Kate Gosselin Loses It With Kids

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Kate Gosselin is beginning to crack!!!

Either that or she really does love being in the tabloids.

Photogs captured Kate losing her temper with one of the sextuplets, Leah, on Saturday morning. As Kate was on the phone, Leah was blowing a whistle. After Kate asked her to stop, Leah blew on the whistle again and Kate became enraged.

She rose from her seat, came over, and spanked the little girl! In front of the cameras!

A witness tellsInTouch, "The girl was screaming and crying. Kate just pushed her away and walked off with her coffee. Her older sisters were trying to make Leah feel better.”

Oy, not a good move, Kate. Doesn't help your image at all, since your trying to avoid being labeled an abusive parent.

Of course, in light of this news, the experts had to be called in to see if this was a serious offense on Kate's part. Though there is no laws against spanking and the parental community is divided on the practice.

In a public statement, Kate stands firm behind the feeling that how she disciplines her children in public or private is her decision.

We do think Kate should have thought about those damn cameras before reacting the way she did.

What do U think about Kate's reaction?

    Posted: Jun 17, 2009 at 12:15 pm / Email this  »

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    1. 401

      I am pro spanking but the part about kate pushing her daughter is the part that made me mad! It is one thing to make your child learn from the mistake he or she made, but it is another to make your child feel bad about themselves afterwards. Another thing is that if you spank your child you should spank the child and then sit them down and talk to them after, not let your older children comfort them!



    2. 402

      oh my god everybody need stop stop caring about these people. THEY'RE A FUCKING REALITY TV SHOW!! I realize the children didn't get a say about being on television but still… like her or hate her it's HER decision how to discipline her children. All of our parents were spanked and they grew up fine. I'm certainly not advocating child abuse but a slight tap on the bum when your child is out of line will stop their behavior right then and there. It's just society and everyone wanting to be their child's "friend" that has made spanking unethical in today's parenting. Calm down everyone and just let this poor family live their life in as much peace and normalcy as possible.



    3. 403

      OMFG She was caught -SPANKING- her daughter. that's all her business.
      How she chooses to disciplines her kids is hers to deal with if she's in the public or not.
      Oh, and when kids get spanked they tend to cry fyi!
      Damn Perez



    4. 404

      thats bullshit….EVERY mom at some point has hit their kids.



    5. 405

      Hitting.. spanking whatever.

      I call it parenting. Get OVER it. as long as it doesn't leave bruises or scratches its fine.

      its just spanking.



    6. 406

      She spanked her kid, not because she was doing something bad, but doing something to annoy Kate. It's pretty clear that the children are reaching out for ATTENTION from their mother, which they don't get unless the cameras are rolling. You know what? I never spanked my kids (21 & 20) and they are doing fine. Learn how to talk to your kids, not hit them.



    7. 407

      Thats right Kate kick the little ass now so that the police won't be kicking the ass later. Good for you!



    8. 408

      Re: jackiemRe: cheesecake

      totally agree about your post. If you are a parent and have to spank your kids, it just shows how little you know about parenting. That means you have no clue on how to deal with kids. Pickup a book and find out how a 5 year old thinks. Spanking is reactionary.



    9. 409

      she shouldn't discipline her children in front of cameras. that's embarrassing for the child and herself. she'll receive criticism for it and her poor daughter is going to grow up and see herself being spanked because her mother decided to exploit her… pathetic. kate is just becoming a worse mother everyday, including the whole water interview -_-



    10. 410

      Well I for one am thrilled to see a parent who FINALLY knows who's in charge. I never had kids and thank God, because I have no tolerance for little bratts who demand attention. When my friends had their children, it was during that period of time in the 70's when people thought it was bad to spank. Good God, look where that's gotten us now. I say, "Good for you, Kate! Hit her again!". I'd hit Leah myself, but it's illegal for some stupid reason.



    11. 411

      spanking does help raise kids, but since she's a fame whore I'm glad people are getting sick of her.



    12. 412

      oh my god, she is such a bitch! I know some people will say that children need spanking but i am disagreing with that, when you spank a child more than once, it becomes spycologicaly a problem for the child. they will resent offoraty.



    13. 413

      meh. smacking is understandable. not comforting her kid when she's crying - not so much.



    14. 414

      "Spanking" is not "beating". Man, that's exactly what's wrong with this country right now. A few idiots decided that everyone who spanks their kids are "abusive", and once that label gets out there, people become afraid to use discipline anymore. Children need to learn consequences, and at that age, sometimes they need a pop on the bottom to get their attention. I would never condone beating a child with an object (I don't spank my children with anything but my hand, because objects HURT, and that's not the point of spanking), but a little spank on the behind isn't going to ruin them for life.



    15. 415

      Its just a spanking! She's her parent, it's not against the law to spank your child. It's not like she beat the kid to a bloodly pulp.



    16. 416

      beat her with the car ariel and shell stop that damn whisteling!!!



    17. 417

      Not that I don't believe in a good spanking but she just seems like a monstrous bitch. I feel for her husband and kids….it's time to call the shrink cause she's definately nuts.

    18. feef says – reply to this


      418

      she just spanked her! no biggie. i've been knocked upside the head a few times. all parents do it whether they say they do or not. i don't even like kate gosselin very much and i still think it's ridiculous how now people will say she's abusive.

    19. feef says – reply to this


      419

      although her hand is in a fist, not flat like you would have it if you were actually spanking..



    20. 420

      okk i see a lot of people saying she should have gone inside rather than disciplining leah. why? would you go inside if your child was being very loud while you were on the phone? might i add that she was watching her children outside and she probably couldnt have gone in… who would keep an eye on them? i also see a lot about how she did it in public. im sorry… in the driveway at their home is not public. she shouldnt have to sensor everything she does in her own backyard for gods sake. and i dont see a closed fist. i see her grabbing the whistle away and then giving a smack. she didnt punch leah. if she did you can bet your ass one of those photographers would have called the cops for real. then they would have actually had a real story on their hands instead of this nonsense about kate giving leah a swat on the butt.



    21. 421

      parents are supposed to spank naughty children every once in a while… GET OVER IT.



    22. 422

      that is what parents do sometimes when things become to much to handle. i mean look at everything going on with her.. i would be all over the place to.. with SIX 5 year old, cameras following her around 24/7, and now everyone seems to blame her for her husbands affair… come on.. give kate a break!



    23. 423

      puhleeeez, my family took out the belt when i misbehaved! spanking doesn't ever hurt children, it's just a psychological act to scare them so they don't do it again. it's not physically abusive.



    24. 424

      Why should she change her behavior because the cameras are there? If she let her kids do whatever they want then everyone would bitch about that. I was spanked as a child (and I usually deserved it!) and I've got no lasting emotional effects. And there is a huge difference between a swat on the behind and abuse. No matter what she says or does people are only going to see the negative side of her. I suggest she have a few cocktails and go wild—give the people something that's worth talking about.



    25. 425

      It probably wasnt as bad as its being made out to be



    26. 426

      A spanking is NOT abuse.
      some parents are barely manage one child imagine eight of them



    27. 427

      She deserved it

    28. pj88 says – reply to this


      428

      Kate can be a bitch.. but she's a good mom. I don't think she is "abusing" her child, she's just trying to control an unruly child… and I'm sure stress does play a BIG part of this. At first I was a Kate hater, but now.. I just feel sorry for what Hollywood has done to the whole family.



    29. 429

      what kate did was shocking. I think that spanking/abusing your children should be illegal all around the world. I live in New Zealand and spanking/abusing children is illegal. If the law is broken, you would face some serious charges.



    30. 430

      and kate's child is very young. In the first picture, it looked more like she was using her fist than her hand. Being spanked/abused can bring your children into a environment where they would possibly be doing drugs and alcohol when they are older. I know many kids that do this because they were brought up in a bad environment.



    31. 431

      Re: phaphatcat – kate was using more of her fist than her palm. try looking in the first picture again.



    32. 432

      It was one spanking to reprimand, you don't discipline your kids you get Spencer Pratt



    33. 433

      Hell kids are spanked enough. At least we don't see these kids sitting on there ass play video games all the time!



    34. 434

      I think that Kate did nothing wrong. She was just trying to discipline her child. When my children dont listen they get spanked too.

    35. Big O says – reply to this


      435

      GOOD FOR KATE!

      Listen, spanking a child always looks worse than it is. I have 2 kids and have had to spank on multiple occasions. You have NO idea how much children push the limits. Kids are downright disobedient again and again and again.

      To put it lightly a good old fashioned can of whup ass does the trick EVERY TIME! I've tried using the "friendly" Mom voice, I've tried being patient, but time and time again I get ignored… one thing they won't ignore is my hand across their ass!

      I say GOOD FOR HER - STAND YOUR GROUND GIRLFRIEND!!!!

    36. crt45 says – reply to this


      436

      discipline should never take place when the parent is angry-everything i've ever read about parenting (& being a parent as well) say the same thing, its NOT effective done with anger. I think its a lazy way out instead of dealing with the problem at hand. Kids act out when their parents are seperated/divorcing-the only reason jon & kate come together is to film the show. The kids know this and are upset about it as they should be. Get a grip Kate-stop being a selfish bitch and behave like a caring parent instead of a 15 min. fame whore.



    37. 437

      This doesn't seem that bad, she's simply controlling her child, so what if the kid is screaming her head off?
      She is 5!
      Kids have a tendency to overreact!
      Why are people all of a sudden making such a big deal out of these people!
      It's like I just woke up one day and there was an incredibly slow news day so all the tabloids started reporting about them!
      Why the fuck do I care?
      I don't and nobody else should!
      If they wanted to they would watch their stupid show on TLC!
      It's like come on this is ridiculous!
      There is much worse child abuse going on in the world, and this isn't even abuse for petes sake!
      She has the right to discipline her child!
      The kid's not in the hospital is she?
      NO!
      So people need to shut the hell up about this family because I and I'm sure plenty of other people just don't give a fuck!



    38. 438

      As a social worker, i believe that there are many different ways to handle dealing with a child other than having a physical beating…but sometimes kids need a little tap on the butt to keep them in line. It's not about the spanking of the child in anyway to cause pain, it's about showing the child whose in charge and that they have to listen to the parent.



    39. 439

      im sure because this is perez hiltons site most of its readers are under 30. and by the posts, that bears out. you guys have no clue on parenting. you sound like a bunch of lazy, had a baby at 20 no big deal i spank my kids when they bother me, i'm talking with my friends, after the show im watching crowd. Having babies is easy. Being a parent is difficult. If you spank your kids, you have issues as a parent. Don't blame the kids. They are five years old. And how old are you when you hit your kids? Grow up and be the parent.



    40. 440

      whatever!
      r u now going to judge her on how she diciplines her kids??
      I'm not saying that she has to smack them every time they miss behave… But I sure have to admit that I learned a lot when my parents gave me a smack every now and then.
      Now I'm not quite defending her, but maybe the kid had it coming.
      It's not like it's child abuse or anything. It's just dicipline.

      now…I do know a few celebrities that need a good smack for being so goddamn annoying, selfish, and just basically behaving like little kids.



    41. 441

      she's cracking!!! At first, the show always show them doing time outs with the kids or just walking away and ignoring them, never whippings!! They even say how hard they are on their toys, one broke the top of the toliet how rough they are with each other and the dogs. I think they need a crack on the back side once in a while, but not when you are trying to talk to your boyfriend and not paying attention to them. Her favorite thing is to get a chair and watch them play. She takes them places and buy them everything but she doesn't know how to play with them!



    42. 442

      i know that it isnt right
      but i still love you
      sometimes your in the heat of the moment
      and you just lose it
      goo into your little world and
      do some things you wish you havent
      happens alll the time



    43. 443

      i think it's fine. every once in awhile my kids need a pop on the butt. i dont think there's anything wrong with that…



    44. 444

      Re: choc cookie

      And that's exactly why New Zealand is……New Zealand, and not the USA, where, thankfully, parents have the right to choose how to discipline their kids. And, actually, every once in a while when a kid gets out of line, they deserve a spanking.And what are you talking about, when you say spanking a kid to be more likely to get into problems when they get older? That's for ABUSE OR A BEATING, NOT spanking. Don't blur the lines.



    45. 445

      I think that she needs to get her family out from infront of the cameras and let the kids live a normal life. I dont feel that she was in the wrong for spanking her child. I am a mother of 3 and sometimes other forms of punishment do not work and I have had to spank my children. I was spanked as a child and I turned out to be a good person that respects authority.

      There is a big difference between discipline and abuse.



    46. 446

      every kid needs some type of siscipline every now and then. people need to stop acting as if they never hit there kid. its not a big deal.. its not as if she was beating the little girl.. every one needs to back up!



    47. 447

      It's here kid's her life, People need to but out.



    48. 448

      Re: BellaM – "All you people who say you spank your kids and that it's all good, do you hit your spouse too if he or her does something you dislike? "

      My husband loves to be a naughty boy so I will spank him.



    49. 449

      Re: Danneel aka Sandpiper – Oh I'm so sorry I don't watch that show, sounds like emotionel porn to me and didn't know that the amount of kids she spewed out was of any importance… ? 6 or 8 kids who gives a shit she shouldn't have had even 1 if she can't dicipline without violence…
      guess u were spank alot as a kid since u can't focus on the subject at hand …lol



    50. 450

      Props to her! And thank God because more parents SHOULD spank their kids! She told Leah to stop and Leah disobeyed her, she needed to be spanked! Spanking IS NOT abuse, it's discipline and anyone who things otherwise is ignorant.



    51. 451

      Re: tucxie – SO agreed. i cannot believe some of these people. SPANKING IS ABUSE!! even if you feel the need to spank your kids you should only do that if they are being seriously out of line with their behavior. but for a whistle??! wow. kate is just out of line.



    52. 452

      I believe you can discpline your children with words and possible Time Outs ..not with hitting. Hitting causes children shame and hurt. I feel she is over her head. If you look at the secound Pictue..look at the grip she is holding on her daughter…it seems Kate is the one that is out of control and is angry. When you discpline your child you need to be in control at all times..and not do it out of anger…because you may do something out of regret



    53. 453

      This is stupid. I got spanked all the time when I was a kid and I deserved it every time! There's a HUUUUGE difference between smacking your kid on the bum and beating them. I can't stand Kate, but in this case, she did nothing wrong.



    54. 454

      Even mentally retarded people could manage five-year-olds in this manner.



    55. 455

      I think Leah got it BECAUSE of the cameras being present. Thus creating a bit more scandal to attract more viewers. The fake "reality"
      show about a real family might just tear that family apart. Or maybe they are all getting along great when the cameras go off and laughing themselves silly,all the way to the bank, at us . I'm hoping for the latter.



    56. 456

      I believe that sometimes your kid needs to be wacked. They need to be reminded who's in charge.

      That being said, I think a spanking for blowing a whistle is a bit excessive. Not going to judge though. Her kids, her responsiblity.

      I will only point out that in one episode, Kate said she never does and never would hit her kids. They get time outs. LIAR!!!



    57. 457

      I AGREE THAT ITS OKAY TO SPANK BUT NEVER TO HIT A CHILD OUT OF ANGER OR FRUSTRATION. THAT IS WRONG. WAIT UNTIL YOU'VE COOLED DOWN. TAKE A BREATH AND THINK IF THE PUNISHMENT REALLY FITS! SHE IS OBVIOUSLY ONE PISSED OFF BITCH AND ONLY SOME OF THAT IS FROM DEALING WITH THE KIDS…



    58. 458

      kids do need to be spanked sometimes but not in public, civil people say jus wait til we get home or take them in the restroom, but i dont think this kid deserve to be spanked, it was a simple mistake she proly forgot. kids have short attention spans. but i thought there were laws against spanking ur kids, they be calling cps on people



    59. 459

      it's not ok to hit a kid…. how ever with all the media attention and the trouble between her and Jon… i believe that it was the drop of water that over flown the vase… i'm not excusing her but it would probably explain a lot of miss behaving….



    60. 460

      People need to calm the f*** down. it was one slap on the BUTT with the palm of her HAND. that's nothing! many kids get the belt or the spoon.



    61. 461

      I think that she can discipline her kids how ever the hell she wants. But I don't think that it is right that she just pushed away Leah. I mean how in the hell is that even good parenting. I think that she can be a great mother most of the time but that looked like a little bit more that spanking her poor kid who was just being a kid. Also this gives more incentive for people to think that she is not a sutable parent for her kids by spanking them in public. I mean she should have taken Leah off to the side or something and done it. Go into a bathroom for Gods sake and spank her on the butt. Nothing is wrong with a good swat on the butt if the kid is being bad but ignoring your kid after you spank them at what looked very hard isn't right. I think that she totally overreacted to the situation. She was blowing a stupid whistle for F**ks sake. Calm the f down woman!!!



    62. 462

      poor Leah.But the kid wouldn't stop whatever she was doin.I guess the kid got what she needed.I get annoyed very easily.I think I would have done the same thing…but that doesn't mean it's okay and plus it was in public in front of photographers!she could have waited until they got home.that was really dumb kate



    63. 463

      Oh fucking please. Kids get their asses beat every day……….so what?



    64. 464

      This can be just a regular spanking, but that kind of pictures in the tabloids, are just embarrassing. If you wanna do that, go inside first,and then pow!, not in front of everyone! . Oh, wait, I forgot, they are use to be filmed, so, it doesn't matter, right? (ironic). I hope they take away the children (not just because of this, of course).



    65. 465

      You know what it is her decision but spanking is wrong. how would you like it if some smacked or spanked you when you did something wrong.. you wouldnt.. kids ecspecially cause they are SO fragile. just think what you are teaching them. i know a kid you always got spanked when he did wrong and he ended up running away when he was 5…. so if you want that to be your kid, go ahead and hit their idenity( face or butt)….but that to me is a sin and i made a promise to god i would not EVER spank a child because I KNOW i wouldnt like it.



    66. 466

      Re: TomorrowCanWait – You know what know we ALL havent been smacked… i have never been smacked and im pretty and im a straight A student with lots of friends with a rich family.. and spanking and slapping is way wrong… how would you like it???you wouldnt….so dont punish a fragile kid,,,ecspecially leah.



    67. 467

      Spank away!! Hell, the woman has too many kids, a loser husband with a divorce on NATIONAL TV….A spanking??? PAAALLLEASE. Shes showing restraint!!!!!!



    68. 468

      That is the problem with children these days. My being a monther of a 5,7, and 10 year old girls it is very hard. When i have no other option i will lighly smack them on the ass. If nothing else works. It is her right as a mother!



    69. 469

      KATE IS A CONTROL FREAK, TREATS HER HUSBAND LIKE CRAP, ON CAMERA!!, I HOPE THE SHOW AND HER MARRIAGE FAILS~!!



    70. 470

      kids need discipline otherwise they will just run amoke

    71. KneeC says – reply to this


      471

      she has all the right to spank her child!
      the camers are always there so why would she stop now?



    72. 472

      LMAO! when i saw this in the check out line…
      i was like "wteff???"

      "CAUGHT HITTING HER DAUGHTER"

      seriously?
      who the fuck buys this shit?
      it's jsut a bunch of bullshit.
      when they catch her pulling
      their hair and punching them
      in the jaw, then it will fucking matter!

      this has gotten so extreme. why!!!
      why do the tabloids give a ratts ass
      about a child being spanked?

      how absured.
      this world is digging a rut andd
      soon enough it won't be able to get out.



    73. 473

      Re: choc cookie – girl, get a grip. it's a picture in action. you have no riight to say she was or wasnt using an open fist, because really, you weren't there. SO WHO CARES!?

      anddd. to let you know. spankings DO NOT lead to absurd behavior. i don't know what world you live in. but DISCIPLINE does not lead to kids doing drugs and drinknig alcohol! it's discipline for crying out loud! i have a six year old sister and when she's spanked, with an open hand, on the tush, she cries;; and why, you may ask… because she's being punished for her bad behavior. seriously, girl, i've done drugs and have drank alcohol, but not because i was disciplined as a child, and given a few pops on the ass, because of the other people, my own age, interested me in it… DUH! get a clue. what you're saying doesn't make any sense.



    74. 474

      come on now everyone spanks there kids
      if any kid of hers needs a spanking its mady …..but thats just me
      i love them all but that mouth on her and that additude



    75. 475

      this woman is pathetic, spanking aside, her character and morals are rediculous….just as rediculous as her chop-do hairstyle



    76. 476

      There were plenty of other ways she could of handled this situation: take the whistle away, put her in time out like they would do to the kids in previous seasons or walk a little further away to where it was a little quieter but she was still able to keep an eye on them… Why did she have to so quickly resort to hitting the little girl? Seems like she has a short temper and when she doesn't get what she wants will easily become enraged. This women is the epitamy of a self-centered diva, and probably deserves a couple of smacks herself. Spanking is no big deal under the right circumstances, but for blowing a whistle?! Bit extreme to me…



    77. 477

      This is gettin sooooo OLD! Look at any poll on the internet right now. The majority of the population spanks or would spank their child. There is a big difference between "hitting" and "spanking." This is an open handed smack on the bootay. No big deal. Of course Leah is going to scream her head off. She's 5. That's what kids do. Are you kidding? If I didn't spank my kids, they would run me down. I use all methods of discipline on my 4 kids; spanking on the butt, stand in the corner, time out, grouding, taking priveleges away. All work at different times. Thanks to discipline, I am a productive member of society as will my children be. Way to go Kate for not trying to hide who you are, for not beating your child, for not dangling her over the edge of the balcony, holding her by one foot, dropping her, smoking with her in the car, driving with her in your lap, etc. Kate is a good mother. She has 8 kids. It is the job of the older siblings to help out with the younger siblings. Its called life. Move on people and let Kate and her family move on.

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