Getting Married!

Sopranos alum James Gandolfini and his girlfriend of a couple of years, former model Deborah Lin, are engaged, sources reveal exclusively to PerezHilton.com.
"James popped the question while in the Bahamas over the holidays," an insider tells us. "They're thrilled."
Congrats!
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AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
Too friggin' Funny!!!
Is this for real???
Icky eww pooh pooh…BOTH OF THEM!!!
STFU WITH ALL THE RACIST COMMENTS
There are more asians in this world than any other race, so obviously, not all of them are dating white boys. But why do some asian women enjoy white boys? Well, they are easier to dominate, don't mind going "downtown" on a woman, and will cook you dinner!
the HOTTIE Josh Holloway from Lost….his wife is asian. Google it up, racist bitches.
btw, i was watching cashmere mafia last night and who was the leading lady? LUCY LIU !!
Re: ewewerr eferer – Italian sausage deep into dog shit!!!!!!
I have seen hot white guys with Asian chicks.
Josh Halloway, who plays Sawyer on 'Lost,' is hot and he dates an average-looking Asian chick named Yessica. The white women on his message boards are pissed.
STOP DEFENDING ASIAN WHORES!!!!!!!! SHE'S AFTER THAT FAT BASTARD'S MONEY AND THIS KIND OF WHORES NEVER RULES!!!!!!!!
STOP DEFENDING ASIAN WHORES!!!!!!!! SHE'S AFTER THAT FAT BASTARD'S MONEY AND THIS KIND OF WHORES NEVER RULES!!!!!!!!
STOP DEFENDING ASIAN WHORES!!!!!!!! SHE'S AFTER THAT FAT BASTARD'S MONEY AND THIS KIND OF WHORES NEVER RULES!!!!!!!!
Re: Wellokay – they're actually married! they were together way before he became an actor. she's gorgeous! they're such a cute couple
Wasn't he married before her just for a few years and had a divorce? I think he's getting laid good and he should no the difference between lust and love but being Italian he's a romantic and i should know since I'm Italian too and fall in Love over and over again and have my head up my ass or wearing rose colored glasses and do not see the reality of the situation which i think the godfather here is doing, not seeing the reality, she's after his money for sure!!
Both reigning Miss World 2007 and Miss Universe 2007 are Asian and gorgeous.
All races have beautiful and ugly women. I am Asian and date a white man because he is great. If he was not white but purple with green stripes I would still date him.
UMMMM Yuck?!? James need to get with me, a hot Puerto Rican girl. Asians are so predictable… And they can't fuck
Re: beauty queen –
asians are slender, have a quiet mystery about them, and hardly age. they have class and elegance that come with their culture. not all asian women are attractive, not even close, but many are very beautiful. there are uglies in every race though. .. hey i'd rather get with an ugly asian chick than a ugly white chick. the white chick will look like leather and weigh 200+ by the time she's 30.
you dumbasses… this is not a bashing asian post… its a golddigger post. you think she would love his fat ass if he was manager at an applebees? hell no! some women will go to any lengths to get free manilo blahniks for life! in her case she'll fuck a fat sweaty man.
If we can assume that Asian women are self-hating for dating men of other races then we should also assume that the men that chase after them are self-hating too. Afterall, it's the MEN who pursue these Asian women because women generally do not pursue men.
For some, opposites attract and others prefer someone that looks like them. People have mixed with one another since the beginning of time, it's nothing new yet some people still make a big ol' stink about what two people look like on the outside. Just be happy for people who are lucky enough to experience love.
All you black and asian bitches need to realize that white women and men are the most beautiful people in the world. I am a black woman and can addmite that blacks are nasty stinky people with the nappiest hair in the world. Asian are ugly with there evil slanty eyes no tits are ass….cant drive worth a fuck. White race=beauty!
Re: GROW UP YOU IGNORANT BASTARDS –
AMEN. SPOKEN LIKE A REAL MAN. HEAR THAT WOMEN? THERE IS BEAUTY IN ALL RACES.
james gandolfini has got to be one of the meanest celebs ever ever ever ever
james gandolfini has got to be one of the meanest celebs ever ever ever ever
james gandolfini has got to be one of the meanest celebs ever ever ever ever
People, please stop being so racist. Racism ages you and makes you ugly. See Don Imus and "Dog" Chapman. It also lowers your IQ by double-digits.
Many white people age so prematurely, they look old by age 30. Mixed people just might be the best looking, generally speaking. Maybe that's why hispanics tend to be good looking. I also think many Asian girls are cute, there's just something very attractive about an Asian girl even though I wouldn't put many in the "supermodel" category. Maybe because they tend to have very feminine bodies, which I find innately attractive. I guess I have the "Beauty and the Beast" mentality, where women are unmistakably smaller than men.
What a slut!
WHY WOULD A PRETTY AND COOL WOMAN BE WITH THIS GREASY PIG.YIKES
Re: I am Puerto Rican You Stringy Lice Headed Hoe! –
Nice retort. But asian is spelled ASIAN. Before you get off your soapbox, check your spelling.
[re=1I 226968]Re: GROW UP YOU IGNORANT BASTARDS[/re]
I LOVE YOU. God, you are so perfect. I DO LOVE YOU. Finally, an intelligent
answer.
Wishing you the BEST.
e.
He is gonna drop dead in his sleep from sleep apnea. You can just LOOK at him and know he isn't long for this world.
ASIAN WOMEAN! BLACK WOMEN! WHITE WOMEN! HISPANIC WOMEN! YOU ARE ALL FUCKING GORGEOUS!!! EACH ETHNICITY POSESS UNIQUE FEATURES THAT REPRESENT WHO YOU ARE! WE'RE NOT ALL GOING TO LOOK THE SAME OR LOOK "NORMAL OR PRETTY" TO OTHER ETHNICITIES! WE ARE WHAT WE ARE! WE'RE NOT ALL BORN TO HAVE BLONDE HAIR BLUE EYES. OR BROWN EYES AND TAN SKIN. OR A BODY BUILD LIKE A MODEL!! HATING ON EACH OTHER BECAUSE WE "LOOK LIKE THIS OR ACT LIKE THAT OR DO THIS FOR A LIVING" IS FUCKING IGNORANT. GROW THE FUCK UP. IF WE LIVED IN A WORLD WHERE WE ALL LOOKED THE SAME, ACTED THE SAME, DRESSED THE SAME, AND DID THE SAME SHIT HOW FUCKING BORING AND FUCKED UP WOULD THAT BE? LOOK AT ALL THESE RACIAL COMMENTS BEING THROWN AROUND ON THIS SITE. FUCKING PATHETIC. WE'RE ALL HUMANS AND WHEN WILL THAT GET THROUGH YOUR THICK BRAINS? GROW THE FUCK UP!
HOW STUPID ARE THE PEOPLE ON HERE!
JUST BECAUSE A MAN IS WITH AN ASIAN GIRL DOESNT MAKE THE GIRL A SLUT.
GET OVER IT. LOVE IS LOVE.
MY MOM IS ASIAN, AND MY DADS WHITE. IT DOESNT MATTER, THEY FELL IN LOVE IN UNIVERSITY AND GOT MARRIED.
ALL THE HILLBILLIES AND HICKS NEED TO GROW UP AND REALISE THAT LOVE IS BLIND.
HOW STUPID ARE THE PEOPLE ON HERE!
JUST BECAUSE A MAN IS WITH AN ASIAN GIRL DOESNT MAKE THE GIRL A SLUT.
GET OVER IT. LOVE IS LOVE.
MY MOM IS ASIAN, AND MY DADS WHITE. IT DOESNT MATTER, THEY FELL IN LOVE IN UNIVERSITY AND GOT MARRIED.
ALL THE HILLBILLIES AND HICKS NEED TO GROW UP AND REALISE THAT LOVE IS BLIND.
HOW STUPID ARE THE PEOPLE ON HERE!
JUST BECAUSE A MAN IS WITH AN ASIAN GIRL DOESNT MAKE THE GIRL A SLUT.
GET OVER IT. LOVE IS LOVE.
MY MOM IS ASIAN, AND MY DADS WHITE. IT DOESNT MATTER, THEY FELL IN LOVE IN UNIVERSITY AND GOT MARRIED.
ALL THE HILLBILLIES AND HICKS NEED TO GROW UP AND REALISE THAT LOVE IS BLIND.
HOW STUPID ARE THE PEOPLE ON HERE!
JUST BECAUSE A MAN IS WITH AN ASIAN GIRL DOESNT MAKE THE GIRL A SLUT.
GET OVER IT. LOVE IS LOVE.
MY MOM IS ASIAN, AND MY DADS WHITE. IT DOESNT MATTER, THEY FELL IN LOVE IN UNIVERSITY AND GOT MARRIED.
ALL THE HILLBILLIES AND HICKS NEED TO GROW UP AND REALISE THAT LOVE IS BLIND.
HOW STUPID ARE THE PEOPLE ON HERE!
JUST BECAUSE A MAN IS WITH AN ASIAN GIRL DOESNT MAKE THE GIRL A SLUT.
GET OVER IT. LOVE IS LOVE.
MY MOM IS ASIAN, AND MY DADS WHITE. IT DOESNT MATTER, THEY FELL IN LOVE IN UNIVERSITY AND GOT MARRIED.
ALL THE HILLBILLIES AND HICKS NEED TO GROW UP AND REALISE THAT LOVE IS BLIND.
HOW STUPID ARE THE PEOPLE ON HERE!
JUST BECAUSE A MAN IS WITH AN ASIAN GIRL DOESNT MAKE THE GIRL A SLUT.
GET OVER IT. LOVE IS LOVE.
MY MOM IS ASIAN, AND MY DADS WHITE. IT DOESNT MATTER, THEY FELL IN LOVE IN UNIVERSITY AND GOT MARRIED.
ALL THE HILLBILLIES AND HICKS NEED TO GROW UP AND REALISE THAT LOVE IS BLIND.
HOW STUPID ARE THE PEOPLE ON HERE!
JUST BECAUSE A MAN IS WITH AN ASIAN GIRL DOESNT MAKE THE GIRL A SLUT.
GET OVER IT. LOVE IS LOVE.
MY MOM IS ASIAN, AND MY DADS WHITE. IT DOESNT MATTER, THEY FELL IN LOVE IN UNIVERSITY AND GOT MARRIED.
ALL THE HILLBILLIES AND HICKS NEED TO GROW UP AND REALISE THAT LOVE IS BLIND.
HOW STUPID ARE THE PEOPLE ON HERE!
JUST BECAUSE A MAN IS WITH AN ASIAN GIRL DOESNT MAKE THE GIRL A SLUT.
GET OVER IT. LOVE IS LOVE.
MY MOM IS ASIAN, AND MY DADS WHITE. IT DOESNT MATTER, THEY FELL IN LOVE IN UNIVERSITY AND GOT MARRIED.
ALL THE HILLBILLIES AND HICKS NEED TO GROW UP AND REALISE THAT LOVE IS BLIND.
ASIAN WOMEAN!! BLACK WOMEN!! WHITE WOMEN!! HISPANIC WOMEN!! YOU ARE ALL FUCKING GORGEOUS!!! EACH ETHNICITY POSESS UNIQUE FEATURES THAT REPRESENT WHO YOU ARE! WE'RE NOT ALL GOING TO LOOK THE SAME OR LOOK "NORMAL OR PRETTY" TO OTHER ETHNICITIES! WE ARE WHAT WE ARE! WE'RE NOT ALL BORN TO HAVE BLONDE HAIR BLUE EYES. OR BROWN EYES AND TAN SKIN. OR A BODY BUILD LIKE A MODEL!! HATING ON EACH OTHER BECAUSE WE "LOOK LIKE THIS OR ACT LIKE THAT OR DO THIS FOR A LIVING" IS FUCKING IGNORANT. GROW THE FUCK UP. IF WE LIVED IN A WORLD WHERE WE ALL LOOKED THE SAME, ACTED THE SAME, DRESSED THE SAME, AND DID THE SAME SHIT HOW FUCKING BORING AND FUCKED UP WOULD THAT BE? LOOK AT ALL THESE RACIAL COMMENTS BEING THROWN AROUND ON THIS SITE. FUCKING PATHETIC. WE'RE ALL HUMANS AND WHEN WILL THAT GET THROUGH YOUR THICK BRAINS?? GROW THE FUCK UP.
ASIAN WOMEAN! BLACK WOMEN! WHITE WOMEN! HISPANIC WOMEN! YOU ARE ALL FUCKING GORGEOUS!!! EACH ETHNICITY POSESS UNIQUE FEATURES THAT REPRESENT WHO YOU ARE! WE'RE NOT ALL GOING TO LOOK THE SAME OR LOOK "NORMAL OR PRETTY" TO OTHER ETHNICITIES! WE ARE WHAT WE ARE! WE'RE NOT ALL BORN TO HAVE BLONDE HAIR BLUE EYES. OR BROWN EYES AND TAN SKIN. OR A BODY BUILD LIKE A MODEL!! HATING ON EACH OTHER BECAUSE WE "LOOK LIKE THIS OR ACT LIKE THAT OR DO THIS FOR A LIVING" IS FUCKING IGNORANT. GROW THE FUCK UP. IF WE LIVED IN A WORLD WHERE WE ALL LOOKED THE SAME, ACTED THE SAME, DRESSED THE SAME, AND DID THE SAME SHIT HOW FUCKING BORING AND FUCKED UP WOULD THAT BE? LOOK AT ALL THESE RACIAL COMMENTS BEING THROWN AROUND ON THIS SITE. FUCKING PATHETIC. WE'RE ALL HUMANS AND WHEN WILL THAT GET THROUGH YOUR THICK BRAINS?? GROW THE FUCK UP!!
Been to NY? All the HOT Jewish boys are w/ Asian chicks, by that I mean Indian too!! No fair, but lets face it white girls, we do need to get our act together. You'd never find my Asian girlfriends eating out of a tub of ice cream because some dude didn't call or getting pissed drunk on a Sat. night.
asians rule.
asians rule.
it is absolutely incredible and shocking how racist people are to this day. there is nothing to say to anyone who's that ignorant. educate yourselves. you are absolutely pathetic.
Re: asiangirl – You slant-eyed fucking DINK! Why don't you say 'Me So Horney, me love you long time' while you finger your mosquito bite sized tits!
Dishrag slant-eyed, yellow skinned flangehead whore!
I WIPE MY ASS with Asian women, they're worth $20 a blow job as they are so stupid and tepid in bed.
Asian women do not rule, they are to be treated like the feces they are!!
Re: Slant eyed Dink tries to get cocky about her race –
someone is obviously 11 years old, uneducated, & still lives in 1635. your parents must've been fucking neanderthals. i mean, look what happened to you. have you been dumped by an asian girl? i know, i can tell.
oh yeah, asians rule.
Re: Slant eyed Dink tries to get cocky about her race –
your comment was disgusting to read. seriously, get your head out of the gutter [or the KKK] and realize that asians and other races aren't gonna disappear.
i'm not offended by these comments because majority [as in the ones who make the racial slurs] of you guys probably can't say a word in real life when u see someone out of yur race walking down the street. seriously, grow up and face the fact that we all FUCKING COEXIST.
and if you hate us "minorities" so damn much, don't eat or use our products [china, mexico, japan, etc]! probably u can't live without it either!
#248
Haha. This is not a man. What's the matter "cocky" girl? No man has asked you out in years? Is that why you're so bitter towards Asian women, because they get hit on left and right? Yeah, girl, it's true. White and black, rich and poor, cute and not so cute.
That's why you're on here degrading Asian women, people always hate who they perceive to be their competition and you're obviously very insecure. It's the same reason rich women never hire help that looks young, they're afraid their men might stray. You can run your mouth all day long with that racist bull but when a man sees a woman he's attracted to, he's going to go after it, whether she's Asian, Black, Brown, or Green. It always has been and always will be.
It's pitiful that you have to degrade Asian women so you can convince yourself that you're better than them, but it's clear to people who have souls that you a are vile snake of a creature. When someone is better, they don't need to degrade others because it's obvious they are better.
Now, since you like playing East meets West…"YOU SO UGLY!". I dare you take your shit to an Asian girl. She'll slice your face in five with her tiny little hands. Have some respect for others if you demand the same, asshole.
Re: Slant eyed Dink tries to get cocky about her race –
there's only one word that can be used to adequately summarize you: asinine.
i am an asian woman and i have natural c-cup breasts and large eyes with natural eyelids so where you're getting this "mosquito bite/slanty eyed" insult, i haven't the slightest idea. furthermore, i'm not a hooker, i have a bachelors degree in chemical engineering (which is something your dumb ass probably can't comprehend) and i'm probably going to end up having a net worth 5,000 times yours. i'm also willing to bet that i'm better looking than you, have a better body than you do, and dress better than you do.
also, to whoever stated that not dating within your race indicates a self-loathing, where does that put me who's dating a half asian? it is my honest opinion that you are being quick to generalize. i'm extremely proud of my asian heritage and i have every intention of raising my children who are culturally educated. i don't think that choosing not to date someone who doesn't share your cultural views means you abhor your own culture; you can still be proud of your heritage and raise children that reflect that (though having a boyfriend who understands asian cultures and traditions is a plus).
"I aint tryyyna FUK YA MAN
Everybody knows HE my number one fan
I done been there, done that, BITCH…AND…
You wanna get mad, BITCH, I dont give a DAMN!!!"
Hahaha, speaking of Tila, she's growing on me. She actually looks a little cute here
Uggh. Little Perezzibots are filtering out links. It was a picture of her at the 2007 MTV Videio Music awards.
Re: Astounded by the Abundance of Stupidity –
There are plenty of Asian women with nice-sized breasts and plump butts. Plenty with double eyelids, my family has round eyes with big eyelids. The ones getting double-eyelid surgery are going after the small, asian eyelids not the big western eyelids. Some women just want an eyelift because they have drooped with age and they can't even do that without whites accusing them of trying to look white. It's a bunch of bull, Asians get surgeries for different reasons, you can't assume it's to look white, infact I think that would be the goal of only a small percentage of Asian women who get surgery, the delusional ones. Believe it or not, Western culture is still barely detectable in most parts of Asia being that it is the far "Far East". Asian women are featured in magazines and other media, not Westerners. The standards of beauty are based on Asian women.
Whites get eyelifts all the time and all sorts of surgery like lypo, breast jobs, lip injections, shaving down their noses and tanning and no one accuses them of trying to look "less white". Bullshit.
Whoever said that only weak white men marry Asians is deeply mistaken.
Julie Chen is married to Les Moonves, a head honcho at CBS and one of the more handsome, older white men
Connie Chung is married to Maury Povich, an accomplished man, again a handsome man
Rivers Cuomo is married to a Japanese woman. He is the lead of Weezer, a highly accomplished musician, Harvard grad, and many would argue that he is HOT.
There are many many more which I don't care to dig up. And who says Asian men aren't marrying outside their race? Al Gore's daughter is married to an Asian man. I see everyday couples too, they aren't that uncommon either. My good friend, who came from a very rich Chinese family has a long term Black girlfriend. She is a very, very pretty girl. And btw, he's also tall and very cute, and a brilliant student at Stanford.
IMO, mixed people really do have a good chance of winning the looks lottery.
My girlfriend is half White. Gorgeous girl.
Another girlfriend is half Black. Again, cute, cute girl.
See folks, some people like to mix and mingle. Others like to stay with their own, there will never be a shortage of either. There's no reason for all this fuss. Love is hard to find, don't turn it into a race thing.
I am married to a very successful white man with 2 kids. 11 yrs and going strong. If any woman disrepects me or our family, I would knock her out cold. We don't tolerate racism in our family.
Sheesh. Asian men date white chicks all the time. It use to be that they only dated white women for "fun" but nowadays, it seems more are open to the idea of marrying outside their race.
I think it used to be less common because the immigrant mothers of Asians generally think that white people do not make stable life long partners, due to the high divorce rates of white marriages. Many still feel this way and also, in the case of Asian men, men generally prefer women who are smaller than them and look younger than them.
One guy I know divorced his white wife because he got bored, she was very tall, thin and attractive. He married an Asian girl next then divorced her, she was also thin, attractive and had a very good figure. Needless to say, he's not the commitment type. But the point being, he obviously feel in love or whatever with another individual, I doubt he gave much thought about race in any of it. I also know a good share of interracial couples who have made it, still together after decades of marriage. It's not always about race, most of the time, it's simply just two people who love each other.
Notice, no Asian woman has gone on here and spewed any hateful vitriol against the way a white woman looks, and we all know they have their flaws. Says a lot about Asian women. We are gentle, kind people. Love my Asians!
Re: ATTENTION SPIC WOMEN –
"NO ONE WANTS YOUR UGLY, FAT ASSES. "
Please, you must have a hard time dealing with reality. Hispanics win the Miss Universe title year after year. Penelope Cruz is Spanish (Hispanic) and is one of the most beautiful woman in the world, she has perfect olive skin. Jessica Alba, JLo, Daisy Fuentes, Shakira, Christy Turlington. All arguably beautiful women. Deal with it.
You can't argue with drunks or SOCIOPATHS! Cheers to you the one or 2 people posting arguments why you are the best and everyone else sucks. Cheers to you for feeling the need to boast and not truly knowing you are a great and a good person. Cheers to you for feeling unworthy and not loved! Cheers to your DARK souls and sociopathic nature! Cheers to you for pointing out others flaws when you are really the flawed in heart and soul. Yippee! You win the prize! Cackle on…. cackle on!
Enough of the racist comments…
FOR THE *IGNORANT* (NOT ALL) WHITE PEOPLE WHO CAN'T SEEM TO GET THE MEMO:
I. you make up the majority of the US population; if you're SO happy/confident with yourself and your race, why are you constantly putting down minorities?
II. You claim to be "white," yet YOU, IDEALLY, ARE A MINORITY TOO! No one is "pure white," you may be German, Irish, etc. So stop acting like you own the country, you came here on a boat too!
III. If you claim Asian/minority women only take your "hand-me-downs" as far as men go, why are you on this board complaining about this actor?? I thought you all are only concerned with the "good-looking, in shape" white men??…
IV. TO YOU PEOPLE CLAIMING ASIANS ARE UGLY, ALIENS, ETC: I would love to see a pic of you (or your snaggle-toothed mother) compared to this model, I am sure you are not even an eighth as pretty/good-looking as she is, and I KNOW you don't even have an eighth of HER PAYCHECK either. So yes, you have every reason to hate. Look at yourself, then critique someone else.
Re: skinnygirluver – Undoubtedly, you're some fat, overgrown asshole who sits at home shoving ho-ho's into his fat, grotesque face who thinks that skinny girls would want your pathetic, fat ass! Asian girls are the most beautiful girls out there. You're just too pathetic to even realize it. Then again, Asian girls are also smart enough to know a loser when they see one and stay far away from the likes of you!
Re: oprah – Re: skinnygirluver – Undoubtedly, you're some fat, overgrown asshole who sits at home shoving ho-ho's into his fat, grotesque face who thinks that skinny girls would want your pathetic, fat ass! Asian girls are the most beautiful girls out there. You're just too pathetic to even realize it. Then again, Asian girls are also smart enough to know a loser when they see one and stay far away from the likes of you!
MEMO to the SOCIOPATH(S) who are the UGLIEST race of all and can't stop posting negativities about race, black, white, asian, hispanic or otherwise because you are so very UGLY inside and feel unworthy: You claim others are racist (and some may be) without looking at your own hypocritical racist sociopathic natures. Please we don't want you to mix with us HUMANS who want peace no matter what color we happened to be born and could not help. We don't want sociopath in our genes. God forbid! Once again, cheers to you! You win the prize for ugliest! You are the best at being ugly and continuing the spread of hate against "majorities or minorities"- against people of the HUMAN race. So no matter how beautiful you claim to be on the outside and maybe to some you are, you are really ugly inside. Please just don't continue to spread your socipathic natures and mix with us light entities. Please. Look into sociopathlove.com.
Ummm…"go humans" would have done it??
Please, I have my pick of handsome, accomplished WHITE men and so do my friends, we're surrounded by a sprinkling of Asian women who are married to handsome, accomplished white men and on average, they don't appear any more or less happy than the women who are married to handsome, accomplished Asian men. We are not "dying" to marry a white man. LOL.
But I have to say, I know one Asian lady who is married to a successful white man who happens to be HOT AS HELL too. Not ALL white man are hot and few are as HOT as this dude, this one, well no woman would object to a lifetime of b*&(ing with him.
I was just curious and looked up Miss World 2007. Holy cow, this woman is HOT and from China. So is Miss Universe 2007 from Japan, but not as beautiful as the other woman.
Well, I really do not totally agree. The truth is sociopaths have no remorse or feeling of responsibility with what they say and do(and write) and like to reek havic as they get off on it. They don't know about such things as the "human spirit" and therefore the term "human" really means nothing to them. They catagorize and define in simplistic unevolved ways. They do not care to look at themselves(as they think they are great) and how they are a part of the problem and not the solution, but instead they want to propagate more hate and chaos. Alas, I will leave off with good luck with your spiritually void existences. So you are right in a way, my focus should be redirected because you cannot argue with these types. Therefore, MEMO TO LIGHT SPIRITS: If you come in contact with a "human" such as so quintessentially represented in these hate-filled, vile posts, RUN! RUN LIKE THE WIND! Their goal is to suck all the spirit, love, and humanity out of you with their venemous self-loathing ways, especially if you do not fit into what they deem acceptable or like them. Well, kids, it's been fun. Peace out!
OK, the reasons why some may think all the white men go after asian women is because, like some said, the media exaggerates these relationships because they're interracial. interracial relationships are different, they stand out from the usual, so naturally more attention is drawn to them. In addition, for those of you that are part of the "majority," why do you think many "minorities" might want to go for the white men, the majority? In the US, the whites are the majority and thus, they set the standards of beauty. If a person is in a country where a certain type of beauty, a certain type of personality, a certain type of body-type is preferred and admired, then naturally, anyone living in that environment will strive for that standard. of course, for the whites, they are born with that kind of look and for others, they may strive for that standard because that is the environment in which they were brought up. they strive for it because it's what is considered to be the best, not because they think a certain race is considered superior. if one was to go to other countries in the world, maybe the "white look" will not be considered pretty or hot at all. it's all about the kind of culture and societal norms instilled in people.
Also, unfortunately in this society, the asian race is constantly being stereotyped as "exotic" because they may look the furthest from the whites. if you haven't noticed already, asian women are constantly given names like "dragon lady" or "china doll" or "geisha girl." these words all have the connotation that asian women are submissive and/or hypersexually charged and dominating in bed. these are of course all a result of media portrayals from the early 1800s. and since white men are in control of this society, as we live in a patriarchical society, they have also consequently portrayed asian men as "passive, timid, weak, unmasculine." yes, many asian men are not as tall as western men, but this is all based on different diets and different cultures. PEOPLE, learn to respect and understand that there are different people with different cultures and different standards, but we are all people. we are all human beings who just want the best possible life.
anyway, so if the media portrays asian men to be small and inferior to white men and asian women growing up and living in this environment will then of course want what society considers to be the better man. and just a short digression, regarding all the talk surrounding asian men and their supposed small packages, look, the two largest countries with the largest population and with the longest cultural histories are two ASIAN countries (China and India). i think asian male virility and masculinity should no longer be questioned. they seem to be doing just fine, thanks. asian women are generally speaking, on the thin side, and if white men or any men for that matter like this, then it isn't their fault. white men may like asian women, and whether this is a good or bad thing (good if they just like them because of the womens' personality and character, bad if they have that long-standing perception of asian women being exotic, submissive, and hyper sexual. we need to stop categorizing people and generalizing races), then that's just how things go. people really need to stop hating and spewing racist comments.
for all those other minorities who are making racist comments against asians, really now, you should stop bringing others down. minorities are all in the same boat, at least in this country. all this hate and ignorance stems from insecurities, fear, and a lack of an education. it's the 21st century, please, this has got to stop. globalization is happening everywhere and all the haters out there against asians or any other race are all just insecure people. It's so hypocritical for the people of this country to try and make themselve seem superior to asians. there is over 1 TRILLION US dollars in the China federal reserves. We, as well as the Chinese, are mutually dependant on each other. Racial hatred is soo last century, but it's never going to leave this century with the ongoing discussions going on in here.
and in regards to james's and deborah's engagement, this is should great news. it is diffcult enough in this country for two people to find love and happiness. race should not be an issue here. and while we do not know the real reasons for their engagement (let's hope it's for love), it's not of our business to suppose and guess that she or he is in it for any other reasons. there are beautiful and less attractive (but then, this is relative) people of all races, so we should all shut the fuck up about people who do not know personally!
Re: When will this stop? –
Wow that was long. I have to disagree with you on two points
1. Many Asian women would be perfectly happy to find love, marry, and have Asian babies with good Asian men although we may end up with a good white man (because we often have that option), just fate sometimes. But we do NOT worship White men just for his whiteness, only the foolish, uneducated, ugly, or self-hating girls are like this. A good man is a good man, regardless of his race. Lisa Ling married Paul Song, an exceptional Asian man (after having dated very influential White men I'm sure).
2. We may live in a country where white beauty dominates the media but most Asian women look to other Asian women as "role models" when it comes to physical beauty. Ofcourse, certain notions of beauty are part of regional culture such as style, grooming, physical fitness. etc. It's a balance act, people carry with them the essential pieces of their culture but they also want to adapt to their environment. I think most of us just want to move forward with the best from both worlds.
seriously, no matter how much we get our point across with these morons, racism will always exist. it hasn't stopped since… God, who knows when!
at least, some of us know and have the respect for others compare to those who keep crossing the line and saying stupid remarks. racism starts off with ignorance. obviously, jealousy on this board. so what if one race might have more than the other, etc. who cares! accept your flaws and move on. no one is born perfect.
who cares if you see white men "preferring" or dating asian women more often. isn't that a good thing? or when you see a white male dating a black female? or basically a diff race dating another race? it shows that these races can look beyond what they look like. obviously, it's more than their race or preference if it involves marriage.
i do believe the media is to blame some percentage of racism. a lot of tv shows or movies, stereotype each race. so it puts into our minds [esp those of young adolescence or those ignorant beings] that these races are known for "this" or "that". it's just sad how the media can promote [or subliminally] such form of racism even if it's just for laughs. yeah, we all will laugh, but then you don't realize that there is some kid or adult being picked on in reality for what's portrayed in tv.
well, thats all i gotta say. have a lovely weekend!
Julie Chen is an accomplished woman with a sharp wit. And she has a kick ass lean body. Very attractive qualities.
If she is an Orangutan, then we all are. The one that's calling her that, is just an albino Orangutan.
Re: YOU SO UGLY – FUCK YOU SLANT-EYED YELLOW SKINNED MOSQUITO-TIT SLOPE! Asian bitch mess with any other gal we'll make chopped fucking suey out of her titless torso! One punch bitch and your head would explode open like a cheap piece of Chink porcelain!!
Asian women are ALL fucking dinks. Talking to a wall is more stimulating. You can have all the cosmetic surgery to reverse your slit eyes and try to put silicone in your chest but you will ALWAYS have the bodies of 12-year old!
That is why some white men are strange and only go for Asians. Because they are closet pedophiles that fantasize they're fucking a your girl!!!
Re: just sayin – Everybody sing along!!!
A Dink is a Dink, of course of course,
and no-one can talk to a Dink of course,
Unless that Dink of course of course,
is famous slant eyed gook!
Re: i guess –
Hell, yeah racists are a lost cause. They are very dark souls like TL mentioned above, it is not our job as ordinary people to save them and I can't be bothered with it. I don't care what they think but some people do not know very much about other cultures and are genuinely curious, sometimes it's good to clear up some false assumptions, slander and such. Also, I feel it is important for Asians to reach out to other Asians, especially the younger ones, who may confused and needlessly hurt by the hateful messages directed at them.
Wow she is really beautiful. I would do him cos of his personna and so would many of you board posters wether you care to admit it or not. I could almost hear the sigh… oh shit, another asian broad has picked up an elligible man. Each to their own I say, it's an even playing field. At least she is not a fake hair, fake teeth, fake orange, fake tit white bitch. You only do that if you hate yourself so GO FIGURE.
Re: Asian Dinks, I wipe my ass on their faces! – you fuckin moron!! a body of 12 yr old?? mostly asian women don't get FAT.. not like white women, and including you, who have body of an ELEPHANT.. don't get jealous and so bloody racist.. you better concentrate on loosing your weight and make yourself more beautiful, hopefully by then perhaps you will start to date a man!
Re: Zi Lin Zhang, Miss World 2007 – Miss Universe 2007, Riyo Mori is ugly.. the ugliest Miss Universe..
Re: Asian Dinks, I wipe my ass on their faces! – i would be happily chop your little dick off.. what's the matter with you? if you can't make girls satisfied with your tiny birdie then don't go mental with your dumb ass racist comment! yeah, go talking to the wall and bang your head over and over again, because you are so damn lame and disgusting and no girls want you with your tiny smelly dirty dick.. you know what moron?? i will blow your dick off and stuck it in your filthy fat mouth!!
Re: Asian Dinks, I wipe my ass on their faces! –
Like it's a bad thing to look young. I'd take that over being a shriveled up prune like you any day of the week. Anyone would be CRAZY not to. That's why WHITE women spend millions of dollars on botox, face lifts, and lipo, deary. Something tells me you wished you could look young too. Too bad, na-ah, too, too bad.
Someone should tell you know that statutory rape laws forbid adults from having sexual relations with a minor, not any minimum body size limit of a person. Wrap that around your warped, birth defected brain. But you're obviously a chimpanzee and brain dead from all the jealousy and anger so…that's a lot of men you wish to lock up. Fine ass, powerful, rich men like
Les Moonves, Maury Povich… (Hell, now I'm gettin jealous of Asian bitches too, haha) But Good luck to you! So, so insanely jealous of the cute lil' Asian girls.
You ranking on a few Asians for get double eyelids? Ha, bitch, it's as easy as 123, in and out. They didn't have to risk their fucking lives and get all numbed up like a fucking vegetable to get all lipo'd and hacked up like you did when you got your lipo and gastric bypass. Don't feel sorry for them baby.
Jealousy has rendered you mad! Why so much anger? Is your crush with an Asian girl? Poor little baby. So now you're seeking revenge by way of big ballsy internet violence (You big bad white girl, haha). LMAO
Re: LMAO at the Eballer! –
Yeah, I'm a paralegal and I'm pretty sure statutory rape laws does not specify any minimum breast cup size!
Re: Peter –
She may or may not be the "ugliest" Miss Universe (I highly doubt she is) but she is far from ugly. Like you really know what all the Miss Universe winners look like. Good try racist freak.
Riyo Mori is a good looking woman and is not the ugliest Miss Universe. Many women would gladly accept the "ugliest Miss Universe" trophy anyways. It's like being the poorest billionairre.
Re: Peter – dude i have you agree with you. but did you check out miss korea 2007? she was fucking hot
No way you can tell me she enjoys it when that tub of lard gets on top of her - NO WAY!! WHORE.
Re: vegas dave –
There are other qualities women look for in a man besides looks, any woman will tell you that personality plays a big part. I doubt that she was ever a struggler, she doesn't look like someone who hasn't seen a nice chunk of change before.
Riyo Mori is fucking gorgeous. Being the ugliest Miss Universe is hardly a bad thing but she's got to be one of the most beautiful, definately at least top 10.
Re: Mr Ed butt-fucks Asian Dinks, better than a Tijuana donkey show!!!! –
You need an exorcism pronto. I can see you now having one of your epileptic convulsions, pupils dialated with blank stare, skin flushed of all color, sweat running down your face, veins throbbing, hands over ears, screaming to the wall, "Asian girls are donkeys, Asian girls are donkeys." "When I see a pretty Asian girl, replace her visage with an Orangutan. When I see a pretty Asian girl, replace her visage with an Orangutan." It helps you sleep at night, we know. Not a pleasant existence. You know what works better to end all your misery? Inject a needle through your thick sociopathic skull, you're a waste of space.
she's pretty, and he's not. feel kinda bad for herrrr but they should get divorced soon
stop hating on the asians you jealous slut. you WELL know that asians are better looking and smarter than yourself. haven't you noticed that there are more and more mixed couples now? there's a reason to that. asian girls are just better
Another Asian draging down the white race. Ellen Pampeo must be happy about it with that sub human shit she is with.