This Breaks Our Heart
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Even though he's reported to spend hours trolling the Internet for gay sex, Clay Aiken has revealed that he has NO sex drive at all.
How sad!
He's shut it off, he says. And understandably so, he can't indulge in his sexual needs when he isn't comfortable enough with his sexuality to be open about it.
This excerpt for Clay's new interview with New York magazine makes us wanna cry for the poor un-horny Idol reject:
He does not plan on dating, and he is not involved with anyone. “Heck, no,” he says. “My dogs.” He has never had a romantic relationship with anyone, unless you count the girls he took to dances back in high school in Raleigh. “I just don’t have an interest in … any of that at all. I have got too much on my plate,” he says. “I’d rather focus on one thing and do that when I can devote time to it, and right now, I just don’t have any desire.”
But Aiken is 29 years old and he is also a human. Surely he must have needs. Urges. He contemplates this in silence for 20 or 30 seconds. “Ah think maybe I don’t! I mean, not really. I’ve just kind of shut it off, maybe. Is that bad?”
Do the Claymates really want the Gayken to be so repressed???
you should date him, perez.
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Clay got uglier and uglier…
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Who CARES?!!??!! "Too much on my plate"??!!?? Pluh-eeeeeeeeeze!
that is NUTS. (first)
fa-reak!
I'm 29 and haven't had sex since 1999 but he has to have an urge sometimes to wanna jerk off lol I'm not comfortable with myself so I rather not be with anyone so I see where he is coming from but he's strolling the internet he wants sex just doesn't want everyone to know he wants the samesex
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Its probably the Claymates that have made him so repressed. I've seen these horrors in action. Even if he said he had someone he's be terrified to say anything in fear of their reaction. They are not safe.
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thank god he has no sex drive… who wants to sleep with the lead singer of Judas Priest anyway?
that's what my friend used to say before he came out!
gaykin!!!!
at least he wont end up wth aids like perez or ennis del mar!!!
I wish he would just come out already. The Claymates would get over it!
What is he, the new 40-year-old virgin?
He is so pathetic.
Just like some people are straight, gay, or bisexual…some are asexual. It means they don't have a sex drive. Not a big deal really. I don't really believe Clay is asexual though. I think he is lying to cover up his gayness.
GAY!
GAY CLAY.
Of course he shouldn't be so repressed. He needs to come OUT and express the bondage/sado-masochistic and sexually promiscuous side of him immediately. I hear Paris Hilton may be up for the job. Or maybe Scarlett Johanssen, if he can get over the fact these are females with boob and a vagina. They will take him on the ride of his life.
Sad. Poor Clay.
Is that the man who was dressed as a woman the other week? He's beautiful…ahem…he looks like a peadophile.
aww poor clay he's asexual.
aww…poor thing, lol ;P
It's the anti-depressants he's on… they sap the sex drive.
He just doesn't want to discuss his personal life though.
Do we really care…..ugh. pewie.
That's just sad. Really, really sad.
OH
Perhaps he's asexual.
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DON'T ACT LIKE YOU DON'T BEAR ANY RESPONSIBILITY FOR THIS!!
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YOU TERRORIZE EVERY GAY PERSON TRYING TO FIGURE THEIR WAY IN THIS WORLD!!
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YOU HAD YOUR TIME TO DECIDE FOR YOURSELF HOW YOU WANTED TO 'COME OUT'!
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YET YOU ARE VICIOUS WHEN REPORTING ABOUT OTHER NERVOUS GAY PEOPLE WHO ARE SHY ABOUT FINDING THEIR WAY!!
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I'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND THE GAY COMMUNITY'S NEED FOR MALICIOUS OUTINGS!!
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ITS DESERVED FOR GAY SENATORS WHO PASS ANTI-GAY LEGISLATION, BUT OTHERS WHO ARE JUST SCARED AND NOT HURTING ANYONE, THAT'S JUST MEAN, WRONG AND HYPOCRITICAL!!!
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"my dogs." CLASSIC!!!
another weirdo who takes it up the ASS!
he should simply OD and end it all
less gays/lesbo will make the world a happier place
Clay Gayken, it's safe to come out now. Don't know why you're so ashamed and hiding it. Even a blind and deaf person could see it.
… or ANYONE care about his sex life (or lack thereof)? There are way too many other things to worry about. (Maybe you should think hard on that one, Perez.) Also, it's none of my damn business–nor is it yours, Perez.
holy bombs, he's going to be the real life 40 year old virgin.
Perez he probably does what you do. BEAT HIS MEAT!!! For that all he needs is his palm and the little 4 friends and wack wack wack ahhhhhhhhhhhh all done. right Perez.
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He is sooo going to be the 40 year old virgin after all what girl or guy for that matter would even admit to sleeping with him.
There are a lot of gay men who become celibate to preserve their Christianity, though, and I think that's so depressing. I'm not for outing people who don't want to be outed, but on the other hand, I wish Christian homosexuals recognized that the two are not mutually exclusive: you can really reconcile loving Jesus AND loving dudes! (Or chicks, if you are a lezzy.) So, so sad.
GOD hates ALL queers!!!!
some people are asexual, its not a big deal!
go clay for not being a man-whore.!
Re: Danica –
I think you're so right.. and I'm tired of people discriminating against asexuals
I care!! I love, love, LOVE Clay. I'd love him gay, straight, or anything in between. I really wish he could find a healthy way to accept himself, whoever that may be.
And, next week: Clay Aiken attempts to sell us the Brooklyn Bridge! Clay, we won't buy the bridge and we won't buy this nonsense. Don't care that you're gay, Clay; do care that you have truth issues.
Too bad his repression didn't include NOT talking about it. Seriously, this guy's sex / non-sex life is just too creepy to consider.
Oh, and he should definitely ditch the photographers who insist on these "from below" wide-angle lens shots. They make him look nightmarish.
INSANE… Come out! It's ok out here. Poor little guy. I mean, come on. Miserable and dateless because he won't come out!
aww that is really sad.
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yeah, it's true…i do believe that some people are in fact asexual, but i honestly don't think that's the case here.
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clay gets mad at even the suggestion that he's gay so it seems that he hasn't really considered it as a viable option. very sad…
I'm sick and tired of journalists asking about his sexuality all the time!
while he is supposed to promote his depute in spamalot all he's been asked is about his private life and about kelly fuckin riba fiasco!!!!
i'm not surprised he answered this way! he thought by answering this way the media will quit asking the gay question..
but poor thing! now the question will be.. are u asexual?
are there any real journalists left out there?!
Clay has mentioned in past interviews that his mom is very religious. Maybe he doesn't want her hurt her by confessing he's gay. He'll come out when he's ready! Get off his ass, Perez.
At first glance I thought it was Hilary Clinton
Okay, just like HOMOSEXUALITY and HETEROSEXUALITY there is such a thing as ASEXUALITY. It just means you aren't interested in sex. It doesn't mean you're repressed. Don't feel sorry for him, he's just who he is, just like you are a homosexual.
Isn't it possible that he is taking antidepressants? He has talked about having anxiety before, so maybe his doctors have also prescribed antidepressants, which absolutely kill your sex drive.
What a liar.
Re: doggie balls – No I don't. I love my pedophile priests. Bend over doggieballz!
ITS FROM ALL THE ANTIDEPRESSANTS!……..you can see it in his PUFFY FACE!!
He is so unattractive, why does anyone even wanna know know? Ask Zac or Shia about their sex drive, then, you have my attention.
Why don't you go for it Perez. Just try not to crush Clay.
Gayken looks a lot like hillary clinton in this featured picture.
can we say 40 year old fag
what's up with his skin in that picture? Yikes!
Seems like he is gay…but i wonder if his religous belief keep him from acting on it. Only he knows I guess.
omg he looks like l ron hubbard the scientolonut!
That is the worst pic of Gayken ever - uggh!
Maybe he has a tumor on one or both of his adrenal glands resulting in a decrease in testosterone.
I think this is great! He talks like a 60 year old single gay man. Maybe he just doesn't want to come out as gay cause he knows that to date a gay guy is like asking someone to come and rob you. They're nearly all shady and skanky. Those who aren't… are generally ugly and overly possessive. It's really sad, actually. Normal gay guys don't exist. Case in point — Hello, Clay.
Perez- I think you meant ……This breaks our heartS…. Plural. Did you even graduate from High School??? Go back to the coffee shop!!!!
I agree with the Hillary resemblance!!!
as Mika would say
"lonely is so lonely alone."
come on clay, relationships and sex isn't all THAT bad lol
Re: Cheeky – I thought the same thing.
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Why the f**k do you give a rat's ass, Perez? It seems to me that you're obsessed with Clay and are having a "hard" time understanding why he won't out himself so that you can get you some of that! MOVE ON, PEREZ!!! The young man should NOT have to out himself to make YOU happy!
Omg i just listened to him sing on youtube for the first time ever and that man sings like a god! Beautiful.
Please dont be a sad repressed person, live it out be happy, people will love you more, and not just the middle aged women we always read about
Just come out already! Jesus Christ! We all already know and no ones gives a shit!
Attention: PEREZ HILTON CENSORS these comments!! Don't DARE try to say something about Perez that is insulting but true, because your comment won't stay on the page for more than 2 minutes!
To all of you who are giving Clay your unsolicited advice to come out: Do YOU like it when someone tries to tell YOU how to live YOUR life? HELL NO!!! Then stop doing that to Clay Aiken! Look at your OWN damn lives with a critical eye before you continue telling everyone else how to live THEIRS!
It's not impossible or unheard of. I went with out sex for 2 years once. It was all about me, and I didn't need or want that distraction. That's just where I was in my life. The next relationship I had when I started dating again turned into a marriage that is still going strong after 12 years. Leave Clay alone.
Of course they "want him repressed." We've ALL seen his fans, you know what those trolls are like! And Tyra B just drools all over him (because they are in the same boat; both hidin their candy). I hear him, though. You can't "come out" until the good ol' bank account reaches the required number of digits. Just ask kd, Ellen, Rosie, et al. Although some have the money, they lips are sealed because it's a matter of class.
WELL WELL WELL…sounds to me like The Gayken is ADDICTED to Internet Sex, and all that gobbledegook he's saying in the interview is just a sad attempt to keep that fact under wraps. Internet Sex Addiction (ISA) is as rampant as Meth Addiction in the Gay community. Of course ISA isn't illegal and it isn't physically destructive like Meth Addiction, but it is EMOTIONALLY destructive, and addicts tend to become socially stunted and non-commital, which is exactly the way The Gayken sounds. He needs to be honest about his homosexuality (I mean come on, who does he think he's fooling) find a real boyfriend and not some internet playthings, and sing with the TRUE JOY that kind of relationship will bring him. I love you Gayken, but GET OUT OF THOSE SEX CHAT ROOMS NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This Claymate wants you to be honest !
Only Clay truly knows the truth. It's really not anyone's business. If he is gay and chooses not to act on it for whatever reason, at least he's not one of those guys that gets married to a woman and has kids with her just to put on a hetero front, while sneaking around on the side seeing men.
sorry claymates, but he is just sooo creepy!
It sounds like he is putting his career first and making all the money he can. He is smart for doing that. For all of you that think you can't live without sex, money is more important. Sex doesn't exactly pay all the bills. I bet he is laughing all the way to the bank.
Just come out already, who cares!!! we all know u are anyway!!
ps he does look freakier and freakier as he gets older
Who would sleep with THAT…
Re: V – Amen!
It's also possible he's asexual…
ONCE AGAIN–DO NOT ADDRESS THE ISSUES OF HOMOSEXUALITY OR THE WAR!!!!!!!!
Please help. Hate is extremely powerful. Only one known thing on Earth can defeat it–Love. Remember, we have to avoid all violence and any act that could potentially lead to violence. We have to remain silent and avoid a circus atmosphere. The evil bastards have done this before. They typically do not physically confront anyone unless confronted first. The purpose of this "counter-protest" is to make sure that hate is not the only thing represented on the street on Saturday. Please remain silent during the time of the "counter-protest." If the media approaches you, tell the media "Out of respect for the Ball family, we will not give an interview to the media until after the hate-spewing people of the Westboro Baptist Church leave."
He's lying, you know he jacks off! I don't think there is a male on this earth gay or straight that can turn that off. I think the fact of the matter is that he is gay, therefore he does not date women and he is denying the fact that he's gay so he doesnt date men either. But no doubt about it he's at home alone watching gay porn!
ONCE AGAIN–DO NOT ADDRESS THE ISSUES OF HOMOSEXUALITY OR THE WAR!!!!!!!!
Please help. Hate is extremely powerful. Only one known thing on Earth can defeat it–Love. Remember, we have to avoid all violence and any act that could potentially lead to violence. We have to remain silent and avoid a circus atmosphere. The evil bastards have done this before. They typically do not physically confront anyone unless confronted first. The purpose of this "counter-protest" is to make sure that hate is not the only thing represented on the street on Saturday. Please remain silent during the time of the "counter-protest." If the media approaches you, tell the media "Out of respect