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"People make mistakes. I have made many in my life, but this past week I have made more than I can count on one hand.

I am sorry. And I mean it. No one is forcing me to write this. I am not feeling pressured to say this. I am speaking out because I realize that the last few days have been more hurtful to me - and many others - than the repeated blows I suffered to my head in Toronto this past weekend.

I have been filled with incredible sadness and regret.

I am sorry that any good work I have done for promoting equality may be tainted by me reclaiming a hurtful word - that's been personally used against me and the gay community - to hurt someone that was verbally attacking me. It was stupid.

Apologizing for me is not easy. Writing this was not easy. Life is not easy. But everything happens for a reason and I will take away a lot of valuable lessons from this experience.

Violence is never the answer. Never.

Victims should not be mocked.

The "F" word will never be uttered from my lips again. Just as others use the "N" word to insult and hurt - or as part of their everyday speech - I challenge them to remove it from their vocabulary as well.

Hindsight is always 20/20, they say. I should have been the bigger man and walked away from an unfortunate situation. Instead, I chose - in a very misguided way - to stand up for myself and only made things worse by how I - under pressure, anger and extreme emotion - handled the situation.

I am sorry.

I am NOT apologizing to GLAAD. I could care less about them, my former employers.

I am apologizing to the gay community, to anyone who was hurt by my choice of words, and to all the people who have ever emailed me to thank me for all that I have done to fight for gay rights over the last few years.

I have reached out to Isaiah Washington, someone I incorrectly labeled a homophobe in the past, despite his own public statements that he was not.

I will be donating any money collected from my lawsuit against Polo Molina, road manager for the Black Eyed Peas, to the Matthew Shepard Foundation.

And I will continue to speak out for equality and support the great work done by LGBT organizations, such as LAMBDA Legal and HRC.

Sincerely,

Perez"

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1700 comments to “I'm Sorry”

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  1. 701

    UGLY FAAAAAAT FAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGOT!



  2. 702

    perez hilton crashes and burns…. i love it.
    your video is the laughing stock of the internet.
    what a joke…
    your entire schtik has backfired on you in a big way…
    you are now the same person that you have ridiculed.
    classic.



  3. 703

    I understand and appreciate the sentiments behind the apology, but you really have nothing to apologize for, Perez.

    The "F" and "N" words, as you so delicately put them (ideas far outside of the realm of my own personal opinions about these words), to me, seem to be words that are fueled by fear; and your willingness to use it [the "F" word] (regardless of the context, for our vocabulary if full of double meanings and dis/empowerment) shows strength and conviction. It takes a person of strong personal understanding and conviction to use the word in either a negative or positive context.

    I hope you mean what you say when you say you weren't feeling pressured into writing the apology; but, again, people everywhere should take a note out of your book and use their words as a weapon - not their fists.

    Violence is NEVER the answer. EVER.
    Power to Perez!



  4. 704

    You're awesome, Mario! It's time to move on from this issue.



  5. 705

    It's about time you apologized. I agree that violence is NEVER the answer, but don't you realize that the things you post on your website promote violence? What I mean things you SAY or POST on your site affect any of your readers? Or the people you are commenting about? You do realize that there are children that you have made fun of, right? How do you think that has impacted them? Wouldn't you feel horrible if you found out one of the celebrities that you bash on a daily basis committed suicide because they couldn't take it anymore? It may seem far fetched to you, but it IS POSSIBLE. What happened is that you PUSHED your ignorance too far. Everyone has a breaking point. You happened to have pushed the right buttons that night. What you don't realize is that people are tired of all your double standards. Everything that people are saying about you are facts. From the Miss California thing, the Isaiah Washington incident, trying to "out" celebrities, to this. Your initial reaction to this was to continue to spew hate and to try and manipulate the situation in your favor. It's seems to me like you think we don't see you for what you really are. NOT



  6. 706

    This "apology" coulnd't be any less sincere if you tried. You have just woken up to the fact that 99% of the population thinks you are no better than John Wayne Gacey! Its all about damage limitation and saving your very fat ass..Get fucked fatso and enjoy your current and hopefully future career going down the shitter!



  7. 707

    mario-

    you are a good person. we can tell. apologizing is never easy, but sometimes it's the bigger person who can do it first.

    keep your head up.

    CC



  8. 708

    it's ok perez, don't feel bad, people make mistakes that's life…
    stay strong



  9. 709

    go! BEP go!go!go! you guys make good songs. "where is the love?" is the first song that really moved me. I always like your songs. Why we should hate others? you have my respect!



  10. 710

    I believe that you are sorry for everything that happened, and its unfortunate how everything went down. However, don't you think it would help your cause if you took your video down from your site? It is the cause of the backlash, and as a publicist in training, I think it would help if you took it down. Because as long as it is up it just gives your loyal readers and random haters the chance to open up old wounds so to speak. Ultimately it is up to you, but just a word of advice. Again, I commend you on your multiple apologies.



  11. 711

    This whole situation is HILARIOUS. You obviously grew up in a bubble where people can talk shit and not get their mouth closed by a fist.
    Maybe you should talk shit to Chirs Brown next, that would make for some awesome pictures/vids and another self-righteous rant!
    You got what you deserved. If you don't think so, then go talk shit to more people face to face. Dummy.



  12. 712

    Boo hoo



  13. 713

    Well it's good to hear you appolize for using that word but it falls short when you deside to sue I'm sorry to say this but I can't belive that the first thing you thought of was doller signs when you got your rightly deserved black eye.I don't care what anyone thinks about violence but when I hear anyone I care about disresected that way they get hurt.And I do have to say that you are the lefts answer to the hate talkers on the right and almost single handly prove everything that the right have against gays



  14. 714

    shut. the. fuck. up.



  15. 715

    One would expect gays to have a claim to the F-word in the same way that boys from the hood call each other by the N-word. But then again, I'm not native English-speaking so I may be out of my depth here. In that case: you undid the wrong, Perez. Good for you.



  16. 716

    I guess he played the victim until video came out with of him calling will.i.am. the f word.



  17. 717

    bully, put down) people. They do it in school, work, the playground, on the Internet, chat rooms, on the streets…EVERYWHERE. Who they do this to are VICTIMS. And some of these people cannot handle this abuse and fall into depressions, become abusive themselves or worse, they become SUICIDAL. Don't you ever wonder if the things you SAY or POST on your site affect any of your readers? Or the people you are commenting about? You do realize that there are children that you have made fun



  18. 718

    of, right? How do you think that has impacted them? Wouldn't you feel horrible if you found out one of the celebrities that you bash on a daily basis committed suicide because they couldn't take it anymore? It may seem far fetched to you, but it IS POSSIBLE. What happened is that you PUSHED your ignorance too far. Everyone has a breaking point. You happened to have pushed the right buttons that night. What you don't realize is that people are tired of all your double standards. Everything that people are saying about you are facts. From the Miss California thing, the Isaiah



  19. 719

    well said, stay strong!:D



  20. 720

    "Leave Perez alonnnnnnnnne!" :)
    Now you know what it feels like to be the joke of th town…



  21. 721

    Washington incident, trying to "out" celebrities, to this. Your initial reaction to this was to continue to spew hate and to try and manipulate the situation in your favor. It's seems to me like you think we don't see you for what you really are. NOT apologizing from the start seemed to me like you did not want or even care to accept responsibility for YOUR actions. You know, when Paris Hilton was sent to jail, I believed she deserved the negative comments everyone was saying about her. You know why? Because she thought she could lie to try and get out of it. She thought that by crying she would get her way, because that was what she was used to. Had she admitted her mistake, and accepted responsibility she probably wouldn't have been ridiculed and humiliated as much. We see things for what they really are.



  22. 722

    Re: farts happen – it's a free country bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!!



  23. 723

    Nicole Richie accepted responsibility for her DUI and sent a message to all that hey, celebrities are just like regular people too. We all make mistakes. You say you are not apologizing to GLAAD, which to me is immature and irresponsible. Can you answer as to why you aren't apologizing to them? Haven't they backed YOU up? Mario, you finally apologized and but you are still dancing around the obvious. Everyone is mad at you and you are hurt. You said so yourself that you feel this way. The comments people are saying are mean and it's getting to you. The injury you received hurt you. YOU continue to hurt people by remaining stubborn and ignoring the truth. You say you should have walked away, well right now is the time to do that. I hope that you can reach out to the person/s you had an altercation with and talk it over in a CIVILIZED manner. A LOT can be achieved just with TALKING. Your lawsuit might seem like the best thing to do, I just hope you don't forget YOUR ROLE in this MESS.



  24. 724

    Perez, this piece as well as your last one took a lot of courage - true strength of a good man to do so. Your hurting is clear as is your sincere regret for a reactionary moment. I believe you, support you, and commend you on both your courage as well as your strength of character - to always speak your truth! You're a good man!



  25. 725

    Re: gotwhatscoming toyou

    Wow,if I think this is way harsh,it's gotta be bad! I have no use for Perez,either,but this is over the top!

  26. GregJ says – reply to this


    726

    Perez, You're right.
    Violence is NEVER the answer, but you seem to run an entire media empire based on violence. Violence is any hurtful word or action. When you call 15 year old girls sluts, and women "home-wreckers" , not having access to their private life…is violence. The "Drama" that you post and Promote is violence. This site helps ruin careers and public images faster than anything. Everybody has inner demons, and it is not your right to judge them for their burdens, self-inflicted or not, just as how you would not want to have them judge yours.



  27. 727

    YOU STILL SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    IS EVERY NIGHT GONNA BE "MARIO'S REALLY REALLY SORRY" NIGHT NOW??



  28. 728

    That was a big thing to say, and giving any money collected to the foundation just shows that you mean it.
    Good for you Perez.



  29. 729

    You still don't get it. Why should you file and win a LAWSUIT? YOU provoked and contributed to the violent atmosphere with your words and your actions. Then you had the nerve to get upset when someone didn't respond like you thought they should have. I'm a Democratic Minority living in Texas. I'm so **glad** that gay marriage will NEVER get approved here –You people are just too weird!!!



  30. 730

    Keep your head up.
    Siempre vendran momentos malos,
    algunos mas que otros, pero siempre
    piensa en el arcoiris que sale
    despues de la tormenta : )
    Stay strong and always remember
    you got people who love you and
    who want the best for you.
    Best wishes from the bottom of my heart.

  31. Coif says – reply to this


    731

    Good message who was your ghost writer because if you compare this to that other rant it sounds like two different people, UNLESS you have multiple personalities!?!?!?



  32. 732

    Re: urnidiot – I totally agree. We all learned that from the playground, so why not expect a whack to the dome? I can't wait till he gets hit again, then cries like a little bitch about it.



  33. 733

    props perez. All the haters actually love you…they wouldn't look at your website if they didn't.



  34. 734

    Yeah, shut up, you completely to blame,
    will i am is the hero
    your a hypocrite.
    all you do is say horrible critiques about actual talented and successful people.
    your a nothing who should be fired… into the sun…
    your a sad human being. and your fat…



  35. 735

    #607 is ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. And #617 is right-on.



  36. 736

    KUDOS to you Perez! Owning your actions being accountable, and showing that you genuinely feel remorse is the ONLY way this could be healed.
    .
    There may still be some fallout but you have made aclear statement andcan feel self-resepct and empowerment for that. You're gonna be okay, Perez…



  37. 737

    Anyone who doesn’t think that Perez Hilton is a hypocrite should go to the categories section and look up Isaiah Washington, do it if you can handle the truth. It’s funny because in a small way their situations are kinda of similar. Hurry and look before he backpedals and rewords everything like he did with the Jesse Story.



  38. 738

    Perez huni, whilst your very emotional, you need to stop talking while your so emotional, you need a level head, i dont agree with violence no..But what do you expect from Hollywood at times. If you put yourself out there like you do , there is bound to be some flack at times, this is reality. I am not saying stop what you are doing but just beware big lesson learnt. There is also Verbal assult too, so be careful there. Well thats life living in tinsel town with a bunch of fked up superstars hahahahha, dont let them beat you down or stop being a bitch its what they want. Oh maybe you will be even more of a bitch now hahahahah, Fergie is a bitch i wont buy her albums no more she doesnt play nice..she is a big fat old bully who beats up on people shame on youuuuuuuuuuuuuu Fergie and Will Dill you a bad ass too, your of my xmas list too.



  39. 739

    Every1 needs to scroll down and copy and paste what he has said about Isaih Washington. He will most likey reword everything and the true form will be useful in court.



  40. 740

    Your half-assed apology means nothing…and you vastly underestimate your errors. It's much more likely that you make more mistakes PER MINUTE than you can count on one hand.

    Your crying like a baby on video says it all, though. You, Mister-Walking-Talking-F-Word, are a poor example of a human being, regardless of your personal beliefs or sexuality issues. You have no problem making others 'feel bad' and attack others for their opinions if they somehow run counter to yours. 'Equality' is good only when it is good for YOU.

    And you keep dreaming about the money you'll collect from your lawsuit. You started it, and you got exactly what you deserved. Consider the 'lesson learned' as your payout.



  41. 741

    Re: Jay123

    Shut up Jay go eat some Texan cow….. Let Perez sue the ass of them for assult they will settle out of court anyhow for 1million



  42. 742

    It's about time you apologized. I agree that violence is NEVER the answer, but don't you realize that the things you post on your website promote violence? What I mean by that is, there are others out there in this world who do what you do (make fun, bully, put down) people. They do it in school, work, the playground, on the Internet, chat rooms, on the streets…EVERYWHERE. Who they do this to are VICTIMS. And some of these people cannot handle this abuse and fall into depressions, become abusive themselves or worse, they become SUICIDAL. Don't you ever wonder if the things you SAY or POST on your site affect any of your readers? Or the people you are commenting about? You do realize that there are children that you have made fun of, right? How do you think that has impacted them? Wouldn't you feel horrible if you found out one of the celebrities that you bash on a daily basis committed suicide because they couldn't take it anymore?



  43. 743

    It may seem far fetched to you, but it IS POSSIBLE. What happened is that you PUSHED your ignorance too far. Everyone has a breaking point. You happened to have pushed the right buttons that night. What you don't realize is that people are tired of all your double standards. Everything that people are saying about you are facts. From the Miss California thing, the Isaiah Washington incident, trying to "out" celebrities, to this. Your initial reaction to this was to continue to spew hate and to try and manipulate the situation in your favor. It's seems to me like you think we don't see you for what you really are. NOT apologizing from the start seemed to me like you did not want or even care to accept responsibility for YOUR actions. You know, when Paris Hilton was sent to jail, I believed she deserved the negative comments everyone was saying about her.



  44. 744

    Well, THAT was insincere. Convenient that this came at the same time as your lawsuit was filed. Damage control, play into the victim story. It's obvious from your eye that you were barely hit and to pretend that you're the victim of some kind of vicious violence is just downright sleazy. Add to that, this is hardly an apology. You pretend that you "reclaimed" the word, instead of using it as an insult like any other biggot. I call BS. You used it to hurt, out of anger, not for some noble reclamation like the movement to reclaim ni**er. When you say "stood up for myself," I also call BS as that is clearly not what you were doing (and you admitted this in your video). You were egging on an unstable man, challenging him to hit you. That's called provoking a fight and that is what you did. Just because you didn't throw the first punch or hit back doesn't mean you didn't incite the violence. You can't start a fight and then pretend to be a victim of it. It's so insincere and shallow.



  45. 745

    You know why? Because she thought she could lie to try and get out of it. She thought that by crying she would get her way, because that was what she was used to. Had she admitted her mistake, and accepted responsibility she probably wouldn't have been ridiculed and humiliated as much. We see things for what they really are. Nicole Richie accepted responsibility for her DUI and sent a message to all that hey, celebrities are just like regular people too. We all make mistakes. You say you are not apologizing to GLAAD, which to me is immature and irresponsible. Can you answer as to why you aren't apologizing to them? Haven't they backed YOU up? Mario, you finally apologized and but you are still dancing around the obvious. Everyone is mad at you and you are hurt. You said so yourself that you feel this way. The comments people are saying are mean and it's getting to you. The injury you received hurt you. YOU continue to hurt people by remaining stubborn and ignoring the truth. You say you should have walked away, well right now is the time to do that. I hope that you can reach out to the person/s you had an altercation with and talk it over in a CIVILIZED manner. A LOT can be achieved just with TALKING. Your lawsuit might seem like the best thing to do, I just hope you don't forget YOUR ROLE in this MESS.



  46. 746

    whew! The dust from the storm has finally settled.
    You can see clearly now, the rain is gone,
    You can see all obstacles in your way
    Gone are the dark clouds that had you blind
    It’s gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
    Sun-Shiny day.
    Good for you for apologizing. Well done. Peace



  47. 747

    I think you deserved a beating, you are a disgusting person who would put your own mama on the web with a little gossip if you could make a buck.
    I feel sorry for you, one day i hope you grow up and learn to controll that mouth of yours.
    You gossip on people and that is how you make your daily bread, Perez you are pathetic little creature…



  48. 748

    One more thing its all about sueing now days , ask for 2million tops!!!!! Dont you love our fked up world hahahhaah do or die fittest of the pack and Perez has some hairy balls to match…….most people would fold Not Perez!!!!!!!!



  49. 749

    I forgive you buddy. Please do not be too hard on yourself.



  50. 750

    you're video made me laugh sooooooo hard. you looked like a douche. I am glad that some one punched you in the face, you deserved it.



  51. 751

    see steven crowther's rip perez on youtube…..brilliant observation…



  52. 752

    Wow Perez Violence Is Not The Answer Your Right…. By this and all the hurt and pain you feel iv once felt like that by being assaulted when i was in High School… I will be with you and my prayers and thoughts too….



  53. 753

    jesus…this guy has done nothing but berate and ridicule and downgrade people for years, all in the interest of self aggrandizement.
    it's apparent he has few redeeming qualities.
    and yet people are calling him a "good man".
    unbelievable…this country is seriously fucked up.



  54. 754

    Again, a certain Mario doesn't get it. Even in an apology, you can't help but play the victim, can ya? Wake up Mario, you aren't a martyr. You aren't a great example of one who has fought the good fight for gay rights. Your WORDS, more often than not, are VIOLENT towards other people (even if they are celebrities). YOU are responsible for creating tons of VERBAL VIOLENCE in your time on this website. Wake up and take the cross of your back. Why did you get the shit knocked out of you? Because you're a pretentious, ass kissing celebrity whore. It had NOTHING to do with the fact that you are QUEER. So, please, for the rest of us gays out there, don't keep mixing issues and events in your head that aren't applicable. If you antagonize a person(s) long enough, eventually they will retaliate. CAUSE and EFFECT. Since you cause verbal violence, then be prepared for the effects.



  55. 755

    didn't read. lol
    Mario you should call Will.I.AM and say u're sorry!



  56. 756

    GOOD FOR YOU PEREZ…ITS GREAT WHEN PEOPLE DO THINGS RIGHT



  57. 757

    Would you also apologise to Fergie for the vile way you have treated her and the comment you made about her during your video rant?



  58. 758

    You're own personal terms or your alter ego's terms?



  59. 759

    You know Mario, the person that I am would have kicked Will directly in the fucking nuts for the behavior that he displayed. But the person that you are did not, and i respect that. Now that you are apologizing for your actions is ludicrous to me. Hello, you were ASSAULTED!!!!! You have every right to talk trash and more impotently press charges! This type of behavior is rampant and might I say is completely intolerable. It is one thing to talk trash to someone, but it is a whole other ball park to ASSAULT someone! I personally am from NEW MEXICO and here in this great state we hold our personal rights very highly, you should never, ever, ever, ever have to explain your self when defending your honor, principles, or life! I am bi and I respect and understand your apology for the way you stood up to Will, granted I would have thrown some blows myself; but none the less way to go Mario! Never apologize for defending yourself, its an inalienable right. I have thought about your argument that violence is never the answer, I must say for the most part you are correct. But….., once someone touches you in an unfriendly manner, WHOOP THEIR FUCKING ASS!!!!Its about respecting yourself and not allowing some other individual to take advantage of the situation or you. Im sorry that you had to go thru what you did, but you did. I think your great, way to be……Love ANG.



  60. 760

    LMAO Seriously youre suing someone because you got a shiner.I guess you must have been one sheltered kid.I got my first shiner at 5 years old and man I was proud of it.Point is you called that guy the worst name you could possibly call him.Grow some balls you d -list peice of shit.Oh yeah and Karma is a bitch huh sorry ass trash talking fat boy



  61. 761

    To continue this war, to bring a lawsuit, will only continue to bring NEGATIVE attention to you. There will be no winner. I doubt that any respectable organization would accept the tainted spoils from this battle. They don't want the negative attention turned to them anymore than you want it on you.

    Think about really BEING one of the BIG people in this incident and drop your suit. Drop talking about it. Go back to doing what you do best…making people laugh. Everyone will appreciate that much more. I believe you can turn this around and possibly GAIN credibility and character, rather than cement yourself in the category of someone who can't be taken seriously as a human being.



  62. 762

    Re: backseatsurfer9 – Yes this may be true, but assault carries much more weight than slander dummy……



  63. 763

    Ad money flying away and hopefully not coming back. Ha!



  64. 764

    AND another thing: Sometimes violence IS the answer, like fighting after you are attacked (WWII after Pearl Harbor, War on Terror after 9/11). Sometimes, it's just real simple - like standing up to a LOUDMOUTH BULLY. I watched you on YouTube being sooo nasty to people before all this happened. You were in their face and just daring them to do anything about it. YOU GOT EXACTLY WHAT YOU DESERVED. Maybe you will have some humility now. And since you are nothing but a BIGGGG SISSYYY, maybe you will think before you start talking trash to someone's face. I was so happy when that Iraqi threw a shoe at George Bush. It was an act of violence but totally understandable. — YOUR incident is EXACTLY the same!!! You are ridiculously self absorbed and self righteous — I hope this act of violence has taught you something — so far, it does appear that it has.



  65. 765

    True violence is not the answer but you need to understand that some people have a really short circuit and wont deal with your BS like others would. As a gay man you should know better than calling people names, you know how YOUR WORDS can hurt others.

    And we aaaaall know you're gonna let all the charges drop once the black eyed peas let you have an appearance on their next video LMAO. As your beloved Lady Gaga would say: do you want justice "or you want fame"

    Maybe now its time to reflect on your past judgments Perez.

    ***Oh and PS stop being a backstabbing two-face fame whore!!!



  66. 766

    Way to go Perez. Love you xx



  67. 767

    STICK YOUR FAKE APOLOGY UP YOUR FAT MUSTY ASS!!! HYPOCRITE!!!!!!!



  68. 768

    i love you perez!!!



  69. 769

    bullshit smullshit. blah.



  70. 770

    Re: richie_chile

    Agreed. Too little to fucking late. And this statement here…

    "I am NOT apologizing to GLAAD. I could care less about them, my former employers."

    shows how you are NOT sorry seeing as how you offended THIS group. Sorry but the damage control train left a long time ago.



  71. 771

    Re: MaryCaryRocks – You are obviously one of "THEM".



  72. 772

    Seriously? You think this is a full apology? It's a good start, but I like how you still throw back-handed comments in there. Oh Pugly Hilton, you'll always be the same…



  73. 773

    perez, your such a wonderful person. lots of kisses from me



  74. 774

    Do know what Perez…I really hate you but I'm done with criticising you and whatnot on this website. I'm done with you..I won't be brought down to your level and make myself as nasty and bitter. I feel sorry for you actually…..It must be such a lonely position to be in and I don't wish that on anyone..not even you..

    I hope you find your way and learn from this.

    Peace



  75. 775

    That took big ones, P!! Pa'lante, pai!



  76. 776

    Prez, I don't believe you at all!!



  77. 777

    Well said, Perez.

  78. ring says – reply to this


    778

    We all make mistakes? Seriously? You two-faced piece of shit! Others have made mistakes before you and apologized, just like you, but you are not exactly of the forgiving kind. If anyone else had said what you said, you would have started a witch hunt and brought them down relentlessly! So, no you fat fuck, I don't forgive you! YOU should be the one brought to court for slandering! I can forgive Isaiah Washington for using the f-Word because he doesn't know how it is to be a gay man in this society, but YOU should've known better!!! YOU SHOULD'VE KNOWN BETTER! There's no excuse for what you did under no circumstances! What Will.I.am did, was not right either and people saying you asked for it, are idiots. To say that, is like an abusive husband saying his wife asked to be beaten. No one asks to be beaten! Violence is NEVER the answer!



  79. 779

    You were in over your head when you started talking pop culture, period. You should have never gotten the fame you received; you're a horrible shit talker and shit talking is all you do.

    But somehow you got political, which is disgusting. Once you pick your cause at least have the decency to carry it out. AT VERY LEAST DO NOT SELL IT OUT ON THE ELEMENT YOUVE PROCLAIMED TO BE ITS VERY BASE.

    You're a fat, pathetic fuck of a human being obsessed with fame and miserable at achieving it. You are also very very stupid. Your blog is anti-gay, anti-progress, anti-fun and I'm glad someone caught you on camera being the stupid poser you are.

    What you've done violates the only terms you ever set for yourself, but you've violated them a million times before.

    Get a better fucking publicist or editor or agent or whatever, your attempts at intellectualism are pathetic.

    And your leggings the night of the incident were gross.

    You suck, like seriously, legitimately, on a level that's effecting our country's youth, YOU SUCK.



  80. 780

    awww and yea sue the pants off that animal that hit u



  81. 781

    Perez, I can't believe you are filing a lawsuit! Seriously?! I acknowledge the fact that you are taking the time to apologies for your actions but in your own words, it sounds like damage control. I agree with you on one thing, violence is never the answer, but at the same time the crude, insulting words you use on some of these celebreties are also not the answer. Honesty is one thing but insults are another. All the best to you regardless.



  82. 782

    Can somebody tell me what word he used or said? I live in germany, we hear not much about the incident.

    Thank you



  83. 783

    You are not sorry for sh!t.
    You are sorry that your celebrity "friends" are not answering your calls anymore.
    Let me break it down for you, you are not a celebrity, you are a blogger.
    The ones that did invite you anywhere was because they used you so that you would not write about them.
    You really think these people want to hang around you for real?
    You overplayed your cards, now you are going to burn…



  84. 784

    i'm behind you the whole way! You Rock!



  85. 785

    when you get angry you do a lot of stupid stuff. i start crying and saying things i don't mean. it's very good that you apologize though, and it's a good apologize too i think! you're the best!



  86. 786

    meh get over it already.



  87. 787

    WoW. Ignore what the negative people here are saying Perez.
    I am happy that you wrote this letter, it was very brave of you!
    Violence is never the answer, its so uncivil.
    We all learn from our experiences!

    You'll be alright. You have us here who all stand by you!
    xoxo



  88. 788

    Wow isn't that rich. You'll apologize to homosexuals for your remark because your afraid and hurt that you offended them but you call fergie fugly and thats kosher??? How about apologizing to the people you hurt day in and day out when your not throwing a 15 second bitch fit. I give you credit for apologizing to whom you have but i think its time to broaden the apology and maybe, just maybe think before you write your next hurtful slab of "entertainment".



  89. 789

    Borrrrring!

    Fuck face and pissing on your pants now eh!



  90. 790

    Fair play brother..It take a man to know they did wrong.It takes a bigger man to admit it. Good on you.

  91. ELL says – reply to this


    791

    Well done perez, your only human. We all make mistakes.



  92. 792

    Perez -
    not only am i glad you did this in your own way and proud of you, but also glad that you reached out to issaiah washington and refuse to apologize to GLAAD. Many of my gay friends use the F word in negative ways towards me when they get angry, and I can not say I have never said the word, however my homosexual friends clearly arent homophobes and neither am i.
    In the heat of the moment, regretful words come out. It is up to us to realize what we said, address our words, and apologize. I am proud of you for doin that. Dont let anyone get you down. You are a great, funny and strong human being. You are still someone who I will always look up to and be a dedicated reader to your page.

    Keep on keepin on!!

    Love you Perez :)



  93. 793

    Kudos to you Perez for apologizing even further!! As for myself, I have gained some respect for you again. It is difficult for any person to admit that they're in the wrong. And with your statement, you have shown that you do have a heart (and the sense that God has given you). I knew you were smarter than that, just think of this as a valuable lesson that you have learned, and use your sense wisely.
    Now if you drop the $25,000 lawsuit it will show everyone that you are the bigger person even more! All the best!!!

  94. sideh says – reply to this


    794

    perez mate,
    this was nice
    but your not getting
    you've made me angry because you think can speak your mind and nobody will do anything about it? how very selfish of you. what you should have learnt is to keep your mouth shut. you are so lucky i dont think you realise. stop saying hurtful shit about other people. enough is enough. take the message and move on.



  95. 795

    NOW you are talking!



  96. 796

    Perez- I have been a serious and loving fan for about 4 years now. I happily check your website maybe 5 or 6 times a day, since I was about 19. I thought you had maybe handled things wrong here, but your statement now has brought back my respect for you. Fuck anyone, you dont have to apologize to any group or anything if you dont want, and I'm very happy you chose not to be forced to say anything, but you chose to. As a young bisexual living in shitty western New York, I respect your answer. I dont really care about what happened, but I'm happy you arent afraid to stand for yourself, no matter who you are. Good for you, man. You have my respect…just a small University chick from Buffalo.



  97. 797

    to be upright honest, i don't understand why people are offended by PEOPLE who want to live the way they want.

    i can admit i was homophobic, but everyone is just a tiny bit homophobic (no offense) but i overcame it. i don't understand why people cant just accept the differences with other people and how they wish to lead their life and destiny..

    im not afraid of my aunt which likes her women, or my uncle which prefers male companionship.

    its all good Perez, shit happens, and then we all get drunk :P i would of been placing charges upon the police force for dismissing your request for assistance.

  98. Unari says – reply to this


    798

    You just don't get it.
    "I am NOT apologizing to GLAAD. I could care less about them, my former employers."
    You don't say your sorry then turn around a specify who the apology is or isn't to…you just aknowledge your mistake, own up to it, and then apologize. You must be taking some serious Web hits. I mean…Isaiah Washington?? You ruined his career and now you reach out to him. Whatever.



  99. 799

    i dont believe you



  100. 800

    Funny huh? I left several comments about your ridiculous and shamefull use of the 'F' word and you didn't publish it! I know other people who also sent you comments about the 'f' word rant and you simply deleted it. I believe GLAAD is too big for you to ignore it. Too late Perez, you're an idiot!

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