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"Sex addiction on the rise, from pop culture to Wall Street"
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Sex addiction on the rise, from pop culture to Wall Street
David Duchovny just checked out of sex-addiction rehab, and his lawyer says treatment was a success. But while the "Californication" star is doing better, the problem may be getting worse here in New York.
Local sex therapists are seeing an increase in patients from the finance field, and a link between the dipping Dow and bad behavior.
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Psychotherapist Jonathan Alpert reports a jump in sex-addicted men at his Manhattan practice in the past six months.
"Since early spring, maybe late winter, there's just been an increase, and I believe it might have something to do with the economy," he says. "A lot of the Wall Streeters use sex as a way to cope with stress. Bankers do tend to rely on pretty unhealthy ways of coping with stress - drugs, sex.
"A lot of them will use adult services," Alpert adds. "Some of them come right out and say, 'I'm stressed. This is how I deal with it. It's not the worst thing in the world. I'm not using drugs.' But when it starts to increase, then it's a problem."
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According to Alpert, many of these men consider going to an Asian massage parlor during their lunch break normal. "The service received may include being masturbated or even oral sex," he says. "This has increased, as reported by several of my clients. Instead of going once a week, maybe they're going three or four times a week. And these are married men.
"I'm also seeing clients who utilize escort services, visit S&M parlors and strip bars almost nightly," he adds. "With the sex addict, where there's a risk and danger, there's often a rush. This temporarily satisfies their craving."
According to Jodi Conway, a sex addiction specialist based in New Jersey, stress from the struggling financial markets is the kind of trigger that leads addicts to resort to "maladaptive coping mechanisms."
"I've had a few guys that have come in from Wall Street, and I have brokers that have offices out here in New Jersey," she says. "A couple have been caught through work, or on their at-work laptops, exchanging e-mails or looking at pornography, which is something that's part of that sexual addictive behavior.
"I've had two people [in finance] that have been referred to me in the last two or three weeks that have gotten in trouble at work because of that," she adds.
Most sex addicts have experienced some type of trauma in childhood, such as sexual or emotional abuse, according to Conway. "This becomes a way of dealing with their families, by numbing their feelings, as all addictions do," she explains.
A new movie and book on the topic, combined with Duchovny's admission to being a sex addict in August, has brought the issue into the spotlight.
Sam Rockwell stars as a sex-obsessed con artist who even seduces his mom's doctor in the recently released movie "Choke." And that character has nothing on Susan Cheever, the 65-year-old upper East Side author who counts her mom's oncologist among her conquests. In her memoir "Desire: Where Sex Meets Addiction," released Tuesday, she explores "the question of where does passion end and addiction begin."
In "Desire," Cheever writes that unlike with alcohol and drug problems, obsession with sex is often applauded and embraced.
"It's hidden because we think it's great," she says. "The more proposals a woman has, the more lovers she has, the better, and it's even more true with men. We're in the very slow process of waking up to the facts of addiction, that it has nothing to do with will power and that it requires treatment. We realized it first with alcoholism, then with eating disorders, and we may soon realize it with sex."
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The frequency and intensity of the behavior increases.
There's a significant impact on the person's life. "It has affected relationships, career, health, finances, and that's true with a lot of addictions," Alpert explains.
Lying. "There are a lot of lies that go along with sexual addiction," Conway says. "They just compound with more lies, and people can forget what they're even lying about."
Continuing the behavior when the addicts have a lot to lose. "Part of them is obviously aware of the great risk, but they continue despite that," says Alpert.
Compulsive behaviors. "Even someone who is looking at pornography for four or five hours a day, when they're doing this every day, they're missing out on other things," Conway says.
Failed attempts to stop the behavior. "A person saying, I'm not going to do this anymore, this is the last time [and not following through]," says Conway.
Problems at work. "I've had people come in as a result of being caught at work looking at pornography online, e-mails from women or prostitutes, escort services that they're viewing," Conway says.































































what the fuck perez…..like i am going to read all of that.
la la la la
I'm addicted to sex.
holy shit that was long.
Re: Melissa is always right – lol
me too!!!
milk and cookies
It's because all media, all television shows, most songs all have heavily mentioned sex. Plus with all the bad things for us, how are we supposed to escape? SEX!!!!
Well at least people are getting some and if they have a problem, they're asking for help. I don't need the help because I'm not getting any! At least not on a regular basis!
He's sexy,
but he
must be
infested by
so many
STDz…
I still love him.
John McCain
is going to change
coal/wood into a
liquid fuel and create
thousands of jobs.
we love you.
Re: wanna milk me?? –
Word! How am I supposed to read all THAT when I'm at work?
sex.
I wouldn't fuck him, but I would twist his fucking nipples off and
shitfuk him with a hand drill if he gets off that fucking much over
sex. I'm sure his twisted ass would love it.
Why are the only good looking Latin women are from South America? The "island" girls (P.R. & D.R.) are always so nasty and broken down looking?
MY RABBIT BROKE!
Re: Melissa is always right – Re: mama of 2 – I have the cure.
sex is goooood
Perez and everyone this is not that funny. This has destroyed many homes… I help those that have addictions and this is a major one for many, many boys.
he's gross
was he getting paid whores or
looking at porn on-line???
Re: Big Black Dick –
i need it too. make a dil outta your big black dick
Re: Big Black Dick – lol
i'm sure you do.
and it's big and black huh!!!???
I am a proud sex addict!! I admit it and I have no issues with it whatsoever. It's fun
sex addiction isnt perverted. its just as serious as alcoholism or any other addiction. youve been pissing me off lately perez. did you guys know he makes 100,000 dollars a month and he bitches about celebrities not giving enough money to charity. pony it up greedy little twat.
Re: Sal – and you are obviously frigid.
Re: Melissa is always right – right on girl!
Germany s TV station n24 just reported that Madonna s speaker announced her divorce from Guy Ritchie…We Germans are FASTER than PEREZ - again!
This is such bull. Like my grandmother used to say…. "its just lack of shame"
Re: Big Black Dick – would it be….a big black dick? lol
Are those titis that David is sporting? ewwww
People are really eff'ed up. If you're caught looking at porn at work, you should immediately be fired. I can guarantee you that there's 10 people standing behind you who want your job and who won't be looking at porn while at work. If your husband is being "serviced" at lunch, dump him. He's not worth it…no class, no respect, not to mention the ick factor and potential STD risk to you.
jeez, does everything have to be a "disease" these days? Face it…it's not on the rise. More perverts and cheaters are just claiming they have it when they get caught red handed (pun intended). You're a dirty old perv…not a sex addict. My god, people are so lame!
I've had a crush on David Duchovny for forever, and was living in the same city for awhile (Vancouver BC) and was always joking about running in to him and having mad sex!
OMG! It REALLY could of happened! lmao!!
Now I'm sad it didn't….
Re: Bavaria –
…and also not very modest.
Why does David's right arm
have so much more muscles than
his left arm?
(TEE HEE,
cause he's a porn addict!)
How did Tia find out David
was a porn addict?
She looked on his computer
and found his triple XXX Files!
.
Also, she got a clue the night
David was eating Cheetos
while watching internet porn…
it's not that their pervs, it's a legitimate addiction.
they don't ask to be addicted to sex, clearly.
In this economy, OF COURSE it's on the rise. Who can afford booze and cigarettes? It's free (in most cases, anyway)–and you get some exercise to boot.
David Duchovny is so hot.
Re: Pea Brain – Actually, no, sex addicts and sexual compulsives have quite a lot of shame, which then feeds back into the overwhelming desire to block it out with more of the sexy bad times. That's the worst part of being hooked on sex - whether it's a "disease" or not. It robs joy and real sexiness from sex and intimacy and turns it into an endless cycle of desperate need until the addict/compulsive wakes up or hits bottom or whatever.