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Oprah's Message To Rihanna!

Filed under: Rihanna > Oprah Winfrey

"If a man hits you once, he WILL hit you again."

Check it out above!

Hopefully RiRi will listen.

245 comments to “Oprah's Message To Rihanna!”

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  1. 1

    amen!

  2. Cajo says – reply to this


    2

    I find it all very weird Rihanna and Chris Brown something doesnt sound right why are they back together , she really must be sm only can be lol to be honest i dont if i should feel sorry for her or what



  3. 3

    I have a feeling Rihanna doesn't want Oprah up in her business, but it's true.



  4. 4

    Thank you Oprah. Those are very true words! If a man is abusive once, he'll do it again, no matter how much he tries to change!



  5. 5

    Maybe she likes being knocked about.



  6. 6

    Thank God Oprah said this. I hope she listens!

    I mean, if Oprah gives you advice and you don't take it, then you must be an idiot.



  7. 7

    Rihanna has co-dependency issues and oprah is an old fat hag! I can't stand oprah and her flabby culo



  8. 8

    Leave it to Oprah to tell it as it is!



  9. 9

    You TELL HER O!!!



  10. 10

    Rihanna is an awesome person, but I think she is blind-sighted by this whole thing. It's like she's saying oh yah he did it, but its ok I forgive him and we're getting back together. She needs to open her eyes and see if he did this once he will most likely do it again.



  11. 11

    Ahhh yes ,the Big O and her sage wisdom.Too bad the young people who really need to hear you don't watch your show or even care what you have to say



  12. 12

    I doubt even the big O can get thru to her. RIP Rhianna.



  13. 13

    Oprah is right!



  14. 14

    If she is really back together with him, he'll smack her upside the head eventually and I won't feel sorry for her. She's an idiot.



  15. 15

    amen oprah. amen.



  16. 16

    Yeah Mark, spoken like a true idiot!



  17. 17

    i feel for rihanna. if i was in that situation i would probably go back. its really hard to leave someone that easy when you have invested that much time into it. its really easy to say leave rihanna . but most woman in her case usually don;t. i hope she has the strenght one day. all people can do now is support her



  18. 18

    why does Oprah feel the need to talk about everything. if people really want to help Rihanna they should try to do it in another way, like write her a letter or call her. don't go on your show and talk about it for the whole world to see. a lot of the celebrities who are talking about it are only doing it for the attention, and it takes away from those who really want to help her. and i don't agree with the "If a man hits you once, he WILL hit you again" that is not always true. sure men actually changing is rare, but it does happen.



  19. 19

    Her face wasn't even completely healed before she took his dumb ass back. I can only believe she likes getting roughed up. I know some women hate it when people say this but that has to be the reason why. She either likes drama and getting her face fucked up or Chris has some kind of hold on her.
    And Oprah the H is silent



  20. 20

    Oprah is one to talk she's an admitted drug, sex and food addict. She needs to mind her own damn business and worry about trimming the fat off her ass. Gail is a bitch who's riding Oprahs coat tails. Tyler Perry is a big closet queen and I don't know who those two other people are.



  21. 21

    Steadman needs to Ike her fat ass!



  22. 22

    it's very simple chris has a huge dick!!!!!



  23. 23

    couldn't agree more. If the man hit u once he will hit u again. Com'on RiRi leave his A$$. There are a bunch of men out there who will worship u!!!!



  24. 24

    JoJoStar its funny how you can say that o has to mind her own business, while everyone that blogs about Rihanna business soo freely. maybe you should mind your own business and stop commenting on peoples lives then….piss off



  25. 25

    Love is blind…i hope nothing TOO bad (like death) happens in Rihanna's future



  26. 26

    its CAROTID ARTERY!



  27. 27

    preach it oprah

    she knows all about shit like this

    also, imagine if he had killed her, i doubt he has even thought about that or cared

    DON'T FORGET his weak apology. This whole thing is still pissing me off!



  28. 28

    god,where would we be without oprah?!
    you tell it like it is girl yeah ;)



  29. 29

    Why are people so worried about Rihanna? She's probably somewhere laying up with Chris having sex and laughing at you fools. She's still with him so it must not be a big deal for her. The country is going to hell and you jokers are worried about Chris Brown and Rihanna. Fat Mario is being paid to help dumb down America.



  30. 30

    Chris should be charged with ATTEMPTED MURDER.

    WHAT REALLY PISSES ME THE FUCK OFF IS THAT HE WILL PROBABLY GET

    NO JAIL TIME

    fucking twat bitch i hate him

    and she's a dumbass as well



  31. 31

    Oprah needs to mind her own business. Does she think Rihanna is going to listen to her just because she's Oprah?!?! What an ego!

    Jesus Himself could come here have a talk with Rihanna - trumpet blasts, angel appearances, parting of the seas - the whole bit, and she still wouldn't listen!
    Remember, she "loves" him! He apologized! He won't do it again! Puke!



  32. 32


  33. 33

    Why is oprah calling her "Ry-honna" ?



  34. 34

    i don't know this sounds too general to me, If he does it once IT WILL happen again. Mistakes happen and if he's truly repentant why would they want to ruin what they're working out right now.



  35. 35

    Rihanna is a stupid twat.



  36. 36

    Well said!!
    Rihanna's an idiot.



  37. 37

    Boycott Chris Brown Forever !!!
    Boycott Chris Brown Forever !!!
    Boycott Chris Brown Forever !!!
    Boycott Chris Brown Forever !!!
    Boycott Chris Brown Forever !!!
    Boycott Chris Brown Forever !!!
    Boycott Chris Brown Forever !!!
    Boycott Chris Brown Forever !!!
    Boycott Chris Brown Forever !!!



  38. 38

    Robyn aint listening oprah u just cant mind ur buisness.



  39. 39


  40. 40

    U all need a 7day job 7-7pm and stop minding robyns buisness.Oprah giving advice on relationships give a break.



  41. 41

    Sad none of them knew what a carotid artery was……… Rhianna needs counseling big time. Not only will he hit her again but statistics show these guys just get worse. This could be a life or death decision for her. She is so young and needs to realize life could be so much more without this guy.



  42. 42

    Rihanna knows its wrong to get back with Chris Brown but unfortunately she loves him, that's why he took advantage of her that night. The girl loves him way too much after everything that has happened and its plain to see. Unfortunately, Rihanna is a grown up and she can decide whatever she wants. She's not a kid so we must respect her wishes and stop criticizing her already. I'm tired of the he said she said crap and just leave the girl be in peace. Because in the end its none of our business and its her life not ours.



  43. 43

    Rihanna is young and she absolutely doesn't care of what we think (and she's right). Way can we make her do the opposite is telling her what she has to do.



  44. 44

    Oprah can't pronounce "Rihanna"



  45. 45

    Re: RedWingsFan – Gotta agree with ya!! How about that stupid Gail!! "If she wants to get back together with him it's OK just give it some time" really, Gail??? You're SOOO smart!!

  46. elo says – reply to this


    46

    People in these kinds of relationships are both responsible. It's sad and true. They both could have walked away long before it came to violence. They both could have walked away after it came to violence. Oprah is always revealing her bias against men, sexism is uglier and more rampant than racism.



  47. 47

    Still giving equal sympathy towards Beater Brown. They all could have been more stern and out-spoken. BB neads a verbal smack-down in the biggest way.



  48. 48

    i only think Rihanna went back to Chris because he threatened her or something if she didn't… you know? since abusive relationships are the hardest to get away from.



  49. 49

    Why are people SOOOOO involved when it is NONE OF OUR BUSINESS!!!! the girl hasn't said What happened that night. Yet everyone has an opinion and everyone has a comment!!! How about we mind our own business and not judge something we are getting the details of from Gossip Rags and Internet Websites!!!!!!!!



  50. 50

    Re: Purpleclete – Yea ,this was brutal!Like watching a segment on The View-Blechhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



  51. 51

    The craziest thing about this is that Chris Brown doesn't even care!



  52. 52

    Love is blindness,
    I don't want to see.
    Won't you wrap the night around me.
    Take my heart.
    Blindness.
    .
    In a parked car in a crowded street
    You see your love made complete.
    Thread is ripping.
    The knot is slipping.
    Blindness.
    .
    Love is clockworks and cold steel,
    Fingers too numb to feel,
    Squeeze the handle,
    Blow out the candle.
    Love is blindness.
    .
    A little death without mourning
    No call and no warning.
    Baby… a dangerous idea
    That almost makes sense..
    .
    Love is drowning in a deep well,
    All the secrets and no one to tell.
    Take the money , honey,
    Blindness.
    .
    Love is blindness.
    I don't want to see.
    Won't you wrap the night around me.
    Oh my love…
    Blindness….
    .
    (U2)



  53. 53

    Re: Tyronius
    But all black guys have huge dicks! That's what I heard!



  54. 54

    Also I have lost ALL
    respect for Rihanna
    as well after she took
    him back. She shows
    she is NOT strong as
    she portrays in songs
    and i have to be able
    BELIEVE in and artist
    and that they mean what
    they are singing for me to
    like them and she was obvioulsy
    a fraud! And weak as ****so NO
    I no longer care for her! They are
    writting a book and trying to make
    $ off this too. They are SICK!



  55. 55

    Re: alideperu
    Repy to Post 35…
    "i don't know this sounds too general to me, If he does it once IT WILL happen again. Mistakes happen and if he's truly repentant why would they want to ruin what they're working out right now."

    Statistically speaking…he WIll do it again. In fact, according to reports, this isn't the first time he's beat her ass. This isn't just a "mistake." He didn't accidently eat the last piece of cake. He fucking beat her. And I'm not saying that she doesn't have a right to take him back. She can do whatever the fuck she wants. But what they're working on is some toxic bullshit. They've been together a year. That's like a nanosecond. And they're children. I don't give a fuck how much money and fame they have. That doesn't make them grownups.



  56. 56

    Also I have lost ALL
    respect for Rihanna
    as well after she took
    him back. She shows
    she is NOT strong as
    she portrays in songs
    and i have to be able
    BELIEVE in and artist
    and that they mean what
    they are singing for me to
    like them and she was obvioulsy
    a fraud!

    And weak as ****so NO
    I no longer care for her!

    They are
    writting a book and trying to make
    $ off this too. They are SICK!

    Young Black men should NOT
    be looking at Chris Brown as
    a role model but
    Barack Obama instead!

    this is a sad day for America =[



  57. 57

    Well, duhhhh-uh!

    Look, this is soooo nothing new.

    Abused woman always justify going back to what mysteriously attracts them, and woman who get abused and tolerate it, are usually from families where beatings and verbal abuse were "the order of the day". And, as Dr. Drew Pinsky has explained numerous times, people who are abused are frequently attracted to their abusers, and no one really has a rationale explanation for this because the draw to those sorts of folks, is entirely IRRATIONAL!

    Anyway, Rihanna obviously needs help and to be left A-LONE right now.
    Get the hint, Perezzers?
    PLEASE … can the media just leave her be and MOVE ON, to someone else?

    In other words, this story is damn tired!



  58. 58

    Rihanna,
    PLEASE dump Chris Brown.
    He is a loser,
    his stupid act of working
    with animals, fighting domestic
    abuse, ect. ect. -
    it is just an act to save his career.
    He does not deserve the success he has.
    DUMP THE THUG!!!
    I can not stand Chris Brown after this!



  59. 59

    I GUARANTEE you: if Rhianna's record label was to tell her "leave that fool or we are breaking the contract we have with you" see how quick she runs back to her money!!!!!



  60. 60

    Also I have lost ALL
    respect for Rihanna
    as well after she took
    him back. She shows
    she is NOT strong as
    she portrays in songs
    and i have to be able
    BELIEVE in and artist
    and that they mean what
    they are singing for me to
    like them and she was obvioulsy
    a fraud!
    And weak as ****so NO
    I no longer care for her!
    They are
    writting a book and trying to make
    $ off this too. They are SICK!
    Young Black men should NOT
    be looking at Chris Brown as
    a role model but
    Barack Obama instead!
    this is a sad day for America =[ :(



  61. 61

    Re: Charisma

    Wow ! Now thats something to think about! I agree with you 100%. Dang i wish they would!



  62. 62

    Chris Brown dosen't even regret what he's done so Oprah right, he'll do it again



  63. 63

    agree with her on this one!!!!!!!!!



  64. 64

    [ b ]this text will be displayed in bold[ /b ].Also I have lost ALL
    respect for Rihanna
    as well after she took
    him back. She shows
    she is NOT strong as
    she portrays in songs
    and i have to be able
    BELIEVE in and artist
    and that they mean what
    they are singing for me to
    like them and she was obvioulsy
    a fraud!
    And weak as ****so NO
    I no longer care for her!
    They are
    writting a book and trying to make
    $ off this too. They are SICK!
    Young Black men should NOT
    be looking at Chris Brown as
    a role model but
    Barack Obama instead!
    this is a sad day for America =[



  65. 65

    ri - YAN -ah, Oprah



  66. 66

    GO OPRAH!

    Come on Rihanna, listen to her!

    I love that people are still supporting Chris Brown, and saying that its Rihanna's fault, and yet she didn't put her finger on him and beat him to a pulp.

    Everyone is attacking OctoMom for being irresponsible and having all of those kids, but at least she isn't abusing them!!!! Why should Brown get ANY sympathy? Throw his ass in prison and don't let him out for a long, long time!



  67. 67

    Also I have lost ALL
    respect for Rihanna
    as well after she took
    him back. She shows
    she is NOT strong as
    she portrays in songs
    and i have to be able
    BELIEVE in and artist
    and that they mean what
    they are singing for me to
    like them and she was obvioulsy
    a fraud!
    And weak as ****so NO
    I no longer care for her!
    They are
    writting a book and trying to make
    $ off this too. They are SICK!
    Young Black men should NOT
    be looking at Chris Brown as
    a role model but
    Barack Obama instead!
    this is a sad day for America =[



  68. 68

    Also I have lost ALL
    respect for Rihanna
    as well after she took
    him back. She shows
    she is NOT strong as
    she portrays in songs
    and i have to be able
    BELIEVE in and artist
    and that they mean what
    they are singing for me to
    like them and she was obvioulsy
    a fraud!
    And weak as ****so NO
    I no longer care for her!
    They are
    writting a book and trying to make
    $ off this too. They are SICK!
    Young Black men should NOT
    be looking at Chris Brown as
    a role model but
    Barack Obama instead!
    this is a sad day for America =[



  69. 69

    Re: SheHasBigBoobs

    It's true! I love Black, Latino, Asian, etc. dudes and the Black dudes I've dated have had big fat uncut cocks. I love it!!

    RiRi is young and ignorant. I just hope she wakes up…or another beat down will happen.



  70. 70

    Also I have lost ALL
    respect for Rihanna
    as well after she took
    him back. She shows
    she is NOT strong as
    she portrays in songs
    and i have to be able
    BELIEVE in and artist
    and that they mean what
    they are singing for me to
    like them and she was obvioulsy
    a fraud! And weak as ****so NO
    I no longer care for her! They are
    writting a book and trying to make
    $ off this too. They are SICK



  71. 71

    Shut up Oprah



  72. 72

    I like how they pick and choose the pieces of the report that they want to use! HE tried to get her to get out of the car and she wouldnt leave! to me that sounds lik ehe knew he was at breaking point and was trying to prevent him loosing it completely. im not saying she derserved a beating but if she had got out when he was trying to make her she wouldnt of got hit would she! he might hit her again, he might not but if she wants to take that chance stop bitching about it! leave them to sort their shit out and stop acting like he caused the whole situation I get that HE HIT HER and that is not ok in my book at all but as far as i am concerned they are both to blame for the incident.

    let it lie!



  73. 73

    Re: Jezzebelle loves Chelsea Handler – Girl who you tellin!!!! Too bad the reality is that's never gonna happen…the record label getting rid of their money maker??? Only in our dreams!!! Hopefully she will grow up one day and realize that she is too good for lil boys like him!!! No matter how old Chris B gets, he will NEVER GROW UP!!!



  74. 74

    Right on Oprah!



  75. 75

    Oh and its funny how all of a sudden people are "concerned for rihannah" Give me a break!! i bet oprah wouldnt of even spoken to or about her if this story wasnt such breaking news, i bet her ratings got a big hit that day! just like this site is getting the same type of attention!

    i clearly am one of the ones that is reading it too but i aint tryin to condem brown or RiRi, but seriously people and celebs dont act like you aint using her and the situation to boost your shows be them on radio,tv, or by smoke signal!

    dont be such a bunch of two faced twats!!



  76. 76

    thank you for posting this.



  77. 77

    Re: fluteline24 – It may not be physical abuse but it's definately MENTAL ABUSE that Octo is placing on her children….I don't think it's fair for you to compare Octo and Rhianna….two totally different crazies we're talking about here!!!



  78. 78

    REE-HANA

    lmao



  79. 79

    everything they said is absolutely right.



  80. 80

    really tired of all these reports not based on any facts and all these celebrities jumping out and saying that beating women is wrong(DUH) and rhianna should do this or not do that. Most of these reports are probably made up and if these celebrities really want to reach out to rhianna, why are they doing it in the media? they really think that she is watching entertainment tonight or she is watching the segment of oprah ripping her apart? Oprah must be able to connect her privately, and some of the others should to. the ones that can't, she would not be listening to anyway. those you got to question their motives-are they really trying to help anyone or is this the cause of the week and everyone has to try to jump on the bandwagon and look human and caring about someone/others than their own reflectons?



  81. 81

    What was that Gayle woman talking about, like it's ok for them to get back together - NO it's not at all.



  82. 82

    The only advice Is take from that fat cow is how to make a Dagwood Sandwich?



  83. 83

    Does anyone out there REALLY care what these coloreds do?



  84. 84

    OPRAH IS RIGHT!!!! SOMEONE NEEDS TO LISTEN UP!!!!



  85. 85

    KUDOS to the BIG O to bring it up, not just for Rihanna but all the youth that are looking up to this. And about their location that leaked, they are so right, it had to be chris brown's camp that wanted it to leak!!



  86. 86

    So retarded. She hit him first or is that OK because she's a woman. Like I said 100 times before on these Riri posts… this whole thing started with her and she pushed and pushed and pushed and the only thing you nasty press people can do is TAKE SIDES.. for fucks sakes get a life and slap both of them instead of one. Just because she bruises easy doesn't mean she is not accountable. Get the facts and then post a FAIR story.



  87. 87

    I agree with Oprah 100%. They both need counseling. If she got some help she wouldn't feel the need to go back to someone that abused her. They both are definitely not at the point where they emotionally healthy enough to be back with each other. Chris Brown is a complete idiot. I don't feel that he is truly sorry. The pictures on the jet ski are completely ridiculous! He needs all the help he can get. Coming from a family with abuse, women always tend to go back numerous times before ending up dead or finally leaving.



  88. 88

    Re: Mentalist – That's a good one… however I would be skeptical about the sandwich too! :)



  89. 89

    Rihanna is an idiot. She wont listen to anyone, not even Oprah. All she cares about is saving that fucktards career!



  90. 90

    Re: P.Hilton – Did you just fall from a tree and get hit by the Stupid branch on the way down??!! How the fuck do you know if she hit him first? Were you in the car with them? Even if she did slap him first, does that make it ok for him to beat the crap out of her? People like you are whats wrong with the world. Shame on your lame ass



  91. 91

    oprah should learn how to say rihanna's name, ri-honna and rahana?



  92. 92

    go orprah !

    Cajo,
    the majoirty of women who are in the kind of situation are usually too blind with insecurities to leave. but with her friends/family's help and for her fans and herself -SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE. so i agree with you, i'm very disappointed.



  93. 93

    Re: Mentalist – These coloreds? JaJa, you´re sooo funny. You obviously wanted attention. Ok, I will give you 2 seconds of attention. Whats wrong, did your prostitute of a mother not give you any love as a child. Figures. Maybe if your alcoholic father didn´t run away with his cousin, you would be a more well adjusted adult. Your nickname suits you! lmao I bet its killing you inside that Obama is OUR President. God Bless America! Toodles



  94. 94

    I entirely agreed with Prince Charles on his engagement day with that dummie Diana when he was asked if he was in love, he replied : "Whatever love means" Right ! I want to scream when I read Rihanna is too much in love that's why she can't leave him. BS, love is a need to be loved, nothing more. Rihanna is needy, clingy, like too many women. My dear Prince Charles, you were right, LOVE means nothing and love is not blind. It's an egotistical thing, a need to be needed and appreciated, it has nothing to do with the one you supposedly love.



  95. 95

    Abuse is a cycle. Rite now, most likely he's telling her, he's "very sry and won't do it again". However, without professional help, that is very unlikely to happen. Chris definitely needs prof. help, if he wants to commit in any relationship w Rihanna or anyone else. Even if not with her, it's likely he'll do it again with the next girl, if he doesn't commit to getting help. I think Rihanna is doing a big mistake of being w him. She needs to be around ppl who truly love her and who show her respect. Because Chris lost all respect for her when he put his hands on her.



  96. 96

    .
    .
    .
    .
    LISTEN TO MAMA O RIRI DARLING!!!
    .



  97. 97

    So true!

    God only knows if Fenty and Brown actually do something positive & constructive about this whole ordeal and not return to 'the norm'



  98. 98

    I have enormous respect for Oprah.



  99. 99

    Re: Posh918 – check the police report… and sources other than Perez Hilton fucktrad. Shame on my lame ass? Oh contraire my little retard… you ought to take a dose of the reality pill where women beat the shit out of other people and pretend their the "victims". Re-read my post moron - I never ONCE said it was ok that Chris beat her, I said balance this bullshit news out - she is accountable too… It is people like you that make this world so fucked up, pretending to know everything and basing your decision on what the "cool thing to do is". Get a fucking clue.



  100. 100

    this was not the first time for "chris beat her down" physically abusing her.

    what more can anyone do…Oprah, Whitney, Tina, oh my gosh if three icons are all saying the same thing, looking out for her best interest, giving advice from personal experience, and she doesn't want to listen, well then when we read about her dead of a gun shot with his hands, it will not be a surprise.

    She has a choice, she has the financial means to leave, there's over 4 billion people on this planet it's not like he's a good catch or anything, she chooses to stay and be his personal punching bag. No respect for either of them. Perez every time you write something about her - only use the photo of her all beaten up, maybe by seeing her own image over and over again, something will sink in her punchbag head.

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