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"People make mistakes. I have made many in my life, but this past week I have made more than I can count on one hand.

I am sorry. And I mean it. No one is forcing me to write this. I am not feeling pressured to say this. I am speaking out because I realize that the last few days have been more hurtful to me - and many others - than the repeated blows I suffered to my head in Toronto this past weekend.

I have been filled with incredible sadness and regret.

I am sorry that any good work I have done for promoting equality may be tainted by me reclaiming a hurtful word - that's been personally used against me and the gay community - to hurt someone that was verbally attacking me. It was stupid.

Apologizing for me is not easy. Writing this was not easy. Life is not easy. But everything happens for a reason and I will take away a lot of valuable lessons from this experience.

Violence is never the answer. Never.

Victims should not be mocked.

The "F" word will never be uttered from my lips again. Just as others use the "N" word to insult and hurt - or as part of their everyday speech - I challenge them to remove it from their vocabulary as well.

Hindsight is always 20/20, they say. I should have been the bigger man and walked away from an unfortunate situation. Instead, I chose - in a very misguided way - to stand up for myself and only made things worse by how I - under pressure, anger and extreme emotion - handled the situation.

I am sorry.

I am NOT apologizing to GLAAD. I could care less about them, my former employers.

I am apologizing to the gay community, to anyone who was hurt by my choice of words, and to all the people who have ever emailed me to thank me for all that I have done to fight for gay rights over the last few years.

I have reached out to Isaiah Washington, someone I incorrectly labeled a homophobe in the past, despite his own public statements that he was not.

I will be donating any money collected from my lawsuit against Polo Molina, road manager for the Black Eyed Peas, to the Matthew Shepard Foundation.

And I will continue to speak out for equality and support the great work done by LGBT organizations, such as LAMBDA Legal and HRC.

Sincerely,

Perez"

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  1. 301

    why does everyone have to get so butthurt about all this shiet. ppl get pissed off and say things they dnt mean, its calling BEING PISSED OFF. everybody needs to just blow this over already. perez is fucking hillarious and black eyed peas are the shit.



  2. 302

    It about time Perez was taken down a few pegs. The biggest thing about Mr Hilton apart from his triple chins is his ego!
    .
    He was the fat kid at school, always teased in the playground and made fun of. Now he sits back and spews his hatred based on a lack of personal self-esteem and expects to reap no karma from this?
    .
    Welcome to the real world Mario. You get back what you put out.
    You may not be physically punching people, but your words to many have been like a punch in the gut and you remain unrepentant in situations where your own readers have been unanimous in their dissaproval.
    .
    You are one of the most unpopular people in the United States at this present time. Yes, you have a successful website (sort of), but as a person you are widely loathed. Think about why?
    .
    A little self reflection goes a long way Mario.



  3. 303

    I do not understand why you do not support the work of Gladd - - because they publicly reprimanded you for associating being gay as dehumanizing. In your vblog, I saw someone demanding respect and compassion but is calling someone potato head, fugly, etc compassionate or respectful. Why do you have a free pass to treat people this way?

  4. YUCK says – reply to this


    304

    Re: ggirlxoxo – until he has video of him and isaiah talking I will not believe he reached out to him. fuck this lying cow. burn in hell heifer and then I can eat some chicharrones.



  5. 305

    good for you! everyone makes mistakes therefore everyone should be forgiven



  6. 306

    I'm not buying it. You have gotten too big for your own good.



  7. 307

    shouldn't you be apologizing and signing with your real name instead of perez?!?! You did when you made your statement.



  8. 308

    we all make mistakes, perez.

    what matters is what we do to correct those mistakes, and im glad that youre taking those right steps towards acknowledging your wrong doings.

    what's done is done, and now that youve publicly apologized, dont feel pressured or guilty any longer.

    :)



  9. 309

    U FORGET YOUR A CELEBRITY NOW



  10. 310

    Always have been proud of you, sweet Perez - the Gay community is lucky to have you as a champion. You are one of the Good Guys.
    Don't let the haters get you down. Your regular readers (and I've followed you for a long time now!) -we know the goodness of your heart.
    Don't be hard on yourself; you were being attacked verbally and struck back with the most hurtful word in your vocabulary. Who knows better than you how much that word can hurt? You used it in self defense, and that is understandable…. anyhow, let it be, and keep shining your light.

    xoxo



  11. 311

    we get it, u're "sorry"
    to me ur being a hypocrite bc u're saying violence is NEVER the anwser.. yet verbal and written abuse IS? i don't get it.



  12. 312

    Is anyone noticing the speed at which these posts are being edited???? Looks like someone is trying to tip the balance into his favour - what happened to freedom of speech P-Fatty?



  13. 313

    All you people are ignorant assholes… Perez called william what he did AFTER he got sucker punched… no one is at fault here but the ghetto peas and their manager. If someone punched you in the face you'd just take it? Fuck that shit.



  14. 314

    very well said



  15. 315

    you talk all this shit on celebs you you expect it to be ok and cool and have everyone think its ok all i can say is that karma is a bitch you got what you deserve but i think he should have beat you more then he did so get over your self



  16. 316

    you are such a POS.



  17. 317

    Re: softbones – He gets too many clicks to handle this privately. He's desperately trying to think of new ways he can max out these posts as they're the most commented on in the history of his site. Wait till the trial (groan) - it'll be a nightmare in here.



  18. 318

    It's good u apologized for ur words. I am sorry u were attacked, no one deserves this. and NO VICTIM should be told they derserved. I hope you feel better soon. Y QUE DIOS TE VENDIGA….



  19. 319

    Chill sweetheart! I know you are hurting and that this has been a brutal week but after all of this I doubt that people love or hate you any more than they did last week.
    You have apologized twice now, good on you for addressing the issues and fessing up.
    I still think that you rock!



  20. 320

    I think you are surprised about how people are reacting. You thought you were the victim and that everyone was going to be on your side. But that didn't happened. People are glad that this happened to you. I think you are trying to garnered sympathy. So I don't believe you are sincere. In my opinion you are doing damage control.



  21. 321

    congratz fatzo…you are the MOST HATED JOKE IN THE EARTH. GAYS HATES YOU. CELEBRITIES HATES YOU. YOUR OWN READERS HATES YOU. OTHER BLOS SITES HATE YOU AND MAKING FUN OF YOU. HA HA HA YOUR'E CRUSH ZAC EFFRON PARTICIPATE IN A PARODY ABOUT YOUR SORRY AZZ. CNN IS LAUGHING AT YOU. AND LOTS OF PEOPLE IN YOUTUBE MAKING FUN OF YOUR OWN LIFE DRAMA…..YOU ARE NOT A TRUSTWORTHY SCUMBAG. AND LASTLY FERGIE IS NO UGLY BUY ARE….INSIDE AND OUT. YOU ARE VILE. DISGUSTING PIG.



  22. 322

    Quit making such a big deal about "violence." You got a few smacks to the face that were a long time in coming. Don't act like you're in Selma, Alabama in the 60s getting your skin ripped off by a fire hose. You've caused others more long-lasting damage with your blog than a few smacks to the face ever could (commenting on children, outing people's sexuality, and belittling others' problems with weight when you yourself are still a fat person). No one gives a crap about your apology for using the F word. People want you to admit that you deserved the smackdown you got because of all the horrible things you've said on your blog. I think what's really bothering you is that 90% of people think you deserve it.



  23. 323

    Total Bs Backtracking. You are a week minded, slanderous asshole. You do not represent me or any gay people I know. You hurt the gay community more than help it. Words and name calling (your career) can be just as hurtful as a punch to the face (have you never heard of bully's????) It's easy to hide behind your computer and write horrible things about people but face to face you are a coward.. I'm sure you will delete this as it's obvious only positive comments are being kept up.



  24. 324

    Perez thought of the one word which would have hurt him the most if someone would have called him that. he was being attacked, he got into an argument, he could have resorted to hitting someone but in the end he chose a hateful word. in the heat of the moment things get said without thinking, everyone makes mistakes. words are hurtful but not as hurtful as fists and words don't make you bleed.im on your side perez and i'm so glad you didnt apologize to GLAAD.



  25. 325

    you do what you believe is right perez, nobody has the right to judge you. you'll get through it, and good luck with the lawsuit. the douchebag will get what he deserves.



  26. 326

    Wow, well aren't you noble? Why didn't you say this first? I don't get it… But at least you said it, that takes a lot for someone as self centered as you are.
    Good job. I actually believe you this time. Just drop it though, the 15 minutes of attention are up.
    and I have to say, even though you talk so much shit, and I hate you for it most of the time, this site would be a bore and there would be nothing for us to discuss about on our off time/computer time. So keep doing the only thing you know how to do giiiirrll.
    I think you are forgiven.



  27. 327

    U R AN IDIOT. SAW UR vid dissing will.i.am, u called him GAY AS A DISS, U DISSED YOURSELF IN THE PROCESS, and whining about makes u look like an ASSHOLE to. I'M PEREZ, LOOK AT ME, IM A NOTHING THATS WANTS TO BE!! FUCK YOU, YOU PIECE OF GYPSY SHIT!



  28. 328

    Your apology shows just how big of a man you are…it's never easy to say I'm sorry. As a loyal follower, sometimes it feels as though I know you, and knowing the kind of person you are, I knew without you saying that your words were not meant to be hurtful. But words are POWERFUL and can be hurtful even to those not involved. Your apology is well received, and one lapse of judgement cannot taint all that you have done to stand up for your community. I am truly sorry for what happened to YOU and the pain you have been feeling. Please know that you are deeply loved and understood by your fans…don't let a few small minded people distract you from all who care for you and appreciate your amazing contribution to the web and world at large!!! XOXO



  29. 329

    Perez I am glad someone finally punched you in the face. You have gotten famous tearing apart people who have actual talent. I hope you realize that if you weren't such a sue happy person you would have gotten knocked out a long time ago.



  30. 330

    I take pride in being a bitch, yet I'd call someone a "bitch" as an insult if I felt hurt or pissed. It's a double standard and NO ONE can claim to be so irreproachable. It's understandable. People who would complain about this should get over it. You're Perez, not a kiss ass. Stand by what you said, and who you are. This is bullshit. You got sucker punched, and that's against the law.



  31. 331

    you are a strong man for apologizing for your words.
    everyone reacts in different ways and you are only human…. you have no need to apologize to the gay community as you have moved mountains for us through this blog and your influence.
    Its impressive that you can realize your own mistakes and the wrong comments you made about others.
    You are a great leader for the gay community. thank you for being yourself



  32. 332

    you spelled duress wrong, dumbass.



  33. 333

    I think it's cool if you apologized to Washington. That guy was the only good thing about Grey's anotomy.



  34. 334

    Forgiven :) .
    Luvs ya Mario!
    HUGS!



  35. 335

    Perez,
    Apologizing for your actions is a very good thing for you to do. I'm impressed that you admit your faults and apologize for it. Many people are too proud to do such, and I'm glad you did. You did a great thing. Good job.



  36. 336

    aw thats very genuine and nice of you.. we love you perez!

    were all human, even you! we forgive you



  37. 337

    You are a foul and bitter man who acts like a 3 year old child. You expect to be able to treat people one way yet have them treat you another. I can only hope that you have grown up from this little taste of reality.



  38. 338

    fake or not…does it really matter…
    this is part of showbizzzzzzzzzz
    ive used the "f" word on occasion and i am an "f" word…

    OBVS it was used to get a straight guy worked up…and boy did it work
    calling someone by that word is the worse possible insult
    cause being gay is still,in this day and age,deemed vile and insulting….times have changed in the states but have they?

    I love how the "f" word is so demeaning that a punch or three need to be thrown.
    So everytime a hateful person has use d the "f" word on me or my "people" we should have the right to use violence as a response…?

    i understand GLAAD's point but the real problem is not the word but the way gays still get treated…my the machos,the religion fanatics….by the law

    i live in Canada and despite rednecks and what nots i have full legal rights as a human being.i can love and marry.and i know i am and feel protected;legal consequences will follow if i get harrassed.And that makes a whole different universe to be able to live in.



  39. 339

    Good, now drop the stupid law suit.



  40. 340

    You still seem to have missed some of the issues. If you think will.I.am was "verbally abusing" you, then you've got a whole new set of problems.



  41. 341

    For your own good (and the good of the GLBT community at large), please do not continue "to speak out for equality and support the great work done by LGBT organizations".

    Please STOP pretending to be a gay role model and spokesperson for the GLBT community. You do nothing but HURT the cause through your words and behavior by portraying for the mainstream what "gay" is, only by sheer virtue of your public visibility. It's embarrassing. You do not represent me or anyone I affiliate myself with.

    You're just offensive, slanderous, and rude. I know that's your shtick, but please just leave it at that. You are NOT a gay role model, NOT a gay spokesperson for equality, and NOT a respected gay public figure; you will never be as long as you continue to spew your negativity out into the world. Please stop. Please.



  42. 342

    Re: SharonNeedles – if you hate his comments then y are u on his website??? get a clue.



  43. 343

    I think it takes a bigger person to say that they are sorry AND wrong about something. Don't beat yourself up about it…just remember everything is fixable. Nothing is that important for people to hold a grudge for. Really, there's so many worse things that can happen, that this will be just a blip in the road for you. Continue to speak your mind!



  44. 344

    I think everyone who is insulting Perez for talking about this publicly shouldn't even bother to comment. Why are you even on PerezHilton.com? Perez's life is this website and he is lucky he has such a popular site to express his sincere apology. He realized he offended some of his fans so he has every right to post on his own website his apology. He is a public figure and just letting this all blow over, would upset those waiting for an apology. He is only human who makes mistakes but at least he owns up to him so give him a break. Hurtful comments are what started this whole problem in the first place.

  45. YUCK says – reply to this


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    really you pink cow, you are too fucking old to be acting like this.



  46. 346

    Way to finally man up.



  47. 347

    Perez

    Your a coward you attack young girls and women and go after people's insecurities you make money off being a hate filled hurtful person you’re a BULLY

    Black eyed peas and the pea pod foundation have done more for the youth of America and the world in a day than you yourself will do in your entire lifetime

    You should own up and take proper responsibility for your actions



  48. 348

    Hey perez! I hate gays too! You know who I also hate? Blacks and jews! Blacks for starting aids and jews for carrying the disease of the rat!



  49. 349

    Well done Perez, you know how to search for the truth within you, and although that can be very painful, is also a blessing. I wish you light!



  50. 350

    Perez, my love! I think it is great that you are choosing to donate any of the money you collect to the foundation. You are being the bigger man, keep you head up!



  51. 351

    THIS IS A FUCKING BLOOOG PPL! HE CAN SAY WHATEVER THE HELL HE WANT'S HE IS THE OWNER!!! IT'S TRUE HE SAID SOMETHING THAT WAS COMPLETELY WRONG BUT WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES IN OUR LIFE JUST LET HIM BE….LOVE U PEREZ!



  52. 352

    You go boy!! TEAM PEREZ!!



  53. 353

    Drop the suit and apologize to Fergie. You are after all, a "human being". And "repeated blows to your head"? Can someone clarify? I thought it was one good punch.



  54. 354

    As in look back at what you have done of the years to deserve this you should not be suing polo Molina or whomever attacked you should be thankful it was not allot worse as you truly deserved allot worse

    Would you of done the same had fergie or one of the many women you have verbally abused and insulted beat you up or maybe had the father of one of the women did this to you

    This fight was started by you long ago and was along time coming and I applaud whomever final had the balls to stand up to such a coward as yourself your a bully and hate filled hate breeding ugly human being your mother should be ashamed to have birthed you



  55. 355

    You also should be allot more worried about will.i.am suing you for defamation for wrongly accusing him of the scratch you received

    You should of seen this situation as a chance an opportunity to change your ways and breed positivity instead of negativity complement instead of bring down people uplift instead of tearing down the world has enough negative people and negativity don’t you think

    Look at this as a chance to change to be a better person and learn from the error of your ways



  56. 356

    I genuinely feel bad for you. good luck.



  57. 357

    i'm very, very proud of you :) you did a very good thing apologizing and i really appreciate that you're apologizing to the gay community and not just GLAAD. i hope your week turns around and does a complete 180! xoxo



  58. 358

    You should not be saying sorry for not only what you said to will.i.am you should be saying sorry for all the people you have hurt in the past for no other reason than financial and celebrity gain
    Next time think how would you like someone doing and treating your mother or sister or brother how u attack others on a global forum daily
    Sincerely
    Buff McCain Jr xi

  59. JMINE says – reply to this


    359

    Hmm.. after every SORRY u have a 'but I'm the victim I was hit'hum we understand already!



  60. 360

    You're still a bottom feeder. You make the world more vulgar and smutty. That's your legacy. Enjoy.



  61. 361

    BRAVO!!!!!



  62. 362

    Hopefully you'll stop your hatred of gays and start hating blacks and jews!



  63. 363

    PEOPLE SUPPORT B.E.P. CD. BUY THEIR NEW RECORD.



  64. 364

    I am proud of you and you should be proud of yourself Perez. And you know what : negative energy travels faster than positive energy! Forget about all the bad words, you know who you are and the people you love will always be there for you! Keep doing what you do because we love you (and even haters will keep going on your website!) Hey it's hard to have an opinion and saying it loud sometimes! You are saying loudly what people are thinking! They are just scared to say it but you got it Perez, you got it! I love you :)



  65. 365

    nice..but yes, time to move on. will.i.am isn't even a real celebrity, this will be forgotten eventually.



  66. 366

    Perez, you rock my world! Thank you for being real, always!!!



  67. 367

    O'rly? :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:



  68. 368

    O'rly? :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:



  69. 369

    THAT TOUCHED MY HEART
    THAT TOUCHED MY HEART
    THAT TOUCHED MY HEART…
    I HOPE IT'S NOT BECAUSE YOU UNDERSTOOD MOST PEOPLE WERE NOT ON YOUR SIDE, I HOPE'S IT'S BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU WERE WRONG. PLEASE DEAR GOD LET IT NOT BE THE LATTER.



  70. 370

    I can't believe I joined this dump just to say what a fukup I think you are. You bad mouth people all the time and draw nasty things on their pics….you deserved what you got. I can only say I can't wait till the next time it happens again…..and it will.



  71. 371

    although, i don't believe continuely bashing people is right. you do have the freedom of speech and press, but what you write truely hurts people and you should realize that. i am a big believe that censorship is supression, but you should try saying nice things about people and being kinder to people who mess up also. it is never to late to change.

  72. YUCK says – reply to this


    372

    I see ths cow is still in to deleting posts that could really cost him some money. dont worry cow I will take you down. mark my words.



  73. 373

    Perez I'm glad you realize that you made a mistake. Maybe now you can be a little more tolerant when a celebrity screws up, especially the younger ones.
    I really get a kick out of you most of the time, but I feel you cross the line when you purposely set out to ruin someone's career by trying to sabotaging
    a film or a new cd before it has even come out, just because you heard one song or you don't think the plot doesn't sound good on a film. I notice you usually do this only to the stars you don't like. Maybe this lesson will make you think a little bit more before you try an destroy someone because you think they made a mistake not worth forgiving.



  74. 374

    I'm very proud of you Perez. Humbling oneself is never easy but in the long run you'll come to be the wiser for it.



  75. 375

    TREAT YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOU WOULD WANT TO BE TREATED…
    EVEN IN YOUR WORDS. I THINK YOUR DETRACTORS ARE MANY AND I'M AFRAID IT MAY BE IN VAIN, PRAY TO THE LORD IT ISN'T.



  76. 376

    Sponsors threatening to pull out = "sincere apology".



  77. 377

    So Perez said something regrettable in the heat of the moment. I commend him for stepping up and taking responsibility for that. And I think it is fantastic that you are sincere, and demonstrate this with your actions. In no way should he have been attacked (and sucker punched at that!) by a couple of j@ck@ss celebs/managers who have a sense of entitlement and clearly need a dose of reality. Why so many in the media feel Perez "got what was coming to him" is beyond me, and frankly smacks of bias. Let's just keep those celebs up on pedestals where they never need face any consequences when they chose to beat up someone. GOOD FOR YOU PEREZ, SUE THOSE JERKS!



  78. 378

    perez that are some heartfelt words and i wouldn't doubt how much strength that took. i look up to you for do this publicly and not just hoping the situation will fad away like alot of people do. and i'm sure that meant alot to alot of people..



  79. 379

    DURESS
    DURESS
    DURESS
    DURESS
    SPELL CHECK ; )



  80. 380

    I just created this account in order to use the F word on you. You are a F***wit and would probably find you'd get hit in the face a whole lot less if you got your fat, gorilla-esk nose out of other peoples business. You are not a great PROMOTER of homosexual rights, you are only a PROMOTER of invading peoples rights to privacy. You are a leech who has made a career out of PROMOTING celebrities misfortunes and the homosexual community should be embarrassed to have you. Shame on you, vile creature.



  81. 381

    Throughout your anger and sorrows, you always speak your mind, you are uninhibited… for that, I admire you.



  82. 382

    YOU PIECE OF SHIT! HE DIDN"T PUNCH YOU CUZ YOU'RE GAY, HE PUNCHED YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE AN IDIOT!
    DON"T FEEL BAD FOR PEREZ PEOPLE!!!!!!!
    Perez has made personal attacks on children. It's sick
    HE CALLED ADAM SANDLERS BABY GIRL UGLY.
    HE MADE FUN OF KURT COBAIN"S DAUGHTER'S WEIGHT WHEN SHE WAS STILL A YOUNG CHILD.
    HE ALWAYS MAKES FUN OF THE WILLIS GIRLS
    He constantly talks trash about the appearances of babies and children.

    WHICH MAKES THEM THE VICTEMS NOT PEREZ' PIECE OF SHIT ASS!



  83. 383

    That is a sorry excuse for an apology, riddled with reasons why we should have empathy for you: reminding us of the blows you suffered to your head, the not-so-humbly referenced "good work" you've done for the gay community you recently embarrassed, and the "pressure and diress [sic]" surrounding your embarrassing escapade these last few days.

    Real men are capable of apologizing without needing to convince people why they should side with them - that's what people who are guilty of doing something wrong resort to; what people do when they're ashamed of their actions, feel embarrassed, and are backed into a corner. Those feelings are natural, good sir, as they are justified.

    May you learn from this incident and grow as a human being, learning how to be a mature adult and leave your drama queen antics behind. You've disgraced the gay community I sometimes feel proud to be a part of, until poor examples such as yourself act out like this, reflecting poorly upon the rest of us.



  84. 384

    Hope you feel better.



  85. 385

    Re: fiera – Uh it says I AM GUILTY OF BREAKING THE LAW IN CANADA and before I show my sorry ass there in court, better make some type of amends so that I'm not put in jail for 2-4 years. HATE SPEECH IS AGAINST THE LAW IN CANADA even if it was "self defense." Canadians aren't stupid, they will see through this guy's "defense."



  86. 386

    wow, you're actually filing a lawsuit? regardless if you are donating any proceeds of that or not, seriously, let it go man, deal with the courtcase and move on. i live in Toronto, and everyone that's heard about this case is totally dumbfounded by everyone's actions the other night…not to mention, you are totally living up to the american sterotype that everyone sues everyone for everything….sad sad sad.

    you just admitted you were wrong, deal with the situation in court in a few weeks, and move on.

    honestly perez, you've just lost a TON of respect for so many people, including myself.



  87. 387

    Thanks for apologizing, Perez. I am a straight woman and I was offended and surprised by your usage of the "F" word. I know you're above the bs and I'm proud of you for issuing this most sincere statement.



  88. 388

    What??? HUH? I can't heeeeaaar you….try again. Oh, and this time, try it with a little feeling.



  89. 389

    Wow Perez, you are definitely having the week from hell! :( I can't believe people are being such jackasses to you! But I'm happy that you actually had the guts to apologize, unlike the BEP douche bags and their fucktard friends who think that all's well in the world and you completely deserved it. It really sickens me that there are people still like that. And some of them, *cough*Tila Tequila*cough* who say they represent change for the world, so that there's equality for everyone, are saying no, you actually did deserve to get punched. How is that equality at all?! Just because they are immature babies and can't handle a little criticism from you, doesn't mean you don't deserve to be treated equally! Everyone should be on your side! Not 50/50 or 10/90 or whatever the hell it's at, it should be that everyone is 100% behind you!
    Stay STRONG Perez! Don't give up hope!



  90. 390

    HRC is not that great. NGLTF is better.

  91. LizPS says – reply to this


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    Dear Perez… I don't even think you'll really read this, but just in case you do, I'd like to say I agree with people who have been mentioning that violence is not the answer. However, although I myself am guilty of enjoying some of the topics you blog about, I must say that in the last year, your posts have become increasingly catty, stupid, and hyper-critical, and I have found them more repulsive than entertaining. I don't wanna say you deserve what happened to you, but at the same time, I can understand why someone would wanna hit you… Just saying!



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    For your own good (and the good of the GLBT community at large), please do not continue "to speak out for equality and support the great work done by LGBT organizations".

    Please STOP pretending to be a gay role model and spokesperson for the GLBT community. You do nothing but HURT the cause through your words and behavior by portraying for the mainstream what "gay" is, only by sheer virtue of your public visibility. It's embarrassing. You do not represent me or anyone I affiliate myself with.

    You're offensive, slanderous, and rude. I know that's your shtick, but please just leave it at that. You are NOT a role model, NOT a spokesperson for equality, and NOT a respected public figure; you will never be as long as you continue to spew your negativity out into the world. Please stop. Please.



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    it takes a brave person to apologize for what they've said and done

    and where I might not always like what you have to say sometimes you do make me laugh

    so good for you for apologizing



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    How about apologizing for cyber-bullying young women calling them sluts at a turn of a dime? or provoking stalking someone?. This was advised by his lawyer to save his ass.



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    You might want to remove the other "f" word from your vocabulary as well. Your behavior was extremely foolish. I hope you truly are sorry.
    I think you meant to say "I couldn't care less" about GLAAD.
    I don't think I would be so upset about being punched if I had spouted off at the mouth like that. I would expect nothing less after verbally attacking/insulting someone else. Maybe it will be a maturing experience for you.



  96. 396

    I LOVE YOU PEREZ!
    i honestly love that you speak your honest opinion.
    i hate conformity and the fact that our country thrives on it.

    keep on, keeping on perez :D



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    One more thing can you delete my account to this dump. I hope this site is not here for very much longer, hopefully your sponsors will see what a trash hole you are and pull out…so to speak.



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    Not buying it. This is just damage control.

    You are too vile to be sincere. Nice try, and I can't wait to see the outcome of your "lawsuit".



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    I'm not gay; but I believe in equal rights for everyone regardless of their sexual orientation. I've always said nobody should care who someone has in their PRIVATE bedroom. Good for you Perez for apologizing to those who deserved the apology and I won't mention what I think of GLAAD sometimes. You really don't need them behind you. The gay community clearly loves you as do many many straight folks. Good for you for being the bigger man here. I haven't checked but has Polo Molina reached out to apologize for his part in this? As for your lawsuit, Perez, IMHO, you should just leave it alone and move on. Put it all behind you. Everyone involved was wrong to some degree but nobody was faultless. For your own sake, best to leave it. I do hope you're feeling better. I love you :o )



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    Perez

    Your a coward you attack young girls and women and go after people's insecurities you make money off being a hate filled hurtful person you’re a BULLY

    Black eyed peas and the pea pod foundation have done more for the youth of America and the world in a day than you yourself will do in your entire lifetime

    You should own up and take proper responsibility for your actions

    As in look back at what you have done of the years to deserve this you should not be suing polo Molina or whomever attacked you should be thankful it was not allot worse as you truly deserved allot worse

    Would you of done the same had fergie or one of the many women you have verbally abused and insulted beat you up or maybe had the father of one of the women did this to you

    This fight was started by you long ago and was along time coming and I applaud whomever final had the balls to stand up to such a coward as yourself your a bully and hate filled hate breeding ugly human being your mother should be ashamed to have birthed you

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