Money Changes Everything
Filed under: Etc.
A will + stepmother + the deceased's biological kids usually equals trouble!
Chris Orbach, the son of late, great Law & Order actor Jerry Orbach has lashed out at his stepmother, claiming in a letter that she manipulated his dad into cutting him and his brother, Tony, out of pop's $10 million estate AND had his dad's eyes "shucked out" on his deathbed.
Keep in mind that the late actor separated from Chris' mother in 1975 - waaay before Orbach's Law & Order success.
Orbach the younger said the following about his stepmother for her decision to donate his father's eyes to the Eye Bank Association of America:
"Having to leave my father's deathbed so that some guy with an ice box could shuck his eyes out while they were fresh still makes me sick and furious to this day."
Orbach's son calls his stepmother, Elaine Cancilla-Orbach, "a double-dealing, lying, scheming, miserable fool" who, with the help of "cut-rate, borscht-belt" lawyers, has "painted [herself] as the beginning and the end of the Jerry Orbach Legacy" and can now "boast about 'never flying coach,' or 'never riding the subway.' "
Chris Orbach's letter to his stepmother was private, but the Post obtained a copy from a source sympathetic to his story.
In an interview, the 39-year old son said he regrets that the matter has become public but stands by his letter. "It's a very melodramatic gesture," he says. " But I no longer saw the sense in maintaining a relationship with Elaine."
Chris and Tony weren't totally left out of the will, though:
"There were trusts set aside for us, but they do not revert to us until Elaine passes away. In the meantime, she can take the interest from the trust and raid the principle if she needs the money. We were told, basically, that it would be nice if there's something there for you, but don't count on it."
He also said that he and his brother signed away rights to contest their dad's will because of the crazy legal costs they would incur to do so.
When contacted, this is what dear stepmom had to say:
"People think 'Law & Order' was our whole life. But there were years of struggle. When I married Jerry, he was in dire straits… We used my savings to pay his alimony and child support. Law & Order" changed everything.
Cancilla-Orbach laughs at the idea she "forced" her husband to do anything. "I manipulated Jerry? I'm 5-foot-2. I'm scared of everybody. Jerry was my hero. He set up his will to protect me. The money that we earned from 'Law & Order' was for our retirement . . . His kids were in his will. And they are in my will, although I'm not sure Chris is going to stay there after this."
She also mentioned that she's paying for the education of Tony Orbach's daughter and recently gave Tony $50,000 as a down payment on a house for him and his wife.
Chris Orbach is not married and has no children.
And what about the claims that she had Jerry's eyes gouged?
"Jerry always said he was so proud that at age 69, he didn't need glasses. He said, 'If I can give anything back, I want to give my eyes. I can't give my liver because I drank too much, and I can't give my lungs because I smoked too much. But I can give my eyes.' So on his deathbed, when they asked if he was an organ donor, I said, 'Take his eyes.' Chris knew nothing of this. He knew nothing of what his father and I discussed for 25 years."
We wonder what's really driving Chris to go after stepmommy?!
[Image via WENN.]




true to that
$ is a an additcion in my opinion
People would do anything for big dollars
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um am i the only one who hates long posts like this???
Lesson to us all:
Get good legal advice and update your will!
Omg, I didn't even know he was dead.
If he hadn't used such horrible language and shat on the cornea donation, I might have some sympathy. But this is a money grab pure and simple. If Jerry didn't leave him any money it was for one reason: he didn't deserve it. Mrs. Ohrbach sounds like a lovely woman and because of the corneal donation one or two people are now able to see. Chris should've kept his fat trap shut.
Re: christinaa – It's only you. The rest of us don't have the attention span of a gnat.
i know chris personally and he's such a great guy. his love for his dad was really strong. having lost a parent myself, it is a very difficult situation. deathbed will scar you for the rest of your life. every detail matters. someone made it more difficult for me to accept my mom's death and i hate them with passion to this day. i completely agree with chris.
chris stay strong.
The 'ol AB Trust. Sucks!
he sounds extremely vengeful.
i tend to side with her…donating your eyes is a personal decision - it belongs to the donator - not his kids. If Jerry wanted to give a gift like that - he certainly can, and as his wife it's her job to have it done after he passed. Same goes for the money. She sounds reasonable enough that she would leave them money. SHE EVEN HAD THEM IN HER WILL!
Re: hyde30 – haha exactly. some people can still read beyond 5 sentences in a row.
If all they need is Elaine "gone" … then just 86 her and the will and trusts revert to the sons.. LOL!!
Re: tess – I've lost a parent too, but I didn't trash my dad's wife. I don't care if it's misplaced grief, he should have mroe respect for the woman his father loved for over 20 years and who appears to trying to do right by the kids.
Donating ones eyes is such a noble thing to do - I don't see why he would contest his father's eyes being used to help someone living to see again; or for the first time. Its an unnerving procedure to think about for a patient (I'm a nurse and have witnessed many families making organ donation decisions) and those who do it have my tremendous respect - especially since my mother is a kidney recipient and I also will be in the future. To deny another a healthy organ when you can donate for is beyond tacky. He has no right to judge his father's or stepmother's decision.
While it's always nice to be remembered, in a Will….it is not mandatory to leave anything to the kids.
Mr. Orbach earned his money, and he was entitled to leave it to whomever he chose. As far as I can see….he did the right thing, by providing for his wife. The kids need to go out, get a job and make their own way in the world….instead of waiting for their parents to die. Personally, I hope that the step-mom spends every penny, before she passes on.
Chris you better start kissing your step mothers ass. Personally I think they built a life together. He didn't have anything when he married her and "they" built what money "they" had and his wife should have everything.
DIJordan said it perfectly. There is such a sense of entitlement. Jerry chose how much, when or if they get anything.
Losing someone close is EXTREMELY hard (I lost 2 in 14 months), but how amazing for a part of them to have lived on by donating an organ. His kid needs to stop be narcissistic and see if for what it is. Perhaps if they waited longer the eyes couldn't be used.
I am probably going to expect the same from my stepdaughters one day. Their mother is a money grubbing whore (10 kids - 7 different dads) who doesn't work, only collects child support. She teaches the kids that gifts are the only way to show love. I had to pay for groceries and alot of the bills when the kids were living with us - now child support is nearly breaking us. If my husband were to die, I would be taken care of and they'd no doubt come knocking on my door with palms open. Chris should be happy to have had a father and known him. Money is not that important. The fact that the other son and granddaughter are being gifted upon shines a little light on the subject that maybe Chris isn't telling the whole truth and maybe he's just a greedy little shit on a smear campaign. Just my $.02
I'm with the stepmom.
Greedy kid. I am a stepmom who has lost all of her savings and retirement when things got tough and child support had to be paid or my husband went to jail. The kids don't know everything parents discuss and decide. His eyes, please! He and she helped someone, and his father is living through someone else. Team Stepmom.
It may just be me, but the stepmother doesn't seem so bad?! I think that she has been more than gracious.