he had been so successfully doing to me for years and that was to play the sympathy 'I'm-the-victim' card. And he is certainly a very high-profile victim who has taken every opportunity he could to take advantage of his so-called victimization."
"What I would really like UNEQ Magazine and members of the gay community to be very cognizant of is what is it that he has done since he came out of the closet that might benefit other gay men (and women) who are afraid to come out? What kind of platform has he chosen to draw positive attention to this problem? In every interview he's done, not once does he mention anything he's doing to help other oppressed gay men and women. Someone should ask him about this instead of always focusing on me. I've done more and shown more support for the gay community over the years than Jonathan will ever do. What is it he's doing besides getting a tell-all book published to draw attention to himself with the hopes of making money and once again all by pimping my fame? What has he done? Nothing. The gay men and women who are still suffering in Jamaica have not benefited one iota because of him. Quite the contrary. He gives gay men a bad rep as far as I can see. But he thought everybody was going to love him unconditionally. And look at what a spectacle he is making of himself and a mockery of his sexuality, all for his own personal gain. He could care less about men still in the closet."
In this shocking no holds barred interview, Terry McMillan reveals some never before discussed details of her marriage ranging from mass amounts of money Jonathan was stealing from her private bank account to when she stumbled upon a discovery that was so disturbing it could make any parent go insane. Log onto UNEQMagazine.com on November 15th for this never before seen interview!
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firs first first second?
I'd be pretty mad too if my husband left me for another man. But that would make me think I had some kind of super power…The ability to turn men gay…
First?
surprise surprise
Where did she meet him,
Washington D.C. or Idaho?
I'd be pissed too.
SO
FIRST
Anything for attention
second! and who gives a fuck! who is she!
God, she needs to get over it and move the hell on.
guess she's a bitter woman.
who?!
she will probably be more conservative when choosing men in the future.
That's one fugly man.
true. He makes being gay a bad thing.
He is really ugly.
She has every right to be pissed off at this scammer. I'd drag his ass over hot coals if he did that to me. He's worthless and used her.
good for her.. it is crushing to a woman when they find out the man they love is gay, knew it all along, and was just using her to hide in the closet. It's one thing to do it when you are in high school and young, but a completely other thing when you are a grown man.
And any woman would be slightly homophobic right after something like that because they are so hurt and shocked. Seriously this guy sounds like a creep.. spousal support?? ridiculous!
Why is she still whining? it wasn't an arranged marriage, she PICKED HIM. A woman who doesn't recognize that she is dating a homosexual man is either a) really, really stupid or b) in voluntary denial. Either way, all the whining only makes her look like MORE of a dumbass, if that is possible.
i can understand she would be pissed at first and take it badly but when is she going to shutup hes not evil she is for shouting out her mouth so much.
It doesn't need to die. GAY MEN NEED TO KNOW THEY CAN'T HURT WOMEN ANYMORE!! TImes have changed. Come out of the closet you selfish bastards. Your family will accept you. Don't ruin someone ELSE"S life b/c you can't figure your own out.
She needs to write a new book "How Stella Moved the Fuck On!"
what a fucker..that would suuuuuck to be married then find that out, guys a jerk
SHE SHOULD MOVE ON AND SHUT HER MOUTH AND DO WHAT SHE DOES BEST……….WRITE!!!! OKAY YOUR MAN LEFT YOU FOR ANOTHER MAN. HOW COULD YOU NOT TELL HE'S COMPLETELY GAY? I MEAN COME ON LOOK AT HIM. I'D SAY HE WAS GAY ON SIGHT. THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING GAY BUT TO PRETEND TO BE STRAIGHT AND HIDE WHO YOU ARE TO GET CITIZENSHIP IS WRONG. BUT THEN AGAIN THIS IS SOOOOO OLD.
I have a friend whose father is gay and led his wife to believe it for many years (the mother and my friend were devastated by this) He was wrong to deceive her and rob her of what could have been a life of happiness.
CAN YOU SPELL U-G-L-Y? LOL
that gay bastard!
HE CAN FORGET ABOUT GOIN BACK TO JAMAICA…..THEY WILL STONE THE FUCKING HELL OUT OF HIM THERE……JAMAICA IS EXTREMELY HOMOPHOBIC..POLICE DONT CARE…..THEY'RE NOT BIG ON THE LESBIAN THING NEITHER. THEY REALLY DONT LIKE FAGS
Fuck you all! Who gives a flying fuck!! You set your own ass up to get fucked up! Please!
Perez will you please please adhere to the following criteria when posting articles?:
A] Limit articles to people I give a fuck about
2] Limit articles to people I've heard of, even once.
D] Use the name "Zacquisha" again, and I'll smack you with a flaming copy of "The Advocate."
Cheers.
you guys who don't know her are so sad. i bet you can name of the color of britney spears' dog's tail, and you can't even name a famous author. maybe perez should have just left the gossip for you to be about authors who write children's books. spot. can. run.
Good for her. I was this guy's unknown "beard" for two years. Be who you are and accept it, if you want to be closted, then don't ruin other people's lives along with you. He led me around and then dumped me. Broke my heart and wasted two years of my life, not to mention I had to run out and get an AIDS test.
PLEASE!!!
I don't believe FOR A SECOND that she didn't know that he was gay!
They are BOTH as crazy as they could be!
He maligned her and betrayed her by marrying her. He is the vile person here, not her.
He maligned her and betrayed her by marrying her. He is the vile person here, not her.
Re: MGS – LOL!!!!
How dare ANYONE call her bitter for still being upset over what happened to her!!!!! If you have never been betrayed like she has, then shut the fuck up!!!! The guy was a fucking leach, and deserved to live in dirt! His ass should go back under the rock he crawled out from. Terry might want to get in touch with Star Jones so she can help Star through her soon to be break up from her homo leach husband.
The guy is a douche bag. I agree he gave gay men a bad rap.
Damn. Can you imagine discovering that your husband is gay? Why do gay men do that to women? That's really cruel.
Hello, The Greek Giant here watching the lonely Terri sweep the floors of my palatial estate while crying because none of my impoverished American cabana boys will pay her any attention. She must realize that Cabana Boys #1-7 prefer getting their assholes pummeled daily by me, The Greek Giant, and #8-13 dislike old grannys. That is all.
The same thing happened to my mom's best friend and it took her a very long time to get over it. She never really trusted a man completly again.
#39 Sue you are absolutely right, unless you have lived through such an ordeal you have no idea how painful it is.
Oh hell no! The only thing that could possibly make her think that man wasn't gay from the very beginning is the uni-brow boyfriend is sporting. Other than that, I knew this man was gay before even reading this post.
She and Liza Minnelli should write a book together:
"How Stella Got Her Gaydar Back."
Ok, for all you idiots who claim to have never heard of Terry McMillion, she is the author who wrote the book How Stella Got Her Grove back. She wrote it based on her own life about how she met this younger man. It was adapted into a huge box office hit. And then a few years later, the man came out of the closet and said he was gay and was using her for a greencard.
Hahaha, he announced he was gay so he wouldn't be deported!?!? Yes…and Elvis is still alive, the moon walk was fake and my dad was the Lindbergh baby. People are funny.
i knew that he was "Gay", the day I saw them on their 1st interview… That was around the time her movie..How Stella Got Her Groove Back came out. He looked Gay and sure as hell acted it! Shit… She should have seen the signs.. If, you have people who are homosexuals in your life, then you would be able to tell! She is also a LIAR!
I can't believe that she would ever think he was straight…it's written all over his face…some people have no gaydar…if that doesn't throw a damper on how stella got her groove back, i don't know what will…so much for fairytales…she was swindled
THIS IS WHY IT IS SO HARD FOR GAY MEN TO GET RESPECT, BECAUSE THEY CAN'T RESPECT THEMSELVES ENOUGH TO BE HONEST AND BE WHO THEY REALLY ARE. YOU ARE FUCKING PATHETIC IF YOU A) DECIEVE A WOMAN TO HIDE YOU SEXUALLY, AND B) IF YOU WOULD DATE A MAN WHO IS IN THE CLOSET AND MARRIED OR IS DATING A WOMAN. GROW SOME BALLS FELLAS. IF YOU ARE GAY STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND BE PROUD DON'T RUIN SOMEONE ELSES LIFE AND YOUR OWN.
He didn't just use her as a beard. He scammed her in order to get out of Jamaica, and to get his hands on her money. If the guy would go away, she could start healing and stop talking about it but she can't move on because he and his sleazy lawyer won't let her.
shit, if i met a man and wrote a best-selling book, turned-into-movie about our relationship and the fuckhead came out years later as a gay man, i'd be PISSED, THE FUCK, OFF.
regardless of the other bullcrap he's allegedly pulled, that's ridiculous. if he has been gay all these years, shouldn't it show some lack of morality that he allowed their story to become as popular as it is?
geez.
Girl you shoulda kept a betta handle on your man like I do Al. That SOB knows who ownz his balls, dick and ass. Me that's who! MF won't ever leave me for another man. It will be the last damn think AL would do! Don't forget to watch my new show cuz I am a lawyer ya know.
yea ummm he looks really gay in this pic…and ummm lol taye diggs played him in the movie …DAMN!!!!!!!
Did she not look at him before she married him? Star Jones will be having these same moments soon…
It's a screwed up story, but I think they are both a bit to blame. He is f'ed up to do that to a woman, but 1)how could she not tell he was gay and 2)we have all had heartbreak, but we have to get the hell on with our lives. I know she has written (crappy) books about this so maybe that is why she likes to continue to live in the past, but damn girl, he was f'ed up, your ass is stupid, we all are sometimes. . .go write about something new or take up yoga or something.
i'll become gay if i was humping that ugly creature!
TERRY MCMILLIAN IS AN OBNOXIUS, TALENTLESS, KUNT. If you've read any of her novels, and I have, you know she is EXTREMELY overrated and only sells books because her co-conspiritor OPRAH pushes her CRAP at every opportunity. That SWEET GAY BOY she married doesn't deserve the total shit this horrid SHREW is spewing. SHE IS A VILE DISGUSTING HOMOPHOBIC WITCH and I hope with all my heart that her career takes a nose dive into the TOILET. YOU GO Jonathan…the gay community loves YOU. EAT SHIT AND DIE MCMILLIAN…the gay community HATES your guts and we ALL hope you and your career rot in HELL!
He's FIXED!!! WHY would she hook up with this ugly motherfucker? I feel bad for her, but it's her own fault. Time to move on, honeybunny, and forget you ever knew that ugly closet case…..
Re: sue – HEY SUE…FUCK YOU…gee that line's every bit as good as anything that KUNT Mcmillian ever wrote.
he must have given her some kind of STDS or something she was on oprea and every thing (i think i spelled the queens name wrong)
Re: marly – NO SHIT !!!!! What a TOTALLY DUMB and MANIPULATING BITCH MCMILLIAN IS.
1. This gay man used this woman to come to the U.S., so he could become a citizen. 2. Terry has every right to be bitter, she was duped into believing that this man loved her, then he comes out of the closet. That's bullshit!!! Who wouldn't be bitter?
For someone who portrays herself as a strong black woman she certainly is turning out to be the bad person in all of this. She's already been on Oprah and made herself to look like the stereotypical "bitter black woman"
Instead of using this to make herself look stronger - she comes off as a whiny, self-absorbed little girl who can't get over the fact that she married a man who is gay and he doesn't love her.
It happens to women all of the time as well as men - they learn to deal with it in a graceful and dignified style. Terry should take lessons.
Enough already.
who the fuck are these people and why do you think that we actually care to read about this crap???
whatever! she lies!!! he works at my hair salon in danvilee, ca and he is the sweetest guy ever!! so she didn't know he was gay when they got married…get over it! there are lots of men who finally come out of the closet after they're married! she needs to put a fucking sock in it….
Re: angebec – NO SHIT SHERLOCK!
Re: HOLLY – WHATS A MATTER BITCH…lose your husband to a hot gay man too ???????????????? If you did, I'm sure your BITTER ass got exactly what it deserved.
This guy was a jamaican waiter. Gay guys make good waiters, hairdressers and florists.
They make very poor husbands.
Re: shut up bitch – YOU TELL UM HONEY !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I've met Jonathan, and a sweeter nicer guy you couldn't hope to meet. McMillian on the other hand is a total bitch kunt.
She should have known something… when I saw first saw him I knew he was gay… she just wanted someone…
She must have been completely blind….to not know this man was gay…I am a straight woman and the first time I saw him I knew he was gay….he must have been doing her good and she lost all common sense…there were probably signs all along but she looked the other way and turned stupid…now she is bitter and scorned and wants revenge….My advice let it go before it really destroys your mind and body….he's not worth it…Just live your life and be grateful for what you have ….because you have so much more than others in the world…it's really time to stop whining
I am sorry for this lady. Devils come in many forms, and when a person wants to use someone there is no extent to how low they will not stoop.
What are his accomplishments other than betraying and tricking Terry? Nothing. What are hers? Too numerous to list.
GOOOD FOR YOU TERRY> EXPOSE HIM. HE IS INDEED HURTING THE GAY COMMUNITY and is nothing more than a user.
I am so sorry for what he did to you Terry. Stay strong, your fans will always be there for you.
She has every right to still be angry at this forked tounged SOB !
If your not heto male/female don't marry someone and lie to them.. and turn around and tell them your sorry ass is gay !
He used this woman as a meal ticket and a way to get into the US.. he fucked her so now she is fucking him !
He must be a good actor, because its written all over his ugly face that he is in no way a real man !
THAT MONSTEROUS LOOKING THING IS HOW STELLA GOT HER GROOVE BACK?
Yes, there are some men you look very masculine and are gay. But look at him. I've seen other pictures of him where his has on more lip gloss than she does. It is so obvious. Terry, Star Jones and Liza Minnelli have this denial thing going on!
She's got plenty to be pissed about. The man is a idiot…
she's not bitter. that son of a bitch used her, idiots. he played sensitive black man (which we black women seem to love) and she was all up on that. i'd smear his shit of a name in the media as well.
on the other hand…terri, how did you not know this mofo was gay???
Hollywood (and Brangelina in particular) is ok with having a white woman portray a black (ok,ok…bi-racial)woman in a movie. Has seanyone seen a picture of Angelina in the movie. It’s pretty close to being in Blackface. She is looks Mystic Tanned (as if that can make a white woman look black) and has a dark curly wig on. It’s pretty condescending.
Re: JUSTJAK – fuck you!! shit head and no one left me for a any man but i know fucking gays who are users just like that dickhead anyone would be bitter if they got left for a man or a woman. so go fuck your self.
Fuck her. The dumb broad. She deserves what she gets. Her desperation about getting old and being female lead her to settle on him. He isn't that good of an actor. She opened herself up to be taken for a ride. Dumb bitch.
I had the displeasure of meeting this bitch at a signing years ago, before Stella, and I will never forget her as the rude, racist bitch that she is.
What goes around comes around. She got hers.
I don't know how long ago this happened to Terry, but being angry and I guess bitter is no way to live. She got used sometimes it happens and it sucks.
That Assanova fucked over the wrong bitch!! Get him, girl!! Tell it!!
Re: anon – Marianne Pearl happens to be French and CUBAN you stupid fuck. She said so, on numerous occasions, in interviews. If you had the first CLUE what you were talking about, you'd have known that. WTF does that have to do with the topic of this post?
People need to stop acting like victims. I'm a true believer that people show their true colors from the door. If you are too "blind" to see their true colors then its your own fault. He probably had "homo" tendencies that she chose to ignore. Now we should treat her like the victim. PLEASE!!!
Just so you know, there are black Cubans, #86. Mariane Pearl's mother was one.
THAT"S WHAT SHE GETS FOR SCREWING A KID! He was a kid! A KID FROM JAMAICA Where Homosexuality is not an option. Like he had it all figured out when that middle aged rich wretch got her claws into him and stole his youth!
Re: HOLLY – HA HA HA…MADE YOU RESPOND, just like the fucked up stupid bitch I knew you were. I'm sure the only reason no one's left you is cause your so GOD DAMN Hideous, no one would have you. HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA…WHAT A DUMB AND EASILY MANIPULATED KUNT YOU ARE.
Why the fuck did she marry a down syndrome patient in the first place?
And then she found out he was gay? She needs to reconsider her awful taste in men.
#86 Marianne Pearl is Afro-Cuban, like Soledad O'Brien of CNN. You were too harsh with anon, who only stated his opinion he wasn't trying to be provocative.
She didn't know he was gay. That's her fault then. Hhaha its pretty obvious.
He wants husband support from her! He lives a lie, uses her for a US visa and then tells her "I want money to support me and my gay boyfriend". Now he's writing a tell all book and leeching off her even more. Of course she's pissed about it - wouldnt you be?
SHE IS SILLY!!!!
SHE NEEDS TO GET OVER THAT NO OTHER ATTRACTIVE YOUNG DUDE WANTS HER LIKE THAT!!!
BEEEP BEEEEP My gaydar went off right away! How could she not know he was gay?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Bitch is just a suckah!
How could she not look at this guy and tell he was gay? She must have been desperate to find love.
i know jonathan personally, and hes kind of a giant flaming queen. very very obviously gay, kind of a bitch. she should have been able to tell immediately. but then again, i could totally see him going both ways. or doing a girl with his eyes closed.
That crazy chick would be fooled…no real queer queer would have a unibrow like that!!! HAHA…that shiz is crazy!
Straight or gay…He's butt effing ugly! Ewwwwwww!!
I have no gaydar but even I knew this man is gay based on the body language and he expression on his face in this photograph.
Sorry, Miss Terry I aint buying your story about being misled and taken advantage of , he LOOKS gay.
Yes, it is time to let this go and move on with your life