"Intellectualizing" The N-Word Are You, John Mayer?????

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We don't buy it!

John Mayer has finally risen from his stoney-coma and been bombarded with today's backlash of his Playboy interview!

Mayer has received an outrageous amount of flack (and rightfully so!) for using the N-word in his recent interview, more specifically:

Someone asked me the other day, “What does it feel like now to have a hood pass?” And by the way, it’s sort of a contradiction in terms, because if you really had a hood pass, you could call it a n****r pass. Why are you pulling a punch and calling it a hood pass if you really have a hood pass? But I said, “I can’t really have a hood pass. I’ve never walked into a restaurant, asked for a table and been told, ‘We’re full.’"

Disgusting.

So John has taken to his official Twitter to try and calm the storm:

Re: using the 'N word' in an interview: I am sorry that I used the word. And it's such a shame that I did because the point I was trying to make was in the exact opposite spirit of the word itself. It was arrogant of me to think I could intellectualize using it, because I realize that there's no intellectualizing a word that is so emotionally charged.

Arrogant is right!

Do U think the apology is valid????

(We don't!)

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    Posted: Feb 10, 2010 at 8:07 pm / Email this  »

    138 comments to “"Intellectualizing" The N-Word Are You, John Mayer?????”

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    1. 1

      no and i will never buy his music again



    2. 2

      youre so in love with this guy, why do you always blow up everything that is said about him??



    3. 3

      OMG Perez, really? He said it you bitched about it, he apologizes and yet your still bitching. I'm starting to believe what everyone on the blog has been saying. You're a little bitoch scorned!



    4. 4

      How racist and what an idiot he is for saying this



    5. 5

      yes, I think that's an honest apology.



    6. 6

      Kind of like the way you tried to intellectualize using the "F" word. Stop pretending you care about the plight of black people just because JM doesn't want you…besides, isn't he a little bit older than what' you're used to liking anyway?



    7. 7

      Why the hell are you bitching about this P, He apologized for the use and i didnt find the article offensive he used some bad choice words but its not offensive. you just dont like him. how bout getting over yourself aswell dear. He doesnt have to love black chicks that way he can love or fuck whatever the fook he wants. stating his opinion doesnt make him a bad guy. btw i am black.

    8. aldoh says – reply to this


      8

      yeah sure, move on



    9. 9

      Yeah, I like John more and more you are really boosting up his image. You make yourself look like a desperate queen who was turned down and is now livid.
      Sure John has a big mouth and should watch what he says and how he says it but at least the guy tells it like it is, at least he is not taking himself too seriously ang kudos to him for calling you on all your shit.



    10. 10

      Yes it is. Stop looking for shit to whine about.



    11. 11

      maybe you could report about someone OTHER than john mayer every once in a while?



    12. 12

      If you stop writing about this guy….he'd go away. No one actually reads his interviews in magazines anyway. Just stop. He's no different than Speidi - once you stop, their irrelevance takes shape. Nobody cares what he has to say about anything until you start putting it in the internet. Just stop.



    13. 13

      he apologized. but perez won't get over it cuz he's obsessed with mayer.



    14. 14

      Let it go



    15. 15

      the only "backlash" is coming from you, and that's because you are a jealous little bitch. i can see why everyone seems to hate you and you are considered to be a big joke.



    16. 16

      i don't think he meant anything by it. i just think he's desperate and he trying out the "shock-em" thing i.e. "that sounds so wrong, but maybe i'm just not as smart as he is and i don't get it?" uh, ok. that's tired. and we get it. i used to like him, but he gets less and less attractive every time he opens his mouth. i could see making stupid comments like he does when he's sitting around shootin the shit with his "friends" trying to get a reaction. but to know it's going to be published - dumb. i feel terrible for the girls he's gone out with - i'd be embarrassed to be someone like jennifer anniston, or even jessica simpson and having gone out with someone like john mayer - it screams "bad taste!" seriously, he needs to get over himself before everyone else does.



    17. 17

      John: Leave it alone. Just stupid. Everybody can be stupid. You are not THAT stupid, so quit already. Walk around the block.



    18. 18

      You are OBSESSED!!



    19. 19

      he is so hot and so amazingly good at what he does - music - that i'll let this one pass



    20. 20

      John Mayer is the white Kanye - mediocre and self important
      please shut the fuck up
      your no bruce springsteen and you never will be



    21. 21

      So when Perez uses the "f" word the world is suppose to forgive him and move on because he apologized but he can't forgive John Mayer? At least he didn't call someone that. . .



    22. 22

      It's ok to use it, but then it is not ok to use it. It really depends on the intent of the person. That is what this is all about, the intent. John Mayer is obviously a very intelligent person and I find it unlikely he would be careless enough to show blatent ,unfair, racial intent. But these days you can never be too safe, so it is probably best not to use the N word at all.



    23. 23

      Well it doesn't sound like it was said with hate. But it was a STUPID thing to say. Kind of ironic that he thinks he's being intellectual when saying it.



    24. 24

      He's always been such a prick. His music is usually pretty great but the shit that comes out of this self righteous asshole amazes me sometimes…



    25. 25

      Fuck John and fuck his stupid apology. He knew exactly what he was doing. This will be on the gossip sites for days which will just make him happy.



    26. 26

      Who cares what you or John Mayer think about race relations? Both of you get over yourselves. You guys seriously think either of you are important? Poor things.



    27. 27

      Perez you are like Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction haha

    28. ml456 says – reply to this


      28

      yes, it was a valid apology…now get over John Mayer and get a life you pathetic turd…my gosh you are the most vile and disgusting human being. Man I hope you get punched again



    29. 29

      No apology was necessary for what he said as it wasn't racist. He didn't use the word in a racist context. Interestingly, what he was apologizing for was using the word, not because it was racist, but because he should have realized that there are a lot of people out there who are just too emotional or simply not smart enough to understand what he was saying. That would certainly seem to apply. Especially in regards to Perez as he is clearly too emotional AND too stupid.



    30. 30

      He's actually making a point, if you didn't so alarmed at the n-word to ignore everything else he's saying.

      And someone who recently used to f-word in its most negative context shouldn't be so quick to judge, Perez.



    31. 31

      "Do U think the apology is valid???? "
      What difference does it make if we think it is or not? You won't think it is no matter how many times he apologizes, and you'll keep hounding him. Everyone knows about the grudges you keep.



    32. 32

      What do I think? I think you're starting another one of your fucking little vendettas against someone on your enemy list. as you did after your Miss America fiasco. Now you'll go on an on and post whatever negative thing you can find against him. You're still the 14 year old girl you were in high school with your petty little jealousies and childish paybacks. Oooooh, John was so mean to mean now I'm going to really teach him a lesson. You really have some psycho problems, your mom really fucked you up. Mayer owns you and you were just too stupid, lonely and desperate, hoping you had a chance with him. Fuck yourself and grow up.



    33. 33

      He's utterly disgusting and his apology is too little to late.

      I hope this bites him in the ass, HARD.



    34. 34

      Whoops - nevermind - from the rest of his interview I gather he was just being an asshole.



    35. 35

      yea and you said the f word whats your apology. oh wait your gay so apparently you get a free pass right?



    36. 36

      Just like you are a douchebag for saying f*ggot you hypocritical pig.



    37. 37

      Are you still going on about this? You're making this TOO much of a big deal. So, he used the N word, and from what I gathered about his comments (as a black woman) he didn't mean anything offensive by it. He's apologized, admitted that he tried to NOT use it in a racist manner, yet PEOPLE LIKE YOU over-dramatize the word. In fact, I think it's been used so many times in rap videos, movies, etc., that it's lost some of it's "emotional charge." Rappers just take off the -er. Yes, in times of extreme racism and racial oppression, it still echoes disgusting. The more you harp on about this, the more it leaves a bad taste in my mouth. In fact, I FIND IT OFFENSIVE THAT YOU ARE PUSHING MAYER TO APPEAR AS IF HE WERE ACTUALLY, WHOLE-HEARTEDLY RACIST. IT'S OFFENSIVE THAT YOU'RE PUSHING THE RACISM. SHUT IT. You are the only person who can allow someone to make you feel inferior, stop pushing people to read what you want them to read, and take it for what it is: you're upset because he called you out. You're a hypocrite, you sit on a throne of liesss. Of course, you wouldn't think it was honest, you want to watch him crash and burn for not sucking your cock. Get. Over. It. Mayer disgusted me more in his blatant disrespect of women in general.
      P.S. Find better sources, asshole.



    38. 38

      he is truly a douchebag…and i've never liked his music still can't understand why this douchbag is famous still or how he hooked up with such beautiful women hes digusting and a freak



    39. 39

      its easy… FUCK YOU PEREZ !!!!!!! you are just a fat-ugly-ass bitch !! and YES it sounds like a nice apology to me. you are so fckng UGLY perez!



    40. 40

      Yes.

    41. Laury says – reply to this


      41

      OMG, Perez. Stop. Seriously. STOP. You're embarassing yourself. Your obsession with John Mayer is getting way out of hand. You need help, dude, STAT. You're trying to make people hate John but in fact, the opposite is happening because everyone can see right through your bullshit. I have more respect for John than I'll ever have for you.



    42. 42

      Perez you are such a fanny! Is it really any of your fucking business! You're not black so it doesn't concern you. He said something that was taken out of context and then apologized for it! Its done! Finished! Move on to a new story now about much you wanna fuck Zac Efron or various other little Glee boys… And honey, the American Idol job? Purleeseeee your not in that league honey!



    43. 43

      It's funny how 99.9% of the people here have used that word, and not in the intellectual sense. Hypocrites! Move On! It was a mistake, get over it!



    44. 44

      i love you john mayer



    45. 45

      But from what I can tell he doesnt say anything really racist. Thats the thing. I dont get what people are making such a super duper big deal about. Plus if you get out of the interview that he doesnt fuck black women then thats his perogative…he's missing out lol but who are you perez or anyone else to dictate what race of women a person has sex with. If people actually read the interview they'd find that he was actually making some really good points.

    46. exBFF says – reply to this


      46

      it just shows his arrogance that he thinks he can "intellectualize" a word that no one should use. he's the ultimate narcissist.



    47. 47

      Yes I do, so stfu who cares.



    48. 48

      Completely agree with ReservoirDog. Perez really is a fat, ugly bastard, lol! A recurring fear thought I have is waking up next to him in the morning to discover you've boned him!!!!!!! OH MY FUCK I would literally jump off the Brooklyn Bridge….



    49. 49

      I can't stand him, but I get what he was saying. He was not being racist. I totally believe he likes to say things for the shock value, but his comments about women and sex are more offensive to me. Like he says; the "N" word is just too emotionally charged.



    50. 50

      I THINK YOU'RE IN LOVE PEREZ… AND OBSESSED



    51. 51

      oh SHUT UP perez! You are resentful because he said he regrets having kissed you. Deal with it, and stop mourn as a teenager in heat, IT WAS JUST A KISS, GET OVER IT.



    52. 52

      Stop your bitching already! You are acting like he owes you something…He doesn't owe you crap! Stop being a cry-baby and act like a man and just say you love him, but he stopped calling. You know it is true. I have not heard one word of "backlash" from any other media outlet other than you. Time to put your big boy pants on and shut the hell up!

    53. egm80 says – reply to this


      53

      Do you put postings like this when black celebrities use the word? It's a very uncool word and no one should be using it. Saying black people can use it but white people can't is just as racist as using the word.



    54. 54

      John Mayer will say/do anything to get attention. He needs to learn to shut the eff up and stick to playing guitar. I actually didn't mind his music, at one point, but his moronic comments seem to be overshadowing his music. Oh, and for all you folks who are upset with Perez's comments…….find another blog. Seriously, if you dont like what he says, then go and find a site that won't offend you.



    55. 55

      Re: RocMama – Hi John Mayor!



    56. 56

      STFU douchenozzle.



    57. 57

      John Mayer will say/do anything to get attention. He needs to learn to shut the eff up and stick to playing guitar. I actually didn't mind his music, at one point, but his moronic comments seem to be overshadowing his music. Oh, and for all you folks who are upset with Perez's comments…….find another blog. Seriously, if you dont like what he says, go and find a site THAT WONT OFFEND you!!



    58. 58

      What was it that you Perez called Wil.I.Am again? Don't be a hypocrite, your mouth has gotten the best of you too



    59. 59

      i totally get what he's saying



    60. 60

      I have NO respect for him now.



    61. 61

      i maintain, he's as bad a person as he is a musican

    62. 213 says – reply to this


      62

      Get over it. He is WAY more liked than you.



    63. 63

      I was in two minds about this guy but the more I read his self-important drivel, the more I think, please let this socially dysfunctional ARSE crawl back under whatever rock of ignorance he emerged from under.



    64. 64

      Dude is a fucking cun*t and so are you.



    65. 65

      John Mayer's apology is nothing but a "cover my own ass and get rid of the heat" apology. And when is the word "intellectualizing" and the "N" word
      ever appropriate or acceptable in the same sentence? Simple answer…it's not!

      I think the fallout over this has just begun. Enjoy all the press John!



    66. 66

      Team Mayor. Boy can PLAY! Never bought his music yet, but if he goes more bluesy, I may be a fan.

      He's honest as it gets, and I respect him for that. Poor guy can't have a freakin' life, lay off him Perez. I wish I had a lovely girlfriend who doesn't care that he's famous to introduce him to. Sounds like a swell and smart guy, IMO.



    67. 67

      No, I have always thought him to be lacking in the intellectual department and he never seems to let me down. What goes through that void of his? His totally disgusting in all aspects. One of those people I would hate to touch with a barge pole. I’m sure all his ex’s are so embarrassed to be associated with him.

    68. LCFB says – reply to this


      68

      so i guess all blacks are "n***gers" i understand what he was trying to say, but he used the most racisit part of the word. it was not never ignorant getting goals accomplished but something a kkk would say as they burn a cross in your yard.

      i am now on the bad wagon he is a major nazi.



    69. 69

      Yes its is valid! Jeez!!! He did not mean anything by it. Eveybody is so damn sensitive. Get over yourselves. Jesus Christ!



    70. 70

      this guy seems like the biggest douche, but i think it's incredibly sad that he's actually trying to say something about racism and no one will listen because their N word alarm went off. if we can't get past reactionary freakouts over language, we're never going to be able to actually start a dialogue about racism that progresses past name-calling. i get what he's saying in his apology and do buy it (though i'd never buy his music.)



    71. 71

      As much as when you apologized using the f*g word.



    72. 72

      Ur sooo up his a@@ its not even funny anymore. Yawn….



    73. 73

      *

      I didn't think you'd be so arrogant, so fucking stupid, Mario, to touch this one, given your interaction with Will*I*Am/Black Eyed Peas, etc. and how you cried the big ol' crocodile tears shrieking "I am the victim!" when you got what you deserved.

      *

      But, apparently you really are that arrogant and stupid. Not to mention a major no-talent, lame-assed fame-whoring celeb-wannabe who will never…be.

      *

      Not so mu

    74. mw says – reply to this


      74

      you're in love!!!!! who knew!!!! you're like a teenaged pissed off girl!!! aaawwwhhh….be quiet now or you will look desperate..

    75. mw says – reply to this


      75

      plus didn't you use the N word wit will i am or something???



    76. 76

      I understand why people are picking on you Perez but can we agree that John Mayer is an idiot. The dude has a serious case of foot and mouth disease. Stop talking you only make yourself look worst.



    77. 77

      Anybody notice how Mario has stopped talking about his so called "record label"?? I think it's time he changes that banner to read "Queen of Failure".



    78. 78

      ohmygod perez SHUT UP. leave your personal shit out of the blog, no one wants to hear it. i used to LOVE perezhilton.com until you started thinking you "made it." people visit your blog to read about celeb gossip, not to hear you whine about your pathetic life. STICK TO THE GOSSIP. and stay OUT of the fashion world you have absolutely no authority when it comes to fashion and you steal all of your information from much more established and respected fashion blogs.



    79. 79

      john mayor angers me, he's a racist homophobic moron. perez, you're a moron too but at least you aren't racist or well, homophobic (duh). plus, your site kicks ass. ya at least have somethin' goin' for ya.



    80. 80

      W.O.W. I had just made a comment ona previous post of J.M. sayi'n how hot and douchey he wuz… Scratch that shit, fuck you witha rusty tire iron!



    81. 81

      totally feel sorry for him on this part. I know what he is trying to say the only part I found messed up was jessica simpson thing.



    82. 82

      I don't feel like he owes an apology honestly… I understood his message, it wasn't meant to be racist. I feel like everyone needs to get their panties out of their asses.



    83. 83

      Re: Honk If You_Hate_Perez – Hello John . LOL!

    84. chlyn says – reply to this


      84

      John was trying to show humility, that his "hood pass" was only because of his fame. He knows this is in no way comparable to the suffering of black Americans from racism.



    85. 85

      Re: sticktocelebgossip – ohmygod perez SHUT UP. leave your personal shit out of the blog, no one wants to hear it.

      EXACTLYYYYYYYYYYYYY AND HE WONDERS WHY NO ONE WANTS TO FU@KING DATE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



    86. 86

      Remember when you called someone a f@**ot and you issued your lame-ass apology? Pot i'd like you to meet kettle.



    87. 87

      What this out of control narcissist really wanted to say was, "I'm sorry that you stupid people can't understand my brilliance. I am so much bigger than this culture." jackass.



    88. 88

      John Mayer needs to shut his pie hole already. He is a great musician, but so arrogant, self absorbed and annoying. I would NEVER buy his music. While he is at it, he should stop blabbing about Jessica Simpson and Jennifer Aniston.



    89. 89

      I don't think he meant to use it as a racist remark. I think he used it to explain what was meant by a hood pass. Not the best idea, but he got his point across.

      He apologized and I have no problem with it. It wasn't like he was intentionally calling someone that name…not like how you did by calling will.i.am a f****t.



    90. 90

      reaction formation much? someone's got a crush on john mayer



    91. 91

      John Mayer is a childish ass.

      He is a Psuedo-Intellectual, the worst kind.

      It's satisfying to see when he puts his foot in his big fat vomitous mouth.



    92. 92

      What an INCREDIBLE dumb-ass!



    93. 93

      Johns not an idiot, and I would honestly advise fans not to abandon their love of his music because of this, I think it's safe to say John Mayer will do what he wants. the apology however, was sincere.



    94. 94

      I always knew there was somethig stupid about him other than the way he sings and they way he thinks he is the shit at it, hmmmm, yeah right. He is just a stupid white person acting like his shit don't stink and saying oh sorry I said the "n" word. He can't sing worth shit and he can't think worth shit either, hope he disappears! Even an old bitch don't want his dumb ass.



    95. 95

      i cant fucking stand him. seriously. stupid, stupid fuck. eh.

    96. elo says – reply to this


      96

      It's a sad day when racism is more about being a racist than fighting them. It's either wrong for everyone or no one and from the use of the word by the descendants of freed slaves, it's fair game for all.



    97. 97

      I love how black rappers say the N word literally every other line, yet when a white guy says it people flip the fuck out. How hypocritical everyone is.



    98. 98

      Fuck you Perez, he wasn't using it in a bad way. Fuck man, i really am starting to hate you now. Also, i find it curious that you didn't post the rest of his interview, which elaborated on his use of the word. Fuck you Perez, go suck Mr Gagas anus.



    99. 99

      Wow… someone has been living in a bubble. Wow…shocked and completely disappointed. Wow…Sasha #16 you have it bang on. He is desperate for attention and he is aging really fast. Karma is a bitch John…stop fu*king them.



    100. 100

      Wowww, this is the MOST taken-out-of-context piece you have ever put on your site. I read this every day but I just lost SO much respect for you, Perez. Clearly what Mayer meant was that he doesn't have a so-called "hood pass" because if he did, he would be able to call it a "n***** pass." BUT because he does not believe he has this so-called "hood pass," he does not call it anything of either sort. There is absolutely no need for an apology because, as he said, the intentions of his comment were clearly meant in the exact opposite context. This whole accusation is bullshit.

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