Rihanna: Chris Brown Is "Controlling" & "Insecure"

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Let it out, hun!

In her new interview with W Magazine, Rihanna opens up further about the night Chris Brown assaulted her.

Even though she has discussed the events of that fateful night several times during the course of the last few months, the interview showcases Rihanna's growth in understanding her relationship with Beat-Her-Down and how wrong it really was. She confesses:

"There were control issues, insecurity. When people are insecure, they become very controlling and they can get very aggressive and in turn abusive. It doesn't have to be physical. Like, they would say bad stuff to you to make you feel lesser than them, just so they would have control in the relationship. It takes a big toll on your emotions and on your everyday life. It changes you."

We're sure it does. But that emotional toll she endured has made her a stronger person and performer, and while it might seem publicly talking about that night is her attempt to hurt Chris'career, nothing could be farther from the truth. Rihanna says:

"At first, I completely shut down. But now I feel like this happened to me so I could be a voice for young girls who are going through what I went through and don't know how to talk about it. It's not about Chris, about hurting him or sabotaging his career. I don't care about that part of it."

Nor should you. Nor should anyone!

Keep staying strong, RiRi!

[Image via WENN.]

    Posted: Jan 14, 2010 at 6:45 pm / Email this  »

    91 comments to “Rihanna: Chris Brown Is "Controlling" & "Insecure"”



    1. 1

      FIRST?



    2. 2

      yea thats because he is a genuine fudge packer and doesnt know how to deal with it…come on chris just be gay.



    3. 3

      Well at last she got that out! It's about time.



    4. 4

      it does NOT say chris brown's name anywhere in that statement. she was saying in general, which means BOTH of them, if not her alone since she purposely did not mention a name.



    5. 5

      keep trying to sell your shitty album, sweetie, by talking about some stupid shit that happened a year ago that nobody gives a fuck about anymore.



    6. 6

      Now that you have an album out you're suddenly "a voice for young girls".

      Stupid whore.



    7. 7

      its not about hurting his career but its about hers getting more attention



    8. 8

      i dont care what she says, you know part of it has to do with doing something gto his career.



    9. 9

      SO OVER THIS ALREADY!! She is milking this shit for all it's worth. She was stupid enough to stay after a first beating then it's all on her.



    10. 10

      What Chrissy Poo did was wrong shouldnt of never hit that girl like that but this bitch is no fucking lily angel I so so sure insecurity were on her part as well! and i think because she was so tight liped about everyy thing because she knew it was way more to the story?? album isnt doing as rec. comp hop for so this a ploy for rec. sales she lost alot of cred. wen she took toolate to talk her first single was about russian rulet and she always neckid



    11. 11

      Anything 4 record sales !!! SO OVER IT !



    12. 12

      Well, move on Rihanna. Don't be with Chris, stop talking about the him and the past- unless your career is going nowhere and this is the only thing you have to hold on to in order to get some press.



    13. 13

      Meanwhile, what's Rhianna's excuse for enduring his behavior for
      as long as she did?



    14. 14

      Bitch is still milking that for publicity,bet she still loves it rough in the bedroom.



    15. 15

      IF SHE TRUELY WANTS TO MOVE ON. WHY COMTINUE TO TALK ABOUT IT…I DON'T TRUST HER WHOLE STORY ANYWAYS. TOO MANY HOLES



    16. 16

      she is STILL talking about this?
      get the fuck over it woman. she keeps going on about how she just wants to forget about it and not think about it, THEN WHY THE FUCK DO YOU *NEVER* SHUT UP ABOUT IT RIHANNA? idiot.



    17. 17

      Please! Enough already! Yes, Chris Brown was hella wrong for what he did, but this is just an attempt to get publicty because she knows her new album sucks ass!



    18. 18

      I love RiRi, but I wish she would just come clean about trying to destroy Brown's career already. I would be doing the same thing if the man I was dating repeatedly punched my face in. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!



    19. 19

      Re: hmmwhatever – agreed! i have yet to see her stupid ass give a donation to a woman's abuse shelter or anything she is a fake ass bitch and im glad people are starting to see this now!



    20. 20

      Yeah, he couldn't stand his gf going out with her p@ss hanging out, nipples showing…
      Hate him, but she's GROSS, too!



    21. 21

      omg enuff ok bitch we get it im so tired of her and this im trying to be a role model for girls no hoe your shitty album isnt selling so you try to get attention any way possible move the fuck on why dwell in the pass

      your a horrible role model for girls and women period put a shirt on and stop being a fuckin hoe and attention whore

      ps. atleast chris is actually talented herpe mouth bitch



    22. 22

      she doesnt care about sabotaging his career nooooow cus hes aaaaalready fuckd, duhhhhhhhhhhhh



    23. 23

      The main thing that has destroyed Chris Brown's career is his shitty records. After that, his shitty attitude and his shit-for-brains. That jive-sucker is maybe qualified to be an assistant restroom attendant trainee: he can take out his aggressions by scrubbing toilets. Oh, and that blue bow-tie did not particularly help his career ha ha, remember that?



    24. 24

      she has nothing else to say but about what happened back then.
      geez.just shut up Rihanna. no one gives a pigs ass



    25. 25

      She "shut down" by meeting Chris at Diddy's house and going jet skiing. Then off to LA to party in Hollywood. Rhianna is so full of it!



    26. 26

      ahh i hate her, she's just riding the "i'm a strong woman" shit to look good and sell her satanic album



    27. 27

      Damn she's still talking about him?
      That happend damn near a year ago. Just leave it alone. The story is played out now and nobody really cares at this point.

    28. Nenns says – reply to this


      28

      For your information, she did this interview last year so blame the magazine for releasing it this year!!! The magazine asks her questions and she answers!!! His songs are shitty and if his fans LOVED him so much they would have come out and bought his CD!!! He destroyed his career with his own hands LITERALLY!!! You obviously give a fuck if you decided to comment on a post you could have easily passed!!!



    29. 29

      gawd I despise this f****ing broad….go away YOU CANT SING CANT DANCE …you waste of space stop banging on about it we heard you the first time….move on and get your publicity some how else!



    30. 30

      Love you Rihanna!

      Congrats on your platinum album!!!!!!

      Chris brown..Still a beater. And his album FLOPPED!



    31. 31

      ZZZzzzzzzzzzzz



    32. 32

      omg assbeep is right her album is shit, and like wow chris brown is the actuall talented one. wow he punched you ounce GET OVER IT! he did his time its done



    33. 33

      Im getting sick of her talking about this. Move on!



    34. 34

      Im getting sick of her talking about this. Move on!



    35. 35

      spin spin sugar



    36. 36

      ok assbeep is right. Rihanna is a hoe and she is NOT talented at all, they are trying to sell her shity album that sold maybe like 2 copies. Chris Brown punched you, you got the police involved he did his time, its OVER get over it. Chris Brown is the actually talented one, and his album is really, really good. he may have ruined his reputation but he has not ruined his talent. Rihanna get a life, get over it, and move on!



    37. 37

      She is exaclty right on the money, and very mature for her age. Good for her.

      He, on the other hand, still doesn't take responsibility for what he's done, his pathetic attempts to do it were so fake it waas unbelievable, and HE WILL DO IT AGAIN to someone else. You can bet on it.

      I bet she'll never let that happen to her again. She gets it.



    38. 38

      Ok I'm so sick of this story & her for that matter. When the situation 1st happened I felt so bad for her, but then I heard she got back with cb to talk things over @ p.diddy's house like 3 weeks later I was like ok I c how she's gonna work this. & I was right, I just knew she was gonna keep quite until her next project, & then she was gonna start talking, she's so fake. & if she's really cares about young girls then, y does she dress & act like such a whore knowing how much little girls look up to her.



    39. 39

      i do like how she's coming out with all of the details. i think she's doing so other girls in that situation will know what to look for and maybe inspire them to get out of it all. i wish her all the best. i love that girl's drive.



    40. 40

      Re: Clasna4life55 – platinum album????? LMAO after how long!!! riri fans stop it, you all know that she did crap on her album sells! im nt a riri hater, i like her last album but this album is completely crap!



    41. 41

      OMG. Fuck up.
      She was beaten by her boyfriend.
      She can say whatever the hell she wants about the dickhead.
      She's a lovely woman with power, which automatically makes her better then all you fuckers talking drivel. Except Perez, he's a lovely woman with power too. ;D
      She made it through an abusive relationship, as far as I'm concerned, that does indeed make her a voice for young women in the position she was.

      I'm no fan of the music, but more power to her. She's admirable and inspiring.



    42. 42

      ugh i hate chris brown , i feel like punching him



    43. 43

      Re: MiaMassacre – I dont think she is representing women at all. I havent heard from any charities supporting abused women say riri gave them money or spoke to young women themselves. so far all she has done is interviews with mags promoting her album. She should at least help out Nicole Brown simpson charity but she FAILED! The only person representing mistreated women in my eye is Halle Berry who became a spoke person and still is and never used her abused case to sell movies!



    44. 44

      I’m surprised spoilt brat Chris brown kept his mouth shut for this long.



    45. 45

      She should shut the fuck up and be glad she's still somewhat relevant..Her famous time is almost up. Chris Brown had no talent before he clocked her and those people who consider themselves his fans have no real life… No story here, just a lot of self promoting and repeat BS…

    46. @v@ says – reply to this


      46

      It took her this long to come up with this? I guess 'lurve' really IS blind.



    47. 47

      domestic violence is definitely an issue esp. with teen girls nowadays. good for her, if her purpose is true….



    48. 48

      shut up already gawd… get over it perez…. hope u get ur dream job just so someone punches u in ur big fat mouth



    49. 49

      Rhianna stating the obvious does not impress.



    50. 50

      good im happy shes a strong woman



    51. 51

      Rihanna`s HEART is COLD.. cus she sold her self too the DEVIL! it is true..
      SHE WORSHIPS THE DEVIL/LUCIFER!

      This is so OLD news PEREZ!!!!!.. Like she is a good role-model..please, then she should start dressing more classy not showing ass and tits in every magazine cover and stop go against GOD!

      She is with the negative.. The illuminati!

      Do not support this woman.. she dosent give a fuck about us!

      Illuminati puppet!



    52. 52

      TIME TO FUCKIN MOVE ON PEOPLE. SHE'S MADE MONEY AND SOLD ALBUMS FROM THIS GUY. SHE'S FUCKIN MILKED IT DRY!!!!! IT'S TIME TO GET OVER IT



    53. 53

      oh please if that was the case then why didnt she become that voice when it happend instead of waiting till she dropped her album so she can get sympathy…im sorry but no1 knows what really happend that night, and for chris brown to be degrated the way he has been is fucked up!! im a fan of both and i use to LOVE rhianna but shes an attention seeker full of drama, and i hate ppl like that



    54. 54

      Re: moffifox – def agree with u



    55. 55

      Re: Nenns – first of all dumb ass the reason why his records sisnt sell is because music stores refuse to sell them so b4 u start talking shit check the facts!!! and FYI she still is talking about it cuz she was just on a music channel running out the mouth so stfu!!



    56. 56

      Isn't hard about top be released? Riri darling, no one deserves what happended to you but to use it to sell your album / singles is wrong1!



    57. 57

      Why are people still talking about this? I totally agree that she is doing this for her album. If she was trying to be a voice for domestic violence and all of that why don't she go to the source or be apart of one of those websites, instead of talking about it in a magazine (which just by happens is also talking about her ALBUM). I'm not dissing her but OMG if you want to be a voice, go out and actually do something. She's just bashing Chris and trying to pump up her album sales!



    58. 58

      Time and Distance always yields Truth. Chris Brown needs a woman to beat his butt.



    59. 59

      They're both gross and completely untalented.



    60. 60

      Re: WinonaJohnson – exactly. lol



    61. 61

      oh rhianna. shut up. you aint a saint either. just bcz you got the receiving end of the beating doesn't make you innocent. i know you hit that guy first. that's just the type of person u are.
      and cb said you are talentless, can't dance, and dress like a skank!
      i haven't felt or seen her do shit in terms of "a role model to young women" all she did was start dressing slutty and posing with guns! how the f*ck is that helping them?? what a dumbass! lol.



    62. 62

      Oh shut up about it already — it only bothered you once the media started portraying you badly because you're violent too. She didn't "shut down", she went back to him, and partied and played. Stop milking it, and shut the fuck up and go bacl to you mediocre music.



    63. 63

      Perez, drop it already!! SHE made bad choices, should have been out of there ages ago! Poor little "survivor???" Most don't think so.



    64. 64

      Wehn this first happened, i being a female and all, took her side instantly. Now that has completely changed. Now im on his side. Yeah what he did was wrong and shouldve never happened, but bitch says shes over it and that she forgives him, yet it seems this is all she talks about. GET OVER IT AND SHUT UP! its been what, a year? its time she moved on. The more she talks about it, the more i see WHY it happened in the first place. If this happened over a text from a girl, or him cheating AND SHE NEVER SHUT UP ABOUT IT, id hit her too.



    65. 65

      fuck this bitch!



    66. 66

      Perez, I love that you agree with her that people shouldn't be trying to hurt Chris Brown/sabotage his career, yet you have been calling him "Beat-her-down" ever since this happened. You criticize him every chance you get, so don't act like you are taking the high road now.



    67. 67

      Pffft! Rhianna FOREHEAD just go jump off a cliff already before someone else makes ur face look that way again!! WOOOO!



    68. 68

      this rasshole again? stupse



    69. 69

      Rihanna can suck a fat one cuz shes a slut. Chris probably hit her for 3 reasons…
      1.) She asked him to worship the devil with her.
      2.) She told him after they had sex that she had herpes.
      3.) She was being a lil slut and flirting with a bunch of other guys cuz SHE is the insecure one and desires the attention. Reason why she is STILL talkin about how she got hit.



    70. 70

      From another site and I have to agree with the poster.

      says: Kelis and Rihanna are two b*thches that I want to go away….stop reporting your bitter issues in the media and helping the "establishment" strengthen negative stereotypes about black men! STFU!!! If he's a dead beat dad then deal with your personal issues PERSONALLY! It's no ones business! And as for big head Rihanna! If he was so insecure and controlling why the f*ck were you the one checking HIS text messages. Just shut up ladies if I can call you that!



    71. 71

      this happened a year ago, we can stop talking about it. it's really annoying to here her go on about this - like she wants more sympathy. many people from time and time again have been abused. SHE HIT HIM TOO ! he's not ranting about it anymore. you can't just blame him. she even admitted saying she used to have intense fights with her brother. she has a problem too. it's not just chris. she needs to own up to her shit as well.



    72. 72

      Don't like her one bit.



    73. 73

      I Love Rihanna, but she needs to stop talking about this incident. I kno it was a tough one but its time to move on. SHe has a new boyfirend, who by the way should not get involved in any way with the incident (match.com video). She needs to evolve and demonstrate to women in the world by just letting it go already. We know she is a strong person, and talking about what happened with Chris Brown is annoying now.



    74. 74

      We love you rihanna, screw chris whats his face. The new Rihanna cd, rated r has to be the best work shes done yet! keep going Rihanna!!



    75. 75

      rihanna just needs record sales,why is she still talking about it,both of them moved on. Chris has a new GF and she stole LeToya Lucketts bf as stated on mediatkeout.com so rihanna needs to go sit down somewhere,and yall need to stop going on chris brown, get over it, tht happened last year move on and get a life, and perez you keep calling hijm bet-her-down or whatevere you saymmleave him be his name is no where in there, i'm really gettin tired of hearing about these 2, yes domestic violence is wrong, but GET OVER IT, move on.



    76. 76

      sorry for the spelling errors, and incorrect grammer.



    77. 77

      stay strong ri ri!!! i always knew he was jealous of ur sucess!



    78. 78

      nd yall bitches still buying her album.. #14 on billboard 200 so stfu u dirty ignorant trashes.. yall still buying her shit…dumb bastards!

    79. elizk says – reply to this


      79

      Does anyone remember Perez posting something about Rhianna going crazy and stopping a photoshoot she was doing to go hunt down Chris? He was at the shoot with her and walked away for a few minutes and she stopped the whole shoot to figure out where he was? Hitting someone is wrong, but does anyone have an opinion about being "provoked?"



    80. 80

      shes hardly a suvivor, its not like he beat her up till she was on a life support machine. she hit him first anyways, devil worshipper.

    81. elizk says – reply to this


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      Re: Dr. Cornelia J. Dogbarker PhD rescinded – Whose belly is that?!?!?



    82. 82

      what a crop of bullshit! This bitch irks my damn nerves! I wish she would go sit her whorish ass down somewhere, ughhhhhhhh! This is 1, in denial ass sick bitch! She's speaking of her own insecurities and controlling issues, dizzy bitch!



    83. 83

      personally i think rihanna has changed - her music her image and its not a bad change , its just a shame really that she felt she had t change her image because of him ! Chris you suck!

      RiRi - Love you (y) x



    84. 84

      Re: Kiirsti-x- – and ur just as fucking dumb as she is



    85. 85

      Bitch please…you just realized that most of the world isn't buying your "its him not me" story since you waited a year to use it just for promoting your album. If you were serious about being a so called role model for abused women….you would have done it already and not use a mag interview to drum up publicity for it. You reak of hypocrisy bitch. I seriously doubt that Chris was the only one with insecure and control issues. Everyone knows you have a jealous side and quite the temper yourself.



    86. 86

      Re: sweetlol – Word…couldn't have said it better myself.



    87. 87

      Re: historih – Not I so I can talk all the shit I want! Ahahahahahahahahahaha!

    88. @v@ says – reply to this


      88

      She's looking backward with candor. It can take quite some time before getting enough time and distance away from abuse to make some sense of it.



    89. 89

      Didn't we already hear this before, once, twice, three times too many? Couples fight, if it's so serious that he beat you, then you leave him. Go see a counselor, get your feelings out, then move on. End of story. Please stop agonizing on it like you were so saintly and innocent and are suffering permanent damages and will never be the same again. Yes, he was wrong, he apologized for it and has been under scrutiny since the incident. I'm sorry for what happened but I think you need to move on.



    90. 90

      im tired of hearing about this shit its fucking annying move on people its been almost a year u gonna crucify chris brown forever hes only 20 if he wants to change he will end of story shut the fuck up about this topic !



    91. 91

      oh my GOD!! we geti it. this is so old and honestly i don't care any more. the media is making it seem like she's this sweet little angel and that she could do nothing wrong!! it's getting on my nerves. i understand she is a victim and all but my goodness please STOP!! YES HE WAS WRONG FOR WHAT HE DID, I UNDERSTAND THAT, BUT AT THE SAME TIME I WANT ALL OF THIS TO STOP. JUST SHUT UP PLEASE!!!