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Madonna, An Unfit Parent?

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Madonna's former chef, Eric Ienco, is speaking out against the Material Mom basically saying she cares more about herself than her kids.

Bad timing!

This "revelation" comes out as Madge is appealing her denial of adopting little Mercy James from Malawi.

Didn't her chef have to sign some sort of confidentiality agreement when he got hired?????

Either way, Ienco is speaking out, and according to him, Madge hardly spends any time with her three kids, maybe just about 30 minutes a day.

He adds, "That's why it's a puzzle she wants to adopt again. She's hardly ever with her children. She's got two full-time nannies and one part-time nanny. So why adopt a kid if somebody else is raising them?"

So just what does Madge do all day that's got her so busy ignoring her kids?

According to Ienco:

"She gets up and has a coffee, then she does two hours of yoga. Then there's two hours of Pilates and exercise. That's six days a week. After that, she deals with her e-mail, her calls and the rest of her business. And after that, she spends maybe half an hour with the kids. If Lourdes comes in and says, 'I want to see Mom,' she is told, 'She's doing yoga' - and Lourdes knows she can't disturb Mom. Madonna puts herself before her kids. When she adopted little David, he arrived at her home from Africa - and three hours later, she left to do Pilates. Wouldn't you think she'd want to spend the entire day with her new son?"


We want that chef to take a lie detector test - and now!

We just can't believe that about Madonna.

[Image via WENN.]

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209 comments to “Madonna, An Unfit Parent?”

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  1. 101

    Re: JoJoStar – shut up.u can find pics of madonna in brazil with her kids,in argentin a,in europe,actually when she was in italy she took her kids to vaticano, and she is always with them,people like to criticize her but they dont know what they are talking about.that man worked for madonna in 2000 and she just have lola.she was pregnant of rocco.u see pics of madonna with her kids everytime she goes out.and guy said it.she is a lovin mother

  2. 102

    Re: Fifi Belle – so tue

  3. mvp says – reply to this


    its so fake

    From the tabloids. This guy was her cook in 2000 for 8 months - when she was pregnant - that's it.

    "In 2000, I landed ‘THE’ job in London with Madonna as her house manager and cook, something he describes as “Massively momentous!” During that time, he prepared the superstar’s favourite feasts, including salads while she was pregnant. After eight months, he left to travel and catch up with his family…"

  4. 104

    LMAO!!!! like we did not know this already, her brother said the same thing *same daily routine* in his book, which was very honest and real and really told the story of the controlling freak! basically the nannys are raising her kids, anyone with an ounce of common sense can figure that out, but ofcourse the HAGsdonna adulators will never see it!

  5. 105

    Finally, someone said it.
    And with all this training she looks simply disgusting.

  6. 106

    Re: JigSaw – .i.

  7. 107

    Re: MADONNA does it better – LIAR!!! as usual, the brother had a fall out with her shortly after Lourde's birth and he has only met her a couple of times it's in his book, so how the hell would he know what kind of a parent she is, she is simply too much of a narcicist to put anyone else first, no matter who it is!

  8. 108

    Re: JigSaw – This guy is either a creepy stalker or perhaps he is Madonna….he thinks he knows every detail of her life. Sick!

  9. 109

    Re: thinderella – shut up asshole.gaga is a loser.she is senil and she is crazy like shitneyRe: former M fan – her broither gave an interview and said he is an amzing mother and her father poke too.her father is really serious and he said she is an amzing mother.guy ritchie said it too loser,and he knoews better.this man worked with madonna in 200,she just had lola.get a life.this is not true at all.madonna is a great mother.she is always with her kids and she loves them very much.she and guy are very friends ,they spend the xtmas and the easter together and it was for the kids

  10. 110

    Re: janisjoplin – no im not madonna asshole.madonna friends and her family knows her.even guy ritchie that is her ex husband said she is a great mother.her ex carlos leon said it too,and all her friends,her brother said she is an amazing mother and he knew that she was fighting for her marriege and for her family.

  11. 111

    perezhilton….every day redefining the art of kissing ass. I think you have a lot in common with Prince Charles.Once upon a time he wanted to be reincarnated as his currant wife's tampon, you would die happy being a roll of heavily used toilet paper.

  12. 112

    Re: former M fan – i just said she is not like shitney that uses drugs in front of her kids.madonna is a smart woman that wants the best for her kids.she gives lots of advices to her friends paltrow,madonna is amzinbg.if even her ex husband talkks amazing things about her that because she is really a good mum

  13. 113

    Re: MADONNA does it better – Yet at the same time about her brother: In the book, he criticizes her lifestyle, saying that she is a "control freak," narcissist, and cheapskate.

  14. 114

    madonna take always her kids to her concerts.she even dedicate a song to her kids everytime she goes o stage.get a life.madonna is an amazing mother.the kids go to school an then they stays with her.

  15. 115

    I believe this story because I read another one like this on "News of the World" where Guy was complaining that there were times that he wanted to see her but had to wait for her to finish her Pilates because she can't be disturbed when doing her exercises!
    This woman is all about her Diva ways and is cold. Boy, even though she never spends time with them, she has made sure that the paps snap pictures of her together with the kids. Sorry, didn't help in Malawi! ha,ha.. What an embarassment!

  16. 116

    This picture must have been taken before all the plastic surgery..and why does this suprise anyone? I believe that and much more. She is a selfish whore.

  17. 117

    Re: thinderella – shut up moron.u dont know nothing about her life,nothing.u only see gagasshole.and everybody hates that mental freak already

  18. 118

    Re: former M fan – narcisit??ahaha u are always confusing being a strong woman with narcisist slut.we dont care.she is the most popular artist of all time.u are kids u dont know nothing about madge career

  19. 119

    she is an animal on stage.she wows the crowd like nobody

  20. 120

    I believe it. Those kids are trophies. Just like Michael Jackson's. Except she probably doesn't diddle them…

  21. 121

    Re: Antoinette64 – and u should read what guy ritchie said now.guy said she is an amazing mother that really loves her kids.and thats the true.her brother said she is a strong woman.she used to be a bitch but not anymore.she is a leo .leo are like that.so what..she never hurt anybody,she never commicted any crime.and her brother was just looking for money cause he payed apolazised to madonna.cause she told her dad,and he always sai that she is an amazing mother.he just dont like guy ritchie.people love to talk about things that they dont know.madonna is amazing,she is very friendly.madonna changed a lot with motherwood.guy is her ex husband and said she is amazing mother.and he knows that.that man worked for madonna in 2000.she only had 1 kid.Re: guilty of being white – she is not selfish and whore.she was marrie for ten years and actually her ex husband is on her side.this man worke with her in 2000.she just had lola.u fuck off.u dont know nothing about her

  22. 122

    Re: janisjoplin – yeah, and so much fun to torment, lol

  23. 123

    Re: MADONNA does it better – And clearly you live with her and know everything about it.

  24. 124

    Re: thinderella – she is a control freak on her career.so what.people that really knows her says she is very romantic .and she is a very nice lady.she is 50 she is not that bitch that used to be.listen she was in portugal last year and she gave money to our schools and no one was asking her for that.she does lots of charity and if she was that bad person she just doesnt give a fuck about charity.madonna loves to help.she is strong and she still number one and u guys hate her for that.look at shitney,she is a loser,no one cares about her anymore.and her brother never said she was narcizist,i read the book.he was looking for money,.he was at madonna concert last year.he is always looking for her.he blames guy rithcie for all.but he always said she loves her family

  25. 125

    Perez Hilton is such a sissy loser! What he did with Miss California was not only embarrassing but extremely LAME! What a JERK!

  26. 126

    even the people that worked with her in her business said she is amazing and very nice,justin,pharrel,flo rida.nelly furtado,timabaland,p.diddy loves her.u dont have no ideia.carlos leon says she is amazing and she is really strong.and sean penn said that he loves her for the way she is,she is not afraid to say what she wants.she is sassy

  27. 127

    its so fake
    From the tabloids. This guy was her cook in 2000 for 8 months - when she was pregnant - that's it.
    "In 2000, I landed ‘THE’ job in London with Madonna as her house manager and cook, something he describes as “Massively momentous!” During that time, he prepared the superstar’s favourite feasts, including salads while she was pregnant. After eight months, he left to travel and catch up with his family…"
    take that assholes

  28. 128

    uh, no. it's VERY easy to believe that about her.

  29. 129

    this guy worked for Madonna years ago…

  30. 130

    Re: Antoinette64 – listen she never said it was paps fault asshole.dont u read.she asked them ,she never press charge against them.the tabloids love to fake the story.the police depyiment didnt said nothing about the paps cause she never said nothing to cops about them.she was taking to the hospital when she talked to them.she didnt saw the paps,but her friends that were there saw the paps.and all their soties(paps) is strange.madonna doesnt need to lie about nothing.she fell so what.she asked paps if they were the cause for her accident than they said no,she said ok,and them, they asked if she were ok,she said yes thank u.madonna never blame the paps.never,and this man is lying cause madonna is always with her kids,always.and about malawi she will go on court again on 4 may asshole.what an emberressement.people can wrote wherever they want about madonna and the haters will always beleive in the bad things.the tabloids are like that and lots of people are here to have their 15 min of fame like this man that worked with her in 2000.just ridiculous

  31. 131

    Re: Obama Hearts TOTUS
    You know what it is..I figured it out. He's just trolling. He's not really a Madonna fan. He's just pretending to be one, because he wants to make a point that Madonna fans tend to be crazy and obsessed, so he's acting like some crazed stalker so he can get everyone all fired up against Madonna. That's the only plausible explanation. Certainly no one is REALLY that crazy.

  32. 132

    Re: thinderella – no i dont but we know her.we follow her for years.,.we know everything that she does and where she is and with who she is.and we know that she is in home every night and we know that she is a good mother.this man worked for madonna in 2000.9 years ago,she only had lola that was 3.she was a baby and amdonna was pregnant of rocco.hopw this man can say this !!!!!and if it was really him.cause we know that media loves to fake a story to sell.madonna always was a good mother.look at pictures of all these years and see madge with her kids all the time.she take them to movies and all these things.madonna took her kids on her tours all the time.and then she goes travelling with them ..she was in maldivas earlier this year with the kids,she was in italy with then,greece,in argentina.u have pics.go to her site like www.madonnalicious.com,or www.gettyimages.com.chech the pics.Re: booznbabes – madonna is not mj.he is crazy madonna never act like a crazy woman.mj is more like shitney

  33. 133

    Re: medicallyfucked – its easy toi believe if u dont know her and just believe s in wahts tabloids says about her.its all fake a big lie.shitney has no escusses

  34. 134

    Re: Antoinette64 – sunday she was chilling at the bitch with the paps.she never said nothing against them,they were telling jokes.see the pics

  35. 135

    You can't believe that about Madonna!? Just look at her, she's obviously a mentally ill, narcissistic exercise addict with body image problems.

  36. 136

    Re: BossBrit – Boss Brit, you are right on the money. Madonna IS only pictured in her workout gear. Even her ex said that she exercised nonstop and spent little time with the kids. I guess they're like toys to her, to take out and play with when she's bored.

  37. 137

    "Madonna Does It Better" has way, way too much free time.

  38. 138

    Re: scissor – exacly she only had a kid.not 3

  39. 139

    Madonna always has been a publicity wh.ore. Whatever it takes to sell more records or boost her ticket sales.

  40. 140

    Re: natters67 – I'm a gay guy and I despise this rancid bitch. She needs to worry about getting those horrid cheek implants removed and leave that Mercy girl alone.

  41. 141

    Yet another ex-employee that wants money. Isn't his motive obvious here?

  42. 142

    Re: MADONNA does it better – she is a classic case of a clinical narcicist!!! that has shit to do with being a "strong woman", look it up under any psychology 101 book, (if you are ever away from Perez Hilton.com long enough) and read up on narcicist behavior it fits her to a tee!!! learn and read something beyond what the HAGdonna PR slacks put out!

  43. 143

    Following her for years? Knowing everything she does with who, when, how….?
    Sounds like s.t.a.l.k.e.r. to me.

  44. 144

    Re: LeeCee – shut up.her ex never said nothing of that.her ex spend the easter with her till 2 am and said she is an amazing mother and he is supporting her loser.she is not a control freak,she is a strong woman that is very prefectionist,and she loves exercise so what.lots of people love too.and thats a good tghing.i guess that all of u are fatRe: GoodBoyNC – shut up,millions of madonna fans dont even know about this site.more than 3million and 500 thousand people saw madonna last year.see how powerfull she is.and she is kind,she gaves money to halping people in each country she goes,.she is always with her kids.leave her alone.her ids are always with her

  45. 145

    …well, duh.

  46. 146

    Re: Plinkie9 – shut up.madonna doesnt need publicity she is famous enought asshole.the tabloids love her

  47. 147

    So untrue! This man Eric worked for Madonna in the year 2000 for eight months while she was pregnant with Rocco. Little David did not come into the picture until the year 2006. Sounds like someone is stirring up trouble or looking for $$$

  48. 148

    madonna is the true queen.all u losers get over it

  49. 149

    madonna is amazing.she is not like that.this man worked with her in 2000,when she moved to london and she only had lola at the time.how can this man talk about her now.get a life.ur 15 min are over

  50. 150

    Believe it - she's a narcissist first and foremost.

  51. 151

    Re: Fluffy Kitty – I agree! of course she is!!!

  52. 152

    Re: JoliAvocat – how exactly is he getting $$$$$ by telling the truth!!!! he's not getting paid!!! typical deduction by a MANdonna adulator!

  53. 153

    Re: bethonna – of course.he just wants money.maybe madonna doesnt remember him anymore.in that time madonna was moving to london.she was pregenant and she only had lola.was a dificult time to her cause she was moving with a little girl.this man is crazyRe: thinderella – gaga sucks.why dont u go and comment gaga post??everybody is saying nasty things about gagasshole.madonna roicks loser.gaga tries so hard

  54. 154

    What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
    NPD is a type of psychological personality disorder characterized primarily by grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Narcissism occurs in a spectrum of severity, but the pathologically narcissistic tend to be extremely self-absorbed, intolerant of others’ perspectives, insensitive to others’ needs and indifferent to the effect of their own egocentric behavior.
    It is not uncommon for persons with this disorder to frequently compare themselves to the accomplished, well-known and well-to-do. They feel entitled to great praise, attention, and deferential treatment by others.

  55. llll says – reply to this


    madonna is amazing.this is so untrue.what a stupid man.all those haters are insane.lol-just ridiculous.madonna has been doing a great job with her kids.they know diferent languages and they speack to each other in french or italian,its funny,now they will learn malawi language.

  56. 156

    I believe it.. if someone says you have a tail you better look.and this isnt the first time a source from inside has said its her way or no way.. besides shes not innocent never has been.. she has always been a weirdo.. she is always thinking of ways to "reinvent her self" and i think these kids are just a pawn in her game..

  57. \"M\ says – reply to this


    love y madonna

  58. \"M\ says – reply to this


    Re: bethonna – true

  59. \"M\ says – reply to this


    bring them down madonna

  60. 160

    The truth is right in front of our eyes. Another picture of Ma-Prima-Donna after yet another workout. A woman doesn't get that kind of body by jogging a mile or two a week. It is beyond obvious (just look at her arm muscles) how much time she spends working out. Do we ever see pictures of her playing with her kids? She's only photographed after a workout, coming from Kabbalah classes, riding a horse (hey, there's a thought: Maybe her kiddies would like a pony ride while she's busy falling off horses), in concert, or holding the hand of one of her other kids while roaming around Africa. You NEVER see her doing ANYTHING FUN with her kiddies.

  61. 161


  62. \"M\ says – reply to this


    Re: former M fan – listen,this man worked for madonna in 2000 she only had lola and she was pregenat of rocco.he works just a few months.guy ritchie is the man that lived with madonna for ten years and he said that madonna is an amazing mother and she is always with her kids.she is not a whore or narcisist.the only freak here is u and shitney.madonna is not crazy,madonna works hard for what she wants.she is a perfectionist,and madonna is a great mother,she is always with her kids,she never left them behind.no one that worked with her said bad things about her.no one said she is a bad mother.even her ex husband says she is a lovin mother.get a life she is a good woman.she used to be a bitch but not anymore .sorry.people around her love.even her ex carlos leon supportes her.get a life haters.this man doesnt no nothing about madonna.he worked in 2000 she just had one kid at that time

  63. \"M\ says – reply to this


    madonna rocks

  64. \"M\ says – reply to this


    Re: LocaChaChaCha – u are a slut

  65. \"M\ says – reply to this


    He said: “Madonna is a fantastic and loving mother who cares deeply about her own children, and children who may need additional help and support.

    “I fully supported her decision to apply for this adoption and I am saddened her application was rejected.”
    by guy ritchie

  66. 166

    I totally believe that!

  67. \"M\ says – reply to this



  68. 168

    Re: llll – how pathetic is it that you have to keep signing in and out under different alias to post shit so it seems like she has support, it comes down you and like 3 others including "Faux News Daily" which we should be hearing from soon, calling everyone a "fat load" LMAO!!!!! the vast majority of the people know who and what she is!!! sad!

  69. \"M\ says – reply to this


    Re: Obama Hearts TOTUS – shut up.we are not the same.Re: cheesecake – see her pics in central park,see madonna going to premieres with her kids.see madonna going shooping with her kids.u can see all of that.and madonna spend her vacation in paradise location far away from paps.madonna is always with her kids.perez only post the same pics but in her fan sites there are thousands of pics with her and her family.when madonna was in italy they were all visited vaticano,and in argentina they were travelling on a boat.see pics.they exist.madonna is one of the celebrities that spend more time with her kids actually

  70. 170

    Re: former M fan
    Exactly! If Robin Quivers is a 34 on the narcissism scale, Madonna is a 50!

  71. \"M\ says – reply to this


    Re: vidaboa33 – es portugues???n devias acreditar pk madonna e das unicas k passa tempo c os filhos.vai ao site www.madonnalicious e ve mtas fotos da madonna c os filhos.este cozinheiro trabalhou c ela em 2000 ela era apenas mae da lola e estav a mudar se para londres.estava gravida.e ele so trabalhou 8 meses

  72. 172

    Er, Madonna has always been about Madonna?!

  73. 173

    I believe him.

  74. 174

    Re: MADONNA does it better – You don't get arms like Popeye playing ring-around-the-rosy with your kids, you know. So its true.

  75. 175

    Nothing we didn't already know

  76. 176

    i believe it

  77. 177


  78. 178

    i believe EVERY word he says.
    it's obvious bc she has nannies that she's never around.

  79. 179

    I do love madonna a lot, but im not surprised of the truth, she is the eternal material girl,why do you think she looks the way she does at 50?, why does she want another child? we would never know,she have the right to do that and more . her kids looks healthy and happy that's all it matters. Well perhaps we would know the truth one day , perhaps Lola tell the tale one day when she is out of her leash . stay tune !!! Lola have a lot to tell juicy juicy juicy

  80. 180

    I wouldn't even call this "news" because we've heard this exact same story from everyone within Madonna's close knit circle who has finally had enough of her abuse and has the courage to speak out.

    Does anyone even like Madonna anymore? Even all of my gay friends are now completely disgusted with her. Karma is a bitch.

  81. 181

    are you joking perez? of course madonna is obsessed with herself. Its so depressing that she stole david away from his family and never spends time with him. I am sure Lourdes will write a tell all book at some point in time, so we will all eventually know the truth.

  82. 182

    Actually her former nanny said the opposite. Besides everyone knows she has a female Japaneese chef

  83. 183

    Re: Ariellie13 – David did not have a family. thats why he was an orphan.

  84. 184

    WE believe it Perez… Open your eyes…Dont be so blind….You know she doesnt give a damned about anyone or anything but herself and her desires….

  85. 185

    Perez… I think its time that you woke up and smelled the selfish diva bitch.

  86. 186

    Love ya, Perez, but you need to pull your head outta Madonna's ass! This is not surprising and probably 100% true. What reason does he have to lie??? She's a narcissist with an ego the size of Texas and most everyone (but you) are O-V-E-R her!!!

  87. 187

    Re: MADONNA does it better
    You must be one of her crazed fans that follow her around everywhere. Get a life and aren't you exhausted from having to answer all this? What exactly have you gained. Your still a broke low life and she's a rich superstar. Do you think that she would stick up for you like this? Never because you are a loser!
    Go get some sleep and get a life.
    Madonna is a weirdo. That's what making tons of money makes you. Weird, cold, demanding, a diva and etc.

  88. 188

    You can't believe that about Madonna, uh huh. Exactly why not? That poor horse should have tossed this bitch on her ass.

  89. 189

    she's a self absorbed, old, conceited, ugly, obnoxious hag! why should she be able to adopt another child? just a fashion accessory for her!!!!

  90. 190

    Wow. madonna, spend more time with your kids and less time being a whore!

  91. 191

    She really is like that. I remember I saw some behind the scenes footage of her one time, and she was talking about bringing her kids with her on tour or something, and she just acted like it was this big pain in the ass. She could have nanny's care for her kids as long as she took some time to spend with them. I've loved Madonna since the late 80s. But it's time she dropped the self-centered selfish behavior and just started being a good mom to her kids. If she's so caught up on her career, why doesn't she just return the kids to their biological fathers. Carlos Leon looks like a great dad and it's not like Guy Ritchie has much going on. I'm sure Rocco would be in better care under him. Money doesn't make one a good parent. It's less about money and more about time spent.

  92. 192

    She should hire someone to respond to her emails instead. Oh, and fire the cook. Cooking is something her and the kids could do together, once he's gone.

  93. 193


  94. 194

    I'm not surprised at all…she seems pretty self-centered.

    Plus, how do you think her arms got so huge?

  95. 195

    Re: former M fan – #146 Better yet, narcissism can be broken down into two categories: cerebral and somatic. Google it.

  96. 196

    Re: Antoinette64 – #191 Great points!

  97. 197

    100% unfit as a parent. BUT

  98. 198

    100% totally unfit as a parent. That girl needs to take some time off and do her kids right. Lame.

  99. 199

    Come on Perez! She didn't get that hard body spending time with her kids! It takes A LOT of time to get and keep a body like that! I believe the chef.

  100. 200

    :O Madonna being narccistic? Noooo, you must be lying!

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