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A-Rod Fights Back!

Filed under: Madonna > Love Line > Alex Rodriguez

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There's more drama in the already bitter divorce between New York Yankees star Alex Rodriguez and his soon-to-be ex, Cynthia.

Apparently, his wife has made it very difficult for the baseball player to see his two daughters, ages 3 years and 2 1/2 months.

And, as PerezHilton.com was the first to report, Cynthia even jetted off to Paris to spend some quality time with her "friend" Lenny Kravitz while she left the kids in Miami with her parents and not with their own dad!!!

What type of a mother would leave her babies behind, and especially a 2 1/2 month old, to jet off and spend some time with a "friend"?

A source adds that when she went to Paris "she refused to let [Alex] have the kids. When she went away, she prevented Alex from seeing his daughters."

The sources continues that Cynthia "hasn't made it easy to see the children." Adding that their "relationship has been a train wreck for over a year. She has not made them available."

Ouch. Just cuz he cheats on you doesn't make him a bad father - just a bad husband!

Richard Rubenstein, A-Rod's spokesman, has said, "He is burning to see his children, and fully intends to play a role in their future."

Though that's not what Cynthia has in mind.

She intends on seeking permanent custody of the kids, and most likely keeping them in Miami, as well as keeping the mansion and a very large chunk of his money.

A friend even says that one night during dinner, at the beginning of this year, A-Rod began receiving text messages. "He kept smiling, acting as if he was a little kid. He told me it was Madonna. I was shocked," says the friend. "He proceeded to say he was in love with her, but I thought he was kidding. But he wasn't." A-Rod then told his friend, "She's my fucking soulmate, dude!"

Ironically enough, sources say it was Cynthia, a huge (now former) fan of Madonna who encouraged her husband to listen to her Madgesty's music and go with her to the concerts in an attempt for Cynthia to meet her music idol.

As for A-Rod not being able to see his babies, sources still blame Cynthia.

Rodriguez has to be in NY often as his $27.5 million contract a year requires him to.

But, sources say Cynthia has access to a private jet and is "surrounded by attendants who can attend to her every whim. Why hasn't she made an effort to see Alex? Because she's preoccupied and self-absorbed. She conveniently kept herself in Florida, and made herself unavailable to him. This is a longstanding thing."

We don't know whose side we're on yet. But they better be civil when it comes to the kids. They don't have any fault in this.

[Image via WENN.]



142 comments to “A-Rod Fights Back!”

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  1. PORK says – reply to this
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    As Usual and, what seems to be a new pattern… All your newz is old and been printed and blogged about yesterday and Waaaaaayy before you this mornin… YOur fat Ass at a breakfast Buffet again?… TInsel town giveth…and tinsel town taketh away Porkez

  2. 2

    I AM SO OVER IT! WHO CARES ANYMORE!

  3. Mac says – reply to this
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    first!

  4. surfc says – reply to this
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    Being a bad husband makes you a bad father!

  5. Mrs. says – reply to this
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    he's marrying me now!!

  6. ILOVE says – reply to this
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    she's clearly just a huge bitch. I love a-rod. GO YANKEES

  7. ILOVE says – reply to this
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    Re: surfc

    lord are you stupid. that's not true at all

  8. mimi says – reply to this
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    Perez,
    What do you know about being a good father? You don't have any children. And no, your dog doesn't count!

  9. SKB says – reply to this
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    Actually, it DOES make you a "bad father" when you cheat on the baby's momma! Don't fool yourself, P! He wrecked his marriage and that's not something "Father of the year" would do.

  10. juls1 says – reply to this
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    It does make A-rod a bad father by going out with other women while married to the girls mother! Disrespectful to women. Go get a dam divorce if you want to fuck everyone. And unless it was his weekend to have the girls, he doesn't need to see them right now. He probally wouldn't even know what to do with the baby. They are better with their grandparents.

  11. joyou says – reply to this
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    Re: surfc – You are absolutely right!

  12. kve says – reply to this
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    For anyone who is saying he is "not a bad father" WTFuck. That's all i have to say.

    How isnt he a bad father when he wasnt even thinking about his kids and being there for his kids when he was screwing other women. I hate it when a cheating man is only known as just the "Bad Husband" LORD, it's more than that. THe whole cheating thing affects everyone and everything and every aspect of a family, not just the "husband" part of it.

    He's a bad, selfish, and horny ass man he he needs a cock up his ass and so do everyone else who claims he isnt a bad father because HE IS!!

  13. Jane says – reply to this
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    the ex-Rod needs to shut up and go away… bitter hag

  14. FIRE says – reply to this
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    Douche let it go.

    So u wanna suck A Rod's balls? hmmmmm

    Fat chance FATTY!!!!!!!

  15. juls1 says – reply to this
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    i've seen him in chicago tons of times. he's a pig.

  16. Up Yo says – reply to this
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    She deserves NOTHING. MCDONALDS IS HIRING..SHE NEEDS TO GET OFF HER MANLY ASS AND WORK.
    TEAM FKN A ROD!

  17. ali says – reply to this
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    He plays baseball for a living… he cannot be everywhere at once. She knew that when she married him. dumb bitch

  18. iwant says – reply to this
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    Cheating on your wife (the mother of your kids) DOES make for a bad father. I know from experience. My dad had 3 affairs (that he admits to) while he ws married to my mom. It's given me all sorts of "daddy issues."

  19. nicky says – reply to this
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    Maybe ARod can meet with Obama and somehow this will all turn out okay…. we can always HOPE.

    Really… who gives a rats ass.

  20. Your says – reply to this
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    What kind of a mother would jet off to Paris when she's got two little kids at home and a cheating husband? THIS ONE. And just about anybody else I know. Poor A-Rod has to be in NYC when his contract tells him to? Mothers (even rich spoiled ones) have a demanding 24/7/365/forever job.

    I'd go visit homeless rotten- tooth dude in Paris to get a break! So would you.

  21. CUTDA says – reply to this
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    Perez…knock it off! Why can't Cynthia go to Paris without her kids?! Goodness! Even your b*tch a$$ is being a judgmental male pig! She needed a break, and there is nothing wrong with that! Men are so quick to jump on a women. It's disgusting!!!

  22. JAmie says – reply to this
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    Re: surfc – I couldn't have said it better myself!

  23. Lisa says – reply to this
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    Madonna? A-Rod could definitely do better than her gap-toothed, old wrinkly ass

  24. STUPI says – reply to this
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    Re: aliWhat??? Are you retarded? Obviously, what does him being away have to do with anything? It was his cheating, learn how to read

  25. missy says – reply to this
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    Just because he doesn't want to be faithful to his wife does not mean he's a bad father. My ex wasn't faithful to me and I still let him see his daughter as much as he wants to. Regardless you don't take someones father away. My husbands ex-wife does the same shit, but every one knows she's just bitter and hurt. The best revenge in life is to do better than before. Not to appear bitter and sad about everything. My husbands ex-wife got married 2wks after we did to a random "tard" who cuts grass for a living at a funeral home. She's always crying and sending us letters (bitching). She also throws the kids toys away that we buy them. She acts pathetic. If she were actually doing good then we might be surprised, but jealous bitter people act with emotion and not with the brain. I mean she's gonna take his money atleast let him see the kids.

  26. bridg says – reply to this
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    team a-rod cynthia is a bitch is is a bad mother from keeping her kids from there father and no cheating on his wife doesnt not make him a bad father because my parents went through a similar thing but my mother didnt keep me from my father and children should be used as weapons in divorce i think a-rod should get custody

  27. Leave says – reply to this
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    None of us know what we'd do if we found out that our husband cheated on us….repeatedly, and in public!!! Imagine if you were reading about it! I could see myself leaving my kids with someone for a wkend to get away before having a nervous breakdown. BTW: Wasn't it confirmed that Lenny Kravitz wasn't even IN Paris??? She was just using his place. Stop spreading rumors, Perez.

  28. trin says – reply to this
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    The question should not be why she is leaving her 2 1/2 month old with her parents. The question should be if their marriage has been in trouble for over a year, WHY, WHY, WHY did they even have this baby to begin with????? A baby does not make a bad marriage all better, it only adds more stress and makes it worse.

  29. SKB says – reply to this
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    O yea, and from experience, my father cheated on my mother when she was preggers with my sister and he got the other woman pregnant too!! The illegitamet-child (my sister) was given up for adoption and now it is really, really hard to find her and my dad doesn't even care!! So, there's a great example of how a bad husband parlays into a bad dad!! (O, and my mother divorced him!)

  30. virgi says – reply to this
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    to answer your question PEREZ…the type of mother that would leave their child behind just to get away for a bit..is a mother that has been putting up with her husbands crap!…shes not a bad mom …she just needs t oclear her head..if she dosent she will probably end up like Brtiney!…

  31. Dumb! says – reply to this
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    I knew about the kid thing, but I didn't know about the text messages. Madonna the wannabee teenager. Grow up Madge!

  32. off t says – reply to this
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    FYI: it's almost impossible to be a "good father" if one is a "bad husband."

  33. Leila says – reply to this
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    I know another Home wrecking old hag?Don't be hard on Slutyiena she ruined one home not two

  34. Misha says – reply to this
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    Re: ILOVE – Actually surfc has a point, there is a correlation between the two, but it doesn't prove causation. Although A-Rod didn't help his cause by jetting off to see Madonna after his youngest was born…not exactly the actions of a good father.

  35. 35

    Typical trash using the kids as hostages to punish, get a paycheck, etc.
    Shows who the real poor parent is, psychological abuse, and malice of character.

  36. Misha says – reply to this
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    Re: missy – On the flip side of your situation. My ex was a lousy husband, and my kids wishes he would come see them, spend some time with them, call and wish them happy birthday. I think my situation is a lot more common than yours.

  37. Jess says – reply to this
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    I ALWAYS agree with you Perez, but not on this!!! Being a good father means treating your wife with love and respect. Not cheating on her. Kids deserve to be in a 2 parent house-hold.

  38. JACD says – reply to this
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    WHY IS'NT ANYONE HATING ON MADGE!!! SHES THE GRANDMA HERE SHE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER DECADES AGO.TEAM GUY LEAVE THAT SELF ABSORBED KABALA PRACTICING WANNA BE JEWISH HAG SHE IS A ABSOLUTE BITCH!!!ARODS CHEATED SEVERAL TIMES SO WHAT!! MADGE HAS GONAHERPACYPHILAIDS!!!!!! SHE IS A HEALTH RISK AND AS LONG AS THEIR IS TWISTED MEN WHO LIKE SLEEPING WITH GRANDMAS THERE WILL ALWAYS BE THIS THREAT

  39. ImSoC says – reply to this
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    Re: CUTDA – Amen Sista!!! By the way–there should be some type of visitation order b/f she hands over the kids!!! What if he decides not to let HER see them or give them back! It can go both ways. She filed for divorce, next a temporary visitation order should be set in place where the A-hole gets visitations till the divorce is final. It's not like she left the kids with an incompetent adult. She left them in a stable environment. the kids are still to young to know exactly whats going on. If she left them with A-hole who knows who would have been taking care of them–some stripper hoe!!!

  40. 40

    I THINK ASS-ROD IS IN THE CLOSET THAT'S WHY HE WENT TO SEE MADONNA, FOR ADVICE! HIS WIFE SHOULD TAKE HIM FOR EVERYTHING HE'S GOT! ASS-ROD SHOULD HOOK UP WITH HOSE CONSECO!

  41. la ve says – reply to this
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    If he humiliated me publically that many times i would probably do everything in my power to make every aspect of his life miserable.

    being a good father is more than just being nice to your kids. its showing them respect for relationships, family, women, love- and the people you love as well.

    for all those talkin sh*t about his wife think twice about what you would do, and if you wanna say this doesn't make him a bad father…look up his kids in 20 years, i guarantee they're trainwrecks…

  42. YANKS says – reply to this
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    SHE IS NEVER AT ANY GAMES AND THE ONLY GAME SHE SHOWED UP FOR WAS THE ONE RIGHT AFTER THE PICS OF HIM AND THE STRIPPER SURFACED.

    she is an unsupportive bitch and all she is worried about is the rich lifestyle. arod is an ass but you cant blame him IF MY WIFE IS LIVING THE LIFESTYLE SHE IS AND ISNT SERVING THE ACCOUNT (by that i mean serving her husband as he needs it) THEN BY GOD I WILL BE LOOKING FOR BETTER SERVE…
    he has given her a lifestyle her ugly ass would have never had and she couldnt even be a good wife and fuck her husband….

    FROM THE MOUTH OF CHRIS ROCK: she was the first lady well she should have been the first one on her knees….

    FUCK CYNTHIA….TEAM AROD..

  43. d says – reply to this
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    what kind of mother leaves her kids? MOTHER? are you nuts? she didn't leave them in a dumpster, douchebag, she left them with their grandparents. you always attack women first, you totally internalize and disseminate sexist, anti-woman gossip with the way you word things. there is no reason to blame her for anything right now, and by blaming the mother, you are just reinforcing Freudian dogma. Good job asshole. Maybe if you had half a heart, you could see that perhaps she is traumatized and upset right now and realized she needed to get away for a bit to take care of herself and her emotions.

  44. Hello says – reply to this
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    No, she's not 'your fucking soul mate'. Why can't some people differentiate anymore between a soul mate and a booty call?

  45. ASS0 says – reply to this
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    Re: surfc
    YOU SERIOUSLY ARE AN ASSHOLE

  46. LeeLe says – reply to this
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    That is completely wrong of the mother to keep the children away from their father. Totally wrong. And how do these "celebrity" or "affluent" mothers even tear themselves away from their newborns? Good Lord. I have a 3 year old and it's tough for me to even leave her w/ the inlaws for a nearby weekend getaway w/ the hubby! I feel like one of my arms is missing!!

  47. Bad says – reply to this
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    I agree that a good father is good to his family… his whole family!! IF you are not good to the mother of your childrent then, no you are not a good father. Can you still have a relationship with your children, of coarse… but just remember this cheater tore apart his family to have sex with other women then his childrens mother, cause of this his two beautiful daughters will have issues, mark my words!!! My dad did this to my mom and just expected me to be nice to the other woman, i dont think so. I have major trust issues with men and its because of him!

  48. e says – reply to this
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    old news. yawn. mario, this site has been going down hill lately and honestly, you have not had much success with things other than blogging (failed clothing line, anyone?). Time to refocus, perez. ..unless, of course, you've gotten too big for your britches.

  49. wife says – reply to this
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    Re: SKB

    i was a bad wife. I cheated on my husband and i have no remorse for it..does that make me a bad mother…I THINK NOT…UNLESS YOU HAVE KIDS YOU CANT MAKE THAT ASSUMPTION….

  50. tiff says – reply to this
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    ph, ur sounding like a middle class born again christian again.

  51. brook says – reply to this
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    maybe she wont let him see the kids because as in most divorce she wants to get some sort of temp. custody or something so that he cant take the kids and run just like she did. he deserves to be hit hard and for the mean time i think it it just fine that she doesn't allow him to see the kids. why are you knocking her when he is the sleeze ball.

  52. Robin says – reply to this
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    In my experience, depending on the circumstances, a bad husband does make a bad father.

  53. ugh! says – reply to this
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    DISAGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    The best thing that you can do for your kids is love their mother!
    Cheating on your wife DOES make you a bad father!
    I know my dad cheated on my mom. He should have been home with his family instead of off with the other 'women'. And weather or not this Madonna thing is true, from what I understand he has been unfaithful for years with lots of women. The ego these damn athletes have!

  54. Circl says – reply to this
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    When a man screws around on the woman he publicly took vows with and then impregnates, and then expects her to parent his kids 24/7 while he gets his rocks off elsewhere, and then expects her to have them dressed and ready at his convenience when HE wants to see them, then he has a loose grip on reality. Treat the mother of your children with respect, and things might go far better for you. You get back what you give out. Period.

  55. Rico says – reply to this
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    wow, so alot of this stuff is just nasty rumors its blown up to be to crazy my dad & i know a-rod and he is a nice guy as for cynthia she is not this crazy evil bitch people potray her as she is actually a very nice person!

  56. KateM says – reply to this
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    "Just cuz he cheats on you doesn't make him a bad father - just a bad husband!"

    Actually it makes them both bad parents. A-rod cheated on the mother of his children and broke up their family. One day this whole situation will really embarass his children.

  57. Lulu says – reply to this
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    Cheating on ur wife DO MAKE YOU A BAD FATHER. Use your brain.

  58. Leona says – reply to this
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    Uhhhh……. "Ouch. Just cuz he cheats on you doesn't make him a bad father - just a bad husband!" AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! You're an idiot! Yeah, he's a GREEEAT father and role model for his children…

    Why do I even come to your site anymore.. :/

  59. Voila says – reply to this
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    Quelle surprise. This man appears to have no honor. He only honors his own urges, and to hell with his wife and family.

  60. kevi says – reply to this
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    U're a homo, U shouldn't have an opinion on marriage.

  61. WAAAA says – reply to this
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    Re: SKB – WAAAAAAA my father cheated on my mother WAAAAAA i have daddy issues.
    WAAAAAAAA

    OH CRY ME A FUCKIN RIVER….QUIT BLAMING EVERYTHING ON OUR PARENTS WE NEED TO TAKE RESPONBILITY….

  62. 62

    WHEN YOUR IN THIS SITUATION YOU DO EVERYTHING TO HURT THE PERSON THAT HURT YOU-EVEN KEEP THE KIDS AWAY FOR A WHILE-HE HAS TO HURT SOMEHOW-CUZ HE'S JUST LAUGHING AND SMILING ABOUT MADONNA…AND HE'S "MARRIED" WHAT AN ASS-HE DESERVES IT-AND HE WILL PAY$$$$-
    SHE NEEDS TO BE AWAY RIGHT NOW-WHEN YOUR THAT HURT YOU CAN'T THINK STRAIGHT AND YOUR SOO EMOTIONAL …AND YOU CAN'T LET THE KIDS SEE THAT-YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING-SHE NEEDS TIME TO COOL OFF

  63. YeP.. says – reply to this
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    I have to point out the fact that Arod grew up without a father and watched his mom work two jobs to support him and his two siblings. I am sure that, if anything, Arod does NOT want to be an absent father. Cynthia knows this, and is using the kids because she knows that THAT is where she can hit him the hardest. It's disgusting.

  64. feros says – reply to this
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    ok. i think most of us have had enough of this story but i will say this. we dont know the truth. source this source that. who are the f-ing sources? i get it, cynthia is scourned and bitter but if the marriage has been crumbling for over a year now, why did she has another baby? ($$$$) he's stupid for sleeping with anything that moves but she should not use the kids as leverage just because her husband did her wrong. he's in new york and she's in miami. with all the money and the private jet, was it really that hard for her to fly up to new york and have the kids spend some time with daddy. she is trying to make him look horrible (which he already does) in court with all the "evidence" but if she has no proof, it's not real. even her lawyer told her to stop making public statements. she just needs to pipe down and take the high road. so far, arod has been keeping mum. in the eyes of most people he will always be the one they are against but i think we have to look at this full circle. im on no ones side but people, we gotta be logical.

  65. sspoi says – reply to this
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    A father has just as much 'right' to his children as a mother does. If there is no custody order in place, a parent can't 'kidnap' their own children. I feel badly for the children caught in the middle, but I feel little sympathy for women who think it's thrilling and wonderful to snag a sports star and know full well what kind of life these guys lead with all it's tempations, but marry them and have kids with them anyway.

    It wasn't as if he was a struggling nobody when she met and married him, like many wives of celebrities. Those women I feel badly for. The ones who struggled through tough times with their spouses and helped them become stars and then they get dumped.

    I don't feel badly for Mrs. Rod. Running out of the country to Lenny Kravitz's house without your kids doesn't seem like a reasoned response to a troubled marriage, imo.

    I feel badly for the children.

  66. ):-) says – reply to this
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    Cynthia is an nasty bitch! She married A-Rod for money only and everyone knows it. And as far as anyone saying A-Rod is a bad father because he cheated, well there is more proof of that then there is of her cheating on him with Lenny Kravitz. So she is also a bad mother if you go by that rational.

  67. Sue says – reply to this
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