War Of The Word: Jon Gosselin Hurt By Kate's Words
We see this as the beginning of juicier details to come about the diminishing relationship between Jon and Kate Gosselin!
In a statement released by Kate in reference to the divorce, she insists that Jon forced her hand in filing for a divorce because of certain, unexplained "activities" on Jon's part:
"Over the course of this weekend, Jon's activities have left me no choice but to file legal procedures in order to protect myself and our children. While there are reasons why it was appropriate and necessary for me to initiate this proceeding, I do not wish to discuss those reasons at this time, in the hope that all issues will be resolved amicably between Jon and myself."
Once this statement became public, Jon released his own, naturally, claiming he was "hurt" by Kate's remarks and proceeded to describe a cookie-cutter weekend with his kids:
"I have always done everything I can to protect our family. This weekend, I was home with the kids for four days, just being a dad. No nannies, just the kids and me. In fact, with the exception of Aaden's visit to the doctor, I couldn't have imagined a better way to spend Father's Day weekend."
Sir, we believe you are forgetting your little trip to Manhattan to scope out a bachelor pad in Trump Place. We're pretty positive that is what set Kate off. Woman's a bitch, but hell if she isn't a smart bitch. She ain't paying your way through your pre-mature mid-life crisis, nor should she have to.
Now, there will be equal division of assets, although we are interested to see what that will mean for the children.
And the saga continues!
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Perez, Kate's a bitch? Pot meet kettle.
god i am so sick of these people
third?
It started with "LEZ-lo", and "SaMAN"…I've been saying for a long time that you are a self-hating homophobe Perez. It is becoming more apparent to everyone, now.
OMG. Can't imagine paying child support for that many children.
those kids are going to end up fucked in the head like the dionne quintuplets.
doesn't anyone understand learning from history here?
that douche bag doesn't deserve shit.. kate is the only one that actually loves and cares about those children. i hope she and the kids are well.. the children really are the only ones that matter..
"Woman's a bitch"
Have we learned nothing Mario?
thanks perez for finally being objective. jons a jerk and just wants to have his cake and eat it too.
He should get a tiny one bedroom garden apartment 10 minutes from where the kids live. He should get a job too. He should also stop complaining.
Kate is not that BITCHY. People blow her behavior out of proportion. She has to lead the family and keep it all together because she has eight kids and a passive ( aggressive) husband. I think she is a very good mother.
I am on Jons team all of the way. He does sign autographs and does talk to the papps and he isn't a big a hole bitch like his wife whenever the cameras are around…
i'm still on jon's side.
i feel so bad for him.
just because kate is a woman doesn't mean we have to feel sympathetic for her.
she's always belittling him and he just wants what's best for his kids.
he seems like an awesome dad. it's really unfair how people are painting him out as the bad guy.
It's hard to believe we are still talking about these people. I sure hope they can squeeze everything they can out of this time because their 15 minutes is about up! And I, for one, can't wait to seem the go!!!!
The dionne quintuplets were not fucked in the head.
Re: TexasBaby – That is going to be very interesting
Actually, I've never seen the show but I'm going to offer my opinion anyway. He should do whatever he wants. They'll split it 50/50 in the divorce, and all the hard work she does–he'll get half. So why should he care?? He was forced to do the dumb "look at how great my family is" show anyway.
I hate these two.
Yawn. I am so over Jon and Kate and their crap!
who cares about these hags not sexy not cute. They should live in a col du sac in like Ohio or something eewwwww
These two need to stop airing out their dirty laundry in public. The damage this is doing to the kids is going to be irreversable.
Yeah well I knew eventually Kate would lure people over to her side. Not saying that Jon is an angel. But when you treat your man like garbage you should expect him to eventually stink. Now she is trying to play make-up with the public. And regrettably some are falling for it. She was the super bitch with the anger issues that drove them apart. Let's not forget that. I am sure you can youtube the vids where she is treating him like garbage. It was only a matter of time before he became fed up. Now she is trying to show a "fake gentler side", that garbage and everyone should know she is only doing that to get public sympathy because of her publicist and her lawyer.
Kate is a fucking shew/piece of shit and Jon has no balls. Fuck 'em both. I feel sorry for their cute kids.
And I mean lets be honest if the roles were reversed everyone would crucify him. Lets think along those lines and crucify that bitch.
Just like You to stick up for a BITCH Perez!
"She ain't paying your way…"
Paying plezzzzzzzzzzzzzz! it's HIS $$$ too!
TEAM JON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
kate was a bitch to Jon in their marriage–BUT Jon is a douchebag… i liked him @ first cuz he was laidlack and easygoing but if he had such a problem with the way he was being treated by his wife, im sorry, its HIS respinsibility as a HUSBAND to communicate that issue with his wife until it ends… instead he sat quiet and surpressed all these feelings till he couldnt take it anymore and decided to start messing around with other females…riding motor bikes…getting his ears pierced…. sounds like a mid-life crisis to me! but that is no excuse— dude has EIGHT kids….he owes it to THEM to be a man and try to fix his marriage but nooooo– he held it all in and then decided he didnt want to be the family man anymore. BUDDY–if you arent 110% SURE that u wanted this to be your life–then you shouldnt have popped out EIGHT KIDS. & even tho Kate was verbally abusive to him, still doesnt mean she single-handedly destroyed their marriage… he should have DEALT WITH IT like a MAN instead of opting out of it all so he can be a bachelor… and at least after everything, Kate still puts the kid's needs FIRST–unlike Jon..he may "spend time" with them…but he'd rather argue everything Kate says just to get back @ her, instead of realizing whats in the best interest of HIS KIDS! this whole situation is just a shame…
If it was his actions over the weekend, then why on her divorce petition did she say that they have been separated for 2 years? So she just keeps on lying and lying.
Maybe if Jon had grown a set of balls years ago instead of running off and finding a young girl and getting those gayass earrings they might still be together. He's a wuss and she's a bitch. I never expected them to stay together. Now, maybe they will go away! Hopefully TLC will do the right thing and cancel this show. We don't need to see any more of this drama played out on tv, especially when this show is supposed to be about parents raising 8 kids.
Re: Caset – you said "Kate is not that BITCHY. People blow her behavior out of proportion. She has to lead the family and keep it all together because she has eight kids and a passive ( aggressive) husband. I think she is a very good mother. "
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Oh please, the people who are MOST critical of Kate are women who HAVE large families and don't act like that. There is no excuse for her behavio. She has a massive insecurity complex, probably huge control issues and to top it off is just a good old fashioned liar and a bitch.
So what if he was looking at an apartment…what the fuck else is he supposed to do - sleep on a park bench?
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You're an ass, Perez
KATE IS A BITCH AND WHO CAN REALLY BLAME HIM FOR NOT WANTING HER ASS ANYMORE…NOT THAT JON IS A PRISE HIMSELF, FAR FROM IT…BUT NO MAN IN THEIR RIGHT MIND IS GOING TO STAY WITH A WOMAN AS CONTROLLING AND BITCHY AS KATE! IM A WOMAN AND ALL FOR WOMAN'S RIGHT, BUT IM ALSO HUMAN AND ALL FOR HUMAN RIGHTS, AND THE WAY THAT SHE CONSTANTLY THROWS BITCH FITS ABOUT EVERYTHING NO MATTER HOW SMALL AND INSIGNIFICANT, NOONE SHOULD HAVE TO ENDURE THAT ON A DAILY BASIS!
Well, if he's hurt by the recent words of Kate, how about the bitchy words she is always spewing?
Grow up jerk!
You will have a happier life without the bitch!
Bring the slut onto the show!
Do it! NOW!
Re: Caset – ok they weren't fucked in the head…. but they were definitely affected big time. they didn't choose to be put on display for millions of people to come stare at… and jon and kate's 8 children certainly didn't choose that either
dude, these are the kinds of stories that are killing your site.
like it or not even if kate is a bitch…. shes the same bitch he married 10 years ago. For those of you who just stated following the show… shes the same bitchy ball buster she was in the beginning. its his fault, hes suddenly decided to change what he wants/likes. In any case, cheating is ALWAYS wrong.
These two are really something. Their poor little kids will hate them one day.
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haha perez you stole my mid-life crisis theory… only about a million people probably thought of it before me, but i'm taking credit
She was furious with Jon for signing free autographs for people. She charges $20. well kate maybe it is because jon knows that NO ONE would pay $20 for your autograph.
Re: C o n c r e t e*R o s e – you're right.
I'm sooooo sick of hearing of this people. And that woman is a bitch
Re: Caset – I must have imagined when she screamed at him for breathing too loud…
seriously.. i wanna know who actually reads anything about those two.. seriously! stop talkin about them.. the soon you stop talkin about them the sooner they'll go away.. stop extending their 15 minutes of fame..
kate is a bit of ahemhemhem. but think about it, thats the way shes always been. lololol
Oh, the little adulterer is hurt.. waa waa waa.
Yeah, she's a B.. but maybe she's like that b/c she's had to put up w/ a cheating bunghole for so long.
That dumbass has probably been cheating since before the cameras started rolling. There has to be a source for all of that animosity, and seeing how his behavior, it's probably b/c he's beein doing that since the start. Everyone blames her but I think he's the source of it all. They say cheaters always cheat right? So he's probably done it before. At least she doesn't have to put up w/ it anymore.
she's such a bitch. poor jon, he tries his hardest to be a good dad and it's never enough. nothing is ever good enough for that harridan. i hope jon can find a nice girl someday soon that will treat him with respect and love; the kind of woman that wouldn't trick him into having sextuplets and then spend the rest of her life nagging, screaming and pushing him around.
as for her, fuck her. she's going to be miserable for the rest of her life because she is a miserable bitch. nobody and nothing will ever make her happy; she's only happy when she's screaming at somebody.
I'm sure his explanation or lack there of contributed to her choice to divorce him. Its not surprising, he's trying to play victim right now… saying it was just her that filed the papers, so poor Jon… yet, what she does mention in her comment was Jon activities left her no choice… so his activities definitely drove this relationship to its end, whether kate was a bitch or not, it was HIS activities that drove them to divorce.
I hope she stays smart and retains her integrity through this divorce, because as well all know, when the media is involved things tend to get ugly.
i wish them both luck, and hey, if they are unable to get along at home then it is best for the kids to see them apart. There is nothing healthy about watching parents fight or abandon their kids, but the decision to separate is best for the kids if the only other option is to stay living together and fight all the time.
This guy feels 100% guilt for his affair with a younger woman. PEOPLE, can't you see that Jon wants the spotlight off of himself and onto an innocent victim: Kate. Yes, Kate may be a little on the rigid side, but she's honestly done nothing wrong. Jon needs to grow up. Period.
Ugh, they both have problems. Kate may be overbearing and everything but I'm willing to bet she's probably the better parent. And by that I mean more responsible.
I do like what Perez said: "She ain't paying your way through your premature mid-life crisis, nor should she have to." How true.
first of all, Stank, wow. i laughed my ass off. great first comment.
look, they're both assholes, they've gotten themselves wrapped up in something that's sucked out their humanity. they both suck royally and don't give a shit about the kids anymore. they're ON TV. you make the point of money…they have everything paid for, there's no issue of money there.
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Please, it doesn't stop.
More insults, and then explanations, thrown back & forth between these two ..
just shut up and raise your kids.
Wah wah wah. What a couple of immature and selfish assholes. They like to talk about how much they care about their kids but when they start this he said-she said crap, it WILL affect the kids in a negative way. If they really cared about their kids they'd learn to keep their damn mouths shut! The fact that one of the 8-yr-old twins could already figure out what was going on says enough. I know after my parents divorced my mom continued to verbally trash my dad, while he took the high road and never once said anything bad about her. I picture Kate doing more of the trash-talking here.
They both need to STFU and quit sniping at each other through the media, whom they both claim to loathe so intensely. Five years from now when their kids are old enough to figure out they can google all this crap, its going to be beyond damaging - more so than the damage that's already been done to those poor little people!
Re: jessicagiovanna – yes, kate has been hard on him for years, BUT, he NEVER, EVER, took the lead on ANYTHING. Watching the show, it was like Kate had 9 children. He always stood there and had to wait to be told what to do, never could prepare lunch, etc. BUT never turned down a freebie. And for everyone who felt sorry because he was at home, with all the kids, while Kate was on the road, OMG, he was doing what millions of women do everyday. and over the weekend, he says he has no idea where Kate is. BS. He says he is totally ALONE, no nannies, etc. and he does not know where she is. 1st, he might not know EXACTLY where she is, but he must be able to contact her, because she would never do that, and 2nd, he took his son to the hospital ALONE, someone was with the other 7-or did he leave the twins alone with the other 5. he is full of s**t
k kate really was all the problems. Jon would try and do things and right away she would bitch at him! even if he was doing exactly what she said! Kate needs to pull her head out of her own ass and really take a look. I highly doubt she has even watched any of her own episodes cuz she doesnt wanna see how big of a bitch she actually is ! maybe we should show her them so she can learn. This is gettin rediculous already. NO ONE CARES about your sorry little family. and oh btw you two oldest daughters …. BITCHES wow. be prepared for the teen years, thats all im sayin . lol
wow jon is a horrible person
Ugh why did I not even suspect for a second she'd try to spin this like SHE was the victim.
Jon just said it's not working anymore, I'm done. She has to go and bring up weekend activities she can't prove, but let's not think about the affairs she's been suspected of having.
She acted like a total bitch, like she despised him, like she had been forced to marry him. He had enough and he's left her. I know she thought she had him too under her thumb for him to even dare thinking about that leaving her and now she has to deal with the fact she's going to be alone since not even her family wants anything to do with her.
Get over it Kate, you did this yourself, try for once to leave Jon alone.
Yea ok John. You spend you spend four days being a dad? Why were you at the bar Captains Cove on Sunday? We all saw you. douche.
john is a lazy loser who was fired from his job kate stepped in and saved her family. he was the 9th child and was asking for it to be treated that way….she's not a bitch. it's insane to me that all the moms out there can go along with people calling her that..
she is a pretty good mom i think…oh and jons new earrings…shudder. dude you are SCREAMING mid life crisis! yeah woman have them too but they get their shit together and still try and take care of their family instead of suddenly acting like a petulant teenager like jon..
Um. Jon does not need her to pay his way. HE wanted out of the show before. HE was very successful before in IT(information technology). She wanted him to quit. He did not want to but did. He will be just fine. She should go back to her job as a nurse as well. They do not need most of the crap they have.
He's a little young to be going through a mid-life crisis, but it is apparent that something's gone wrong with him.
why the hell is she even talking to people magazine? does kate really think she's a celebrity now? PUH-LEASE.
Also to the midlife crisis point most folks here obviously don't know what triggers a mid-life crisis. It's when a man takes a look around realizes from this point on it's only going to get more awful, wonder what happened and wish they could return to the days of being younger and having fun.
When Jon was 23 he had two sweet daughters and was in the beginning stages of his marriage. He was young, had a job, had freedom and a loving wife. Then Kate got pregnant with 8 babies despite his concerns and wanting to try another route, she made him quit his job. Instead of being a man he became Daddy 24/7 with not even a break. I'm not saying Fathers shouldn't care for their kids but most healthy parents never surrender every single fact of themselves abandoning their personalities and pleasures.
Is it really so damn shocking that at 32 he wishes he could be that young happy 23 year old again? His wife's a bitch, the kids have gotten overwhelming, he can barely interact with his family, and everything he does is mocked and insulted.
I'd like to see other folks NOT have a midlife crisis with that bullshit thrust down on them.
Re: tigrrrlilly – WOW— lmao@ she "tricked him" into having sextuplets… umm im pretty sure JON WAS THERE when the doctor performed Kate's INVITROfertilization! thats why they had multiples…duuuuh
Re: MarieRi – u said "Is it really so damn shocking that at 32 he wishes he could be that young happy 23 year old again? His wife's a bitch, the kids have gotten overwhelming, he can barely interact with his family, and everything he does is mocked and insulted."
UM–no. its not shocking for a 32 yr old in that situation to feel that way… BUT WHEN YOU HAVE 8 KIDS, GUESS WHAT… wish & daydream all you want–but those kids didnt ASK to be put on this earth…he helped bring them into it and its his FIRST AND FOREMOST responsibility to care for his family! boo hoo–the majority of people on this planet dont have the life they wanted or expected–THATS LIFE. you dont run away from it because it gets "too hard to deal with"…ESPECIALLY when you have kids and a family to take care of!
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I just watched a show on Discovery Health about deaf and blind triplets; the only such set of triplets in the world. The triplets father said he quit his job to become CEO of the Deaf and Blind Foundation because there is currently no place where someone can go to be certified as a Deaf and Blind Assistant. There are 15,000 deaf and blind children in America.
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Jon Gosselin said, "I could get offered a job". He's clueless and nearly useless.
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Kate admits she has been hard on Jon, otherwise I think she has done a remarkable job raising healthy twins and sextuplets.
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After watching the show about Deaf and Blind Triplets, I can not stomach another episode where the Gosselin's get free play houses, , free makeovers, great free vacations, a free motorcycle and scooter (at least Kate donated hers to charity)
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I cannot watch the Gosselin's get any more stuff. It's time for them to give back to the community or just go away.
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'She ain't paying your way through your pre-mature mid-life crisis, nor should she have to.'
Who in the holy hell do you think is paying HER way?
I'll give you a hint. It ain't the dogs.
Re: C o n c r e t e*R o s e – So he's supposed to stick around and be miserable in order to fulfill some kind of idiotic code?
Apparently you've never grown up with parents who couldn't stand one another but stuck together out of love for 'you' because let me tell you. I've come to realize that two happy divorced parents are a million times better than a miserable married couple.
He's not running away, that's just the idea people like to imagine. He's been married 10 YEARS not 2, he stuck it around it's not working, he's moving on personally. He'll still take care of his kids.
One last thing.. What is mad funny is this. The person who files for the divorce which is KZILLA is responsible for taking care of all the palimony and alimony. SHE made Jon quit his job to watch the kids so that she could travel and fuck her bodyguard/ lover. She was gone 20 out of 31 days last month alone. SO what does that say.. HE IS THE STAY AT HOME dad. Jon you will make out like a bandit. She can NOT touch a fucking dime from here forward or you can throw her backwards mullett in jail. YOUR SET MY MAN… GO get a big fatty and have a blast.!!!!!!
Perez, this woman is AWFUL. Jon deserves to have a happy life and so do those kids.
Re: TexasBaby – Child support is based on income, NOT the amount of kids. He'd pay the same with one or eight.
Re: aliiiii – You forgot to ad, "When the cameras are on."
Re: xxmimzxx – A agree!
Re: RockGirl711 – I hope so! I really do.
Re: RockGirl711 – Amen to that.
His name in the show. His sperm helped make those kids. He tolerated her for 10 years. He has been the best daddy he could be under her control. He has paid his dues to get his share of the money. He's still lame and she's a bitch but business is business.
I am so fucking sick of these 2 highly unlikeable people being on the cover of every magazine, I really don't give a shit about this emasqualating bitch and her two timing husband, I feel sorry for the kids, but enough already~~~ STOP!
Re: MarieRi – by "idiotic code" do you mean marriage? being a responsible parent? if he feels he doesnt need to live by it then he should have never gotten married or had eight kids….sorry!
and dont assume you know my life–my parents havent been able to stand eachother for years.. dad cheated on mom–mom became paranoid and verbally abusive to dad–dad is also abusive and tries to convine every1 my mother is crazy…they cant stand eachother– yet my dad says theyre sticking it out "for us"… me & my sisters would MUCH rather have them divorce already for OUR SAKE… but what we'd much MUCH rather them have done is COMMUNICATE AND WORK IT THE FUCK OUT—or have divorced YEARS AGO–not wait! if its been THAT miserable for Jon for 10 yrs–then the shit shouldnt have gone on for 10 yrs! he should have opened his damn mouth and told kate thats hes not going to put up with her treating him that way maybe after YEAR 3 or being married! instead he brushes it off, rolls his eyes behind her back, & didnt say shit for 10 YEARS–and now he wants out? hes a punk. he just wants to have his fun and thats wut this is all about now… but its cool–when hes 50 sumthin with a huge beer belly hangin out @ skeevy bars & realizing the 20 yr olds dont want him anymore–and his kids call him "Jon" instead of daddy… maybe he'll understand it all then…
Re: ClownsFreakMeOut – thats actually not tru— you pay based on income AND per child… cuz think about it–when the two older ones are 18…the others are still 15… child support wont stop when the twins are 18— the rest will still have to all be paid for
I love how people on here actually think that they know either Kate or Jon. Wake up call, this is reality TV..which as we all know AIN'T REAL. The only thing we know for sure is that Kate and Jon love them some $$.
Re: justtfax – IF you were berated at every step of trying to do anything and everything and constantly being told to just "stoppit, I'll do it, you're doing it all wrong" - why should anyone bother trying? No one knew where that Gov. was in Argentina, how is it not possible he didn't know where she was? He didn't say she was unreachable to all of the world.
Re: mw – What's insane is excusing her behavior BECAUSE she is a mom. GOOD mothers and wives do not speak to their children or husband that way. I've seen a lot of excuses from people not married and from people without kids made for her. It's not a free pass to be a b*tch. PERIOD. Thousands of women are raising large families without berating their husbands for anything and everything (again, BREATHING TOO LOUD - ridiculous), and then go on to quite publicly leave children alone all the time for "book tours" AND have the nerve to say she does everything at home. Normal wives and mothers don't cut out their families who have supported them through their lives so they don't get a cut of money off a show.
Re: MarieLynn – Totally agree here. And I want to add - IT is VERY lucrative. Depending on skills, a starting job with a consulting firm can start upwards of $250k, and if you have the rights Cisco certs, you can be one of the rare with a CCIE - starting at $600k plus bennies and bonuses.
Re: ClownsFreakMeOut – Actually, it's both.
Re: C o n c r e t e*R o s e – Quite contradictory. "I wish they'd have divorced." "Jon should stay because he has kids." Given there's no real documentation to show how she was when they got married - you don't even have a freakin CLUE what she was like before the kids, or for that matter before the show, the 3 week book tours, the 1 week at home, the 3 week Cali shopping trips, the 1 week at home. Absence also breaks down a marriage and guess who's been gone the most?
Oh, brother. If he thinks he's hurt by her 'words', then he should think on how much real hurt his tawdry actions have caused her, and their kids ultimately.
Man unclear on any concept except that which applies to him, IMHO.
Well…I don't really know about their business etc. but if it were me, I'd assume my husband was no longer interested in continuing with marriage if he was out shopping for a bachelor pad. Maybe that's why she filed for divorce?
Kate has used every media outlet known to man kind. She has pr people to try and spin this story….Kate filed for divorce not Jon, Jon was in New York before he spent 4 days with the kids. Kate got a free boob job, new suv ect and is despirate to keep the show on the air so she used people magazine this week to hit all the morning shows on wed. and this weeks cover. Kate is the one who wanted the divorce as she already has dreams of finding a man who will stay home and take care of the kids so she can hit the spa and go anywhere to get away from the kids. Jon never cheated as she stated in the divorce papers that they have been seperated for 2 years. Jon is a man and taking the high road. Kate close your mouth and try to regain your self respect. The kids should be her first priority and we as ex-viewers of the show just want the kids to be ok not having a mother fighting with their dad in the press. Grow up Kate!!!!!
Re: C o n c r e t e*R o s e – I think you need to make up your mind what you think Jon did wrong in this situation because you're not making any sense.
I think you're just blaming him for anything because you feel like it's his fault. Maybe it's even something you're transferring from your Father or whatever.
First he shouldn't have left. Then he should have left sooner. Then they should have tried to work it out earlier. Then he should have left when it was in the beginning stages.
The man stayed for 10 YEARS. I imagine he tried again to come to some agreement with Kate, some compromise. I imagine he kept wanting to tough it out for the kids. I imagine he hoped one day it would turn around and he would have his happy family again.
And then he realized IT"S NOT. So he decide to do what was best for himself. You know people get extreme when they suffer too long? Men have ended up killing themselves or their wives when they should have simply divorced.
Him leaving a destructive marriage is all for the best. You yourself said people don't get the lives they wanted, this applies to kids too. But their Dad loves them, they'll adjust.
At this point in all of this crap that is happening, i just want to see the EIGHT YOUNG CHILDREN taken good care of, idk how, but i just want them to be ok.
Jon is a BITCH. I hope he looses the rest of his hair. YES, Kate was a controlling bitch, that is what kept that family organized and together. He is a worthless bag of dog shit.
KATE'S A BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TEAM JON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!