They're All Messed Up!
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As we mentioned last month, Bill Murray and his wife, Jennifer Butler-Murray, are filing for divorce.
And it's gotten messy!
Jennifer accuses Bill of abusive behavior, drug and alcohol addiction, and frequent abandonment.
But, reports are surfacing that Jennifer is no saint. Apparently, SHE'S the one who's the alcoholic!
Jennifer's allegedly known around her Charleston, SC neighborhood as a frequent drinker and someone who gets "physical" with her children. Oh, and also gets the police called on her.
According to police reports from this past March, she was apparently so drunk that two of her kids ran over to a neighbor's house to ask for help.
It started when a witness saw her yelling loudly at one of her children and the cops where called in to go investigate.
The report from the officer states, "I spoke with [Jennifer] and advised her of the complaint. The w/f [white female] seemed to be very impaired and didn't want me on her property anymore, she slammed the door and I left the residence."
Later that night a neighbor called cops saying two of her children were at his home asking for help.
Scary.
WTF was she doing to them?
The report continues, "I then had the complainant meet me at the police station to talk with the juveniles. They informed me that their mother had been drinking heavily and had [become] physical with them."
Violence is NEVER the answer.
As for Bill, he was in California at the time, so the kids had to be sent to a family friend's house until he returned.
As for alcoholic Jennifer, her lawyer has of course declined to comment.
[Photo via Getty Images.]
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Dayum! She's NUTZ!
Please take those poor kids away from her ASAP! Alcoholics should'nt have any contact with children!
I agree!
he's sorta attractive!
DUMB BITCH!
www.hollywoodgrind.com/perez-hilton-bombs-at-hot-topic/
AHHHHHHHHHHHHA what now fat boy!! keep talking shit!
PEREZ HOW COME YOU AREN'T BRAGGING ABOUT YOUR HOT TOPIC OPENING?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? WAS IT NOT AS SMASHING AS YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD BE??? HOW MANY PEOPLE SHOWED UP?
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he went to hot topic to debut his clothing line and was there to greet his (fans) and no one showed up he doesnt realize that no one likes his fat ass everyone only like his website blog cause its good but fuck him he sucks hahahahahahaha karma suck doesnt it
And would the idiot who keeps perpetuating the rumour that Ashley Tisdale has an illness PLEASE STOP THIS RIDICULOUS OBSESSION WITH PUTTING THEIR FILTHY PAWPRINT ALL OVER THE INTERNET EVEN AT THE EXPENSE OF INNOCENT PPL LIKE ASHLEY?! JUST HOW BORED CAN A PERSON POSSIBLY BE? GROW THE FUCK UP YOU ARE HURTING PEOPLE WITH WHAT YOU ARE DOING!
That sucks. Why would Billy Boy leave his kids in the house when he probably knows the mom's like that?
At least the kids are asking for help!
TEAM KIDS!!!!
2nd?
So did your Hot Topic CLothing line really bomb? tsk…tsk..
Karma is coming around. Yeah!!
Nice dress, where'd she get it? Hot Topic? Hahahaahhahah
This sounds like every family in America….and probably all over the world.
Oh, i have'nt heard yet! Just how big was the MASSIVE CROWD that showed up at Hot Topic for Perez's BIG DEBUT? I must know now!
I certainly hope that this is'nt what every family in Amercia is like. I mean, just because mine was does'nt mean they all are, RIGHT?
How's this for a post title: "PEREZ HILTON BOMBS HOT TOPIC". Check it out: www.hollywoodgrind.com/perez-hilton-bombs-at-hot-topic/ Karma's a bitch, Mario.
good thing she kept her last name…Bill Murray is still the shit!
Re: tattooed white trash – Cool tat……that your kid?
1st
I babysat their kids once and have been over for family-friend parties. This is really sad. But Bill is one of the coolest guys I have ever met. Everything I heard about him, doesn't sound true. But Jen on the other hand.. yah I can see her acting like that.
Is it just me or do those two look related?
If the accusations about Bill are true, (abusive behavior, drug and alcohol addiction, and frequent abandonment) and I was left parenting alone for months at a time, I might drink too, on occasion, and might yell at my kids. Marriage to an actor can be a special place in hell, but you are supposed to be grateful. Pssh.
That's the shit! The neighbors have some money to make mang! CALL the tabloids!
White trash people with money always freak people out. You never can tell what those fuckers are up too!
You know you are in deep mental shit when your kids are affected by your negative behavior and marriage. Fix it or get divorced.
Re: Matild – hahahahaha, good one
OMG I'm going to a fundraiser for Poets House (a really great orginization) in NYC tonight and Bill has been a featured speaker for the past few years. I wonder if he will show tonight? I'll let you know if anything goes down Perez!
Re: tattooed white trash – sounds more like your white trash redneck buddies, i grew up with good parents, sorry tattooed trash; need some whiskey now after some reading?
he was arrested for driving drunk in a golf cart somewhere in Europe. Sounds like he could use some help in addition to his wife.
Re: x –
YOU GREW UP WITH SHITTY PARENTS AND YOU KNOW IT!
Another smart thing you said recently about violence never being the answer. If you resort to verbal, mental, emotional, ot physical abuse, you could wind up with the likes of some people who post on this website and that's tragic. We need more good people in the world.
She may be a drunk, but he a genuine grade-A asshole, trust me, my father has worked with him and I had the displeasure of meeting him. Quite possibly the biggest jerk I've ever meet.
Please let her being a lying drunk. Bill Murray is the BEST!!!
Who doesn't scream at their kids??????? If there is abuse, than let the authorities take care of it. Neither one of them owes the public an answer to anthing involving their family and private life. I'm sure the split is hard enough on the kiddies. Who the fuck is anyone not directly involved to say a god damn thing.
Honestly I feel is parents let their kids or teens visit this site, I think that's child abuse. You should try and protect your children as much as you can from stuff like this.
Actually, I know for a fact that Bill's wife is the alcoholic psycho…my brother was their next door neighbor at their San Diego area home (in a country club) until about a year ago. His wife used to go over there, get plastered, crawl around on the floor, and stumble back home. She was the talk of the entire community.
There's a difference between screaming once in awhile and abuse. But you still should try not to scream or fight in front of them. It's really someone that is emotionally immature. Fighting in front of them changes them forever.
what a crazy couple, so sad
Shit that's bad. I used to black out drink about four years ago when my daughter was 7. Everyonce in awhile she will tell me about the terrible things I would do. I don't remember it fully but I do have flashbacks and the guilt that I carry with me, even being 4 years sober now, will never go away.
i saw him at a bar in colorado over new years and he was ALL UP ON every woman in there, including my lesbian aunt. and the whole time i was like, wheres his wife?!
Pots illegal and booze isnt?
WTF
just because violence isn't the answer to everything doesn't mean its not the answer to some things. none of us know what these kids are like, they might be the kind who are asking for it. or not. but we don't know.
I am sure being Married to Bill contributed to her excessive drinking… my goodness, having 4 children w/ the guy then him abusing her — makes a lot of sense why she was drunk.
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I blame Bill, cause, he was clearly the one who picked up this women on the set of Ground Hog Day, not the other way around.
She better back the f off Bill, now–
I feel really bad for this family. I'm a huge Bill Murray fan. But, Perez, stop being so preachy! Sometimes, violence is the answer, particularly if you're defending yourself…
It's better not to cast 'he said, she said' blame when kids are involved. These stories seem to be two parties positioning themselves for a court battle and perhaps custody, so the real truth will be eventually be unrecognizeable unless they mediate privately. Marriage can run its course. Bill Murray used to be outgoing, funny and happy. The Bill I've seen the last few years seems withdrawn and almost morose. I'd bet she was outgoing and happy in the past, too. The relationship is past its expiry date. It would be better on both of them if they didn't rip each other to shreds, out of respect for the past and for the children; you've got to know that the pres will eat it up.
Sounds like my ex husband and my kids. Good luck getting full custody of the children Bill!!!! Just wait until you're told to "make nice" with her for the kids sake. Well it's best to get the "kids" away from the nut before they get really hurt of killed! Best wishes to you Bill Murray you need it. Take care of those kids!
Poor little things. I feel bad for them…having to run to the neighbours to ask for help because of your own mother! It looks like somebody needs to get drunk and give this bitch a lil smackdown! By lil I mean a proper ass wooping.
Sounds like she has a classic personality disorder, and is unleashing a distortion campaign against Bill. Don't believe a word.
bill murray is the fucking shit. leave the bitch, hope she gets nothing. call CPS on the whore. He is too good! Bill Murray is fucking awesome. awesome to the max
Defense is different than dealing with kids. Wow, people scare me. HEALTHY discipline and violence are two different things.
God, please help the kids whose parents think sometimes violence is the answer.
Joan…shut your trap…no one "asks" to be physically assaulted and for you to suggest so is ignorant and you should re read your post before you post something so stupid!! She looks like a bitch and this is coming from the mother of two teenagers with attitude. I take shit that means a lot to them away, don;t let them go somewhere that I know they really want to go as punishment but I would NEVER EVER suggest being physical with them…shame on you for doing so!!!
Arguing over what's abuse or how many other people have homes like this misses the point.
No kid should EVER have to leave his own parent/home to go find help from a neighbor. Period.
That's messed up shit and no kid deserves that.
I hope those kids get away from that crap for good or maybe at least find Al Anon. It can be a lifesaver for the non-alcoholics who have to go through this.
It's very difficult growing up with an alcoholic parent. Yes, no kid should have to deal with that. Every kid deserves to feel safe and loved in their own home.
Those kids should write a tell all book.
That's really sad. My mother is an alcoholic and I recently was removed from her custody…which is really dumb due to the fact that she's always been an alcoholic but the state didn't choose to take me away until I was 17 and a half…totally a lot of sense in that! Anyways, alcoholism is a disease that usually the abuser doesn't think they have. They think they don't have a problem and just need help to "unwind" and also that they're superior to anyone who questions them. It's really sad because you can't talk any sense into them, you can't force help on them if they refuse it unless the court intervenes (which, if the court is intervening, is probably too late), and they are completely different than how they are sober. I love my mother but when she's drunk, I barely recognize her. Her features seem to change and she gets violent and inconsiderate. I hope those kids get help because alcoholism, more times than not, gets overlooked because the abuser is usually primarily at home when they're drinking. It's just really sad. She needs to get help before it's too late
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Good, now we can finally get married.
Re: Taylor – You seem like you have a good head on your shoulder. You recognize that it is a disease and when she drinks, it's not really her. You are brave. Good luck on your path in life. Stay strong.
Freaky, I went to school with a girl called Jennifer Butler.