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Madonna, An Unfit Parent?

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Madonna's former chef, Eric Ienco, is speaking out against the Material Mom basically saying she cares more about herself than her kids.

Bad timing!

This "revelation" comes out as Madge is appealing her denial of adopting little Mercy James from Malawi.

Didn't her chef have to sign some sort of confidentiality agreement when he got hired?????

Either way, Ienco is speaking out, and according to him, Madge hardly spends any time with her three kids, maybe just about 30 minutes a day.

He adds, "That's why it's a puzzle she wants to adopt again. She's hardly ever with her children. She's got two full-time nannies and one part-time nanny. So why adopt a kid if somebody else is raising them?"

So just what does Madge do all day that's got her so busy ignoring her kids?

According to Ienco:

"She gets up and has a coffee, then she does two hours of yoga. Then there's two hours of Pilates and exercise. That's six days a week. After that, she deals with her e-mail, her calls and the rest of her business. And after that, she spends maybe half an hour with the kids. If Lourdes comes in and says, 'I want to see Mom,' she is told, 'She's doing yoga' - and Lourdes knows she can't disturb Mom. Madonna puts herself before her kids. When she adopted little David, he arrived at her home from Africa - and three hours later, she left to do Pilates. Wouldn't you think she'd want to spend the entire day with her new son?"


We want that chef to take a lie detector test - and now!

We just can't believe that about Madonna.

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209 comments to “Madonna, An Unfit Parent?”

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  1. 1

    The truth about your precious Madoona hurts doesn't is asshole

  2. 2

    Oh I can believe it. Lifestyles of the rich and famous, that's how it goes.

  3. 3

    So if shes so busy why does she want more kids?Is it really a publicity stunt to make her look better?Madonna would never do that would she?

  4. 4

    Madonna has always been that way!! DUH!!!!

  5. 5

    I believe that.

  6. 6

    I KNEW it! Even her own brother said these things about her! She's an ass!

  7. 7

    Wow…imagine that!

  8. 8

    Old ass! Too old to adopt!

  9. 9

    "We just can't believe that about Madonna."


  10. 10

    I don't believe it either, it contradicts what her former nanny, And her EX-HUSBAND say, if anyone was gonna be dead on true about her, no matter if it hurt or or not it would be Guy Ritchie, this guy is probably just pissed that hes unemployed now

  11. 11


  12. 12

    When will you stop kissing Madonna's ass, Perez.
    You are such a suck up now.

    PerezHilton has jumped the shark.

  13. 13

    What are you smoking, Perez? You can't believe it simply because MADonna has paid a little attention to you. Please try to put aside your ego on this and see that Madge is self-absorbed and will not give much to anyone else.

  14. 14

    And on top of that, even if she DOES workout for 4 hours a day and then checks emails and does her business, thats not anything more then what normal corporate parents do. My mom was a teacher and she worked all day then came home and graded papers, sometimes til 10 or 11 o clock at night, thats just the way it goes sometimes, does NOT make you unfit.

  15. 15

    Re: RedWingsFan – yo…. and I agree shes all about herself.

  16. 16

    Well.. It's always better than dying in malawi…

  17. 17

    Oh yeah.

  18. 18

    there are so many unfit parents. well i mean… she's "fit", but only in health.
    ah well, doesn't she just pay people to take care of her kids anyways? who needs attention anymore when you have the green…

  19. 19

    I totally believe that he´s telling the truth, so many "Hollywood" babies out there that are raised by nannies. Have never understood why people are having kids when they can´t even be bothered to raise them.

  20. 20

    Obviously she doesn't spend enough time with her kids! She has 3 nannies?! If you're there to take care of your kids why have hired help? She doesn't need another child. Children need the love of their parents, not the hired help of a fucking nanny.

  21. 21

    Man those arms can kill ppl…

  22. 22

    Sad but that is probably true. Just because she has money, doesn't mean she has the time to be with her kids. We only see her spend time with them when they come out of a Kabbalah center it seems.

  23. midi says – reply to this


    you can't believe it? as if, perez. she is a narcissistic supreme.

  24. ~LM~ says – reply to this


    She just SUUUUCKS!!! I'm over it~

  25. 25

    um i deffinitly believe that, everytime a paparazzo snaps a pic of her shes in workout clothes sweating with a water bottle in her hand, no kids in sight. maybe she thinks cause she's rich adopting these kids into garaunteed wealth and fortune is enough? THESE CHILDREN NEED LOVE!!!

  26. 26

    Madonna is old and icky…Stop putting pictures of her up, they're too scary.

  27. 27

    uhh, I can't believe that you can't believe that Madonna is a workaholic with no time for her kids. ya moron.

  28. Tulip says – reply to this


    Perez, you don't believe Madonna is something other than a great mother. Take off your gay glasses dear, they are real foggy.

  29. 29

    i believe it. why is it so hard to believe?

  30. 30

    i believe it!

  31. 31

    her kids are her 'possesions”, her ”trinkets”……the more she buys, the less guilt she thinks she has to atone for.

  32. 32

    Oh please how can you not believe it

  33. 33

    you gay guys have got to stop thinking that madonna is perfect and can do no wrong.

  34. 34

    Madonna self absorbed.
    Naaaahhh. Why would anyone
    think that about such a sweet,
    softspoken lady.

  35. 35

    I can't believe you are surprised. The only reason why you love her is you unconsciously identify with her self-centeredness and self-absorbed ways :)

  36. 36

    oh - so wait - money does not equate love??

  37. 37

    so where is the psycho madonna freak that posts non stop out here?

  38. 38

    this is not true perez,madonna is an amazing mother,and guy ritchie knows her better than her ex chef that just wants his 15 min of fame. GUY RITCHIE SAID LAST WEEK THAT MADONNA IS AN AMAZING MOTHER. perez madonna is always with her kids.wherever she goes the kids are with her.everytime.its normal that during the day she is not with them,cause they are on school.but she is the one that pics the kids in schhol and take them every morning.she did that in london all the time and she stil doing that in nyc.

  39. 39

    Re: LizardKinG – HAHAHA-of course!

  40. 40

    Not that what she is doing is right,…. at all….
    BUT, i'm sure these children are living a MUCH better life than they would be living in the 3rd world countries in which she adopted them from….

  41. 41

    I believe it as well. But in her defense this sounds like every other celebrity mom. Not all, but many. If she has to support "all" her children I'm guessing she has to be away from them in order to keep the cash rolling in. Does that make her bad? Not in my book. However, what's more important an image and more money? Or your kids having a mom, less money? I opt for the latter.

  42. 42

    listen we see madonna joking and playing with her kids in central park,everytime madonna goes outr the kids are with her.this is just a big lie.this is someone that wants to be famous ,just that.guy ritchie is on her side.her ex husband,.even carlos leon said madonna is an amaing mother.gwenth paltrow talked about this on ophra once and said she is a great mother.she is always there for her kids.always.thats why they dont watch to much tv.they play together all the time.madonna put her kids to sleep.I JUST TOLD Y ,SHE IS NOT LIKE SHITNEY.SHITNEY DOESNT CARE ABOUT HER OWN KIDS.madonna never goes out.she is always home.i saw a video of madonna in london and her kids wake up her in the morning and play in her bed.this is a big lie.just that

  43. 43

    She lacks morals first of all. She can't commit to anything….marriage and religion. She pays other people to raise her kids. She's just one touch away from being Michael Jackson.

  44. 44

    Re: Twelvethirtyfour – she doesnt have 3 nannies.she had one and she waas fired.the oldest childs dont.they just have abody guard whats is different.this is a lie.madonna is a kind of celebrity that is always with her kids,she even take her kids to rehearsels.so THIS IS FALSE.MAYBE IS NOT EVEN HER EX COOK.U CAN SEE …GUY RITCHIE IS SUPPORTING HER ON THE ADOPTION AND HE SAID SHE IS AN AMAZING MOTHER AND A LOVIN MOTHER,WHEN WE SEE MADONNA PICKS WE SEE HER ALWAYS WITH KIDS.WHY SHOULD GUY LIE???

  45. 45

    Of course I believe it. She has 2 full-time nannies and 1 part-time nanny to take care of her children.

  46. 46

    You are such an idiot i really can't stand this site anymore cause you only praise people now who you met

  47. Jai says – reply to this


    Sounds pretty spot on to me…… she's a vain and self absorbed old hag.

  48. 48

    Re: natters67 – IM NOT GAY AND SECOND madonna is not perfect she is like every human being.but she is not that monster.we see pics of madonna in central park playing with her kids.all those years.this is a big lie.she works like every woman.during the day the kids are on school and she works.at night she is always at home with them.we see madonna with her kids all the time.this is fake.madonna never had any bad behaivior with her kids.she even took her kids to malawi with her.get a life.look at her daughter…wherevr madonna is,lola is too

  49. 49

    There are many lack luster mom's out there like this…I would guess that Candy spelling spent even less time with her kids when they were young.lol

  50. 50

    I would take about 1hr each day and do my best to clear my head of everything…usually early in the day so I could get it over with and also get it done and not forget…and no matter what my kids were doing ….try to become completely focused/interested on that. In other words they would have my complete attention and also to give them undivided attention. I read to them most nights…usually several stories…when you make the effort it makes a difference…
    once the kids are reading themselves-
    well you're pretty much done with all the reading. I just wanted my kids to know that I was there for them for a time..every day. I wanted to take care of the baby birds when they were small…with the hope that they would be more comfortable with adulthood…My kids Rock! lols.

    Hey - if this wasn't the case for you …then don' t pout - do it for you kids…monitor their tv and do these things till their like 12ish…then kinda turn them loose. James Dobson would be watching something with his kids- maybe like seeing something negative and say to them …'do you think that's right? to get your kids to think about things? You can live vicariously and do for your kids like you would have liked…they may do this for their kids…kind of start a chain…we played truth or lie (the sky is purple - lie), and made stuff up and my kids have a good sense of wrong n right…Church and those values helped. all this is not hard….just takes time and is temporary…

  51. 51

    in the end the ex cok says "madonna is a lovin mother when she is with her kids"i would love to know how this man knows so much about madonna if he only worked few hours a day and is only in kitchen.get a lufe man

  52. 52

    even her brother that wrote that stupid book said madonna does everything for her family.she fight for her marriege till the end and madonna and guy still friends and they protect her kids always

  53. 53

    I can totally believe this. She seems like that type. Don't worry, the truth will come out in a book that one of her kids will write.

  54. 54

    This is so believable. Only Perez wouldn't believe his precious Madonna is a stupid bitch.

  55. 55

    Re: MADONNA does it better
    How the hell do you know how many nannies she has? Do you hide outside her palace and peep through her windows? Is comparing her to Britney Spears the only argument you have? Try forming an intelligent response once in a while. It also wouldn't hurt to be a little imaginative in your name calling as well. "Shitney" is so 2001.

  56. 56

    madonna is not like that.people that follow madonna for years knows that.if we wrer talking about shitney i would believe because she has bad behaviors and she put her kids in dangerous several times,but not madonna.the kids go to her shows ,they are always with her,this is LIE.THATS JUST A BIG LIE AND THIS MAN WANTS HIS 15 MIN OF FAME.THATS ALL.her family is always on first.u can believe it or not,but the true is that madonna is always with her kids

  57. 57

    Re: MADONNA does it better – theres the psycho freak, what too you soo long?

  58. 58

    Re: STFUP – And what about you? you are on EVERy Madonna post talking about what a whore Madonna is yet your avatar picture shows ur ugly fake tits for the hole world to see FUCKING WHORE

  59. 59

    see madge pics and u see her with her kids morons.u like u talk shitious think about her cause she is really tooo perfect.fuck off.everytime she goes out the kids er with her.everytime she goes on tour the kids are with her.shut the fuck up.shitney has 4 nannies

  60. 60

    Re: 18 carrots – no she hasnt.she had only one nany that was fired

  61. 61

    I think Madona is pathetic….adopting children isn't going to get her whore ass in heaven….the woman is crazy and i'm glad she cant adopt that little girl, there already is going to be 3 unstable children growing into adults from this woman….we dont need anymore….just wait they will be in the news with drug and alcohol problems as well as relationship abuse problems…..they do not have a strong down to earth role model or family life situation to give them the tools they need to grow as productive adults of society…..i'm so glad she can't wrong another helpless soul…..i believe what the chef says and obviously a 3rd world country believes madonna is unfit to have another child….i hope a normal family can adopt her….

  62. 62

    PEREZ!!! shame on you. It seems like only a few madge fans on here actually believe otherwise. The rest of us, the ones with common sense and a pair of eyes, already know this is true about Madonna.

  63. 63


  64. 64

    For someone who has taken care of herself, she looks like hell!!

  65. 65


  66. 66

    Re: BossBrit – see the pics when she goes out asshole.the kids are always with her.see maybe www.gettyimages.com loser.that image is old ,is from london,and during the day they are in school,it funny cause some of u asked if her kids never go to school cause they were always with her

  67. 67

    It believes in breast feeding..not her personally doing it she prob gets a nanny to do it.

  68. 68

    Re: STFUP – she never dies dumb moves cause she is everything but not dumb

  69. 69

    so what? I work 8-5, don't see my kid until 5.30 in the evening, then I get home and I have to work out too…so how many hours do I spend with my kid before she goes to bed 3? 4? And what about parents that work until 7 in the evening? are those unfit parents too?

  70. 70

    Re: Joolie40 – YOU on the other hand look like a rock star!WINK!:)

  71. 71

    fucking losers.and please update the site

  72. 72

    Even if this is true, the life that little girl will be able to have (if Madonna is able to adopt her) will be 100 times better than the life she going to have as it stands now - even if she is raised by nannies.

  73. 73

    she probably doesn't believe in breastfeeding unless it is for her boytoys..she gets the nannies to breastfeed her own kids

  74. 74

    Re: Dontgetit! – no asshole.he didnt said that.he said that madonna puts her familyin first place and knew that she was fighting for her marriege cause it was very important to her.but is own broither is not with her since she married guy cause he hat guy,and her brother never said nothing about her and her kids,nothing bad

  75. 75


  76. 76

    You can't believe that? What kind of delusional life are you living??

  77. 77

    Re: MissMaryLoubell_III – ahahahah.asshole madonna is not shitney.shitney is a terrible mother.madonna isnt.madonna is a present mother.she is always with her kids.everytime madonna goes out she is with them.we dont see shitney with her kids,i means just in the beginning when she was promoting her fucking tour,she keep posting pics of her kid on her own site.just ridiculous.madonna was always an amazing mother.and all the people that knows her said that.even guy ritchie said she is a good mother

  78. mvp says – reply to this


    its so fake.

    He worked for her in 2000, for 8 months. Enough said.

  79. 79

    oh common nothing new, half of the celebrity mom must be like this

  80. 80

    I guess shes a good mom because she kisses girls. She must support GAY marriage! TODAY IS MY LAST DAY OF PEREZ…..Follow my lead anyone?

  81. 81

    Of course it's absolutely true - I used to work for her. The saddest, hypocritical, most ironic part of all is that Madonna has spent her whole life blaming everything on the fact that she grew up without her real mother around and now she she chooses not to be around for her kids. I can tell you firsthand she is the most selfish person you will ever meet.

  82. 82

    Re: JustSayin – they watch tv but not much time asshole.they usually prefer pplay all together.see pics of madonna on central parkRe: JigSaw – she only had one nany.she said it on an interview and we only see pics of davids nannys.get a lifeRe: amylynn – what rest?????shut up.people that see madonna on the streets ,people that see madonna on her shows.her kids are always with her,.see pics of her in brazil,or hwrever u want.u can see pics of her in nyc on kaballah,she is always with her kids.shut th fuck up.all those haters are shitney fans and she is the one that cannot take care of her kids loser

  83. 83

    Re: Joolie40 – she looks damn good.better than u and she is 50

  84. 84

    I am sure this is absolutely correct…everything revolves around this self-absorbed twat! The kids and horses are mere objects and she uses them at her dispense. This story adds to the string of bad publicity surrounding 'it' lately.

  85. 85

    I hate the way everyone is always so negative about Madonna :( for instance how everyone is + was so against her adopting from Africa with the whole argument that she should adopt from her own country……..ermmm am I missing somthing but in my mind a child who needs a home is a child who need a home- it doesn't matter where they come from if they are in need of a family who love them who the hell is anyone to say Madonna is a bad person for giving them that???!! I just don't get the mentality of some people at all! People in general are uneducated about the circumstances surrounding these adoptions and don't realise that alot of these children living in orphanages die young from terrible diseases so if just one child can be saved from this then surely this is a good thing right?! Sorry rant over but it does annoy me when people critisise the likes of Madonna and Angelina when essentially what they are doing is one of the most selfless loving things a human can do. Back to the subject im sure Madonas chef is trying to stir up some publicity for himself and no doubt we will be seeing a 'tell all' book coming soon….. I call bulshit on this story!

  86. mvp says – reply to this


    its so fake.

    He worked for her in 2000, for 8 months before rocco born.

  87. 87

    well, it is fucking obvious! do you think she looks like that (ripped) because she spends time taking naps with her babies and watching tv??? WTF???

  88. 88

    Re: amylynn – her fans knows her and listen GUY RITCHIE SAID SHE IS AN AMAZING MOTHER ,SHE REALLY LOVES HER KIDS AND SHE IS ALWAYS WITH THEM. u understand guy ritchie said that.guy knows her better than her ex cook and her friends knows that too.madonna never goes out asshole.she is always with her kids.everytime we see her in street she is with them.get a fucking life.she is not like shitney moron.and madonna is the most popular artist alive,she doesnt need this tuff to bring her down.it happne all before and here she is.stronger than ever.she is numer one.people keep bying her cds and tickets.the international press loves madonna and we love her too.u think that the world is perez hilton site???more tha 3 milliona nd 500 thousand people saw madonna tour last years.and lots of people didnt go cause the tickets sold out very fast.madonna has lots of fans and we know that she is a lovin mother.david said to his bio father that she uses to rides horses with her mon and rocco and we see lola with madge all the time.her kids are happy.even guy is on her side

  89. 89

    Duh,it's always been about her and it's going to wear out it's welcome pretty damn quick in NYC.

  90. 90

    Re: mvp – exacly he worked for madonna in 200o and only was there 8 months ,what this man knows about raising kids???madonna was pregment of rocco by that time.such a loser.madonna is ana amzing mother.look GUY RITCHIE SAID THAT AND HE KNOWS MADONNA

  91. 91

    Re: marioisaloser – SHUT UP LIER.madonna is not selfish.she does everything to other.she gives her money .her friends love her.they said her kids are amazing.if she were so bad she wont have any friend.even guy ritchie in on her side loser

  92. 92

    This is no big news. It's well known that Vagonna is a selfish whore. The only time you see her with those kids is at a Kabalah meeting. She spends more time with her sexual conquests like Jesus and trying to turn back the hands of time, like that will ever happen. Bitch take your kids to the park or zoo sometimes instead of getting cosmetic treatments.

  93. 93

    Re: T–Rex – yes she support gay marriege

  94. 94

    Re: janisjoplin – time for some fun, care to join me?

  95. 95

    many people that work with her says she is an amazing mother,her broither too,guy ritchie.this man worked for her in the 2000.she only had lola

  96. 96

    ?? Global Warming - nothing??? Madonnas body - everything?? What's your focus????????
    Have a nice day!

  97. 97

    old girl has to keep her figure so she can hump kids…it's her main focus…
    the kids are there to love her …not vice versa..lol

  98. 98

    I'm not surprised. She's still better than a dank malaria infested orphanage…..I think??

  99. 99

    Re: marioisaloser – ur the lier

  100. 100

    Re: MADONNA does it betterRe: MADONNA does it better – wtf? are you fucking serious? i didnt say a fucking think about any nanny's i was trashing you asshole. maybe just maybe the press should go to you to check their facts first since you know so much, and you tell me to get a life?
    you are a pathetic little man

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