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This one's for the ladies!
Serena Wiliams has been hurt. The tennis pro has just written an impassioned entry on her official website about men, dating and relationships.
She says:
"You just start dating a guy. He likes you, you like him. You guys want to spend every second together. When you are not with him you are talking to him on the phone. You have deep feelings for him. The feelings keep developing. They keep growing. You begin to think this could be it. You begin to think I really think this is it for me….. You love being together. You can't stand being without each other. You start to feel like you have never felt before, and you do things for him you have never done before. He tells you he doesn’t want to be with you and only you. He tells you he adores you. He tells you u guys were meant for each other. You care for him. You are falling for him. You take things slow. You don't want to make any mistakes. You go slower with him than you have ever done before. You don't rush to introduce him to your friends, let alone anyone else. You want it to be right. You are feeling this and you feel this could mean something. He communicates with you. He thanks God you are in his life. You guys have fun together. You laugh together. He talks about being and becoming serious with you. He talks about his desire to love you one day. He talks about he can't imagine not being with you. You think he's falling in love with you. But you can't be 100% sure. You guys have not said that sacred 4 letter word that starts with an "L". But you feel it deep deep in you. Deeper than you have in a long time.
You ask him "are we moving too fast"? He replies "We are just following our hearts." You start to trust him. Something you have not done since your first heart break. How long ago was that? You wonder. Trust is something you vowed you would never do again. But slowly your heart comes out of its steel enclosure. You feel like you can trust him. You feel as if everything you went though was for a reason. And the reason was to meet him. Days turns into weeks. And he tells you about the connection you guys have in each others hearts.
Weeks turns into months and you slowly start to wean the other guys in your life out. And than it happens. No not the "L" word. But what you have been most afraid of. What deep in your heart you have been afraid to confront. What you always suspected would happen one day sooner or later. HE STOPS CALLING. You panic. But you try to stay calm. He did this before when you first started talking, but u tried to forget it. You knew u should have not forgotten. But u tried to ignore it. He disappears for a week with no phone call. No answer to yours no nothing. Finally you hear from him. You want to rage you want to scream you want to cry. But you can't help you heart from feeling a tad bit happy."
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"As you begin to ask him what happened he stops you. He says "I need space". You cringe at these words. This is the very reason you begin to think why your heart was in that steel enclosure. The reason you don't put your emotions your feelings, your heart into it. Because one day it always turns in to this day. But you are already too far out you are at the point of no return, you can't come back. You can't believe, although a piece of you does believe it. Space. How many time have you heard this before? Space? Wasn’t you giving him enough? Space. Hummm you laugh because its so ridiculous. You laugh because again u knew this day would come. Why did you not listen to that little voice inside your hear telling you to "watch out". "Be careful". You laugh only because tears won't come.
You know its not you, but u cant help but look at that man in the mirror. You can't help but pick yourself apart. Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? And again and again you can't come up with the answer. Slowly as you try to focus on other things and think of other people you put you heart back into that steel case.
Tears finally come and they make you feel a little better, but the pain is piercing through your soul. The pain never hurts as bad as the first time. . But all the same you can't help but feel hopeless, foolish. Your great chance to be with your soul mate has again somehow slipped and failed.
But eventually you know you will pick yourself up. Eventually you know you will try again. And eventually you know you will find the keys to you heart, but also in the back of your mind you think…. Will it happen again.""
[Photo via Getty Images.]
AWWWWWWWWW!
ehhhhh
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first.
She looks HOT!!!
Wow.. been here more than once… always makes me feel better to rip his nut sack off!
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Wow, that's rough. Poor Serena.
poor girl.. she seems really hurt
I can feel her i know how she feels
Be independant girl, love em and leave em!!!
WTF? Has she just recently been dumped or something??? how wierd to write something like that on a blog?
aaw nevermind plenty of fish in the sea
Sounds like something most women go thru.
wow poor girl!
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guys do that shit to famous chicks, too? i hear ya, serena!!!!!
stick to tennis and stop your whining.
Oh so true girl..i have have been and like you i know it gets better !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Perez don't act like you aint booo…and if you haven't babe watch out it happens to the best and worst of us!!!
Firsttt
wtf is she talking about??
That's a big ole broken heart. That sucks. I feel for you Serena–been there and it's no fun. TAKE CARE GIRL–and don't give up.
Such a boring article
that was so touching. hope she feels better. it must be a lot harder for celebs to find real love. esp when everyone around you all tell you they do…hope she finds love. everyone deserves to be loved.
who the fuck is she talking about? last I heard she was with brett ratner but that was years ago. who is it?
Boo hoo, cry me a river! He probably just wanted to see how it would be to date a gorilla.
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Awww!I feel bad for her!! She's a great girl! Some guy needs to see that and just go for it!
ouch! First!!!
Serena, I'm sure you were waaaaay too good for that bum anyway. I'm sure you'll find true love one day……. and you'll know it because it won't hurt.
It's great to know that celebrities have real human feelings like this and go through the same bs!
Of course it will happen again - if that is what you tell yourself.
A person is the sum of their thoughts. If they think it will happen - it will.
sweet
"you look at that man in the mirror" I KNEW IT!
Wasn't you?? english is her second language!
:(
It seems that us non-famous people are not alone in our heartache. Too many nights I've stayed up thinking the same thoughts. The thought of never having your soul mate will rip you apart. Until you meet him. The guy I'm with now took nine months to admit that he was with me. We've definitely had our ups and downs but now, after 3 and a half years, we're together and still going strong. Please don't lose hope. Everyone's soul mate is just waiting to be discovered by the right person.
MAN…
Defiantly what I needed to let some emotion out, today out of all days to hear the exact thing I'm going through… It was very touching!!
This is so true….
So true, so true!! i'm going thru a break up with a guy ive been with for 6yrs…and what was his excuse? "I need space" 6 god damn years and know you need space…ya right!
Wow she's hurt!
My heart just broke. I feel you girl.
Um.. guess she never read "He's Just Not That Into You", huh? Being a celebrity doesn't make you any less susceptible to being human, it seems.
Um.. guess she never read "He's Just Not That Into You", huh? Being a celebrity doesn't make you any less susceptible to being human, it seems.
SOOOO typical…so true!!!! xo Serena!!!
Methinks our little "man mountain" has been reading too many romance novels…bad ones, at that!
My favorite sentences are…"Wasn't you giving him enough?"…and the ever popular…"You know its not you, but u can't help but look at that man in the mirror. You can't help but pick yourself apart."….she said it…not me!!!
Very well put, been there before, sucks.
wow, a normal celebrity. I always liked serena. I still do. Shes very much like the rest of the world and is always trying to better herself. I would like to thinks she (along with the rest of hollywood) reads Perezhilton.com. So if that IS the case. We hear you serena, assholes like that, dont deserve some one as bright as you.
well now i'm about to cry at work…so sad
FIRST OF ALL THIS SKANK SHOULD JUST STOP WEARING DRESSES
SHE LOOKS LIKE A DRAG QUEEN ALL THE TIME
SKANK LOOKS BETTER WHEN SHE WEARS HER TENNIS UNIFORM
AND SINCE SHE LOOKS SO MUCH LIKE A BLACK GUY MAYBE SHE SHOULD TRY IT WITH A WOMEN , MAYBE IT WILL WORK
AND SINCE I TRULY BELIEVE THAT SHE HAS A DICK SHE SHOULD GO AFTER THOSE
"DOWN LOW " STRAIGHT DUDES BECAUSE YES THEY LOVE TITS BUT THEY ALSO LIKE TO PLAY WITH DICKS !!!!!
SHE IS PERFECT FOR THEM
OHHHH SERENA I HOPE YOU ARE READING THIS HONEY !!!!!
HAPPY HUNTING !!!!!!!! KISSES
PEREZ RULES!!!!!!!!!!!
think she is talking about Brett Ratner
Re: Ziggy – ME TOO I KNEW SHE/HE IS A MAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!
SERENA HAS A PENIS
HEY "DOWN LOW" STRAIGHT DUDES GET HER/HIM
SERENA IS PERFECT FOR YOU GUYS !!!!!
A PAIR OF TITS AND A BIG BLACK DICK !!!!!!
LOL
Get a load of the size of those feet!!!!!!!!!
There probably wasn't room in their bed for both him and her feet…LOL
The the crazy world of being a girl.
BTW– she has an typo "He tells you he doesn’t want to be with you and only you. He tells you he adores you".. can anyone spot it?
How many times do we not listen to that little voice that is telling you the situation is all wrong? I've been there a few times, too, and it is really hard.
Going through the same exact thing right now. From now on if a guy messes up once he's gone.
Well Serena –we have all been there before. At least you took the chance and came out of that steel shell. Believe me it's better to have taken the chance. Someday it will pay off. Remember–when you care enough to open up to anyone–they will eventually show you what kind of friend/lover they really are. The reality of it is–it's better to find out sooner than later. Good luck
Re: dee –
She said it and yet you are the asshole not her
Wow! It happens to the rich and famous too! Only they can pick any brand of healing after the heartbreak they want!
Re: su – yes…i caught that…freudian slip much???LOL
that is flippin fabulous.
i agree with every word to a T.
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been there! it's nice to see celebrities opening up.
I am currently in the same situation..
You know its not you, but u cant help but look at that man in the mirror. You can't help but pick yourself apart. — DID SERENA JUST CALL HERSELF A MAN!!!
:::farting:::
OH MY WORD–SHE LOOKS LIKE A LESBIAN GORILLA IN A TUTU.
I know how sad that could be. That's is why Good Girl Go Bad.
Hey! Men get their hearts ripped out everyday as well. It sucks. Perhaps date a ball boy!
Dear Serena,
Read He's Just Not That into You. It saves time.
Awe… that's really sad… I think we have all been there at some point!
Re: Ziggy –
aahahahaha i totally saw that too! oops!!!!! cat's outa the bag!
If this is about that loser user Jackie…Serena the day will come when he will come crawling back. They always do. The feeling you have now will be nothing compared to the joy you will feel when that loser comes back and you tell him to kiss your ass. Eff him!
oh my god that was painful writing. and by painful, i mean to the reader.
I know the feeling. When it happened to me, I was so hurt & confused.
Finally he called with excuses…I told him that if I allowed him to treat me
so badly…it would like admitting that I cared more for him than I did
myself AND that was not true. I wished him well but out of my life!!!
wow. felt that.
i think she looks pretty
that was comforting. She's clearly a deep, intelligent person. Think you'd ever get a letter like that from Paris Hilton? Not in your fucking life. She's a whore with no deep feelings
Awww! How sad! Poor Serena
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Honeys, jehovah must be turning over in his grave!
wow was his name Mike, sounds word for word like my story..ass
Hers is bigger–I HATE this bitch!
Hmmm…the only thing I kept thinking as I read this was: why did she post something this personal for all the world to read? I think people in her position should keep their personal life private. Her privacy is already invaded due to her celeb status and I couldn't imagine sharing intimate details of my romances and heartbreaks for millions of eyes to read. Maybe this loss will help her have a good Australian Open tournament (starting next week).
awwww…I love her as a tennis personality but this just proves that everyone goes thru heart break..no matter status,popularity,or money……good luck girl and i hope you keep your head up in this tough moments:)
I think she's talking about Hank Kueene He's a pro golfer trying to stay sober.He won the U.S. Amateur I think. comes from a family of great golfers, got in trouble in college drinking& driving. all around pretty good guy.Just had some ruff times. I could be wrong though that could be Venus's boyfriend,in that case never mind.
P.S. only reason I know this is because I use to play in the same amateur golf events with him. I'm not a fag.
One thing I've learned in the last 20 years is that all guys have a sumbag inside. Some prefer to let him out and have control more often than others, but believe me, he's always there somewhere.
I think at some level they get off on making us feel like garbage, just like they get off on everything else that's stupid and pointless in this world (eg. Lilo).
The safest thing to do is probably to love 'em and leave 'em before they get a chance to twist you up. But then again, isn't that what LiLo does? Maybe that's why it's so hard for us decent girls to behave that way. Where we have emotions and a heart, she has extra crotch juice stored, maybe even a spare vag, and a pack of smokes, you know, for after.
Re: VICIOUS QUEEN – HEY SUGARBOOTS!
She reminds me of To M Cruise, it's hard to put my finger on it.
She's talking bout Common! Seriously, I seen 'em in the Chi making out!
i think anybody who has suffered a broken heart can relate to her emotions right now. i feel really bad for her, i hope she has loving ppl around her to get her thru this heartache.
i've always said that every heartbreak is like a little piece of you dying.
I was WRONG Hank is engaged to Venus. My Bad
oh stinky ass Christine #25, jealousy is a bitch!
that's funny, i lost interest in your long paragraph too.
Don't waste the pretty/talented/wealthy/amazing/glorious/shining/incandescent on him. You are so much better than what he thinks of you, or what he is himself. You will realize it soon; others already do.
A bit dramatic are we? No wonder he doesn't want to be with you. Who is Brett Ratner anyways?
Is she talking about Bryant McKinnie, or was that Venus?
Fuck his best friend, honey!! that always works.
Re: lindsey – THAT HER SKANK ASS IS A MAN AND WILL TRY TO DO IT WITH A WOMEN OR "STRAIGHT DUDES" THAT LOVE TITS AND A PAIR OF A BIG BLACK DICK LOL
Poor thing!
Been there - It's rough but we get through!
I can totally feel that…
I DID MY B/FRIEND THAT AFTER 9 YEARS…MAOWFUCKER WANTED TO LIVE OFF ME & SUCK ME DRY
Well, since she's only, what, 16? I guess we can understand her naivite.