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In response to the sudden, violent, and tragic loss of her son, Jennifer Hudson's sister, Julia, has taken to her public MySpace to express her grief.

Her words are painful to read and a reminder to live life to the fullest, always letting your loved ones know how much you care about them.

I GUESS IT'S TIME TO UPDATE THIS WHEN I STARTED MY MYSPACE ALL OF THE ABOVE WAS TRUE , NOW BECAUSE I CHOSE TO DO WHAT WAS NATURAL TO ME AND LOVE SOMEONE , IT COST ME MY BEAUTIFUL FAMILY MY WONDERFUL BEAUTIFUL LOVING SUPPORTING MOTHER DARNELL, MY TRUE BLUE BABY BROTHER JASON , I LOVE U BIG BABY …

AND LAST BUT NEVER NOT LEAST MY ONLY SON JULIAN , MY INNOCENT BABY ONE THAT WAS SHELTERED FROM ALL THE EVIL OIN THE WORLD BECAUSE WE LOVED HIM SO MUCH… BUT THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR LOVING SUPPORT, I KNOW SOME OF YAL HAVE YOUR OPINIONS AND YOU ARE ENTITLED TO THAT , LIKE WHY IS SHE LOGGING ON TO MYSPACE AT A TIME LIKE THIS , LET ME TELL YOU WHY I WAS HOPING THAT , THAT WAS A WAY TO MAYBE HELP ME GET MY SON, MY BABY THE ONE I CARRIED UNDER MY HEART FOR 8 1/2 MONTHS THE SON IT TOOK ME 21 HOURS OF LABOR TO BRING HERE THE SON I GREW TO KNOW AND LOVE FOR JUST A FEW MONTHS OVER 7 YEARS THATS WHY …

AND NOW FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ACTUALLY CARED THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT , THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS , THANK YOU FOR POSTING HIS PICTURE ON YOUR PAGES AS YOUR DEFAULT PICTURE THANK YOU… BUT HIS LIL SOUL IS AT EASE, I TAKE COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT JULIAN IS WITH MY MOTHER AND MY BROTHER AND MOST OF ALL THE LORD AND NOW HE'S MY ANGEL HE'S PROTECTING ME…

We wish the Hudson family the best during these tearful and trying times.

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153 comments to “Julia Hudson Speaks On The Tragic Death Of Her Son”

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  1. 1

    My heart goes out to you and your family, Julia!!!!



  2. 2

    First!



  3. 3

    That's so sad, it's ripping my heart out. The entire family will be in my prayers tonight.



  4. 4

    This is just so, so sad. That poor mother.



  5. 5

    :(



  6. 6

    this lady has my deapest sympathys.
    i know how she feels.



  7. 7

    God give that family the strength to get through this ordeal.



  8. 8

    May they all RIP :( Love support and prayers to the Hudson family!



  9. 9

    rip to her family members
    im keeping the hudson family in my thoughts and prayers



  10. 10

    This whole thing is heartbreaking. To ruthlessly kill someone is horrible. To murder TWO people is even worse…but three people, one of which was an INNOCENT CHILD….unforgivable.



  11. 11

    That poor woman. No matter what people say, no one ever deserves to lose their child. God, I hope she finds some peace.



  12. 12

    Let's all send our prayers and best wishes to the surviving Hudson siblings. God bless and keep you.



  13. 13

    This is so sad…:'(



  14. 14

    bummer



  15. 15

    hella sad! My condolences to the family!!



  16. 16

    I'm sorry, but visiting MySpace at a time like this is completely innapropriate and shows why she probably wasn't a good mother! She looks hella ghetto anyway, I bet Jennifer Hudson is totally embarrassed by her now that she's a rich/famous/Oscar winner.



  17. 17

    so sad. Nothing like this should EVER happen to anyone, whether they are 1 or 100..
    may julian, darnell and jason rest in peace.
    and pray for jennifer and the rest of her family to help get them through this time.



  18. 18

    that fucking hurts. just tragic.



  19. 19

    it's disturbing that also on her myspace is a survey where to the question: who will go to jail first? she answers WILLIAM….



  20. 20

    This is still so crazy to me. Way to sad, I actually started crying last night when I found out, its just heartbreaking.



  21. 21

    And I just have to add a couple other things: 1) Hooked on Phonics might work for her and 2) why is the only picture they have of that obese child from a restaurant?



  22. 22

    So sad…



  23. 23

    This is so sad it brings tears to my eyes. My own dear cousin was tragically shot and killed this year for no reason at all. He was just walking home from the store and got shot, he was never involved in any criminal activity. My heart and prayers are with this family! They will need a lot of strength and support…



  24. 24

    to lose a mother, a brother, and an innocent, beautiful boy, all at once, no less….i hope that god gives them the strength and courage to get through this.
    r.i.p.



  25. 25

    my heart and prayers go out to the surviving family members! what a tragedy this is! stay strong julia and jennifer. God will provide you both answers in time :)



  26. 26

    This is so heartbreaking. I can't even imagine what the Hudson family is going though.



  27. 27

    :( this whole thing is heartbreaking



  28. 28

    Geez what do you say to something like this? I truly hope they find the strength to be able to continue in their lives paths one day at a time…As Julia said, I believe those 3 souls are together and with God…May they R.I.P. and may God Bless Jennifer & Julia and the rest of their family!



  29. 29

    chicago is soo ghetto



  30. 30

    Re: SoCalSkippy – Who the FUCK are you to judge her you dumb piece of shit?? My cousingwas killed this year by some dumb ass lowlife gangsters and you know what?? My cousin's sister and I were on myspace for the exact same reason this lady is- Looking for any type of clue or HOPING someone will reach out to you with some information- You know NOTHING about this so keep your ignorant DUMB ass mouth shut. Because you have no idea what it feels like when detectives have little or not enough information and you love your dead family memeber so much that you're willing to go on myspace, go door to door, pass flyers, light vigils and do whatever the hell you can to get justice, the way me and my family did. AND GUESS WHAT? It worked, we helped the detectives find the killer, so the next time you decide to open your stupid mouth and judge someone going through such a horrendous situation stop and think about it.



  31. 31

    THIS TRAGEDY IS THE RESULT OF OUR GUN-VIOLENT CRAZY CULTURE!!!America have 38.000 murders in a year.WERTERN EUROPE=4.100!!!!!!!!!!AND THEY HAVE A BIGGER POPULATION.ENGLAND 1 Homicide per 100.000.U.S.A=12 homicides per 100.000.So thats why i hate this country and those violent worshipers that live here.thats why i HATE rap and hip -hop gloryfing guns and murders.Eminem puts in his album a guy getting killed by a gun and everybody thinks hes the best artist since DaVinci.the greatest MC alive.what the Fck????????????i cant stand this anymore.only people that suffered some kind of violence knows what im saying.my thoughts are with Jennifer and Julia!!!

  32. sushi says – reply to this


    32

    I hope this is a lesson to all of the women who align themselves with criminals. It is a tragedy for the child. I have a hard time scraping up sympathy to a woman who subjected their kid to being around a violent criminal.



  33. 33

    Re: SoCalSkippy – Not nice.



  34. 34

    I read your sight everyday Perez, and I rarely leave comments. I am just compelled to. This has to be one of the saddest things I have read. My heart goes out to this family. They're in my prayers now and forever. God bless them.



  35. 35

    this is the way kneegroes live. get over it. they dont value life, so dont waste your energy feeling sorry for them. just sayin



  36. 36

    *excuse my typos, but that comment just got my blood pumping!!*

  37. KLNJD says – reply to this


    37

    I hope the person or persons pay deeply. Senseless is all I can say.



  38. 38

    I don't know why this women only knew her son for a couple months of his seven years but it's apparent she should have never been allowed to have him back if in fact she didn't have custody of him. What do you think will happen when you introduce a felon and attempted murder into your family. I feel so bad for Jennifer, her mother, brother and nephew but this women is responsible for the poor judgement she had when she brought this awful man into their lives. I also think it's horrible that she posts this stupid blog yet pics of this man are all over her page and she still has him as her friend. I don't feel that sorry for her just everyone else in her life.



  39. 39

    Re: onlyme – This women isn't on myspace looking for answers the answer was in her house cause she brought him there. Your family was innocent this women is not, I would never bring a felon around my family or children.

  40. sushi says – reply to this


    40

    Re: honey97431 – I agree with you honey. It's really disgusting isn't it?



  41. 41

    WHY WOULD SHE DO THIS ON A MYSPACE BLOG OF ALL PLACES??????????????
    she just lost her Mother, Brother, and Son….
    doesn't make sense…unless she want's to get on talk shows and shit..



  42. 42

    Re: SoCalSkippy – agree



  43. 43

    Oh wow, if that doesn't tug at your heart strings then you have no soul. I can't imagine losing your mother, brother, and most of all your little son all at the same time. No one deserves this kind of pain. This makes no sense, none at all. Our world will self-implode if we don't find a way to stop all this violence. My prayers go out to the entire Hudson family as they work their way through this journey of sorrow.



  44. 44

    Hahahahahaha, praying didn't get your mother very far, did it? Yeah, we'll keep praying for you and your ghetto-trash family. Maybe your god will take you next.



  45. 45

    I can't even imagine what she is going through. I have a 7 year old and a 5 year old and I couldn't imagine losing them. My thoughts and prayers are with their family.



  46. 46

    Re: honey97431 – yup…i agree…and I'm NOT in any way saying this Chigaco Gangster who killed the Brother, Mother and Son over a Vehicle should get off (in fact he should be sent to a Texan jail and fried) but the Mother Julia taking to MYSPACE of all places so soon, or at all?????
    doesn't make any sense…



  47. 47

    so did she only have custody of him for "a few months"?

  48. ethel says – reply to this


    48

    Re: honey97431
    What she meant was her son was a few months older than 7.



  49. 49

    As a mother my heart ACHES for this woman & her sister…I can't imagine how horriffic it would be to lose your entire family in 1 foul swoop….God bless them!!!

  50. k-lee says – reply to this


    50

    I had chills reading that. That was heartbreaking. I wish I can personally hug her. I'm so, so sorry for the Hudson family.



  51. 51

    everytime i read more about this story i honestly think im going to cry, its just horrific that such things happen in this world. My thoughts are with the whole family at this hard time.



  52. 52

    Re: SoCalSkippy – jeez you are evil.and its mean because its funny.this kind of thing can happen to everyone.show some respect motherfucker….and be careful of KARMA.NO ONE ESCAPE FROM KARMA.Life is a bitch so watch your mouth.

  53. k'la says – reply to this


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    Re: honey97431

    you've misread…she said she knew him a few months over 7 years, meaning he was a little over 7 years old, but not 8 years old. she did NOT only know her son for a few months…come on now! they lived together. she raised her son.

    and for all of those who are worried about her logging into myspace, you don't know what and why she was on there. you can't tell this lady how she's suppose to react and what she's suppose to do. you don't know if logging into her myspace was her way of coping. seems like everybody wants her to just sit there and think over and over again about how her mother, brother, and son were all brutally killed. maybe she wanted to log on b/c she knew she had some support from friends who left her comments. who knows? i don't, and none of you do either. you make it seem like she was on there as if nothing happened. how many of us can say that as soon as something happens with us, we're quick to inform facebook and myspace through our statuses, i know i have…granted this is a tragic event, but maybe she just wanted to let everybody know how she was feeling, just like we blog about everything else. bottom line, we don't know her situation, so the whole myspace situation shouldn't be an issue right now.



  54. 54

    Re: SoCalSkippy – Just some lame skank looking for attention…everyone should ignore this comment.

    My heart goes out to Julia and her family..may God be with them.



  55. 55

    Re: gravytoot – OMG!ARE U PEOPLE HAVE MENTAL PROBLEMS?



  56. 56

    JULIA YOU ADN YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS
    IM VERY SORRY I CRIED WHEN I HEARD THE TERRIBLE NEWS



  57. 57

    Why does she still have him on her myspace is what I want to know… she can get up on Myspace and post a fucking blog, but can't remove pictures of the man accused of killing her family??? Something wrong with that…



  58. 58

    Re: SoCalSkippy – go fuck yourself asshole



  59. 59

    Re: honey97431 – YOURE NOT PERFECT TO JUDGE SOMEONE.SO SHUT THE FCK UP.



  60. 60

    God Bless this Family, my thoughts and prayers are with them.



  61. 61

    Re: SoCalSkippy – Because she is on myspace shows she is not a good mother? Wow, can you actually feel the shit you have for brains in there?



  62. 62

    Re: SoCalSkippy

    yeah ur sounding like scum, so i'm just gonna pretend that you're not like that for real.

    1) If she's from the ghetto, so be it. She lost 3 family members due to another family member all in the same week.
    2) Excuse her grammer, she just lost 3 family members due to another family member all in the same week.
    3) The family were using their myspace pages to get the word out on the missing little boy.
    4) They used that picture of the boy because that was the last time anyone had seen him.
    5) I heard Wal-Mart sells common sense cheaper than Target. You might wanna swing by.



  63. 63

    I don't know why so many people are judging her for going on myspace after her tragic loss. I'm not saying I would, but who knows what someone finds comfort in? I can't imagine her pain and only wish her comfort and peace–if she finds that in a blog–so be it. It's healthier than drinking it away or something self destructive–which isn't uncommon for many to do in heartache.



  64. 64

    my heart goes out to that entire family! i am so sorry julia and jennifer!



  65. 65

    Re: honey97431 – Honey re read the blog AND then post she said "just a few months OVER 7 years"…meaning he just had his 7th birthday a few months ago….geesh!

  66. sushi says – reply to this


    66

    Re: Julianne – And you're a dipshit. If you think subjecting your kid to a violent gangster is a great thing, fuck off.



  67. 67

    Re: honey97431 – again girl you need to get your facts straight!!! They hadn't lived together in a long time…dude can't you read?



  68. 68

    I mean no disrespect to Jennifer, but who brought this idiot into their lives? Julia did!!! It wasn't like this guy was a good influence by any means….he has and had a record that extends longer than my arm and then you look into his family, dad is a murderer, brother in jail for drugs and the idiot himself just got out for attempted murder…PLEASE!!!! She has no one to blame but herself to bring this low life into her family!!! You don't hear anything about the actual father of the little boy, who knows he might have been sitting in jail with her idiot husband. I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR HER AT ALL! SHE MIGHT AS WELL OF BEEN PULLING THE TRIGGER! Who the hell goes on myspace after losing a child to post comments….FUCK HER, JUST ANOTHER PIECE OF SHIT!!! SHE SHOULD BURN IN HELL!!!



  69. 69

    Re: omgggg – how does posting on myspace get you on a talk show? as much as i've posted on my myspace, I should have my own talk show!

  70. k-lee says – reply to this


    70

    Re: gravytoot

    You are disgusting. You wouldn't say that if it was your family who got brutally killed, you idiot.



  71. 71

    Re: SoCalSkippy – Wow - you're disgusting! That little boy has just been murdered, and one of your major concerns is that the photo of him is taken in a restuarant?



  72. 72

    Re: gravytoot – I was just about to comment your cute default when I read the comment and saw how trailer trash you were…..ewww hope something really bad happens to you today…hey think of me when it does k? smootches

  73. Sgirl says – reply to this


    73

    Wow, gotta love all you Obama supporters on here. Do you even realize Barrack is an Illinois Senator? What the hell is this man doing to help situations like this? Shouldn't you be asking him questions like that? Is this really a person you want as a leader? Balfour was let go on drug charges while on parole!!!!! Why??? Most likely because the jails are overcrowded because they don't have the money to keep all these animals caged. This could have totally been prevented had he been sent back to prison. Why don't you ask your fake Obama what the fuck he intends to do about this problem in America? Why don't you ask your fake Obama why he has spent his entire campaign worrying about bailing out greedy bank execs and greedy insurrance execs? Why don't you ask him how he can have fundraisers raising money for his fake agenda when this shit goes on? What a waste. How pathetic our society is that they would vote for a man just because he is black. Disgusting. Be careful what you wish for people and be careful who you vote for. THis is our future. This man could give a shit about his own state and you think he can run a country? How disgusting. There is a dead 7 year old little boy - shot in the head for godsake - for what????



  74. 74

    Re: machinegunbaby – he hasn't been accused of killing her family so what are you talking about? If you knew what was going on you would know that William Balfour was arrested on Friday night and someone parked the car with the boy's body in it on Saturday so he either he is innocent or had an accomplice



  75. 75

    Another dagger through her heart. My gut wrenches at the thought of what she is going through. I can't imagine and my eyes well up just thinking about this awful tragedy.



  76. 76

    what a strong woman. it should not have been this way



  77. 77

    if i had just lost my child, and my mother, and my brother…my myspace would be the last thing on my mind…and don't get me started on what i think of her comments about her son on myspace…

  78. AMO says – reply to this


    78

    Re: honey97431 – Well said.



  79. 79

    thats 3 less ppl my tax dollars will have to feed



  80. 80

    It's not natural to stay around a person with that track record.

  81. sushi says – reply to this


    81

    Re: LusciousLiz – No one can understand what the fuck she's writing about.



  82. 82

    Re: SoCalSkippy
    The only one acting Hella ghetto is you! Why do you give a fuck if someone post on myspace! your completely inapropriate. Dumb HO!



  83. 83

    Re: honey97431 – First and foremost I want to say that I feel extremely sorry for anyone whose life ends too soon. I also feel sorry for anyone who loved that person. It ends up feeling like their own life was lost. I can't imagine losing a child. Now that being said I can't imagine not knowing or loving my child the way a mother should. I know what you mean. Why did she only know him a few months? Did she pick a criminal over her own son? By not removing pics and profiles of that guy it obviously shows what she feels. If I was going to Myspace it I wouldn't be able to look at him. He would be lucky to have been caught alive for this. She knew who did it and she doesn't even want to say she knows who did it…. Wonder why? I feel bad for Jennifer and not because she is a celeb(I didn't really know about her), but because her sisters stupidity&ignorance wiped out her entire family.



  84. 84

    Re: sushi – I'm someone & I can understand just fine…what are you talking about?



  85. 85

    This is so sad.
    My heart goes out to her and the rest of the family.
    RIP



  86. 86

    Re: SoCalSkippy
    Your a real piece of shit SoCal calling a murdered child obese What the fuck!



  87. 87

    Re: Sgirl
    Well said Sgirl!



  88. 88

    Ok I get it, but whether or not she knew or son the whole time he was alive doesn't change my opinion. If your going to take the time to get on myspace and write a blog then why would you change your pic from one of yourself to another of yourself (smiling none the less) and why wouldn't you want to delete all those bastards pics off of there. She still has him as her friend and there are pics of him all over her page. I don't care if she hasn't "lived with him in awhile" she never should have brought that man into their lives. When we have children it's our job to protect them and I think it is child endangerment to bring a convicted felon into the life of your child. I feel sorry for her son, not her. Would you invite a pedophile into your home? I think not so why invite an attempted murderer with a long criminal history.



  89. 89

    Re: LusciousLiz – I can read and I don't give a shit if they hadn't lived together in awhile she was stupid for dating someone like that.



  90. 90

    As a society, we shoulder some of the blame every time an incident like this takes place. We refuse to truly address issues of poverty, gun control, and inequality within our own nations, but continue to ship billions overseas to illegal wars and international relief. The education system is broken and nobody wants their tax $ to go toward fixing it. Even the perpetrator of this crime never stood a chance as another poster stated that he came from a family of criminals. I's sure when he was 10 and asked what he wanted to be when he grew up, he didn't think, "Hmmm, I think I'll be a drunken murderer." Ppl aren't born onto a level playing field. Until that changes, tragedies similar to this will continue to be perpetrated at an alarming rate. We live what we learn. I am saddened for the mother, the family, and the community. I am even sad for the little boy this murderer once was.



  91. 91

    So sad.



  92. 92

    So sad. My heart aches for her.



  93. 93

    Re: honey97431 – you're right. her lack of judgment brought a felon around her family. may the three victims rest in peace. this is awful. that child was alone, he died alone. my heart is breaking for him.



  94. 94

    Re: SoCalSkippy – Are You Kidding me?????

    What Gives you the right to criticize this woman & what she is feeling??

    You Must be Insane!!

  95. maysa says – reply to this


    95

    Re: honey97431 – yeesh you pay close attention to girl's myspace.



  96. 96

    I cry everytime I think about it. This is just so sad!



  97. 97

    Re: honey97431 – I love it when dumb-dumbs like you pass judgement on others, it makes me laugh.



  98. 98

    Re: honey97431 – That I agree with…I would never in a million years bring someone like that into my home kids or no kids



  99. 99

    This is so sad, and such a tragedy !! My heart goes out to her, and yet, I know that no matter what I say, it won't make it better for her. The loss of family is a horrible thing to endure, but the loss of your own child, it's indescribable !! And to lose 3 at the same time. This is something that will never be forgotten, and to the asshole who did it, may he rot in Hell forever !!



  100. 100

    Re: WKNDBIKERIDER – 68 Since you don't know anything about the boy's father why make such nasty assumptions about him? As of Friday, he was not in jail, but rather outside of the Hudson home awaiting news of his child's whereabouts. My condolences go out to the Hudson family and Julian's paternal family. It makes no sense to point fingers at this point as it will not undo what has been done. Just let it serve as another cautionary tale for women to be hyper vigilant about the men they allow into their lives and expose their loved ones to. All you have to do is read some of the vile comments about this post to realize how many psychos are out there.

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