Portia Talks Gay Marriage On The View

The beautiful Portia de Rossi appeared on The View today and spoke about her relationship with Ellen DeGeneres and gay marriage.

She had some really beautiful things to say and made some AMAZING points about civil rights in this country!

We also love how she stood up for herself when Elizabitch opened her big, dumb mouth!

Check out the clip above.

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    1. 1

      People against gay marriage should be sent to Iran.



    2. 2

      Wow, I am surprised how well spoken she really is. I've always loved her and Ellen together but I ever expected her to speak so beautifully about such an important issue.



    3. 3

      Very beautifully said.



    4. 4

      PEREZ AKA DOUCHE…ITS CALLED FREEDOM OF SPEECH, EVEN THOUGH I DONT LIKE HER, ELIZABETH CAN SAY WHAT SHE WANTS. ITS ASHAME YOU CANT BE GAGGED…IM SURE SOME DUDE WOULD BE WILLING TO GAG U, EWWWW LOL



    5. 5

      Perhaps you heard a different conversation, but Joy Behar asked the same question before Elizabeth did, so jump off your soapbox Perez.



    6. 6

      way to go Portia!



    7. 7

      beautiful, eloquent, well-composed…yes yes yes

    8. dd says – reply to this


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      She is gorgeous and so well spoken.



    9. 9

      Smart and lovely. Well said

    10. LCFB says – reply to this


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      i honestly wished that perez remove himself from the gay marriage debate because he made it a mockery.

      but i now understand why gays need the word marriage. it's not relegious, it's a civil right.

      it's not because the majority approves, it's a civil right.



    11. 11

      Portia is lovely! Before this, I only knew her as the really gorgeous girl that is married to Ellen. It's so nice to see that she's not only gorgeous but smart and very poised, too. I agree with her. Even if you gave gay people the same exact rights as straight people concerning marriage but called it a different word, it still wouldn't be good enough. It's about equality in all forms, including the title of marriage.



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      I am getting really really tired of your denigration of anyone who doesn't agree with your views Perez. And your references to Mrs. Hasselback is demonstration in full of why you will never ever be taken seriously. You're a gossip columnist for heavens sake. What are your qualifications for being a social arbiter and a moral guide? None! Did you even graduate high school? Probably not. So STFU as far as gay marriage is concerned. You may not like it but fully 87% of Americans are absolutely opposed to gay marriage and the more you stamp your little foot and call people unjustified and nasty names the less likely it is going to be that their opinions will change.

    13. 6one9 says – reply to this


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      Love her and Ellen!!! Glad they are happily married. Wish I could figure marriage out.. lol Currently separated!! Oh well!!

    14. BD says – reply to this


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      She said it Amazingly

    15. jham says – reply to this


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      That was actually a great point she made in response to Elizabeth. She was also incredibly graceful in the way she said it.



    16. 16

      Give the GAY shit a rest already. so tired of the same old shit(on the dick)



    17. 17

      I saw the show this morning. She's a great spokesperson for her cause. You go girl.

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      Re: Kevin1243 – wow kevin, that would be over 200 million airplane tickets to Iran. maybe it would make more sense to send the 2% of the American people who are gay to Iran instead.



    19. 19

      well said!



    20. 20

      Perez, you are a joke. Funny you don't mention anything about Joy and her stupid mouth, considering she mentioned the same thing Elizabeth did first.



    21. 21

      Re: savkobabe – I don't think you're being very nice. As a gay person I think Perez has the right to represent the interests of his own minority group. The whole point Portia is making is that why should the majority decide what the minority can have? I mean, HELLO that's regressive! Should ethnic majorities vote on what priveleges ethnic minorities are allowed? Should a religious majority vote on what religious minorities can/can't do? Your argument goes against the ideals of our country (maybe not what we always practice, but what we profess).



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    23. kis95 says – reply to this


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      Skinny-minny. Still lovely, though.

      Elisabitch should not talk.



    24. 24

      I must have missed something because I didn't hear Elizabeth say anything that was too bad. I didn't hear Portia "stand up for herself" so much as express her opinion (rather gracefully, I might add) about a cause that is very dear to her. Perez, you're just trying to stir the pot–as usual–and your bias is showing.



    25. 25

      Goopie is an idiot.



    26. 26

      Joy Behar asked the question dummy. Elisabeth interupted her and I didn't hear anything Big and Dumb come out of her mouth. Why isn't it cool to be straight anymore? It's like straight people are lesser than gays now. I could care less if gay people want to be married. But why are straight people being bashed now?



    27. 27

      Joy looks like Jaba the hut just sitting there like a lump of talking crap!



    28. 28

      Joy Behar asked the question dummy. Elisabeth interrupted her and I didn't hear anything Big and Dumb come out of her mouth. Why isn't it cool to be straight anymore? It's like straight people are lesser than gays now. I could care less if gay people want to be married. But why are straight people being bashed now?



    29. 29

      Exactly what is it that Elisabeth said that Portia stood up for herself?



    30. 30

      i wish painful, burning, swollen, infected hemmorhoids on that nasty bitch elizabeth for the rest of her life. no amount of money can solve that problem and she deserves to be plagued with that kind of pain for life. fuck her and her hateful beliefs.



    31. 31

      Where's her accent? Thought she was Australian.



    32. 32

      buck: gays aren't planning on going ANYWHERE anytime soon. This is gonna be a really stressful existence for you…gays are coming out by the boat load left and right. Shoulda been born 5 decades ago…we're here to stay :)



    33. 33

      Nicely said!!!!!! Who can argue with that. She explained it so perfect.



    34. 34

      I am so sick of this issue. It will become legal eventually, although I am against it. We are living in a world of sin and chaos. Don't bother with the stupid comments because I don't care what others think of me. I care what God thinks of me.



    35. 35

      savkobabeRe: savkobabe – Where is that fabricated quote coming from…let me guess either your drivel in the Bible, a blonde bimbo from Fox News who was hired out of community college for her big tits, or your ass…quite possible all three in one. What you'd like is for the gay community to sit down and shut up? Not so much. Not anytime soon. We'll fight you toe to toe for our rights until you're sick of hearing gay everywhere, radio, channel, news, newspaper, column, blog you turn to. You really think gays are just gonna peace out like that? HAH. Hetros need to start realizing their relationships (0f over 50% of which end in divorce



    36. 36

      portia de rossi is stunning….beautiful…. intelligent…. talented….. well spoken compassionate….she should be a super huge star….ellen is lucky to have her….



    37. 37

      Go Portia!!



    38. 38

      Re: Wawawiwa
      you keep on fighting the good fight. i'm behind you 100%. we need equality in this country for ALL.



    39. 39

      Perez, a heterophobe is just as bad as a homophobe…



    40. 40

      I love her



    41. 41

      Elizabeth is an idiot.



    42. 42

      Re: savkobabe – You say that he will never be taken seriously and that he is just a gossip columnist but then you say that if he keeps stomping his foot no one will change their opinion about gay marriage. A little backwards and a poorly thought out statement, yes? And the 87% you are talking about is completely off, any percentage opposing gay marriage that high is among republicans only. Not the entire population so watch your facts. While we're speaking of facts, Perez graduated both high school AND college (are you shocked?) He attended NYU.
      I think Perez is a jerk, too, but I think people like you who act like they have all the facts, which happen to be inaccurate, and then question whether someone else has graduated high school are lame. Have a nice evening :)



    43. 43

      When someone tells you they oppose gay marriage….be VERYYY careful around that person. They ae almost always the ones with the most skeletons in their closet (Carrie Prejean, anyone?) but unlike gays, they don't have the courage to be honest with who they are. Morality horses are too busy judging others to step back and look at their own reflection in the mirror. I don't blame them…hypocrisy is not a pretty sight!

    44. JRO says – reply to this


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      Re: ashleygirl31 – if your position is freedom of speech, than why would you say Perez should be gagged one sentence later. A bit hypocritical and obviously not thought out very well lol.



    45. 45

      Re: ERRRBOOO – Yes. And I am sure that your "God" thinks very highly of you posting on a trashy internet gossip site. And I am also sure that your "God" wants to discriminate against gays!



    46. 46

      I absoulutely and completely agree with Portia, however, I think you're a moron, Perez. Changing someone's name (someone who was very kind to you on her show a few days ago) from Elizabeth to 'Elizabitch' is completely unnecessary. Joy asked the same damn question that Elizabeth did only Elizabeth gave an example. She specifically stated that it was just an example. And, unfortunately, there are obviously a lot of Californians who identify with that example. So instead of villainizing Elizabeth, maybe you can be thankful that she posed the question so that Portia had an opportunity to speak as eloquently as she did. It's called a talk show for a reason. Elizabeth did absolutely nothing wrong. Hopefully Portia's wonderful words will help a bit the next time the we get another chance to vote on this issue. Geez! Get a load of yourself, Perez. Unbelievable.

    47. JRO says – reply to this


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      well said, she is a great representative for the gay community.



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      Marriage is between a man and woman people. If it were intended that same sexes be together, than there wouldn't be two sexes. this is why same sexes cannot procreate. it's just nature. Society has been trying to defy the laws of nature since the beginning of time and along the way values lost. I don't condemn anyone whose gay. I'm not God, but a civil union maybe but not marriage. And no, it' s not just a word. i'm in love with my dog; so i should marry him and be given the legal rights as claiming him on my taxes and he should be on my health care plan as a family member…..silly people.



    49. 49

      Ok, Elisabeth wasn't even attacking Portia…she was just trying to make a comparison to ask a question. Geez Perez, it's obvious you hate Elisabeth, because you criticize her every comment and make out anything she says to be some sort of anti-gay statement. Chill out and stop being so defensive!

    50. epic says – reply to this


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      mhm. sorry, though i like portia - eloquent?? no, she didn't explain anything - it sounded more like a kid demanding something without explaining why. the explanation alone is childish, sorry. come up with something better, or grow up.



    51. 51

      Preach it,Portia!!!



    52. 52

      Portia is beautiful and very well spoken, but were you listening to the same interview as I was? Elizabeth was REPEATING what Joy said. She was asking a question, and in no way criticized Portia or her views (and rights if I may say). As a Christian, I am appalled at others' use of the Bible to discriminate against anyone, including homosexuals. During that particular interview, Elizabeth did not do that.



    53. 53

      If God intended for people to be with partners of the same sex, then he would have made us able to reproduce asexually.

    54. Suze says – reply to this


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      …call me crazy, but I didn't hear anything stupid come out of Elisabeth's mouth.

    55. buck says – reply to this


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      Re: Wawawiwa – kevin was the one suggesting all hetro-sexual against gay marriage be sent away i simply said it would be easier to segerated the 2% of the population if thats what he wanted to do. and maybe you are right, seeing to guys get rammed up the ass could possibly become mainstream.



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      Re: Wawawiwa – Whoa. I am a heterosexual who supports gay marriage. Let's not turn this into gay vs. straight. Bottom line is this is a CIVIL issue… those in favor of civil rights for ALL vs. anti-equalitists.



    57. 57

      Portia well said, very eloquently put. I have been a fan since Alley Mcbeal so its great to see her speak out.

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      Re: tigrrrlilly – dont get too closely behind Wawawiwa…it isn't socially acceptable.



    59. 59

      I'm gay and i don't even want to be married.But its sad to know even if i wanted to i couldn't :(
      This shit needs to change and the people that disapprove can just go to Iran like Kevin1243 said.

    60. buck says – reply to this


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      Re: SkinnyTie13 – don't forget Obama who is strongly opposed to gay marriage.



    61. 61

      awesome!!!! go portia!!!



    62. 62

      she's awesome!!!!!



    63. 63

      I hate Elizabeth, but I don't really see how Portia "stood up for herself." Elizabeth asked her a question and she answered it. I would consider myself a far left liberal and by writing these trite and bitchy comments about the Christian right is really setting back the gay agenda by showing the Conservatives that the gay community is exactly what they think it is. Rise above it, Perez. Use your fame for the good of the gay community. Don't drag it down.



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      Re: mdjones1973 – I don't think God intended for you interpret or understand His intentions. Love everyone. Regardless of your beliefs, it is not your job to judge. And as a Christian, you should know better.



    65. 65

      I love her!Shes so beautiful and intelligent!



    66. 66

      Well put. I don't think you should criticize Elizabeth. I think she was asking a question and not inputting her viewpoint into the question. It was a neutral question. Portia handled it beautifully and was gracious without going on the defense.



    67. 67

      What's so bitchy about what Elizabeth said?!??! She brought up a valid discussion point, which Portia answered very, very well… and because Joy (not Elizabeth) brought up the subject that Elizabeth asked about, those who watched the View got to see an intelligent, politically-minded gay person give an objective and informed answer to a question that, I'm sure, is asked by many.

      As a gay man, you should be happy that such important questions were brought up on one of the major daytime broadcasts. I am a major supporter of equal civil liberties, and I'm glad that the View stepped up and thoroughly discussed one of today's most important issues.



    68. 68

      Re: Wawawiwa

      I love you



    69. 69

      Perez, it's understandable that you are sensitive to this subject. I also think Portia was very eloquent in her discussion–you may serve this cause better if you took note of that! Also, Elizabeth did not say anything offensive & it did not appear at any time that Portia had the need to stand up for herself.



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      well im straight but i think gays should be happy and should be allowed to get married. every man(or woman) has their own rights from the Creator. everyone has their rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. =] (i pay attention in social studies class) and im also a Catholic Christian and i think God wants everyone to be happy. I dont think god would be angry at gays for just wanting to be happy. God doesnt like killing and stealing and lying. im sure hes fine with gays.



    71. 71

      She was fabulous, very poised and well spoken! Well done.
      On another note, people like those that are opposed to gay marriage because of god are the reason I am not religious, all you cause is hate.



    72. 72

      She and Ellen are such beautiful people - inside and out!!! She is well spoken and very articulate about the matter. AND she is 110% right. EQUAL RIGHTS FOR EVERYONE!!!!



    73. 73

      did you really watch this clip before commenting on it because as far as I can see, Elizabeth just piped up and reasked what Joy already had brought up. I'll agree it was probably rude of her to jump on Joy's question but it wasn't asked in an ignorant way — it wasn't a "wah wah" why can't you people just be happy with civil unions or one of those types of questions….
      I am 100% behind gay marriage in every state but seriously — you need to know what you're talking about before you post hatred towards someone just for being a conservative… she didn't even do anything and it looks like you are attacking her baselessly…



    74. 74

      Elizabeth didn't say anything wrong. She was just explaining Joyce's question better. That is they're job is to work together to make the guest comfortable answering questions.



    75. 75

      I have to agree with some on this post, who said that Elisabeth only reiterated what Joy said, however………………I am getting really tired of those of you who like to state "facts" and "statistics" that are completely out of thin air! Doesn't anyone realize that one of the biggest reasons that Prop 8 (HATE) passed, is because it was worded so that people thought they needed to vote FOR Prop 8 for gay marriage to pass?!?!? It was a confusing, misleading proposition. And President Obama isn't highly opposed to gay marriage as SO many conservatives LOVE to state, he just doesn't believe in it, but he does believe in the same civil rights for gay couples as hetero couples. I wish people would check their "facts" before they spew garbage!



    76. 76

      When others in the developed world look into the USA we are shocked by what we see, I genuinely lose sleep worrying about how a minority can be denied such a basic civil right. How can a country which claims to be the greatest in the world be so backwards, it seems reminiscent of when when african americans were denied the right to marry, then too, the majority was allowed to decide the rights of a minority, but it didn't make it right. Miss de Rossi is such an intelligent woman and a wonderful spokesperson for the gay community. Well done.



    77. 77

      Portia expressed her feeling very well, helps you understand.



    78. 78

      Re: sneakers – GFY because that's about the level of your discourse.



    79. 79

      Re: Kevin1243
      wtf does that mean?



    80. 80

      Hold on, what exactly did Elizabeth say that was so bad? I dont get it. Perez, stop being so damn sensitive! :)



    81. 81

      Re: ERRRBOOO – yeah well, if you believe in God, you should know that God is supposed to love everyone, no matter how or what they are. it called Love, right?



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      Re: CarolynAnn – well said (:

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      She's very well-spoken.



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      some people think being gay is the new thing, but it's not. gay people have always been present in the very first societies, but they weren't allowed to show it. now, they do, and they still don't have the same rights as heterosexuals, more that 2000 years later! why do people keep repeating the same mistakes? no one should allow themself to judge others, because there isn't one person in the world who's perfect.



    85. 85

      oh and btw, i'm not gay, i'm heterosexual, but for gay rights (:



    86. 86

      Re: buck – What's your point? It is not just Obama's decision.



    87. 87

      Re: peacexdanyxlove – Of course God loves all people but he does not love all behavior. You know that but you are just playing dumb.



    88. 88

      So tired of the "it says in the Bible that marriage is between a man and a wowan". It's just a convenient excuse to deny Americans basic equality.
      I thought the big deal with Christianity was love, forgiveness and "judge not and ye shall not be judged".
      Also from Galations 3:28..
      "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ … "
      For those of you who hide behind only certain parts of the Bible … OOPS!!



    89. 89

      Portia is a stunning, smart, well-spoken young woman and I hope she reached some people with her words.



    90. 90

      A bit boring. Those view girls ask some stupid questions. Especially Elizabeth. Not sure how or why Meridith Baxter's coming out would effect her. I can not believe that they all they have to talk about is her being gay. Who fucking cares.



    91. 91

      I just love her and im not even gay!



    92. 92

      Elisabeth and Sherrie are both stupid. Portia was elegant and articulate. Not so long ago, state's forbade inter-racial marriage too. This is the same fight all over again: ignorance and intolerance. The decision to marry should not be a political matter, but between two people making a commitment. Heaven knows we hetros have made a hash of it with our 50% divorce rate.



    93. 93

      Elizabeth actually asked a journalistic question that is on a lot of people's minds. . .it's called, if the awkward questions don't get asked, they won't be answered you loser!!!



    94. 94

      Re: Yellow Peeps

      As a person who studies the Bible, you misquoted the meaning of that verse. That verse refers to Christians being "ONE" in Christ. If you read the verse before that, it says "For ye are all the children of God by FAITH in Christ Jesus." If you're gonna quote scripture, make sure you understand it. Especially with verses like, Romans 1:26-27 "For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet. "

      Yes, God is love. He loves everyone. I am not trying to turn this into a debate. He does say in the Bible it is wrong. I am just tired of people taking the Bible and twisting it to support something that God states He doesn't.



    95. 95

      Preach it girl!



    96. 96

      Re: Lucky_Charms
      # 94
      Thanks for clarifying my point. And that point is … the Bible is so full of symbolism, contradictions, and is written in words and phrases that leaves itself SO OPEN TO LIMITLESS INTERPRETATIONS.
      The perfect example: You just attempted to set me straight about the REAL meaning of the Bible verses I quoted!!
      Honestly, how do you know what those words REALLY MEAN?
      When I think about how many people wrote, re-wrote, and translated the Bible, in one way or another, how in the heck do we know what the original meanings were??
      Interpretations are an interesting, but controversial, process.
      Have a good weekend. Happy to engage with an intelligent person … but totally disagree with you!!!



    97. 97

      Look, it's like this…..Portia is a beautiful woman, obviously inside and out. I hope her wishes for true civil rights plays out. Leave Elizabeth alone. She, too, is permitted to express herself, ask a question, or simply state an opinion. We all come from different backgrounds, different cultures. You need to allow people time to digest the differences among them. Rise above your judgmental jargon. You are just as much a bigot when you attack with such juvenile, mindless, and pointless verbiage. I'm so very tired of people who simply cannot take a little more time to listen to the other side. It makes such a tremendous difference in the way we all live our lives. For all the talent you have, Perez, it is such a shame that you have such an immature, childish way of expressing your opposition.



    98. 98

      Re: informed
      # 97
      Well-said!! Kudos

    99. ap076 says – reply to this


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      I thought she was very well spoken. I did not think Elizabeth's comment was stupid as many feel that way. The audience (tourists anyway) did not see to be with her that much in terms of applause.
      I love my home state of Massachusetts, home of the suffragette and abolition movements, ground zero for the American Revolution, and a place where gay marriage has existed for 6 years without the sky falling and great rating in all sociatal measurements. Our time will come, attitudes are changing.



    100. 100

      Re: sneakers – So basically what you're saying is all of the people who are infertile or unable to have children due to some kind of sickness/disease/cancer shouldn't be able to get married. Good job on being the biggest asshole on this website and good luck trying to convince people you're right.

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