Is saMAN a Self-Loathing Lesbian?
Filed under: Lindsay Lohan > Gay Gay Gay > saMAN Ronson
Despite saMAN's obvious affections for LezLo and her recent MySpace Sarah Palin rant, the DJ turned down an offer to spin at a benefit to save West Village's lesbian institution Rubyfruit.
The 15-year-old bar was named after Rita Mae Brown's Rubyfruit Jungle. Serving as a lesbian landmark in New York, Rubyfruit has hosted the likes of dykon Martina Navratilova and Tammy Lynn Michaels, who later declared her commitment to Melissa Etheridge.
Recently, however, escalating rent and declining business threatened to shut the place down. A wealthy benefactor came to the bar's rescue and it will close temporarily for remodeling and reopening as the RF Lounge.
saMAN would have DJed at the opening benefit party.
Owner Debra Fiero said that plans were running smoothly with saMAN until the DJ learned that the Rubyfruit is a gay and lesbian bar. Then she reportedly dropped out because she doesn't do "those kinds of venues."
Oh, we see - "those kinds."
saMAN's spokesman, Brandon Phelps, claims otherwise, saying that they were never approached by the bar.
Denial seems to be a running theme with saMAN, especially considering her "friendship" with LezLo.




"I'll make him an offer She can't refuse."
BOO!
…nah. Just a homely one.
that is so funny a lezbo turning down a lesbian bar c'mon
YOUR FUCKING SITE IS TOO FUCKING SLOW PEREZ!!!!
i don't get it….why not?
I hate her pretend ass. What a piece of chickdirt he is.
I hate to say it, but I tend to believe Samantha on this one. Even if she did not want to do it, why would she say she doesn't do those kind of venues when she could simply claim another commitment? Doesn't make sense. She is smart enough to know that she would be quoted if she said something so stupid, so I am guessing this is complete bullshit.
The fact that she is so obviously annorexic shows that she is somewhat self-loathing. Also the fact that she always mugs for the camera making the false tough face, and phony gang signs shows that she is not comfortable in her own skin. It's no wonder that she doesn't like gay bars, she hates herself, she is gay, therefore she hates "Gay".
ARENT THEY ALL?
She turned it down because she doesnt wanna be outted.. if she played there everyone would be like OH SHE'S A LESBIAN 100000% FOR SURE SINCE SHES AT A LESBIAN BAR BENEFIT! … not like she didn't already out herself but w/e
Now, I know
gay people
and I like gay
people very much,
but this is no gay person.
Just a money grubbing whore.
By "those kinds" of venues she means anything named after a food . . . she doesn't have anything to do with food so she can keep her corpsely figure.
She's the butch Marc Anthony dontchaknow.
yes!
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P Nasty I know you hate her, but this is s stretch. I've never heard of her doing a set at a many different kinds of places, so if she doesn't do gay bars (and incidentally, I am a HUGE Rita Mae Brown fan, anyone reading this, go get any one of her books, you will not be sorry) or date bars that doesn't mean she is ambivalent about her sexuality. Besides, there is no way to know what happened, the story from the owner of the bar and from Ms Ronson's rep don't line up, so I suspect miscommunication about this whole thing.
SLOWWWWWWWW!
Re: Spindoc –
Very astute observations. I had never noticed before, but you are so right. She needs a therapist, not a gig.
Boo that guy! Err….girl?
She doesn't need to be because we all hate her.
Re: LettyB –
What have you done with my baby, you fukard?
I don't care if you are the Godfather or what, I'm going to kill you.
Re: LettyB – you're so right! the site sucks today!
AWWWWHHHHhhhh… protecting her LEZLO… and to injure a bar of her MANly kind. WHat a disgrace. I like lesbians, don't get mE wrong… Apparently SAwoMAN has some sort of big ugly stick stuck in her vagina.
And making up lies/rumors is a running theme for you. I tend to believe Sam on this.
She looks like Johnny Lee Miller in that picture.
Also, you didn't provide a link to these so called comments which makes the story even more unbelievable.
I hate lesbians too!
Re: The Warden – Why the HELL not? WHy wouldn't she want to be known as a lesbian DJ and be proud? The only problem here is that LiLo is concerned and shE hasn't come out yet like a coward, and a she's a paranoid idiot… (must get it from her mother).
You know Honey, I don't blame SaMan . I perform as a female Drag Queen in SF and feel more comfortable with the Gays and the Cool Fun Females.
Being in a gig with with more of a lesbian crowd that I don't really know makes me feel a little uncomfortable as I feel they will not get my stuff and I find myself having to hold back on my wild antics that I would normally do in front of my peeps. So yeah, I think twice before booking at 'Those Kinds' of gigs. Plus I don't want them to consider booking me because 'I'm just one of the girls'.
I joke that me and my girlfriend are not Lesbians since we do have a sense of humor, constantly surrounded by gay boys, love musicals and like it up the butt.
turn that frown upside down, if she's going for masculine she's embracing the the ugly side of the male psyche!
Re: "The Warden – She's a business woman who caters to a diverse audience"
WOW, so diverse that it does not include lesbians?
Stupid story, the only self hating gay here is Perez, self hating and gay hating. Last week you printed her blog where she slagged off Palin cause she was anti gay and now she wont do those type of clubs? Bullshit. Why do you have to act like a homophobe when it comes to these girls, reporting made up shit and your saMANtha joke aint funny no more. Give them a break and stop being a gay hater. Prick
Re: JokerBaby – LOL! I HAD TO SEND HIM FOR GANGSTA' TRAINING HE'LL BE BACK SOON!
She/He is soooo freakin FUGLY, Dirty Nasty looking skank!
She always looks like she hasn't showered in days.
God she is so annoying. I really can't stand her or Lezlo. The club probably weren't willing to pay extra for Lilo to turn up, that seems to be the deal when you hire her.
That is one unattractive "female".
She should have been happy that people still want to pay her to DJ, because she really sucks at it….but anyhoo it is obvious that she is a lesbian but unfortunately maybe she doesn’t want that to define her…
Why are you so hating on Samantha?
Ok. I'm going to assume that there is more going on at Rubyfruit then just it being a gay bar that's making her turn it down. Maybe management did something she didn't like or insulted her in some way. If that's the case, then it wouldn't matter who the bar was for in the first place.
But if it is about it being a gay bar… honestly, any lesbian would know by the name alone that it's a gay bar in 2 seconds flat. Rubyfruit Jungle is like, Lesbian Lit 101, right there with On Our Backs and The Well of Loneliness. How can you possibly miss that? It's just short of the entrance being a giant labia.
Why does she always make that ugly face!
Give me a break. Someone seeking diversity doesn't say things like "doesn't do those kinds of venues", unless of course it's a Klan rally or something. If that's what she really said, that is simply insulting, and it would be for any type of venue to hear something like that. She's lucky there is any demand for her at all. I wouldn't want to see that sullen face anywhere near a good time.
Michael's latest Daddy Dearest rant
on his website contains the following:
.
“There is a lot more to Samantha
than meets the eye!
“Not that what we see is
soooo pleasing anyway!
.
“I mean, what’s with this 'person'?
Look at the way she 'dresses'.
Once more, she uses her middle finger
more than she uses words.
“Personally, I think she is dark,
hideous and a disgusting
representation of humanity!”
.
He continued:
“Have you ever seen Samantha’s apartment?
For God’s sake, when she runs out of
toilet paper she tells people to use the
cardboard roll. I was told this first hand.
“I heard and know more about Samantha
than you can imagine.
Yet, while I haven’t exposed her,
I know that God will."
“He will weed her out of Lindsay’s life
and at that time, you will finally see
Lindsay back in the place in her heart
and mind that God wants and she belongs.
“Hopefully, without Samantha causing
more damage than she already has.”
actually they dont keep denying anything and they actually admitted they were together yesturday perez. and you'd know that if you were any good at your "job". but your obv not.
That bitch is so damn fug! Always with that stupid ugly ass face. You're a stupid ass ugly cunt saMAN!
Maybe she is not gay.
that's one ugly dude girl.
dam shes ugly
samantha looks like jughead from archie comics here…anyone read those when they were a kid?!
Well… That makes sense to me, she doesn´t want to be taken as a "lesbian icon" or be related to all of those events just because she is one of the few openly gay famous person, she wants to be taken as a DJ. I know i don´t know samantha ronson but i think is a logical way to see it, i think this is silly.
Kinda reminds me of Cris Angel
Re: Megsmith –
Now that you mention it would be really, REALLY weird to imagine her with a guy. She is a lesbian for sure, nobody can deny it.
why does she always have to give "FACE" like that. she tries to be so hard core. i mean really we all get it…u likethe Vah Jay Jay ok its great taste like chicken OK we get it but damn..smile ..i mean really you knockin boots with Lindsey hello u should be smiling everyday…ugh perez help her please…lol
Just cuz she's a lezzy doesn't mean she has to support every damn carpet munching group.
Maybe the place was for lipstick lesbians and not the butch kind like her.
Please stop writing about this nobody. I come onto this website to read about real celebrities, not gutter-trash wannabe's like this bitch.
EWWWWWWW SOMEONE NEEDS TO HELP THIS BITCH OUT WITH A MAKEOVER! AND EXTENSIONS…NO NO THAT WONT HELP SHES HOPELESS
maybe she doesn't want to be seen as a lesbian that hangs out at all gay bars because she wants to be the one to always be where it's cool for everyone. I'm here in Vancouver Canada- I'm a straight person that loves to go and hang atgay bars, straight bars- anywhere…I love lesbian bars because most times the women are just really nice and down-to-earth. I go to a lot of the "young crowd" gay bars and the people are snotty and rude to you if you are straight. If people want equality, we all need to hang together and not care what the other person does, or who they choose to love.
At the same time, if she actually said she doesn't do "those types of venues" that's just kinda rude. I can understand if she is just making a stand against segregation- but that would perhaps be a little too much of a "read in" on my part.
I guess we'll only know by what she says about it.
maybe she just doesn't support segregation? i'm not aware of any straight bars…
saMAN is a piece of crap, i totally think she's just after Lindsay's money. She would still be a no name if they weren't dating!
MR BEAN!!! SHE LOOKS LIKE MR BEAN IN THIS PIC!!! HAAAAAA
Separated at birth, her and Herman Munster, or Lurch
SEPARATED AT BIRTH
MALYKII from ~Children of the Corn~
MALYKII, MALYKII, MALYKII
Samanface is hideous looking, what a skank
thats sum fucked up shit!