R.I.P.

Choi Jin-sil, a South Korean actress fondly nicknamed "The Nation's Actress," was found dead Thursday of an apparent suicide. She was 40 years old.
Sad.
The actress, who made her debut in 1980 as a pretty young ingenue, had been plagued with depression since her wildly publicized divorce from baseball star Cho Sung-min. She often worried about the upbringing of their two children. Additionally, she couldn't escape harsh internet rumors regarding her financial situation.
A month ago, Choi was scandalized when actor Ahn Jae-hwan, to whom she had lent money, was found dead in his car of a suicide as well. Though Choi was never charged in the case, rumors flared, exacerbating her depression.
She hanged herself in her bathroom, after returning home drunk, according to reports.
No suicide note has been found, although the day before her death, she texted her makeup assistant with such ominous messages as "take care of (my) children no matter what happens." An autopsy is scheduled for later today and an investigation is in motion.
Our thoughts and condolences go out to Choi's family and friends.
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an autopsy?
she was found hanging from the ceiling…
what's the point?
RIP
A woman who wasn't smart with her money, but on the last page…….
So, now, Perez will of course be MORE CAREFUL when spreading HATRED here against some celebs such as Lindsay and Britney?
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"take care of my kids" What a DUMBASS!
wow
but harry, it was HIS FAULT!!!
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"had been plagued with depression since her wildly publicized divorce from baseball star Cho Sung-min"
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damn men!!
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perez, tsk tsk.
GRAMMAR
she HUNG herself.
where's mama??
thats terrible.
AND SHE HAD 2 CHILDREN!!! THAT was incredibly selfsih of her.
ppl who commet suicde are selfish, inconsiderate people.
i am sad for her children.
My First Ammendment rights are being violated on here today.
also, where's krazzzzzzikellie bitch girl?
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harry….what did you do with her?
Re: wanna milk me?? – IT'S MADATORY JUST IN CASE SHE USED DRUGS OR WAS DRUGGED!
Her kids…I hope they are okay.
Re: harrybalsac –
that ain't the only thing that's gonna be violated
when i am done
Re: torrrieB – I AGREE, BUT I COULD NEVER SAY I HAVE BEEN THAT DEPRESSED SO WHAT DO WE KNOW!
Re: wanna milk me?? – Yes, we are the root of all evil with our pointy devil dick!
Sad.
Ohhhh I smell Starbuckz coffee. Yum!
Re: wanna milk me?? – And us WHITE DEVILS are the WORST!
fresh
what a horrible thing to do to her children!!!
FUCK!
Re: torrrieB –
you can't say that…..like lettyb said, you don't know what torture is going on in their head
Re: harrybalsac – WTF!
…where were her friends or did she feel so isolated and alone. fucking sad as hell…
VERY SAD. Please dont do this people. Seek help. Seek family or someone who can help you…
REFRESH!
Re: wanna milk me?? – Am I going to get Cow poked?
Perez- advice from one writer to another, check your grammer and your word choice, "hanged" is not a word–the word is hung. you are on top of your game otherwise so why not make sure your writing is as well?
where are my comments going?
sad indeed…
Re: harrybalsac –
cow poked, donkey punched and anything else that has to
do with an animal!!
Re: LettyB – Re: wanna milk me?? –
i know, just from my own expriance, i think its a very selfish act
Why do people do that when they have children? One or many moments of despair don't account for a good enough reason to scar your kids for life.
Hope the kids have a good fucking therapist!!!
SELFISH!!!!
Re: wanna milk me?? – She could have been knocked out and hung!
dont borrow from loan sharks!
For those who are curious to see her work…Check out the K-movie 'The Letter.' Hollywood recently made or maybe drew inspiration from it stars Gerard Butler and Hillary Swank "P.S. I Love You."
As a expecting mother, my heart truly sincerely goes out to her children..they're so young (5 & 7).
Not too familiar with a lot of K-culture stuff but I WAS def familiar with Choi Jin Shil…I think some people can compare her to Meg Ryan when everyone viewed her as "America's sweetheart" at the height of her career.
My favorite movie of hers was the one where Choi played a abused adopted daughter trying to find her roots…forgot the name but it was such a powerful movie. Especially when she teaches her child how to play a very popular korean folk song on the piano when she isn't familiar with the korean language herself…very moving. I saw this movie only once and that was over a decade ago…and I still haven't forgotten it. Amazing.
I hope she finds comfort and peace wherever she may be.
She will be missed.
Sad
Re: jaimbaby –
Right, Jaimbaby! My English really gets messed up and damaged on this website!!!
QUOTE: "…Perez- advice from one writer to another, check your grammer and your word choice, "hanged" is not a word–the word is hung. you are on top of your game otherwise so why not make sure your writing is as well?
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this is so weird….i grew up watching her…she was really talented actress, so sad.
Whoooo?
xoxo, Isa
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trully sad - at 40 yrs old i would think she was equipped to handle her stresses. even sadder for her kids, as they will never know why. i will never get why people with kids do this…once you have children you no longer have just a responsibility to yourself but also the life you created, that relies on you above all others…i just hope the korean paparazzi pigs leave them alone….
Re: torrrieB – SORRY TO HEAR THAT!
Slow news day?
i was just talking to a korean today about this tragedy! how sad. gossip mongering really does hurt people (and i need to stop).
Aw, she's pretty.. sad news
Re: its_a_new_gen – Movie is called 'Susan Brink's Arirang.'
What a horrible situation. I know some people just can't handle a lot of stress as well as others, and this is a perfect example. So sad.
But on the bright side, Korean women age really well *beams with pride*
oh man. too bad she couldnt get help to get herself out of that situation. i think people that comit suicide are selfish!!! dam all she did was mentally fuck her poor two kids for life now. theyre always gonna wonder why their mom didnt like them enough…..poor babies
Re: torrrieB – omg lol i didnt even read what you wrote til now lol but we wrote basically the same thing
How horribly sad…the children left behind are the ones who will now suffer
I found this online regarding hanged or hung:
ere is one of the many questions I've received recently:
I was reading a story in the paper and the writer wrote "He hanged himself." My coworkers and I thought it should be, "He hung himself." Are we all wrong or is the journalist?
Here is my answer:
I'm sorry to report that you are wrong, not the journalist. Pictures can be hung, but people are always hanged. It's an odd quirk of the English language. Here is a usage note on the word "hang" from the American Heritage Dictionary:
Hanged, as a past tense and a past participle of hang, is used in the sense of "to put to death by hanging," as in Frontier courts hanged many a prisoner after a summary trial. A majority of the Usage Panel objects to hung used in this sense. In all other senses of the word, hung is the preferred form as past tense and past participle, as in I hung my child's picture above my desk.
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It is so sad when people choose to end their lives. I understand that it can be so tough on someone that they don't see any other option, but I don't see how they can just leave their children like that. I hope her kids are going to be given the privacy they need and I wish that she hadn't been so depressed over a man. I know it's easy to get depressed from a guy, but I wish she could've come out of that. How sad.
"She HANGED herself in the bathroom…."??????
UM isn't it gramatically correct to say "She HUNG herself in the bathroom"
Perez by chance, do you read ALLKPOP?
Anyone married to a pro baseballer really should have their head examined! I know about baseballers so my sympathy is with this woman.
Any mother who worried about the upbringing of her children would NEVER kill herself.
i had a neighbor hang herself when her kids were in the house- seslfish bitch- i hope this chick's kids werent there…
it's 'hanged' you gen-X illiterate morons….
Re: perezisallthatandabagofchips – no dear, it's hanged. look it up.
Re: Bavaria – a writer huh? have i seen any of your work? maybe you should go back to school for a while. maybe then you will learn that hanged IS a word and was used correctly in this report.
omg i remember her when i was young!!! i used to watch her on tv when i was in korea……. =( =( =( korea's suicide rate is too high!
Very sad. My condolences.
That's sad…depression is a terrible disease. My heart goes out to her family.
Poor children have to live with the fact the mommy did not give a fuck about them enough to be with them. So she kills herself and says fuck my kids they dont need me. Sad.
Re: perezisallthatandabagofchips –
tsk tsk you need to learn proper grammar before critiquing someone else's… hanged = death by hanging and hung is to hang a picture.
Dear Choi family & friends,
I am very sad to hear about your loss. I am sending prayers and positive thoughts to your family.
Please don't ever think that the reason she chose to go the way she did was any fault of yours.
It wasn't.
She was obviously very depressed and nobody could have foreseen this end. Nobody.
A loved one's death by suicide is devestating.
I wish you all the best in dealing with your loss.
Again, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Sincerely,
Polly M.
I know she was a talented and adorable actress who divorced and won sole custody of her two sons awhile back. She even got her son's last name changed to her maiden. Does this sound like a mother who was ready to take her life? No, she fought hard, she got her life back and career just recently. I think all of those who are judging her should we don't know exactly why she was hurting and what brought her to take her own life. Thank for the story perez!
BTW, people are HANGED and pictures are HUNG.
It is extremely sad. She was a lovely woman and I feel for her children. They should definitely do an autopsy, because it could have been foul play. She was a small woman and could have been killed and hung. Remember that poor actress from "Waitress"????????
Re: Furby the fucker –
When people are as deeply depressed as she obviously was, you don't think about it that way.
You think about "how much better everyone else will be w/out me, how much of a fuck up you've been (even if that's not even true)", and you truely believe this. And it hurts sooo bad inside just feeling this way every day.
That is why we have anti-depressants, medications to stabilize mood, etc…
Believe me, I've been to the edge and back.
And here is where I wanna stay.
Polly
I am trying to understand all of the inhumane comments saying that she is "selfish"…
Pray…and I mean, get on your damn hands and knees and pray…that you are never plunged into the depths of depression where the only thing that brings peace is death…
Obviously, this woman was not in her right mind…
But then, I forgot…the obvious isn't so obvious to most folks…
Which is why the U.S. has the President it currently has, and all the fucked up baggage that went with that…
omg!! she was soo famous..noo..TT
PEREZ SPELLED THE WORD RIGHT. IT IS HANGED. Go look it up.
And second, I have a mother who attempted suicide when I was 16. If it weren't for my father finding her she would have died. She has severe depression and anxiety and is on disability. She told me she wants to kill herself all the time, and it really upsets me. However, I don't think it's selfish and I don't hate her for the way she feels. People who say suicide is selfish need to realize that it's a mentally and physically disabling disease that CANNOT be controlled. Please take that into consideration. Just because was wealthy doesn't mean she doesn't deserve to be depressed. People with depression cannot control themselves and negative things affect them with 100x more emotional intensity than a normally functioning person.
Re: Lala11_7 –
AMEN
Re: jaimbaby –
A person is hanged; an object is hung. Also, jaimbaby, please learn to spell "grammar" correctly.
Re: Lala11_7 –
Lala11_7 FOR PRESIDENT!!!
Honey, you are one of a handful of "sane" fuckers on this board.
Peace & Love…
Pillow
Turn it into a movie!!!!
Please get your facts straight before posting something like this. She didn't lend him the money… Rumors like this are what killed her. She fought depression for many years after a violent relationship and messy divorce with her ex-husband. The rumors following Ahn Jae Hwan's death pushed her over the edge. Please be careful when posting things about celebs from now on… these things can end someone's life.
Re: sparkys nemesis – LOL I dated a minor leaguer. Oh he dated me and every town he had a game in. Haha
Re: jaimbaby – maybe you should rethink your profession as a writer…hanged is a proper term referring to death by hanging…let's wear our thinking caps today eh?
Those poor children. I can't imagine being so depressed I'd off myself and leave my kids. They're scarred for life.
Re: torrrieB – You need to learn more about depression. Its not about someone not thinking of their familiy. These people are litterally so misrable they think the world would be better off without them. It is a serious disease and when it is not treated it can lead to suicide. A lot of cultures don't believe in mental health care, ie. drugs. so she probably went years untreated
omg i grew up watching this women! her poor children~!
People suicide is NEVER the answer. please talk to someone. that helps a lot. one of my sisters friend hung himself also in his basement. they dont understand how bad it hurts everyone else. dont be selfish. if your having a hard time. look towards your future things DO change.
SO SAD. She looked so beautiful, and I do feel for the children. My thoughts and prayers to her and the family.
That is so sad. She was such a great actress. I loved her films… ;_;
"She often worried about the upbringing of their two children."
Stupid selfish bitch! Now what about your children! What a horrible thing to do to them.
My goodness, this is so sad. She must have really been suffering from depression. I feel so sorry for her children!
Those who take their own lives are not selfish. You will never be able to understand what is going on in their mind. My brother died in May of this year the same way. I miss him everyday and will continue to do so, but I realize that it was too hard to continue to live life for others. Depression is a horrible thing and I suggest if you're dealing with it to get help as soon as possible…don't wait. God bless this woman's children and the rest of her family.
"Hanged" is the correct term. Good on you for proper grammar, Perez.
i'm amazed that u know her.. anyway she was a great actress ..R.I.P
R.I.P., Korea's Actress, CJS, and Koreans will appreciate Perez for his tribute to her tragic death.
Re: Dana1963 – That's rather too painfully obvious…
JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP AND SHOW SOME RESPECT TO DEAD PERSON!! U bitches are such idiots
She was an actress???? What a boring finale to her life and fans. If I were gonna commit suicide, which I NEVER would because I love myself too much, I would at least make my last performance memorable, like blowing my brains out in a crowded Wal-Mart on a saturday afternoon to a spellbound audience of fat housewives in motorized wheelchairs, screaming children and ghetto fabulous hipsters. That way the whole world could see it on you-tube from the security camera tapes.
harsh internet rumours hey?
GOD WHAT HAPPENED?
i don't know who she is but i think britney
should have done this a long time ago!!!!
AGREE OR DISAGREE?
poor unnie…
Oh wow, this is sad. It must be really hard for the kids to understand.
awwwww
i feel sorry for her family
she wasn't in the right state of mind
that's so sad…