Dear Idaho
THIS sucks!!!!!!!

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SO WHAT??? Move to a state that does…quit whinning already
wouldn't a single mom or single dad with 3 kids qualify for a family rate at a pool? so why couldn't they have 2 moms with kids qualify? things like this make no sense. I don't care whether you are for or against gay marriage; this makes no sense.
BOOOOOOOOO
Re: perezhater – people shouldn't have to move.
My entire family is from Idaho (most of them are considerably more open minded than most)…and let me tell you something about Idahoans: they are who they are and they don't try to hide it. They may be homophobic, and racist, but at least they don't try to hide it or deny it (ahem, Utah). It's very sad the backwards way they think, but that's just the way it is. The people in Idaho are very nice…but open minded they are not.
I'm not saying all people in Idaho are like that, but the fact of the matter is the ones who are like that happen to be the most outspoken.
On a side note: I'm surprised this happened in Pocatello…people there tend to be a bit more rebellious and open minded. It's a blue collar college town…there is more diversity and it's somewhat more liberal than the rest of the state.
Re: JohnnyD – you're stupid :]
I live in Idaho and work for the state. They allow a partner of any sex to sign up with you at our recreation center and give them a family discount, so it was pure discrimination at the pool, not a matter of law.
This was in a very rural area, not all of Idaho deserves to be labeled because of a couple of hicks.
I'm SO sick of all this effing bigotry! Why can't people see this is the EXACT same thing that went down with the African Americans and separate but equal? Makes me sick that some people let their religious hate or intolerance affect a whole population of people. It's NEVER been okay to systematically deny a whole group of people the same rights as everyone else. You'd think in this day and age that would be recognized.
Ok JohnnyD we'll put those disgusting people who were taking children they didn't have to raise in jail. Imagine the nerve two people that love each other taking children they love to do a family oriented fun thing. Disgusting…why can't there be more hateful people like you in the world Johnny, things would straighten right the hell out then. Crank I'm probably going to burn too because homosexual marriages don't threaten my heterosexual marriage . Oh well according to you it will at least be full of interesting people!
FUCK IDAHO AND THEIR POTATOES!
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Time to hook up with a same sex couple of the opposite gender for family "outings" in the future. All they care about is the perception.
Weak, hollow, hypocrites!
Re: JohnnyD –
I think gay couples should be encouraged to become foster parents.
What foster children need is a loving home, no matter what form it comes in. Those children are probably in a exponentially better situation now than the one they were in before.
It's sad people can't let go of their bigotry and see what in reality is really in the best interest of the children. If they weren't in the same-sex couple's home, they very well could have been in an abusive home where they were just seen as a welfare check.
Re: JohnnyD – You're ignorance makes me giggle.
Oh sweet Jesus, if you've ever been to Lava Hot Springs, you'd never want to go back anyway, so they're not missing anything. It's the inbred redneck paradise of Idaho.
Yeah well it is Pocatello aka the asshole of Idaho. Idaho from like, Moscow down is the most backward state. Anything that isn't a rodeo, Ford F-150 or a cowboy hat is looked at like something alien.
"as a state agency, we must follow state laws" what the fuck ever! I smell homophobes.
so disappointing. not all of idaho feels that way!
Re: JohnnyD – Oh fuck off. You're more likely to go to hell for being a judgmental asshole than these people who are trying to raise their family as best they can. What they do behind the closed doors of their bedroom is none of their business. For fuck's sake, it's not like they're going to teach their kids to "be gay."
Given the fact that there are so many definitions for the term family I'm surprised they'd sink so low.
I am from Idaho and this story sickens me. Pocatello is a backwards middle of nowhere town full of mormons and hate mongers. This is not a reflection on the whole state. I live in Boise which is as liberal and accepting of a town as you can find in any conservative state. We have openly gay elected officials and a very accepted gay community. Its horrible that the action of a few hateful zealots can reflect so poorly on a state that is trying to make such advances.
LilJoJo, you are right on point!! i live in boise, idaho, been here for about 15 years…and it is definitley one of the most conservative places you could ever imagine. the majority of the population is mormon…and sadly, i'm not surprised to see this story. although it is sad that people, especially young kids, are discriminated against this way…its just the way it is here. maybe someday it will be different…
You have got to be kiddin' me.
Re: DirtyPantaloons – I totally agree. One of these days these people wil be recognized for what they really are, a bunch of bigots, and be ignored like the racists of America. Only in a matter of time…
Thank God some people haven't lost all good sense!
Re: crawfas23 – You're right not all of Idaho feels the same
way but the vast majority do, just like every other state in America.
feel free to contact Mark.Lowe@lhs.idaho.gove if you want to make a complaint
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This is no different than the old separate drinking fountains in the South
for white & black people, or making blacks sit at the back of the bus.
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So sad and completely embarrassing for America.
Who would have thought that we would still be doing these despicable
acts of discrimination in 2009?
Re: t_lo06 –
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Just curious # 21: How can you tolerate living there?
I couldn't keep my mouth shut if I
witnessed these awful things!
Re: JohnnyD –
# 3 Johnny:
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So you think a better environment for these kids is discrimination and hate?
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Many same sex partners adopt (or foster) kids who no one else wants!
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Your ignorance is as astounding as this story ..
That's fucked up.
Yeah, it does. Sorry everybody. There are people here that aren't total ignorant hicks, but we're pretty much overshadowed by all the dumbasses.
I lived most of my life in Idaho - What everyone should know is that eastern Idaho is EXTREMELY Mormon, but not all of Idaho is. . . Don't judge all of us based on the extremists in Eastern Idaho! Please!! Just stay away from that side of the state! Hell, even Couer d'Alene is trying to break from their image of being racist - they prosecuted the aryan nation on tax evasion just to be able to close down their compound - to judge an entire state based on one incident is pretty unfair. You will find examples of racism, hatred and homophobes in every state in the nation. But you will also find loving, caring, non-homophobe, non-racist people in everyone of those states as well.
Re: DirtyPantaloons –
Absolutely! I thought I was the only person with enough sense to realize this.
Just the way it is…thats a HORRIBLE excuse for this sick, vile act of discrimination.
Re: JohnnyD – They're foster parents because they're willing to open up their home and give love to children that are lacking it…by the way, children of a straight male and straight female that aren't able to take care of their own…and the state did care enough to find someone that can take care of them, and it just happens that they're a same sex couple. If you're so upset you should man up and become a foster parent…ASSHOLE!
Pay backs are hell, right cocky.
What do you expect from a state known for white supremacists and white trash and has Larry Craig as a senator? It's ugly and it's bigotry and this shows more why gay rights and marriage need to be the law of the land.
Re: JohnnyD – I'm glad that you have religon as a hobby but you seem to be obsessed with a gay man's blog and telling all gays they are going to burn in hell and name calling. I'm not convinced there is a hell but if it does exist something tells me evil hateful trash like you will be there first.
Re: LilJoJo – it wasn't in pocatello, that's where the couple were from… it's in a small town called lava.
Re: Oh Resist Her – sorry, but many think the opposite.
Re: KelseyElle – Re: KelseyElle – that's a pretty ignorant stament… seeing as bannock county is one of the most liberal in idaho.
I am from Idaho and have never been more disappointed/embarrassed of the state i grew up in. Just because there are conservative, ignorant, and disgusting humans there does not mean we all are. I am not gay, but am all for gay rights and equality!
OK. All of you who think this is bad, you are losers with a heart of Ice. Just because you are different, it doesn't mean anything and you still have rights. And JohnnyD, you probably are a hooker with no friends. People that are different are probably great people. And if they wanted to be foster parents, thats great. At least they have a heart, and are caring for these kids.
Re: dabears – that is really rude and just because someone is gay, you shouldnt be such a bastard
That's embarrassing..Eastern Idaho pretty much sucks
Re: LilJoJo –
I have lived in Idaho for the majority of my life, in Boise, Pocatello, and Twin Falls currently.
I agree with everything except about Pocatello being liberal…Pocatello is the LEAST liberal place in Idaho I have lived. I went to school there for two years and was miserable because I am very…democratic and open minded. Boise is the most liberal place…I was practically shunned in Pocatello for not being Mormon.
Also Lava Hot Springs is about 30 minutes away from Pocatello in a very small town that is albeit very close minded.
Its sad that this happens, but I guarantee as far as honoring same sex marriage or legalizing it, Idaho will be the absolute LAST state to do so, if they EVER do so.
Re: Oh Resist Her –
more like from moscow UP…hello all the skin heads and aryan nations are in NORTHERN IDAHO. I've lived in Idaho almost my entire life. Boise and south west idaho is much better than up north. Up north is more redneck and hickish than almost anywhere else in idaho.
Dear Perez,
As an Idahoian, I can tell you that isn't half of the up-tight things happening. I can also tell you we have one of the biggest gay pride parades in the Northwest.
Wow, thats super crappy!
Re: tigerrrr00 – Well, considering I go to school at the U of I and live there 9 months out of the year, it's safe to say that I have a pretty good handle on the way the people in the state are. YOU may not be like that, but the vast majority of Idahoans are like that.
I can't fucking believe this bullshit!!! Who died and made Idaho the governing body to decide what a fucking family is. Loving caretaker(s) + children = Family. Fuck you Idaho.
Re: dabears – you don't know the way martin luther king would have thought about gay issues, so stop acting as if you do. also, most gay people ARE born gay, unlike you who wasn't t born a hateful, hurtful, discriminating bigot, but was taught to be that way.
Im ashamed 2 say that I live in this state! I'm DISGUSTED by this!
Re: Yellow Peeps – well, moving here wasn't my choice. i was young and obviously had to go where my parents told me to go haha. but boise is absolutely beautiful. and i have life long friends…besides the political aspects…its a great city. but you wont hear many people say that.
I to grew up in closed minded never left the 30's town in Idaho. Their thinking is so backwards and scary. I am so glad to have escaped.
Its stuff like this and on top of this now the guy who went on shooting spree at holocaust museum in DC used to live with the white supremicists in Idaho. People ask me where I am from I say Ny I find it very hard to admit where I come from even though my roots are there
i live in this state :/
Ah, It's IDAHO, USA. That makes sense now. USA is full of morons. Poor people living in that 3rd world country…
It seems as if the YMCA can offer a reasonable definition of family for their membership fees, so can you. They define a family as two adults and their dependent children. It is a definition that has been widely adopted in many organizations in the last few years, as non traditional family structures have become more prevalent. I am unsure as to why this definition is so radical that it cannot be adopted in your institution, regardless of the state's position on same sex marriage. I assume your state does not have a law or statute which formally defines what qualifies as a family, and if they do, I'd be interested to see it.
It is a cop out, and if you're intelligent enough to run an organization such as the one you have been tasked with, you are intelligent enough to know that you are just making excuses for an archaic and discriminatory rule. The adherence to this rule calls into question whether or not you are using your position to leverage your own personal beliefs on the community which supports the hot springs. While same sex marriage is not yet legal in Idaho, I'm pretty sure that discrimination has not been decriminalized.
This story has been featured on perezhilton.com, and will be followed on many others in the coming days. Hopefully the limelight you have attracted will make your responsibility to the public you serve much more apparent to you.
Regards,
Aja West
Idaho really really sucks
That's just bs whether you are for or against gay marriage…how about a household rate then douche bags!