Quote of the Day

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"I don't know if I will ever be able to play a character in love because I've never felt that. I've felt passion and lust for a woman, but I've never been in love. I'm emotionally bankrupt in that area."

- Terrence Howard tells The Independent

Posted: May 3, 2008 at 3:13 pm / Email this »

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Attention Whore says – reply to this

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He does have a history of saying things that would make vulnerable women want to show him they might just be THE ONE able to change all this. Like when he said he won't bone anyone again until he is married as it is a bad example for young people. Wake up, it's 2008. My grandmother would bone him, while my grandpa videos it for xtube!
wow says – reply to this

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THAT'S SO SAD! NO WONDER HE'S AN ASSHOLE!!!
mamasita says – reply to this

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i really think either he is gay or a womanHATER. he talked about women and needing to use wipees,and now this. men who love women are in love with women and love everything about them including their smell. terrence- figure it out buddy!!!!!
Damaged Goods says – reply to this

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Is he saying this to hurt his X-wife? He should ride off into the sunset with that egomaniac that's so popular in Germany, did the drunk video for his daughter while on the floor eating a burger. They are both so gay.
June Grooms says – reply to this

105

David Hasselhoff and this lad. Yes, I can see that. Many common points. Both gay, but not in a good way.
Good Afternoon Ladies! says – reply to this

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I'm not a women hater, but let's be honest; they smell like fish. Yes, and I will probably now get emails from fish protesting my likening them to women!
GiGi says – reply to this

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I'm sure his wife will be glad to ear that… C'mon don't say this kind of things when you're married, even if it is true.
He is very handsome, I would love to make him fall in love for the first time
poopy says – reply to this

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LOL This is all a part of his playa game. The ladies are already falling for it so they can "change" you. Pimp on, pimp!
Brielle says – reply to this

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I have to say that his statement is soo real. i could actually hear him say it as i was reading it. he is soo sexy…
LooseLips says – reply to this

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T. H. is a needle-dicked turd who fucks around openly on his wife (3 kids with her)but refuses to grant her a divorce. His soul is bankrupt.
lulu says – reply to this

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"WHADDA BITCH"
asdasds says – reply to this

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HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHOOOOOOOOOOTTTT
EYESSSS
Sessan says – reply to this

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oh baby, you can come and fall in love with me!
Beauty says – reply to this

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He is beautiful inside and out
Drake says – reply to this

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Thats sad to b his age and never have felt real love i hpoe one day u will man 4 real.
janebird says – reply to this

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Terrence Howard always seems so open with the press! But yeah a lot of people haven't been in love! I know a lot of people have thoguht they were in love when really it was just lust and attention that was taking them over. I know I'm like that. But to be in love the way they make it seem in the movies, that's just not a reality for me. Terrence is just being honest.
Elena says – reply to this

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Many people haven't found true love. A lot of people feel just like he does and it's not a bad thing for him to say it. Sometimes people think they were in love and then step back and re-evaluate for whatever reasons, only to discover that they never really DID feel in love. I don't think less of him for saying this.
hader says – reply to this

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GAY
GAY
GAY
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GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
GAY
not that there's anything wrong with that
just own in man
hey doofus says – reply to this

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Re: Good Afternoon Ladies! – hmm, yeah women can smell.
Imagine how bad they would smell if they were filthy overgrown toddlers who refuse to clean themselves (like men). Example: women don't get skidmarks.
men are the stinkers, clown
emily says – reply to this

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that guy is either a liar or a huge douche. he was married for like 14 years and has kids what the fuck man….

perez could u do us all a favor and NOT have ads that have audio on them????
its a little annoying.
heybaby says – reply to this

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All you stupid twats sayin "oooh he's so beautiful and sensitive and honest"
get what you deserve when some over groomed kinda ugly bisexual asshat like this uses and dumps you
fuck you says – reply to this

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Re: carl –

carl…
obviously someone who has never had a girlfriend and has probably never been laid.

news flash: not all women are like celebrities! in fact… MOST of arent! but dont worry im sure no woman would ever touch you anyway, so you can continue to enjoy your small minded views.
liks says – reply to this

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if u read Elle magazine u might have heard that when interviewed recently, terence said he insists that all females he sleeps with use a baby wipe before bangin'. he said it's a deal breaker and if he uses a girls bathroom and doesnt see any he'll straight up tell her too or no lickey or dickey lol!!! sorry i'm lazy about typos tonight and punctuation and spelling…dont hate me up. all i'm saying is he's a little too fussy to be all hetero.
He's overrated says – reply to this

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Cuz he's too busy focusing on himself. Overrated.
Ugly On The Inside says – reply to this

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Here's some choice Terrence Howard quotes from the interview in Elle Magazine:
On what makes a woman attractive:
"I like women who look like me…because the most beautiful thing in nature is your own reflection."
On women and toilet paper:
"If they're using dry paper, they aren't washing all of themselves. It's just unclean."
On his ex-wife:
"I can't be upset because she doesn't find me the most beautiful thing on the planet."
Little wonder he's never been in love. Seems like he's incapable of it.
Take a tip says – reply to this

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Re: its nikki – Well deary-o, there is still that other half that ARE married. You sound like you could use some happiness in your narcissitc generation. Perhaps if you started being positive and kind, you'd have the adoration of countless people. End of subject.
eddy says – reply to this

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How honest of him. I'm sure he'll catch hell for saying truth. I admire him for being so open and vulnerable.
u lust though says – reply to this

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Re: Damaged Goods – david hasselhoff. lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it's prob that he is a failure at sharing. a lot of relationships end because of men and women feeling so selfish. I need, i want. it's my opinion that my own relationship has lasted 14 years because we're sort of a single unit. and very similar. people who pick a challange instead of a friend usually give up on the challange the minute it gets hard. but the ones with the friend usually work things out. p.s. it's still hard at times, even if u are friends…but it's also really really fun and i dont know, amazing sounds corny, but it is. don't give up people. i wish i could help u all find happiness. would be the best job on earth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. ok enough about me.
I THINK HE IS GAY! says – reply to this

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IF HE BEEN WITH SO MANY WOMEN & NEVER BEEN IN LOVE, SOMETHING IS VERY WRONG!
Sarah says – reply to this

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This is the quote that scares me.
Manon says – reply to this

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what a douche! because he's in love with himself!
fuzibuni says – reply to this

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he's always good for the bizarre quotes.
eddy says – reply to this

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Re: hey doofus –
For your information, women do get skid marks. In fact they get all kind of marks (extra hole). Ever wonder why women don't want you to see their dirty underwear and they will clean it in the bathroom sink before putting it with the rest of their laundry becaUse someone would accidentally see these shitty bloody mucous covered rags? Think about it.
eddy says – reply to this

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Re: hey doofus –
For your information, women do get skid marks. In fact they get all kind of marks (extra hole). Ever wonder why women don't want you to see their dirty underwear and they will clean it in the bathroom sink before putting it with the rest of their laundry becaUse someone would accidentally see these shitty bloody mucous covered rags? Think about it. Who is the clown now, Doofus?
lilli says – reply to this

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love him
hey doofus says – reply to this

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Re: eddy – women don't get skid marks at the rate that men do. Only usually if they are sick. With men it;s constant. I'm not even hating. It's just true (of course, this doesn't cover the generally well groomed gay man).
If you ever did laundry, instead of your mommy always doing it for you, you'd know that. All humans have stuff that comes out of various holes. Most women keep themselves much cleaner than most men. We clean our underwear in the sink because it is made of higher quality, delicate fabric, unlike the cheap ratty grey cotton butt rags you call underpants. hand wash/line dry. Again, you would be familiar with that term if moms didn't so the washing for you.
Men seem to want a life-long mommy to clean up after them. If they don't have one, they are dirty.
It's true. deal with it.
He's a fucking liar, and a TERRIBLE (and ugly) actor! says – reply to this

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If he is such a good actor, he should be able to play a person in love, whether he feels like he's been there or not. It's called "acting" afterall–use your imagination; stretch your mind. What a douche. I never liked him anyway. I don't know what people see in him, he's not good looking at all. Eww
JEN says – reply to this

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HEY JUST SOUNDS HONEST AND REAL, HELL
I AM 30 AND HAVENT BE IN FOREVER LOVE EITHER

WTF IS WRONG IWTH HIS QUOTE?
WHAT ARE YOU MAKING FUN OFF?
rmm says – reply to this

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ill show him love
angie says – reply to this

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not too bright
Kate says – reply to this

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Aww, poor guy! *hug*
Ugh says – reply to this

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That's not the only area in which he is bankrupt. He's a TOTAL slimeball. Not worth the paper he's printed on.
becky says – reply to this

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Who cares about this nobody's whatever the heck loving or not. What an idiot. WHO CARES.
becky says – reply to this

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I read an Elle interview with him, and he said that when he dates a girl he prefers to keep sex out of the relationship. He also said that he checks his date's bathroom; if she doesn't have wipes for the…bottom, he feels she is not a clean person and will not touch her. Or some such unbelievably stupid thing.
gary thorstensen says – reply to this

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I know just how he feels. I cheat,lie,and make up all kinds of exuses for my bad behavior. I especially like to say Im confused and dont know why I do the things that I do. It really gets me off the hook with girls to pretend like I dont know my own feelings. Lying isnt really lying if you believe your own lies.
blablabla says – reply to this

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shut up and keep pumping
gigi says – reply to this

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Terrence…………….
i feel u babe we're in the same boat, might be a different time, date and place but it's all the same
xox
Confused says – reply to this

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I love Terrance Howard. He is one of my favorite actors. I feel bad for him. It's cool that he's so honest though. Just sad…
jessica says – reply to this

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how come everyone has snot on their nose or something but this guy dosent't get sh*t?
Definition says – reply to this

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Re: Laceyy – Here's a tip…

If you feel the need to add the words "not being racist" to any comment,
it's because whatever you're saying IS RACIST. Seriously, think about that one.
Social Services says – reply to this

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Re: eddy –
Who are these women you're talking about? It's sad that those are your experiences with women. It's actually pretty gross. You should have gotten help when you were young. Come to think about it, seek help now.
EuropEll says – reply to this

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Isn't he married? His wife is surely going to like that quote.
jen says – reply to this

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I relate 100%. yay for honesty!
smartypants says – reply to this

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He's obviously a method actor… Can't he make self love translate?
K says – reply to this

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It's hard to love someone else when you are so busy loving yourself.
This guy seems like a supreme narcissistic asshole. Just go stare in a mirror all day, that should make you happy.
cinna glitter says – reply to this

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well Terrence let me teach you an Oprah lesson haha!
First learn to love yourselve…..then you will be able to love others!!

That” s the way ah ha ah ha!!! But…very nice lips mister!!
k says – reply to this

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To all you dopes sticking up for this dick:

Yes, many people have not fallen in love BUT they don't call themselves EMOTIONALLY BANKRUPT! By saying this, he is telling you that he is incapable of love….which it totally fucked up. He is not 21 idiots, he is an attractive successful older man. If he can't share enough of himself to fall in love by this point in his life, he has some serious issues. Duh!
K says – reply to this

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WHY ARE GUYS ON THIS BLOG????!!!!

YOU MUST BE TOTAL FAGS- I AM A FEMALE AND STILL FEEL KINDA STUPID COMMENTING ON THIS SITE (LIKE A PRE-TEEN).

NO WONDER YOU HATE THE SMELL OF A WOMAN!!!!
kitty says – reply to this

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terence how is that possible???
k says – reply to this

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WHY ARE THERE GUYS ON THIS BLOG???!!!

I FEEL GAY COMMENTING HERE AND I AM A WOMAN.

YOU MUST BE TOTAL FAGS….NO WONDER YOU HATE THE SMELL OF A WOMAN!
torrieB says – reply to this

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He only said that after his ex wife broke is heart. So all u ass wipes passing judgement and shut the fuck up!
k says – reply to this

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Torrie-

You are a retard. If his wife broke his heart, then clearly he has been in love. If he can't admit that, he is a giant fucking baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
erika says – reply to this

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i'll fall in love with you terrence!!
word says – reply to this

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Re: K – WORD
RAyjay2 says – reply to this

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He's so fucking ugly
look at the pic
HE FUCKING LOOKS LIKE DONALD DUCK
poor daisy has to wipe her tail feathers with a baby wipe before he'll do her
Probably because the baby wipe smell reminds him
of molesting little children
HE IS DISGUSTING
the man says – reply to this

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Re: torrieB – all you ass wipes?
why do this fag and his fag hag fans have such an obsession with ass wipes, butt wipes, baby wipes? go shit yourself, bitch
DMAN says – reply to this

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WHAT IS THAT A HALF A JIG
6i93i54nu4 says – reply to this

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willcareyvenezuela says – reply to this

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he's hot and cut pretty black man
he did glitter too jaja
He's hot and i need a black man like he
yyep728w9o says – reply to this

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Gabriel says – reply to this

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You shouldn't marry someone who isn't the "right person".. Bitch..
Patryck Cod'e says – reply to this

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I don't care. I don't know love him either , but I surely would fuck him.
REESE says – reply to this

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I COULD OF SWORN HE WAS MARRIED.SO YOU MEAN TO TELL ME HE DIDNT LOVE HIS WIFE B4 HE GOT HITCHED? OH I 4GOT THATS WHAT HOLLYWEIRD IS ABOUT!
jj says – reply to this

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He's so goddamn sexy!
joan says – reply to this

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SAD. He is empty. A good actor but he is hollow. He looks o.k., not anything to lose sleep over. Too bad he wasted his wife's time and produced offspring with no love (just lust). That's animal shit. Shame on him. He is on the losing end. Hope his wife finds someone who ain't a loser to share her personal life with. It's a waste of time to live with a narcissist.
danibaby says – reply to this

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this is so sad! this sexy ass man has never been in love?! even when he was narried? i love him! don't worry terrence when i find you i'll teach you how to love!!!
Megg says – reply to this

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he's such a sexy beast…love him
Emma Goldman says – reply to this

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Re: liks – I read that too and had the same reaction. Though I think it is possible that his underlying problem is self-hatred/disconnection. You need to love yourself before you can love other people.
he needs a shrink says – reply to this

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sad
Joel says – reply to this

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He was married for 14 years and never felt love? In 14 years ….All the shit his wife must have done for him including giving birth to his 3 children and not once did he feel like he loved her? What a slap in her face. The man is an asshole.
Cécile says – reply to this

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NO DOUBT

HE'S 100 % GAY !

MAN EATER
Maria says – reply to this

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He tells Elle magazine, "If they're using dry paper, they aren't washing all of themselves. It's just unclean. "So if I go inside a woman's house and see the toilet paper there, I'll explain this. And if she doesn't make the adjustment to baby wipes, I'll know she's not completely clean."

I think he spent too much time prepping for his parts - being ass-raped in prison…a man's gotta keep clean!
j-leo says – reply to this

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you have to admire that kind of clear introspection
amle says – reply to this

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I get the feeling he is too in love with himself to fall in love with someone else.
torrieB says – reply to this

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if yall knew anything about terrenace then u'd kno that he's only sayin that cuz his ex wife broke his heart. he wont or cant fall in love cuz his wifes the only one he loves.
CAVEMAN says – reply to this

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IS THAT BECAUSE HE JUST GOES AFTER PRETTY BITCHES, LIKE NAOMI CAMPBELL? INSTEAD OF DECENT, REAL WOMEN, THAT ARE CAPABLE OF BEING MORE THAN CATWALK MODELS? NO WONDER……
Go back to acting school says – reply to this

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I've never actually killed someone, so I don't think I could ever play a murdered in my films. I'm emotionally bankrupt when it come to being a serial killer.
It's called ACTING. dickbrain!
mmmmmmmmmm- I LOVE the taste of baby wipes during oral sex
makes me think of babies- not that I could EVER play a pediophile in a film (oops!)
Lovely One says – reply to this

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Wasn't he married? How can you "never have experienced LOVE" if you were married??? This dude is a serious douchbag…I think he's playing on the other side of the fence anyway.
Lovely One says – reply to this

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Re: carl –
—————————————–
I understand your list of inadequate women (and you are missing a lot on that list. LOL) but why is Alicia Keys on the list? She hasnt done anything bad (that has been confirmed at least). Please explain.
Lovely One says – reply to this

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Re: gary thorstensen –
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LOL. Yes, I've heard that before. I lie is no longer a lie if you believe the bullshit coming out of your mouth. Unfortunately, females are falling for this garbage everyday. LMAO
Heather says – reply to this

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That's so sad. I find that so sad that he belives that about himself. He's an amazing actor and so good looking. Hmm, I wonder what's up.
Ass-tastic says – reply to this

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He's got no love for the ladies…only for the butt wipes he supposedly carries everywhere he goes, AHHAHA!
The Truth says – reply to this

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That's cuz your gay, Mr. Howard. come out of the closet and then maybe you will find love.
lens says – reply to this

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…the most sensually luscious man on the planet. It's brave to be so candid. However, as my mentor, Gloria Charles said, "… we often believe love to be the same as our expectation of it…"
katy says – reply to this

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I would love him deeply he is so hot.
nova says – reply to this

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He can love me!
andrea Lewis says – reply to this

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He is sooo lovely!!!!
black woman says – reply to this

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of course you haven't, you're a black man, afterall!
nicki says – reply to this

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That's because he is Gay!! He said "women" He's so in the closet he's UGLY!!!!

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