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This Makes Us So Sad

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In response to this post we did earlier in the week, we just got this very troubling emails:

Could you please delete our listing from your website, one of our volunteers thought that it might be a good idea to get the word out to people by being on this site , but after seeing the comments that we get and the disgusting stuff that you publish we are asking if you would kindly delete us from this site. Please confirm back to us that you have been able to do this for us. I believe that we just lost a $25,000 grant yesterday from and organization that was about to donate to our cause after they found out that we were on your site. Do you have any way of offsetting this loss for us?!


Paul S. Gilbertson, Co-Founder
CEO/Executive Director

Chris A. Gilbertson, Co-Founder

With Wings and a Halo - R.E.A.C.H. a Child!
(Reading Enjoyment Affects Childhood Happiness!)
866-WW AND AH (992-6324)"

There's just so many things wrong with that.

Our heart was in the right place and then we get an email like that!

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  1. 1

    Pretty soon EVERYONE will send you this type of e-mail!!!!

  2. 2

    OH PEREZ, that is so sad!
    I know your heart is in the right place,
    these people need to GET OVER IT!
    You were trying to help and they get on their
    high horse, give me a break!
    I support you on this Perez,
    your heart is in the right place,
    these people need to GET OVER IT!

  3. 3

    Did you include their e-mail address so WE could fight YOUR battles???

  4. 4

    wow perez..

  5. 5

    It's not you…your intentions were good. But I kind of understand their side. So many of your readers post awful, negative things in their comments. It's too bad…maybe you should disable comments on those types of posts?

  6. 6

    Douches! They should give back all the donations they recieved THANKS to your post. Unfortunately kids will lose but it makes me want to spread the word about the douches that they are! Ungrateful charities suck! This guy probably just wanted to guilt you into sending the $25K!!! Douches!
    :::::::::::::emailing long list of friends:::::::::::

  7. 7

    wowwww are they serious?

  8. 8

    What an ass.

  9. 9

    Maybe you should read their mandate before you post.

  10. 10

    That really sucks, but I hate to say it Perez, you don't exactly have the most loving or thoughtful people looking at your site. I doubt many, if any, people actually donated.

  11. 11

    he needs to learn how to write.

  12. 12

    I found nothing "respectful" about that email. I am so sorry they were such asses. You have a huge heart and they can bite me.

  13. 13

    Don't let their reaction discourage you from continuing to support and provide links to charities. All people, no matter what their vices, can be good and contribute to charities. I am certain if they took a closer look at all their donors, they would see skeletons and questionable morals, but they happily took their money. This was a misguided decision by their CEO. If he truly understood how broad your range was and how many people you reach, he would certainly not have writted the letter. This post is coming from a middle aged mom of two who owns her own business is a practicing Catholic and enjoys giving time and tiding to charitable organizations. Guess he didn't want my money.

  14. 14

    ouch, that buddy is cold

  15. 15

    hey you need to respect their letter…they asked you to take it off….

  16. 16

    That kinda makes sense. An honorable org would not want to be associated with a dirty gossip site. But what's up with them wanting you to offset the loss??

  17. 17

    WELL……………it's the price you pay. You DO have a unique website that doesn't follow a strict code of morals and ethics (like TMZ or People). It's good in the sense that it isn't a prude's site and you actually speak your mind not giving two flying fucks about what others think (got that haters?)….but on the same token, you are taken too seriously either. Can't win 'em all, Mario. Now tell them Andy27 said to tell them to eat your ass!

  18. 18

    That really sucks. :[

  19. 19

    just look at your previous post and you'll see why they dont want to be on this site

  20. 20

    You cost them $25,000 because you're an ass hole. So you keep the post up when they CLEARLY want their organization as far removed from association with you as possible?

    Seriously. What the hell is wrong with you?

  21. Sammy says – reply to this


    OMG you brought attention to their small charity why is that so bad, I know you can be a jerk sometimes but, that is just for entertainment purpose, but, you are a good person Perez, I am very proud of you as a hispanic you do try to show people to also do good, we should all donate some money to this charity in the name of Perez!!!

  22. 22

    you don't even have the heart to say sorry? how poor of you, perez. i think you should delete this and just say sorry..you made them lose 25 thousand dollars..you have made thousands of children unhappy now. how does it make you feel?

  23. 23

    Well unfortunatley Perez, I agree with them. Your heart was in the right place but look at your website. I know that what are you doing is freedom of speech but sometimes you need to let things be.

  24. 24

    check out all those grammatical errors…and he's the "big" guy???????

  25. 25

    I forgot to add, that any organization that would remove a grant from a charity because of savvy marketing on the part of one individual is completely flakey and I wouldn't want their money anyway. Shameful.

  26. 26

    They are lying. Let them prove that they lost the donation. Sounds like a badly run organization trying to cash in.

  27. 27

    do they know they lost that 25,000 grant because of your site? cause without proof, well they're losing traffic to their cause. oh well, too bad for them but mainly too bad for the children who lose out on the potential donations. i know i'm more likely to donate to someone other then them knowing they feel that way.

  28. 28

    Wow! Unf*ckinbelievable! I can't believe them! I had never in my life heard of that organization until you posted about them. Sucks to be them to loose so many people finding out about them because of their stupidity and stuck up attitudes.

  29. 29

    If people truly cared about the cause, they would not change their mind about a $25,000 donation just because the charity was advertised here. This site gets millions of hits. If they CARED about the kids, they would focus ON the kids, period. All the exposure here is a GOOD thing. That Executive Director is an idiot, asking Perez to offset the loss. Good God people are so stupid.

  30. 30

    This site is trashy….don't try and act offended

  31. 31

    pple can be sooooooooooo ungrateful!!!!!!!!!!!

  32. 32

    those ungrateful bastards.

  33. 33

    Oh well, you can't please everyone. Their loss

  34. 34

    So Sad…

  35. 35

    lets face it this is not the cite for chairty ads. I am not even sure why you started doing it in the first place. Unless you were hoping to make yourself and this site more than just "gossip and doodles" in other peoples eyes.

  36. 36

    Sorry Perez. But it's not shocking. Just read the comments. Pervs, freaks, and nasty immature people reign on this site. Sad…..

  37. Bree says – reply to this


    Well Perez, they are right. I hope you take what they said into consideration.

  38. riKa says – reply to this


    dayyum!! Perez shit might be a lil rough, wrong and rude…BUT!!!! if it wasn't for his site to let US know what you are…then we wouldn't have even known of your WORTHWHILE CAUSE!!!! jerks!

  39. Flise says – reply to this


    Is that for real? Or are someone trying to scam you??

  40. 40

    ouch….that's pretty harsh.

  41. 41


  42. 42

    I'd contact the organizations that you feature first and get formal permission to link (perhaps a contract of some sort), to make sure they can't do douch'ish stuff like this.

    Your heart was in the right place. It's weird that they're asking you to offset their grant. Smells fishy to me.

  43. 43

    This is absolutely ridiculous. Hasn't he heard that there's no such thing as bad publicity? You're helping them reach out to an audience they probably wouldn't be able to reach any other way. What an ungrateful snot. My favorite is when he says "Do you have any way of offsetting this loss for us?" as if it's your fault that some idiot decided to retract money. I think some people forget the purpose of starting foundations to help people in need.

  44. 44

    They are just douche heads. Don't worry about them.

    Keep going with your good intentions! :]

  45. dASH says – reply to this


    yet you still leave the ad up for people to look at?

    i dunno… maybe they think this is a great way to get more donations… notice how the guilt of losing a $25k grant is making you feel? hrmm… i hope you've researched this charity extensively, perez!!!

  46. 46

    I think that if the people who award grants make their decision based on the fact that this agency's information is posted on your website INSTEAD of on the merit of the agency, then maybe there is something fundamentally wrong w/ the whole grant process. Jesus people… lighten up.

  47. 47

    What an Asshole . You did nothing wrong but want to help out . I doubt they lost out 25 ,000 , maybe they spoke to HIM and didn't think that he did his job correctly .

    Screw him , You are a very caring person Perez you were doing this from your heart. If he wants to lose out on money then he has to have that on his shoulders every day !

  48. 48

    Will someone second that the picture of Perez on the Perezcast advo looks like he's an ape?

  49. 49

    They should have looked into your site before if they asked for a posting. And there are a lot of better, more essential organizations for children that could do plenty more with that $25,000. Good try, Perez! Not your fault! At least you're adding awareness for the needs of children!

  50. 50

    wow. totally ungrateful.

  51. 51

    heartbreaking. most people who comment just dont know how to behave. who cares if your FIRST too. waste of space! youre idiots.

  52. 52

    You're heart has to be in the right place 100% of the time. If that were the case, you wouldn't be putting cum on celerbrity's faces or insulting the character of others. I completely agree with them. We're all not perfect, but you need to face what you allowed yourself to become. Just like you accept celebrities to dislike you- you should also understand being unwelcomed by charities.

  53. 53

    Re: rrrachowww
    I so agree…
    if they are upset over comments by readers that is.
    I couldn't tell if they were upset about your posts our 'ours'.

  54. 54

    I think that shit about losing a grant sounds like bull. But maybe you SHOULD take the post down? think about it, there are many other organizations that would APPRECIATE your generosity and trying to help. Don't waste your time with those that are ungrateful. We all know you just meant good.

  55. 55

    maybe they read the post below this one and thought "hey its kind of pointless to educate children and teach them that they can do whatever they want if in 30 years they will grew up and be made fun of on this very website!" especially little girls, this is a historic day for women, stop bashing her cause shes a girl and you wish you were one Perez!

  56. 56

    As a person who works for a non-profit foundation, these people should be greatful that their organization is getting the benefit of being out there for so many people.

    and the asshole who kept his $25,000, for something that is unrelated to grantmaking or the mission of the organization, well he's an asshole.

  57. 57

    Not all publicity is good publicity. This website is not one that all organizations would necessarily want to be affiliated with and that's understandable. While your heart was in the right place, maybe you should get permission from organizations you want to help before you put them on your website. That's just common sense.

  58. 58

    You have no heart Perez. Hahahahhahaha! Soon more people will see just how much of an asshole you are.

  59. 59

    well they just lost more money…stupid morons….

  60. 60

    Wow… that's ridiculous.

  61. 61

    Thats ridic! get the volunteers to pay the money if they thought it was a good idea for you to do it!

  62. 62

    Normally, I love to hate you, Perez…but I can't believe the NERVE of this organization!

  63. lilks says – reply to this


    I think you should POST some of the positive feedback you have gotten from other charities. Show them that something good does come out of your posts, even though you get bad with the good.

  64. 64

    Dude that's a bunch of shit! They just want you to donate THAT money. DON'T DO IT!!!

  65. 65

    well you have to realize what kind of crap is on your site sometimes. alot of it untrue. just do as they wish. you may have been trying to be in the right but it doesnt always work out that way.

  66. MoonX says – reply to this


    Perez, you have yourself to blame.

    You have slated babies and children on this website, I think a few of us remember the awful things you have said about Sadie Sandler, the two year old baby of Adam Sandler.

    You doodled white stuff coming out of Maddox's nose. A seven year old.

    I remember when you were on the View and Whoopi called you out on this bullshit. She wanted you to leave the kids alone.

    You are a disgusting excuse for a human being, and these worthwhile causes you highlight don't owe you anything. They have every right to denounce you for everything you stand for.

  67. 67

    maybe u should check before giving organizations "help" they might with good reason not want it from a scumbag like you, which with this one is obviously the case.

    Ps I think they might even have a valid lawsuit against u
    hahahah u fat fuck i hope they take away all ur money so u can only afford ten big macs a day.

    haha its mostly funny cuz ur a morbidly obese pig

  68. 68

    They're butt plugs…Just send them 30,000 dollars so they can feel sad!

  69. USuck says – reply to this


    Although your heart may be in the right place, your glib & misspelled offensive comments, perverted infantile drawings, questionable subject matter, and vacuous focus on sexual preference certainly are not. They are an organization that assists children, and if you were truly intent on supporting their cause, you'd donate to them anonymously. But you won't, will you? You need to save your money for your late night drunken and likely drug-fueled orgies, fat extraction surgeries, lawsuit deflecting lawyers, personal trainer bribes, and ridiculous capital ventures.

  70. 70

    That is really dumb of them. It's not like this is a porn site or something. You get millions of people scrolling over these posts and I'm sure some of them donate. Your heart was in the right place because you WERE doing a good thing. Some people/organizations are just too square I guess. Don't worry about it AT ALL!

    "Lost $25,000" is a joke. They're just trying to make you feel bad or maybe they're just trying to get MORE publicity from you. Well ….job accomplished I guess.

    AND I read the comments under that post….nothing disgusting was even there!

    I agree with rrrachoww about disabling the comments under those posts. But I'm kind of conflicted. Sometimes if its a really good charity, or it's affected someone personally, they like to share their comments. Oh well.

  71. 71


    I've actually been very impressed with you featuring these types of causes every once in a while. You have a huge fan base and get a lot of press, so you'd figure that people would be happy to get the publicity.

    It's not like you're saying anything nasty about these organizations, rather you're just trying to bring awareness to people about them. Sucks that something like this had to happen.

    If that $25,000 donor pulled out because you posted their organization on this site..that says A LOT about the donor. They should be donating for the good of the kids and not care where the publicity is coming from.

  72. 72

    THis is truly sad. I have a doctoral degree and I read your website. I am happily married but enjoy your musings. One of the things that I find truly redeeming about this website is that you DO, in fact, pursue charitable organizations which offset the often unscrupulous comments by certain readers. You, Perez, are the unconcsious mind of every liberal person in this country. God bless and keep up the hard work.

  73. 73

    It sounds to me like they were just looking for someone to blame. Who would pull a large donation because of a posting on a blog? They are so reaching…those founders need to learn some people skills. Maybe it isn't even a real charity and they are just looking for publicity.

  74. 74

    That is a real shame. :(

  75. 75

    Re: Toonkinstein – I know. I understand your heart was in the right place, Perez, but remember, there are still many people who consider this site unsuitable and offensive, topped by the fact that many of your readers are disgusting, vile, hypocritical, immature children who post innappropriate comments all the time. I completely understand why they would want their money reimbursed.

  76. 76

    I heard somewhere that donations for charities go up after you post links on your website…so the foundation lost a single $25,000 donation, but by asking you to delete them, and in such a rude manner, they have lost so much more!!

  77. 77

    thats disgusting. these people couldnt see that you were doing something good. out of all these other "gossip" sites you are one of the only ones that i have seen that promotes good causes. they should be ashamed of themselves. he just wants to make you feel bad. i doubt anyone would pull a grant because of who supports them. thats bs.

    don't worry perez you are doing a good thing, don't worry about them, keep supporting all the causes that you support since they are clearly well off. jerks.

    when people need help you take help from whoever you can. a charity has NO right to be choosy and turning away people that are fighting for their cause. i think everyone should write that douche a letter and tell him what a peice of shit he really is.

  78. Steak says – reply to this


    Yeah perez, you heart may have ben in the right place but you d**k was in some fags ass and his fist was in yours. Maybe if everything wasn't so flaming on this site and your political bias not so obvious then you wouldn't get e-mails like that.

  79. 79

    THATS SO RETARDED. perez is amazing and no one should be so rude. ew shit heads.

  80. 80

    An option is to disable the posts for your charities you write about. Some people are cruel, Perez. I don't think you put charities on here for people to make fun of them. I think disabling the posts would definitely help. Just a thought….

  81. 81

    "…one of our volunteers thought that it might be a good idea to get the word out to people by being on this site…"

    well then maybe that CEO should have checked out and authorized the site himself instead of relying on word of mouth from one of their volunteers. He should be asking for the $25,000 from the volunteer who suggested Perez's site, NOT Perez Hilton!

  82. 82

    I thought you did get permission before posting those? It should have been common sense for you to confirm with these charities before posting on their behalf. It is a very fine line these charities walk and yes, someone like you posting on their behalf can damage their reputation. These posters do not understand how long it takes to set up something like that and how strict the rules are that govern them. Having worked with charities I can assure you that most of your readers comments lack common sense and only lead you in the wrong direction.

    It is a nice thing that you do in helping these charities but please in the future make sure it is ok with them, because yes, you can hurt the very causes you are trying to stand up for.

  83. 83

    wow. there are serious issues in the world and they shouldn't be denied financial help simply because some people don't have a sense of humor. shame on the organization that refused the grant over something so petty!!

  84. 84

    Shame on them!

  85. 85

    First of all, I am disgusted and repulsed that they were abhorred by your site. Dont their sources check these things out first??? Secondly they wanted to know if you could offset their cost for having lost a precious grant. Maybe they should hire better grant writers. Dont you dare give that greedy, self righteous nonprofit a single dime. Let them get it from their rich, right wing folk. They are a joke.

  86. 86

    Don't give them a cent. Did they not look at this site before they requested you post their information? This is totally their fault and there is nothing you did wrong.

  87. 87

    Re: Nathaniel – It's called a publicity stunt

  88. 88

    That's BS. You were just trying to help which is awesome bcz too many people in this world dont anymore. Plus, in the e-mail he states "one of our volunteers thought that it might be a good idea to get the word out to people by being on this site". So obviously they sought out being on the site so they should have checked it out before hand. Not getting the 25000$ grant is not your fault or your responsibility.

  89. 89

    I would be surprised if anybody stopped a donation because of them being on this site. And their letter is in poor taste and poorly written and NOT respectful. Are you sure that letter is even from them? And it is their fault for allowing the staffer to have posted here. Your site is what it is and was that way before someone in their org. chose to post here. THEY made the mistake if perezhilton.com doesn't fit with their "brand" image. I'd suggest you just erase any mention of them from your site. We have a lot of good charity options out there beyond their group. One's that actually have a sense of humor and that treat ALL people respectfully.

  90. 90

    IDIOTS, stuff yourself

  91. 91

    Hey Perez, I sent that douche an email… here's what it says:

    You know, Perez Hilton was trying to do a nice thing by putting your site on his and asking people to donate their money. He does it once daily with a different site each time, and no one else has ever complained. I usually donate a fund to each charity he puts up, but after seeing the message you sent to him asking him to remove your site, I have decided against this, as well as many other people I know. You are supposed to be helping children by getting donations, but then you ask that your site be removed so that young people CAN'T see you and won't donate… that makes absolutly no sense to me. That's fine, the next charity that allows Perez Hilton to put them on their site, i'll be more than happy to donate too. Good day.

  92. 92

    It kinda disgusts me that somebody would decide against giving $25,000 to a good cause because it is on this site. It shouldn't matter where the charity is being advertised, what should matter is that the money is going to a good place. I can see the side of the person writing the email, because they lost money because of it… but I can't see the side of the person that took away the grant.

  93. 93

    ok, call me a cynical stretched out old bitch, but that just sounds like a creative way to scam you out of 25K.

  94. 94

    They don't deserve the 25K, obviously.

  95. 95

    that's pathetic on their part. i love u perez

  96. vix says – reply to this


    Unfortunately, I can see why they wouldn't want to be associated with your website, even if you mean well. It puts them in a difficult place. I'm sure they'd appreciate more recognition but by what association? I mean, wasn't there some kind of porn star for jesus thing a few years back? They don't really go hand in hand

  97. 97

    Re: kiki_tatu – that is probably a really good idea

  98. 98

    Wow. These Gilbertson yahoos sound fishy! I do NOT believe any reasonable potential donor would withhold a donation to their organization because they were listed on Perezhilton.com, and any legitimate organization would be thrilled at the publicity you offer. Sounds like they are trying to shake you down, Perez, or at least guilt-trip you into sending them money. It's sad and rather disgusting.
    Love you, Perez. you are a light in this world.

  99. 99

    No surprise what with your political propaganda.

  100. 100

    really unbelievably lame.

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