On Life And Such
Hayley from Paramore has been doing a lot of thinking lately and has a few things to get off her chest.
So, what's a gal to do???
Take to her blog of course!
She says:
"disclaimer: i’m not depressed. i’m actually severely happy.
but… i was just thinkin about life. i was thinkin a little about “fame” and “celebrity” (what a great nsync record). this is not about to be some crazy profound thing. you’re not going to get smarter nor will i look much smarter to you after reading this post… i’m just saying, i was thinkin… and i wanted to write about it.
the past year and a half has not been easy or hard. honestly, i can’t remember much of it because it went by too fast for me to understand what was actually going on. it still surprises me when i hear one of our songs on the radio or see a picture of us in a magazine. i still don’t get why the hell someone would care to have one of our signatures on something of theirs haha. on a daily basis, we are asked, if not by a journalist then by a fan, what it feels like to be famous and yet i still draw a blank every time. because, to me, we are just the same. the only true difference between the life we lived before riot and the life we live now is that every little thing. every. insignificant. thing. that we do is cared for in some way. whether it be concern, obsession, hate, a genuine interest or delight… everyone has their opinion and we hear them all at some point. i really don’t mind listening. yes, it can get old. it can be humorous or enraging or just plain sad… nothing changes the fact that there’s always someone out there coming up with new theories about us, new ideas so that they can get a grip or put a handle on who we are. i might sound bitter but actually i’m just a little bit fascinated. i still haven’t really figured out what it means to be known of but not understood in any way shape or form. i could fill a hundred pages of lyrics, poetry, broken thoughts and still never be understood even the slightest. it’s a good thing. i just don’t get it yet.
life has never been so exciting and so wonder-full. the greatest part is not understanding it. not being able to tell what’s next. everyone wants what they can’t have but when i look back on days i thought i wanted something completely different than all of this - i can see how stupid that was. how selfish i was to ever try putting myself in someone else’s story. (neverending stooryyyyy!!! … sorry).
to sum up these scattered thoughts i would like to say this: when we think we know people inside out and we think we know what’s best for them we should try to remember we don’t even know what’s best for ourselves.
love,
hayley"
And there you have it!
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ehh
who is this person??? and what's the point of this???
FIRST! YAY!
I'm actually surprised by how much wisdom she has being that young..
she should be depressed becuz that band absolutely BLOWS
it's just another band/vocalist WITH NO TALENT getting famous becuz of all these EMO pychos needing something to slash their wrists to.
!
@.@
since when was she famous?
eh
I couldn't even finish reading it. The bitch should be euthanized for being a mongoloid.
love them
she's still a homewrecker to me
wow. all these people leaving comments are soooo fucking closed minded. if u actually read it all…its kind of inspirational…and paramore is the shit!
Re: babybleau – me too ._.
who?
I thought Paramore broke up. Damn… I feel slow now.
So did they break up or what??? Lats thing i heard they were canceling tour dates and were telling everyone it wasn't because they were breaking up. And now THIS? What the hell?
Re: katykat12 –
I SO AGREE, HALEY IS VERY SWEET!!!
wow…….. i think to myself like that too… and people think i'm on crack.
thank you!
Paramore haterz fuck off!
you obviously don't know shit about the band or Hayley for that because she's an amazing person unlike many other artist who can give a shit about their fans. She's passionate, open minded and inspirational and loves what she does, all while managing to brush of haterz like some of you and still being herself. And really "KristaPH" emo? wtf you moron grow up! emo is so over rated haha.. ugh! ignorant! Im over it now, peace out bitches!
i stand by what i say about celebs. some people just do things their passionate about just because they love it…not to gain any celebrity from it. the media reads into every little thing that they do and say,… when really there is nothing there to look for. i love sketching and creating designs..i would love to be a fashion designer, but i would rather have some small local boutique than to be be acknowledged by media and have my life swallowed whole and taken away from me. why are we so fascinated with the media and fame?…i can't even answer that for myself…i love paramore's music, one of my favorite groups,but i would never invade their personal space of privacy.
Re: katykat12 – agreed.
JFC. you guys are all asswipes. wtf did Hayley ever do to you?
Well…..
I love the band that shes in and i love there music but i never thought she ever thought like this. What she wrote was what i thought as amazing and her thoughts were written down with such emotion and to me is very inspirational.
And to all those people who think that shes not famous, to some she may not be but that dosen't mean that she cant think like this and write her emotions down like this. She shouldn't be depressed and for someone who can think like this, they won't be depressed.
And not all emos slit thier wrists.
Tom
When i read this… "everyone wants what they can’t have but when i look back on days i thought i wanted something completely different than all of this - i can see how stupid that was. how selfish i was to ever try putting myself in someone else’s story. (neverending stooryyyyy!!! … sorry)."… made me think if in hindsight she regrets being a homewrecker and all…
who knows?!
perez you failed, keep Paramore off your website, this is just really pointless. your stirring up more drama and i know thats your job but seriously? her "blog" ,its not even a blog first of all and 2nd of all get a real life. She has enough problems, and your adding fuel to the fire.
Who are these nobodies?
Why is this bitch talking about fame and celebrity when she's neither?.
Re: KristaPh – Re: KristaPh – ok KristaPh…you are entitled to your opinion, although in my opinion paramore is an incredible band…you can still think what you want. but on the other hand, you need to keep your nasty comments to yourself because more then just emo people listen to them, because i myself am not emo and i LOVE them(as i stated before).
p.s., not all emos slit their wrists.
Perez, let me make my self clear. You might never understand what Hayley was saying in the band's blog post. Why's that? She does not think of herself the same way that many female "celeberites" (a.k.a talentless bimbos, debutards and overglorified cam whores) you hang out with for hours on end. I guess you can't handle the idea of a young talented woman saying smart, introspective things in public. I guess the only female talent you like either is stupid or acts stupid in public for the publicity (yes i'm talking about your good buddy Paris).
And whats wrong with a talented young woman saying smart things about fame? Or the real question is, why does it scare you Perez? Maybe you are worried that the Hollywood party scene/idiot train is going to lose its steam soon and you are going to lose all that you have built up the past few years. Many girls LOVE Hayley because is not like the morons that you elevate on a high pedistal. Next time I say that you have any sort of talent i'll put it in italics, just like what you said about Hayley.
boooring I didn't even read her whole novella of a post
paramore has bood music and songs, people shouldnt judge this band based on the style. LISTEN to it before u judge it.
Re: Anononon –
yeh and how can you people say these horrible things about her….paramore are grammy nominated…they've been on mtv…trl a good few times…RIOT is platinum…she has every right to talk bout FAME and CELEBRITY…where do you ppl get off sayin these stupid things
maybe if ppl stopped being stupidly critical of insignificant things you could give their music a listen and realise theres a reason for their success
Re: Mr.Raccoon – perfectly said mr.raccoon
I'm not really a paramore fan, but I do know that Hayley is a natural talent when it comes to music. Yes, they ARE famous, but maybe just within certain crowds. Anyway, I'm glad she's taking it easy instead of heading down the wrong road like 98,3 of all newborn celebrities. Go Hayley.
ugh im still so angered by all this…..paramore are grammy nominated…along with LOADS more achievements…..she is right to talk about fame and celebrity because paramore are famous and they're celebrities….
i frickin' love paramore! perez, you should be on their case a whole lot more!
real celebrities do not have time to write on their blogs, therebote this chick is nobody.
Re: Dirty old man – I suggest you read mr. raccoons comment before you call her a bitch, cause she is far from a bitch. She's is much more sane and well off than all these other women in the music/hollywood world, get a clue! We need more women like Hayley to be role models for girls out there, someone amazing and humble. And try listening to Paramore's music, maybe you will like them instead of bashing them.
OMGZZZ HDU POST THIS
IMMA EAT YO FACE OFF
she's another shameless nobody who is miserable about her mediocrity
Re: mustachevaginaaaa – ily mustachevaginaaaa..dinner and a movie? we can eat his face together.
i didn't read it….
but i love paramore.
:)
Wow. Paramore is fucking awesome.
The people who don't know them are freaking old people who don't know anything.
Hayley is not a homewrecker.
How is she?
She's an amazing vocalist and Paramore is an amazing band.
And she actually has some depth in her.
Re: not.even. – Do you have any weed?
that's deep! GO PARAMORE!!!! (i wonder after this, if selena gomez would post a blog about "wisdoms") hahaahaahaa…..just saying!
I LOVE HAYLEY!!!!!!! shes my idol! yay hayley
Zzzzz tl;dr
yeah paramore is good. but OTEP is so much better. Otep's words are inspiring and she actually wants to help her fans. just google otep shamaya or otep.
i love the shiz on hayleywilliams.com. she started dating a married guy, got a disgusting new septum ring, published her stepfathers number and sicced her fans on him and on and on. she creates all her own drama. immature, homewrecking, vengeful PUNK who can't sing…
PEREZ!! THIS IS A REAL TRUE BAND WHO WRITES AND PLAYS!!!! WRITE MORE ABOUT THEM BESIDES THOSE NO TALENT BOY BAND JONE-ASSES!!! I LOVE YOU PARAMORE SINCE ALL WE KNOW IS FALLING!!
Thanks for recognizing such a great band on your website Perez! I actually just saw Paramore last weekend in Michigan and they are incredible. I love reading Hailey's blogs, she does have alot of insight for only being 19. And being the same age as her i find her really inspiring. Even if you don't like their music you can't deny their talent. Hailey's voice is amazing live! Can't wait to see them grow and see what they accomplish in the future!
I love Paramore so much, Hayley has a unique idea of fame.
perez, you have no right taking shit from hayley's blog. PLEASE, half the people here don't even know who they are OR care and it just kills it everytime you post stuff about them. just please, don't.
she wrote this for the fans only, not for your fatass to find it and put it up on your site.
Hey how about all you guys shut the fuck up and stop talking shit about an amazing person. Hayley is super talented and awesome. I love her!
Re: abbiesmile – Hooking up with a married man is pretty much the definition of homewrecker.
Wait, what am I supposed to be disgusted by??? I don't get it… Why is it okay for a person like Perez to blog about OTHER PEOPLE AND THEIR LIVES but it's SOOOOO wrong for Hayley to write about HER OWN. I can't believe anyone who read her blog would think that she was some kind of sick self seeking celebrity when she wrote that to the FANS who know the band tries their hardest to not be so "famous". Read her other blogs, retards, see how they're always talking about resisting becoming so big that they lose focus of the people they care the most about—THEIR FANS. That's why I love them.
& Oh yeah, no talent? Please… go to one of their concerts and then tell me otherwise.
blows? homewrecker? no talent?
I would like to say apparently you people don't know paramore as a band and you obviously don't know hayley or any of the band members! what the heck is your problem! hayley is not a homewrecker! did you ever stop to think that maybe that this married man is no longer with his wife and could be going through a divorce?! hayley and this "married man" are obviously happy! I KNOW FOR A FACT THEY ARE! they aren't doing this for the money and you can really tell when you see them live or actually talk to them! emo band?! wow you people really don't know what music is! so just because someone writes songs about how they feel they are all of a sudden labled EMO! duddeee please!! then what do you want people to write about?! sex drugs and killing people or what?! I can't believe people these days all they do is complain! if you think you can do a better job than paramore then let me see you make music like them! and I agree Perez maybe you should really keep her blogs off your damn website! they don't need this time of crap! they aren't drama filled people! they just want to make music and do what they do! AND NO PARAMORE IS NOT BREAKING UP! SO GET THE FUCK OVER IT! and watch 10 years from now they're going to be one of the 10 greatest bands!
Re: Mr.Raccoon
Perez's talent? Oh I know it's… oh no wait…uhhh… ahh.. I know this one….uhmmm.. uhhh…?
Re: WTFJON –
Too bad Hayley was involved with this married man before he and his wife slit up. So she's still a homewrecker.
LOL. funny, I think a lot of these comments are those of the people from paramoremusic community. which is awesome.
Perez readers are clueless little fuckers that need to get whacked in their ugly faces with a giant dick a few times. you little wankers.
That prostitute in the picture looks stupid, so small. Fuckin retarded whore, ridiculous she looks.
i enjoyed! bravo. Paramore is amazing, they work their butts off at shows, and always seem to make time for their fans.
What a stupid prostitute. Just look at this woman - she has the body of a little boy. Must suck to be her, look how fuckin ridiculous she looks like a little fuckin boy she makes me want to vomit. Oh, the music sucks extra hard. They have not a drop of talent
Well you know what YOU PEOPLE are so ignorant and the comments I am reading here are AWFUL I dont care if its your opinion or not. Atleast she has more common sense that most of you on here.
Re: Porn_Mobile_Man – ok, obviously you know nothing about Paramore. first off this isnt a recent picture of Hayley, she has grown up, and has an amazing curvy body, and not a skinny skeleton structure like most other women. And….your an idiot! all of you Perez Hilton worshiperz are dumbfucks with no life, the only reason im even commenting on this good for nothing website is because im taking up for Hayley because dumbasses like you dont have a muthafucking clue about anything. Therefore, you deserve to be dickslaped!!! stupid cunts.
ugh you people make me so fucking mad. Leave her alone. She can sing so well and she writes well and her fucking personal life is none of your business. If she wasn't famous then you wouldn't know what band she was from and you wouldn't give a damn what she did before she sang in a band and if you didn't care then you wouldn't bother fucking responding to this post. So how about you haters just shut the fuck up and turn off the radio if you don't like it.
TWO QUESTIONS:
Who the fuck gives a shit about this bitch?
Who told her she is famous? I've never heard of them/her before (except from Perez a long time ago.) All these stupid EMOS get on my nerves. They need to fall off the face of the earth. Pretty please?
NIIIICE fucking emo haircuts…. LOLz.
On the other hand I can appreciate what she's saying. That sorta makes up for the wack 'dos.
i
paramore is crap.
sounds like everything else on the radio.
She's very wise for a person of her age.
damn that is one deep thought. she is so damn cute, and way smarter than the average teenage rockstar.
i like Paramore but…… W/E
All i Can Say Is That Josh Is Hot
And Hayley Is Just a Skank To me But she has a Good Voice
i love her and her band. i think they are awesome and very inspirational. people should stop talking shit. if you don't like them, don't post about it! why go out of your way to put people down?
Can you briefly state what that blog is all about??
There's too much to read. DDD :
Re: jfizzleizmahhomeboi –
she became successful because she's talented and they're not. that's what she did.
i love you hayley keep singing girl.
.kandrea..
i love hayley!
Hahahaha, Kendra will be FINE after she exits the Playboy life. She's dumb and young and not-so-hot… but that won't stop her from getting money from stupid, rich men that find her attractive! (she's kinda yucky… especially when you factor in her ((((lack of)))) personality… plus that laugh… oh, sweet JEEBUS, that laugh).
Brigette will be fine. Isn't she already married to some unknown dude? She'll probably melt back into her life before Playboy. And Holly? Good lord, she's GORGEOUS and will be so for at least the next 20 years! Some mega-rich dude will fall in love with her and take very, very good care of her (on top of all of the money that Hef will leave her, which should be very nice).
To sum it up, they'll all be fine… except for Hef. He'll be dead before too long. That's not a slam, it's reality! We all die and unfortunately for the coolest-guy-in-the-world (that's Hef) he's reaching the end of his years. What a loss it will be when he's gone! Hef is mortal, just like you and me. WE ALL DIE - Hef will just have had much, much, much more fun than the rest of us by the time he dies. I love you HEF (in a hetero, worshipping-kind-of-way). Enjoy your time with Holly and all the rest while you can. And I hope you have plenty of Kendra-free time ahead of you!
Oh, schnap!!! Posted in the wrong thread!!! This was obviously meant for the Kendra/Hef thread. My apologies. Hayley is a lovely young woman. Although, we are no better or worse for that "blog". Kinda unnecessary.. but she DID warn us about that.
She's a cutie and very nice (yes, I've met her and talked with her).
Re: devotchkate – She is famous but you're too stupid to realize it.
Re: WONDER TWIN – You've been living under a rock. I'm sure you've read many blogs before and you've never questioned the point of that, but when it comes to someone talented, you get stupidly defensive.
Re: KristaPh – You need to acquaint yourself with the definition of emo. You're dumb.
Re: androgyny – That's because you're used to stupid girls who never think and have no integrity. You're an ignorant dumb fuck.
Re: pissy p – You're an idiot.
Re: Debraw – Get over it.
Re: Dirty old man – You're insignificant as shit and not funny.
Re: lexan87 – No attention span.
Re: Midna – They actually do have time to write in their blogs. Celebs have a lot of down time between projects and yes she is famous.
Re: steel4kay – Mediocrity? This is one of the few talented bands who actually write, play, & perform well on stage. And it sounds like the album when it's live. You are clueless.
Re: Porn_Mobile_Man – FUCK YOU loser. Sounds like any other idiot compensating for a small dick, you waste of space.
Re: soplas – The fans do, you moron.
Re: not.even. – You rule.
She is def. a down to earth girl, I had the chance to party it up with the band and she is really nice and sweet! Hope she canalizes all of this into a song..
Re: ShakeNBakeFK –
It's nice that you think you know what's going on in regards to calling "pissy p" and idiot.
Re: ShakeNBakeFK –
hey. thanks for calling me an idiot without any basis for your statement. if knowing more about this situation than you happen to makes me an idiot, so be it. and if i'm an idiot for saying a girl who hooked up with a married man before he even shoved the divorce papers at his wife (while he was on tour!) makes her a homewrecker. fine. but it doesn't make what she did any less real.
Re: KristaPh – Fuck you. Obviously you know nothing about the band. They don't have 'emo' lyrics. Why don't you get a brain before you talk shit about someone. You're so fatuous.
Re: ShakeNBakeFK – I love you for saying that.