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It is never okay for a man to hit a woman, even though some of you don't agree with us.

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159 comments to “Dear Teenage Girls Of America”

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  1. 1

    AMEN…..



  2. 2

    Absolutely!



  3. 3

    one thing i agree with you on ass fucker! the stars must be aligned or something



  4. 4

    Can we please just SHUT THE FUCK ABOUT about the whole Chris Brown & Rihanna thing? It is getting so old. People know its bad to inflict such terrible injuries on people, and it's even worse to just "accept" abuse. People can think what they want, because in the end, they'll be the ones getting hurt anyway.



  5. 5

    Got that right sister …



  6. 6

    I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH YOU!!



  7. 7

    Teenage girls these days are a bunch of dumb, slutty whores. Miley Cyrus isn't that bad when you look at the rest of America's youth.



  8. 8

    Wrong, Mario. What if a woman is coming at you with a knife? What if a woman is harming a child? I could give countless examples. The point is, if you are protecting your own life or someone elses, if your life is in danger, YES hit a woman, or an animal or a man or whoever else you need to in self defense. Never say never. Otherwise it is NOT ok for a man to hit a woman, and likewise, it is NOT ok for a woman to hit a man either.



  9. 9

    and who the fuck do you think you are, Dr. Phil?

    lmao, Perez stick to the celebrity bashing- seriousness doesn't work for you



  10. 10

    Amen.

  11. Laury says – reply to this


    11

    Idiots. They can't believe their precious Chris Brown isn't the prince charming they thought he was, so they blame Rihanna. I'm not saying RiRi didn't provoke him, but it still wouldn't be reason enough for him to hit her like he did. He should've just said, "you know what? I'm not gonna let you make me mad. You and I should just leave it at that before things get worse." But no, he had to get all Ike Turner on her. NOTHING is reason enough for a man to hit a woman. What angers me is that just because they love him as an artist, they think that he's perfect. Lighten up, you bunch of dumbass teenyboppers: if Chris was your boyfriend, there's a good chance he might hit you too. Prince Charming he ain't.



  12. 12

    Agreed, Perez! :)



  13. 13

    Kenley Collins is the new Chris Brown.



  14. 14

    Totally Agree!



  15. 15

    if i had a dime for ever time i got a knuckle sandwich i'd…….well i'd have a shitload of dimes



  16. 16

    TOTALLY.



  17. 17

    Girls need to realize how serious this is. I didn't until it happened to me, and now it haunts me. Defend yourself Ladies!



  18. 18

    okay, i'm really getting sick and tired of hearing about Chris and Rihanna everywhere i go.
    we all get the point, all ghetto girls that live in places like The Bronx think shit like that is acceptable.
    if they can't get it through their heads that its not, then maybe they need some sense knocked in their heads.



  19. 19

    agreed, but i must also say it is also wrong for a woman to hit a man!



  20. 20

    THIS IS SO TRUE . . . SO MANY GIRLS ARE SO STUPID ABOUT WHY THIS HAPPENED AND WHOSE FAULT THEY PLACE BLAME ON!!!!



  21. 21

    Everyone should keep there hands to themselves, when it comes to unwarranted, unwanted touching!!! Regardless of gender!



  22. 22

    Truer words were never spoken!!!!



  23. 23

    i do agree that a man should never hit a woman, but i also hate that we say "a man should never hit a woman" yet we dont say "a woman should never hit a man"… i think we should start teaching kids that "a man or a woman should never hit anybody no matter what their gender is"



  24. 24

    he sucks !



  25. 25

    I agree, Perez, it's sickening to hear the things people say about RiRi at school…



  26. 26

    but it's okay for you to call rumer willis potato head, and to demean and insult women everyday on this website. you better look at your own soul first before you start telling teenage girls how to live mario.



  27. 27

    I bet they don't even really believe it's ok… they're just in love with chris Brown so they make excuses and say oh it must be her fault.



  28. 28

    The two girls quoted in that story are fucking idiots and deserve to have the shit beat out of them…but no, not by a guy.

  29. pabst says – reply to this


    29

    Way to post something helpful for once, brownie hound.



  30. 30

    see shit like that pisses me off. esp, little black girls like that. everywhere i turn, theyre always defending him. it annoys me so much cuz not all black girls feel like that. ugh, they make me sick! dumb ass kids



  31. 31

    yea this whole thing pisses me off…



  32. 32

    It isn't as easy as you would think; to leave is some cases might be your husband, and the father of your children. You can find yourself just avoiding him, praying not to have a confrontation. Sometimes you know what’s best for your children and to have their father around. So you see, sometimes you have to sacrifice your needs for your children’s needs. I understand what most of you are saying telling her to leave, and I just wanted to point out in some cases it isn't as easy as it may seems…..



  33. 33

    Wow those girls are giving a bad name to the female race. Dumb asses that's all they are.



  34. 34

    it is also never okay for a woman to hit a man, perez



  35. 35

    It makes me sick that people are actually standing up for Chris Brown… like domestic abuse is OK. Newsflash! Violence is never the answer!



  36. 36

    I agree with you on this one, Mario…

  37. Mimzy says – reply to this


    37

    9th graders? Not my fucking generation. Girls are watching their moms get their ass' beat and not leave the men as well. They're thinking OK, I see my mom get her ass beat EVERYDAY, She stays, Rihanna will go back, it's ok. No it's not ok you stupid fucking idiots. I`m done with Chris, and Rhianna for fucking pretending to be this hardcore, badass bitch, and she can't even pick up her shit and leave. He was going to kill you…stupid fucking idiot bitch. I don't feel bad for her.



  38. 38

    Chris Brown isn't a regular guy to these teenage girls. They idolize celebrities to the extent that they don't believe that they can have human frailties. The problem is these teenagers parents. What kind of life education have they given them? The learning doesn't start when the kid is able to come to the parent asking questions, it's ongoing as they grow up. Now is a good time for their parents to have some frank conversations with them. Sad to say some ADULTS have the same attitude. They don't have the young excuse, but they're still dumb.



  39. 39

    He needs his black head beat!!!



  40. 40

    If he does it once he'll do it again. Never give him the chance at a second shot.



  41. 41

    Re: Me Myself and I – GREAT POST!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  42. fogee says – reply to this


    42

    true, even though for someone like perez getting hit by a man would be the closest thing he's ever been to getting laid.



  43. 43

    OMG! I CANT WAIT FOR THE DAY SOMEBODY ACUSES YOUR ASS OF DOING SOMETHING STUPID LIKE TOUCHING ON A BOY OR SOMETHING THEN EVERYBODY THROWS U UNDER THE BUS. WITHOUT PROOF OR WITHOUT BEING CONVICTED!!! BRITNEY SPEARS IS A DRUG ADDICTED WHO DOESNT EVEN HAVE CUSTODY OF HER CHILDREN! BUT U SUPPORT HER AND IS EVEN APART OF HER TOUR!!!! STOP BEING SO JUDGMENTAL!! LETS TRY TO SUPPORT HIM SO THIS DOES NOT HAPPEN AGAIN! PEOPLE CAN CHANGE AND LEARN FROM THEIR MISTAKES!!! ASSHOLE…………….



  44. 44

    Re: Melissa!
    Re: WildOrchid1298
    coudnt agree more



  45. 45

    Re: lanilee98 – you're absolutely right! it is SO in the best interests of a child to watch daddy beat mommy for not sweeping the floor.. what would they do with themselves if Dear-Old-Dad wasn't around?



  46. 46

    but if you hit your bitch perez, will teddy complain???? clueless mother fucker



  47. 47

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  48. 48

    VIOLENCE IS NEVER OKAY. MEN ARE STRONGER THAN WOMEN. THATS IT GET THE FUCK OVER IT. I AM SO FUCKING SICK OF FUCKING DUMB PEOPLE JUSTIFYING WHAT HAPPENED. IT IS NOT OKAY, IT WAS NEVER OKAY.
    THAT IS IT.



  49. 49

    If a woman is beating on a man, he has the right to defend himself. She shouldn't dish it if she can't take it. Gender has nothing to do with it. Don't beat up on someone, regardless of sex. Just because she has a vag doesn't mean she can hit anyone she wants.



  50. 50

    PEOPLE CAN BE SO FUCKING CRUEL TO THE GIRLS, THEY FUCKING NEVER CONSIDER WHAT T MUST HAVE BEEN LIKE FOR HER TO BE CHOKED UNCONCIOUS WHILE SHE SCREAMED. SERIOUSLY, EVERYONE WHO THINKS LIKE THAT FUCKING DESERVES TO BE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND HAVE THAT HAPPEN TO THEM. MAYBE THEN THEY'LL LEARN THE TRUTH . . .



  51. 51

    Listen up young girls. It's NEVER ok!



  52. 52

    unless your a dumbass like rhianna and like to get the shit beaten out of you



  53. 53

    these girls are premature and obvouisly don't know anything about abusive relationships. one was quoted saying "Her friend nodded. “I don’t think he’ll hit her like that again,” she said."
    But if he's done it once then he'll do it again. They can say they'll change but if they are able to get that angry, and do that to a girl, it doesn't mean that he wont do it again. I was in an abusive relationship and the guy always told me he'd stop, but he never did.



  54. 54

    Re: lanilee98 – The best interest of the children? The best interest of the children would be to get them out of an abusive household. When role models display aggression, children are really susceptible to learning and mimicking the behavior (as proved empirically in Bandura's Bobo Dolls experiment, and loads of others). So, where disentangling yourself emotionally is hard, and it is a sad thing to make a child say goodbye to their parent, abuse is never okay, and both the partner being abused and the children deserve better.



  55. 55

    its the sad truth, girls especially at younger ages believe that its all justified. Girls need to stand up for themselves.
    IT IS NEVER OK FOR A MAN WHO SAYS HE LOVES YOU, WHO SAYS HE CARES ABOUT YOU TO HIT YOU
    IF HE HITS YOU ONCE HE WILL HIT YOU AGAIN



  56. 56

    you've got that right.

  57. aj says – reply to this


    57

    well your half right, shit for brains. it isn't ok for anyone to hit in a relationship. that being said, if some fucker BANS someone for free speech, it IS ok to take a hot tire iron to their eleventy head. HONK

  58. aj says – reply to this


    58


  59. 59

    Yupyup



  60. 60

    Thats true, anything that Oprah agrees with is true. But don't worry. Its still ok for women to hit men. Until Oprah disagrees, this is also true.

    Ps: TYRA'S WORDS MEAN NOTHING!



  61. 61

    PEREZ HILTON VERBAL ABUSER!!!!!!!!!!!!
    PEREZ HILTON VERBAL ABUSER!!!!!!!!!!!!
    PEREZ HILTON VERBAL ABUSER!!!!!!!!!!!
    PEREZ HILTON VERBAL ABUSER!!!!!!!!!!!
    PEREZ HILTON VERBAL ABUSER!!!!!!!!!!!



  62. 62

    God Damn it! This is what I call the "minority mentality"… sure every race deals with domestic abuse, and there are women of every race who will go back to the man abusing but it is SO prevelant in specifically African American communities.

    Little black girls will always stand up for these black thugs in the media…therefore helping to perpetuate the ridiculous behavior of the black celebs who do everything but get away with murder (actually i'm sure some have). It's sad really…



  63. 63

    SERIOUSLY….these stupid little girls who are blaming rihanna need to wake the fuck up



  64. 64

    This screams of ignorance, delusion and denial. They are both the shittiest role models. And they are perpetuating violence aganst women. S-A-D!



  65. 65

    i absolutely agree with this!Chris Brown said he hated thee man that beat his mother but hes beating some one now!what thee french!

  66. midi says – reply to this


    66

    domestic violence is bad regardless of who is doing the hitting - men, women, or children. it's all abuse. stop abuse.



  67. 67

    Any girl who thinks it was Rihanna's fault or that she provoked it in some way..
    Need to get their asses beaten by their next boyfriend.
    Then maybe they will STFU



  68. 68

    Scary… the ignorance.



  69. 69

    Those girls are clearly dumbasses.
    Perez, I would like you to know that I'm a 16 year old girl, and I absolutely do not support Chris Brown over his actions. Throw him in jail, having an argument does not justify beating up any lady.



  70. 70

    agreed, perez. i just wish more young girls would understand that. but until it happens to them, they will have NO idea.



  71. 71

    Obviously it must be in some cultures. Perhaps some day they'll realize that it's not in their best interest to accept such treatment. Or maybe they won't.



  72. 72

    Why would any girl think that was alright?
    Society is screwed.



  73. 73

    Gotta love bad parenting.



  74. 74

    True that Mario. Even if it's the man of my dreams i could never allow someone to even think of doing something like that to me.



  75. 75

    Debaucherina,
    I actually got this account just for you to tell you (no offence perez, just not a big subscriber) you're SO wrong. Put you're big girl pants on and grow up. You should be mature enough to know that if a woman is stupid enough to hit you first she either has a good reason (because I know I want to right now) or she's an idiot and the person with her is an even bigger idiot for staying with her. BOTTOM LINE. it is NEVER okay to hit anyone. Rule number one in kindergarden and anyone who still does not understand that disgusts me.
    Dont throw around reasons and hit someone. If you think THOSE are legit reasons to hit someone then that is justifyable for a court to deal with which deals with it properly. Not you.
    Way to go Perez because clearly Rihanna isn't setting a good example..



  76. 76

    Where was I when these people were determining that teenage girls think like this. I am 17 and I would never say that it was okay for a man to hit a women! Ever! It is never ever okay and someone needs to teach those girls that.



  77. 77

    typical black women..and girls in general..i think its ridiculous they think u deserve to get beat up..this country is headed to hell. i was beat up by a guy..thrown down stairs and where was this..good ole massachusetts so that says alot about your story perez…men think this is okay and woman should be the ones asking for forgiveness and the please take me back crap. i really think socety is ass backwards…why dont we all protest evil men and then they will all have to stop so they can get sex again.



  78. 78

    I've worked in an abuse shelter; and hitting people is NOT OK, however.. let's not say it just as in "Don't hit a woman". Let's not ABUSE anyone. That's the standard. I've seen men who were physically abused as well by their female partners (one badly, as his cheerleader girlfriend beat the crap out of a college football player repeatedly because she was psycho and only stopped when she went to jail for stabbing him in his leg). But ABUSE is a terrible thing. Unless you are defending yourself, there is NO defense for hitting someone. None. And yes, I blame Rianna here as much as Brown. She is completely enabling this abuser by shutting her mouth and not doing something to stop it. She's sending a terrible message that it IS OK, which allows people to say these things; and she's basically condoning it by not testifying. He's a scumbag, but in a case this public, her actions cause serious harm to women who have trouble seeking help.



  79. 79

    Re: carolineyy – yes men are stronger but that doesnt give any female the right to deck me at will! and to all u women who think that u do have that right because ur weaker im sorry to inform u that u r wrong



  80. 80

    Damn skippy Perez. 100%, absolutely right. Thanks for posting. All women should be treated like the princesses they are. :)

  81. VDUB says – reply to this


    81

    its not okay for a woman to hit a man either….



  82. 82

    ehhhhh…
    FUCK THE HATERS.!!
    CHRIS BROWN FOREVERRRR.!!



  83. 83

    Seriously if a guys beating you, your fucked up if you dont leave him



  84. 84

    Thank god i'm in my 20's now because teenage girls (not all) are giving themselves a bad name… The name DUMBFUCKS



  85. 85

    females are so stupid sometimes.



  86. 86

    This is so disturbing. An entire generation of urban youth with no self esteem and fools for idols. And in cities like Chicago less than 50% even graduate. When we're all in homes listening to duran duran and snoop on Muzak this is who will be running things. God help us.



  87. 87

    AGREE!



  88. 88

    Re: i love perez.! – hahaha i love this girl!! EVEN THOUGH HE IS IN JAIL ALMOST!! SHE IS AN EXAMPLE OF THE GIRLS DISPARAGED BY THE NYT . . . hahaha sooo funny. FUCK CHRIS BROWN!!!



  89. 89

    PEOPLE ARE SO FUCKING DUMB, WHAT HAPPENED TO RIHANNA BY CHRS BROWN IS NOT OKAY. instead of standing by the person who was actually abused, they support fucking idiot chris brown. its a really fucking sad indictment of the fucked up country we live in now. seriously anyone who is that fucking DUMB deserves what they get.



  90. 90

    girls that get punched in the head by guys are cool. especially when they go back for more.



  91. 91

    i attended Hostos Lincoln academy and i am ashamed..these girls need to understand that no man should EVER hit a woman no matter how much she provokes him or wtever… brown could have easily just told her to get out the car and just leave her there.. or even gotten out of the car himself is he was soo pissed off..



  92. 92

    Perez: You shoud have said it this way:

    "Women, Ladies, Girls:

    IT IS ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY NEVER, EVER, EVER, OK TO HIT A WOMAN"



  93. 93

    Re: carolineyy

    Agreed, I read her comment and sighed. I look at her profile picture and she is of course a young black woman as I suspected as well.
    All the people who are disgusted with Chris Brown aren't "HATERZ" as she says, we are intelligent and possibly much more mature. We are not jaded by his nice clothes, cars, catchy hooks, or his smooth dance moves because we realize that behind all of that is a sick young man who put a girl in the hospital and instead of doing the responsible thing (addressing his wrong doings) he hid….hmmmm what a great role model.

    As long as there are naive young women with no self respect he will always have fans I suppose.



  94. 94

    Re: i love perez.! – with a name like that, you need some serious counseling….



  95. 95

    someone needs to step in an educate this kids on domestic violence ASAP! Maybe she ran into a door, it was her fault?!? What the hell are parents teaching their kids? Who ever asks for something like that!



  96. 96

    Im so sick of hearing about Riannha and Chris brown. She is a whore and hes a punk ass bitch.



  97. 97

    May both of their careers be ruined and they live happily ever after. Fucktads



  98. 98

    this world is in serious trouble if our teenage girls are thinking that women are asking to get hit. i'm tired of hearing about chris and rihanna but it's a good time to teach our kids about domestic violence and how it is never ok!



  99. 99

    thank you, perez, for not only having the most deliciously addicting website EVER, but for using your popularity to say things like this. it is about fucking time.



  100. 100

    when every a radio station plays her/their music for like the past 3 weeks- Ive shut it off!
    I cannot enjoy somebodies creativity when I feel bad for them-this is what i learned about myself through their situation.
    i balance my feelings- theirs i just feel sorry & hopeless for

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