People Who Actually Know What They're Talking About Slam Dumbass John Mayer
…and here comes the backlash!!
After carelessly insulting and generalizing African Americans for what we hope was just his incessant need to have people pay attention to him, John Mayer has really effed himself.
Now people who actually know what they're talking about are weighing in the douchebag, and it's not pretty.
Kathryn Russell-Brown, director of the Center for the Study of Race and Race Relations at the University of Florida, says that Mayer seems to be saying "black women are not just not his type, they're not in his class. They're beneath him."
Laurie L. Mulvey, co-director of the Race Relations Project at Penn State University says:
"Both white people and people of color will be offended by Mayer commenting so flippantly about an issue that has caused so much pain in this culture, especially to black women. Choosing to invoke David Duke to explain these ethnocentric escapades flies in the face of Mayer's self-congratulatory claim that he has a 'Benetton heart.'"
We think Richard T. Ford, author of The Race Card: How Bluffing About Bias Makes Race Relations Worse, says it best when he sums up Mayer as "being deliberately provocative and since he assures us that black people love him — thanks for letting us know — it's supposed to be okay."
He continues:
"Sarah Silverman does post racist very adroitly — she's both hilarious and thought provoking. Mayer does it badly — he's offensive and tiresome. Tragically, this is what passes for edginess for many celebrities today — someone blurting out the most crude and insulting thing that comes to what we might charitably call his 'mind.' Mayer did say one smart in the interview: 'I think the world would be better off if I stopped doing interviews.' Amen."
AGREED!! He has no business making comments like that!! He's not funny and he has no idea what he's talking about - he's just brash and desperately trying to be edgy.
It's a disgusting shame. And worse - he's probably getting OFF on all this press!
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MARIO did u not admit u were going to call will i am a N Word instead of F-a-g-e-t?Who the fuck are u to say anything Piggy?
Iam so sick of john mayer! He is sooo gross and needs to shut up!
He and Kanye West should have a douchaton to see who's the bigger douche. It's pretty close.
And he can continue to thank you for giving him press as well. Bottom line is if this (he) didn't strike a nerve there would be no reason to have 3-4 posts in as many hours about his Playboy interview now would there? I guess you should make another vlog soon to cry about how he used and played you so you can "own" your feelings and "put this all out into the universe". Thing is all you look is fucking pathetic and sorry to say it still won't get you a man. So Sad.
Who cares.
I don't see a difference in him using the N word and you calilng Will I Am the F word. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. You're acting like a spurned school girl when it comes to John….sorry he's just not that into you.
Bad ass is gonna get cut bad
oh perez, mario, perezitta, pig vomit whatever the fuck you go by, you are racist, you admittedely wanted to call will of bep a n*g* er and you then ended up calling him a gay slur, you are so mysoginistic even your mom is embarassed. if he is bad you are a million times worst. the gay community doesnt even want to have anything to do with you. even teddy hilton only fucks you for dog food. get a grip you fat closeted tranny. no ofense to the trannys.
Oh poor Mario, still playing the spurned little 15 year old girl. Looks like Mayer's next on your hate campaign list. Everyone knows you'd still suck his dick if you had the chance. Mayer owns you and you got played douchebag.
Re: jones19 – perez has them beat at the finish line by a gut.
He didn't use the n wor…but you used the f word? kinda hypocritical…he's just not that into you….
He's an asshole!
true statements. hes trying to be funny…not funny
Mario is so bitter that John Mayer doesn't want him. Deal with it.
Lol. Throwing a temper tantrum, Perez?
Perez, GET OFF HIS DICK. HE DOESN'T FUCKING LIKE YOU AND NEVER WILL. The more you post about him the more you look like a scorned 13 year old girl….pathetic.
"He has no business making comments like that!! He's not funny and he has no idea what he's talking about - he's just brash and desperately trying to be edgy"
The same could be said about you, and your "wifey".
Seriously, take your head out of your ass and face reality. No matter how much you trash Mayer, he still wins. Its so obvious he was fucking with you when he talked to you and kissed you because he knew you'd post it on your site. DUHH.
Its hilarious how far out of touch of reality you are, whether it be due to the fact that you don't want to admit what a piece of crap you are or that you have seriously deluded yourself into realizing there isn't anything wrong with what you do.
Get off your high fucking horse Mario and shut the fuck up. You're just as big a biggot as this douche nozzle Mayer.
This guy is super gross. He needs to stop talking. Really!
I am sick of you talking about John Mayer. You obviously have a biased opinion on anything involving him. I agree with the other comments. You calling Will.I.am the F word is no different that John Mayer using the N word. No ones perfect. Enough for one day.
OK - So are they asking 3 black people what their impressions of John's statements are? Come on. If he's not attracted to black people, he just isn't attracted to them. Perez, you aren't attracted to girls, does that mean that they are beneath you, not in your class??
i need to find another site…Perez your getting ridiculous!!!
Whats frightening is that you spent your day searching th einternet for others comments on this.
The obsession that you have for him has become unhealthy and I think it would be best if you refrain from posting about him on your site.
I think he wants you to blog about him. In fact, I think that is his intention. If I were you, I wouldn't even post anything anymore. He's obviously angry at the world and filled with angst that he has to judge others and be negative. I don't know him, but based on what you have posted, he isn't really blog worthy.
Re: jones19 –
I say tie!
he has already said he is sorry about those comments
I think John Mayer ought to get together with Megan Fox. The could sit in a room and bounce their respective douchebaggery off of each other until there's nothing left.
okay, so I have read your site since the begining and love you to death but the thing is when you love someone they do no wrong and you defend every movement and when you hate someone you dont shut up about them either.
we get it. you dont like john mayer.no one cares about him anymore. we are all over him. can you please get over him too..please?
Wait a minute…I read it as that he loves black people but he is just not attacted to black women sexually.
What is wrong with that? Are you saying we should all be attracted to everybody regardless of race, nationality, gender, etc? If that's the case then we better be jumping on the people who don't find fat women attractive, the people that don't find Asians attractive, the people that don't find short people attractive, etc.
Would there be this much hype if he had said "I have fat friends, I love fat people…my c*ck just doesn't love fat women"? No…you'd say he just preferred thin women.
Not everybody will find everybody attractive. I think he was just saying that while he loves black people, has friends who are black, etc he just isn't attracted in a sexual way.
Is it any different from me having lesbian friends yet not being sexually attracted to them? Since I don't find Mario attractive, does that mean I am a bigot against Latinos or gay men?
Silly pig-vomit, dix are for chix.
Re: LadyFalcon – In Perez's eyes yes you are. But then again he never thinks logically!
"an need to have people pay attention to him", wow piggy that sounds exactly like a women hating petty little blogger we all know and loathe
when are u gonna say sorry to Billy Joel's daughter, KStew, Vannessa Hudgens, JSimpson, and other celebrities of which u have made offensive and stupid comments??
please stop… you end up making yourself look like the bigger ass when you dont let these things go. you always make note when other celebs need to shut it but cant seem to figure it out when you should. let it go. let others point out how much of a loser he really is… let his own words define him.
We all know this is just revenge for your unrequited love. Its just sad.
Perez, you are fucking pathetic. You really are. I think it's disturbing that you can call Will.I.Am the "F word" but it's horrible that John Mayer says the N-word. He didn't call anyone that word. I barley come on this website anymore because you're such a biast mother fucker. You're being ridiculous. You sit here and criticize everyone, you call Miley who's 17 a slut and talk all this shit, you act like a 15 year old girl. I find it hilarious that you would think that American Idol would ever be interested in your lame ass
There is something seriously amiss with anyone who finds John Mayers comments
acceptable! His comments are very degrading to black women. Not only
that..but look how he degrades the women he has slept with. He tells all..just
to get attention for himself. We should not be putting people like John Mayer on a pedestal and buying his music. We all need to send a message to jerks like this.
John Mayer is stupid and ignorant.
I also find it really ridiculous that you talk shit about so many celebs and then when they pass away (ie brittany murphy, michael jackson) you're like AWW .
seriously, fuck off.
Pervez being the evil and twisted bitch he is— nothing new or innovative here. Sadly though, the pathetic bitch would still suck John Boy's dick harder than a Hoover.
LadyFalcon, you are as DUMB as he is!!!
Re: marley710 – LOL. After the hot 30 second makeout session I bet Mario already had the wedding invites printed and ready to mail. IMHO Mayer is incrediblt sexy and it's a turn on how he can state what he feels with a mixture if truth and irony. Even in his tweets he laughs at himself and readily acknowleges his strengths and weaknesses. Anyone who mistakes his tongue in cheek style thinking he is an egomaniac just isn't getting the "real John".
Ummm is that to say you dont actually know what your talking about? HAHA
Re: Boxy Brown – Amen!!! Plus Lady CaCa Sucks!!!
You are SUCH freaking hypocrite! You are probably one of the most ignorant, racist, narcissistic assholes on the planet and you wanna talk about someone who, yes has said something out of line but didn't mean it that way and who's statement doesn't even parallel with those of some of the extremely crude and incessant, purposefully made-to-hurt-jokes said by just as stupid as you comedians? Get a clue. Just because you're famous (for I don't even know what reason) and think that gives you some sort of right to talk MAJOR shit, doesn't mean it actually ever will. Nobody's perfect and you would be the last person on that list, don't throw rocks when you live in a glass house bud. Get off your high horse and try investing your time and whatever mind you have in something a little less inane. And honestly people, don't bother giving me the "why are you even reading this if you hate him so much," shit. I'll tell you now, it's because this douche deserves a piece of someone's mind who isn't basically kissing his ass.
"he's probably getting OFF on all this press!"
Probably so, but not anywhere near as much as you Pumpkinhead. After all, you got a shout-out in Playboy. Haven't seen such a diva fit since your eyeball was gouged out by the mafia in Toronto. You should make another whining sobbing 12 minute video so the whole world can laugh and mock you.
perez… did you not see that he apologized? stop trying to make him look bad when he already knows he made a mistake.
Perez, John Mayer is a jerk, OK? We always knew that. This will not be the first time he has to eat shoe leather. This will not be the last time he says something stupid, tactless and insensitive. The more he talks the more I'm convinced he and Jessica Simpson were a match made in heaven. He's that dumb, socially. But how come no one ever gets on Justin Timberlake and his wannabe Black butt??? He gets a free pass and the chance to act out sexual intercourse with a sexy Black girl in a music video. Wassup with that, huh?
"Kathryn Russell-Brown, director of the Center for the Study of Race and Race Relations at the University of Florida, says that Mayer seems to be saying "black women are not just not his type, they're not in his class. They're beneath him.""
That's….offensive. So, white women are the only caliber of females good enough for racist idiot stoners? Pull your head out of your ass, Kathryn.
Re: NYSEFox – I don't think anyone is saying that his comments are acceptable. He is no doubt an ass, yet Perez is making it a point to label him a racist. Being an ass and a racist is two completely different things. If he wants John Mayer to burn then call him out on the fact that he's degrading to woman period. But he shouldn't be trying to call him out as being a racist.
As much as I think this is getting a little out of control, I can't help but love how stupid Perez is making himself look right now. Keep it up, moron!
jesus fng christ……..who gives a f***? why are we turning into a nation that can't even speak without first getting congress to agree the word is "safe"
Do you guys think that every time he pulls a JM pic out of the file he gets a little bit hard? I do!
I disagree that Sarah Silverman "does post racist adroitly." I can't stand her, either and I think it's vile that no one will stand up to her b.s. because they're afraid of being branded "anti-semitic." Her schtick is not "thought provoking." It's racist. Oh and BTW? She IS an ugly bitch and who could BLAME Jimmy Kimmel for dumping her lame ass?
Re: NYSEFox – How exactly are his comments racist to black women? Please elaborate because speaking as an African American woman, I saw nothing all that degrading- Personally, I even think his statement that "being black meant making the most of your life, not taking a single moment for granted" was a compliment to people of color such as myself.. so he hasn't fucked a black girl.. big deal.. he even continued on to name a bunch of beautiful woman of color he's had crushes on and said he would like to start dating separately from his dick. Where is the problem here? The fact that you are taking a statement PEREZ tried to make racist and running with it is a joke. How and where in that statement did it degrade us anywhere? Please let me know. The fact here is that, although a douchebag, he did NOT come off as a racist.
Everybody just needs to unclench their asses, pull the frickin pickle out and RELAX….americans are so damn uptight about EVERYTHING!!!!! Who the hell cares what John Mayer has to say??!!!
What he said was not right and hurtful, but the things that you say and write about every single day are hurtful. You are constantly trying to bring people down to amuse yourself and to gain attention. You have no limits. At least he has the courage to apologize.
You are quite the hypocrite.
So sick of everyone on your page disagreeing with you that you actually had to call up a few African-Americans with Ph.D.s to comment?
Just because they are intellectuals does not mean they are correct, Mario. I can understand why they feel the way they do, but I also understand that you have an agenda, particularly with Mayer.
Sounds like you, and the people you asked to comment, are trying to sensationalize an otherwise menial crack in a Men's magazine.
He should hook up w/ Britney or Mariah Carey- other loonies who've LOST IT !
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your just mad at him about what he said about you mario, not about black people- your the britney spears of bloggers now-
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Re: twi-addict – He doesn't take it out of a file, he temporarily removes it from its hallowed place in the John Mayer shrine in his bedroom - the one he prays to every night that his one true love will some day return and give him another brief moment of exquisite rapture.
Man what is this guy turning into….wow…people think if they have money under them..they can say and do whatever they want…its aweful…
Id be angry and harsh i guess if i sounded like louie the light bulb when i sang too…:S
Perez, these so-called experts all have "a dog in the fight" and are simply using this for their own publicity. There was nothing untoward about what Mayer said, and you know it. You're just being a muckraker because you are the punchline of a joke. It's clear you have a huge crush on Mayer and you've clearly convinced yourself that the kiss you received from him meant something. It didn't. No normal person could ever genuinely show affection for such a mean-spirited, emotionally stunted, unstable jackass as you. Tic toc.
What does "Mayer striking a nerve with Perez have to do with any of this??
How can any of you condone Mayer's comments? Likeing or not likeing Mario
has nothing to do with the words that came out of John Meyers mouth.
At this point..even John Mayer agrees with Mario..that he was out of line!! He
now is apologizing! So for those of you defending the idiot..it's you that is way
out in left field.
ALTHOUGH HIS COMMENTS WERE GROSS, I WILL NOT LOSE ANY SLEEP OVER IT. HE'S AN IDIOT, AND HE WILL REAP WHAT HE SOWS. AND U KNOW WHAT, KEEP UR PEEN TO URSELF JOHN, THATS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO FOR MANKIND, AND FUCK ALL THE WHITE VAJAYS TILL UR BALLS ARE CONTENT.
OOOOOHHHHHH….you're IN LOVE with John Mayer!!!!!!! OOOOHHHH!!! it's so obvious now!
perez,
you are the one who is getting tired. this is ridiculous. it is obvious that you have a personal vendetta against john mayer, as he addressed in the interview, and even if he fucked up by dropping the n-word, the most important question here should be; "who the fuck cares?"
stop caring about john mayer. you'll feel better. i promise.
I am a black woman and I am totally not offended by John Mayors comments. It may have been ill advised, but not offensive. So what John Mayor doesn't find black woman attractive. Big deal. I think the most offensive thing if anything is his attitude towards women especially the last comment about white women.
I don't like men with long hair or preppy guys, does that mean I should be judged? People should be allowed to be attracted to whoever they want. Making issues out of non-issues makes race relations harder. I think we should cut the guy some slack. We should also take into consideration the probing nature of journalists, he probably had a long interview and just the most juicy bits were edited to try and gain more exposure for playboy! You earlier reported that they were having financial issues!
You're a woman scorned!!! You're in LOVE with John Mayer!!!!! Admit it!!! I feel bad - I would be too!
Perez, stop making something out of nothing. I think your just mad that the dude didn't come on to you when you thought he was going to. You should not have shown up at his place with your weirdo friends and maybe you would have got some J.M. but ya didn't and now your being bitter. Get over yourself dude you are not all that….not even a little bit….your just a very mean 30 year old man who makes a living out of being mean and outing people. This guy just did to you what you do to everyone else and you don't like it….How does it feel buddy!!!!!!!!!
Hello Kettle its black calling. Perez you lil bitch you did the EXACT same thing. You are such a hypocrite.
Wait didn't you call Will I Am the F-word, then went to cry about it on Youtube or wherever? How are you calling John Mayer out for saying the N-word when it wasn't even derogatory? As a black woman I have to say I really don't find anything he said offense. I find the fact that he treats woman in general the way he does offensive and further more, you copied and pasted that PH.D crap from another website that has credibility issues. I saw them earlier on popeater and Usweekly.com!
John Mayer will you please give me back my concert money and I'll give you your CD's back.
Black girl Stephanie
Re: Cashmere Jay – LMBO @ 'John Mayer Shrine'
Big deal he prefers white meat.
Re: NYSEFox – I think it YOU who are out in left field. I haven't seen anyone condone his comments. They are simply saying that Perez is calling someone out for using the N-word (he used it in a non derogatory sense) when Perez used the F-word and he DID use in in a derogatory fashion. EVERYONE KNOWS JM IS A DOUCHE, but he is NOT THE RACIST PEREZ IS MAKING HIM OUT TO BE. That is not condoning we are simply pointing out the hypocrisy in this whole affair.
Re: NYSEFox – Either you haven't read the actual article, or you haven't comprehended what Mayer said. If you had, it's quite clear that, while some of his comments in the article may have been somewhat unsavory (i.e. did he really have to talk about his sex life), they were not racist.
whether a person is being post racist well or badly im just glad that theyr doing it. its time people moved on a bit. race is not filthy, its not something to be ignored. let go of the past a bit and give people the respect of acknowledging their race. chances are they are just as proud of where they come from as you are scared of mentioning it.
You don't care about all of this, Perez.. You're just pissed he said that he was disgusted after he kissed you.
oh for god's sake, what's the big deal, so he doesn't fuck black women - why does that make him a racist? some people are just not into dark meat. bfd -
He's a racist jerk! I'm sorry, but when someone says that their "cock is like a white supremacist," there really can be no denying that he is, indeed, consciously racist. I will definitely not listen to his music anymore, and I sure as hell am going to make sure my family and friends don't either. This guy deserves to go back to being the loser that he was in high school–when nobody gave a fuck about what he said and did with his white privileged life.
He says he's 30 or 31, but he acts and speaks like a 13 year old. What a loser.
Who gives a fuck what he says, why can't people just enjoy his music? He's a complete moron granted but why does what he say matter?
YES! More people who really don't know how to read. Just because he isn't SEXUALLY attracted to them doesn't mean he feels he is better than them… You are not sexually attracted to girls, but you still love hanging out with them (EXACTLY WHAT HE SAID!) But that doesn't mean that you feel girls on inferior to men.
Re: YUCK – What gut? He's skinny now bitch!
perez it is so obvious john mayer has broken your little black heart. get over it. he is way better than you. if you read what he said before mouthing off he was talking about african american woman in a good light. youre the douche
He is disgusting.
How can anyone compare this piece of shit to Kanye?
when did Kanye ever say anything this stupid?????
I’m a black girl and I love John Mayer and I say leave him the hell alone! Dude is not a racist and I am so, SO sick of the hypersensitivity over this damn word. I am in no way offended by John’s comment and quite frankly, I am really sick of the uproar about this so called “the n word” and everybody losing their shit every time the word is uttered. I'm over it! We blacks have come a long way and it is time for us to rise above this nonsense. John did not use the word with the intention of hurting anyone. The man is a self proclaimed comedian. He tries, and the imperative word here is TRIES, to be funny in interviews. Sometimes he falls flat on his face, poor thing, but was he trying to be malicious and hateful with his comment? Absolutely not. John is not a racist. So just LEAVE JOHN MAYER ALONE!
Yeah, those are credible sources. "Both white people and people of color…" Let's just say it. BLACK. Why the hell is everyone so petrified of calling black people BLACK, but yet throw out "white" like it's their job. We're all people of color. Effing idiots.
When is womens rights going to stick up for Jessica.. Ist all about women.. John has some major issues with his owe sexuality & his mother dropped him on his head obviously.
If all the press gets him off, why do you constantly, repeatedly, obsessively cover his every word and move?
WHO GIVES A FUCK!!! Really John mayor will not affect the human race in any way! If you dont like hoim dont support his music. This is ridiclous. All races are racist not just whites. If everyone would move forward and not dwell on the past we would all be wonderful!
Why didn't he just say he wasn't attracted to Black women? Why did he have to compare himself to David Duke?
That's funny…Sarah Silverman is adroit and hilarious… Is that because she chooses to mock Asians??? JM is an idiot, but don't excuse other idiots just because they are savvy enough to avoid insulting African Americans..
Obviously, Mr. Ford who commented that Silverman is hilarious is not Asian American. I find her repulsive and dull.
It has been said that people chose their pets based on how they asthetically resemble themselves. Why would I then chose a partner who doesn't resemble me? I think John was just trying to say that he grew up in a white family, dating white chicks. There's nothing wrong with having a type. Sucks that him picking a skin color as his type is so offensive, but I only date boys with blue eyes…what does that make me?
what we might charitably call his 'mind.
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yeah he doesn't like black wome sexually nothing wrong with that. but it is wrong how he put it. kind of degrading. all he had to say is no i'm not attracted to black women.
you really are a hypocrite. there is no difference between you and him. you called will.i.am a f*****t and he said the n-word. both words are used to offend people, whether black or homosexual, it doesnt make a difference. so get off your fucking high horse! you continually bitching about JM (because he doesnt want you, boo-hoo) is making me dislike him less and you more.
p.s. just because you are gay, doesnt mean you can "out" other people or use homophobic words. you fucking douche.
JOHN MAYER
AS A BLACK WOMAN I DONT LIKE RAMMED FROM BEHIND ,ALL THAT PRETENSE TO MAKE US REALISE HOW STUPID HE IS
THE TRUTH TO BE TOLD WHO WOULD WANT HIS SORRY ASS FOR AN EXCUSE A SINGER
AS FOR WAITING FOR TABLES OR ON TABLES
BLACK PEOPLE HAVE MORE PRIDE
I FEEL A LOT FOR ANISTON WHO CAN TAKE ANAL SEX AT THE EXPENSE OF HER LIFE
NO REAL SENSIBLE WILL STAND FOR IT
AND THERE ARE NO BISEXUL MEN HE IS JUST A GAY IDIOT WHO ISNT BRAVE ENOUGH TO COME OUT OF THE CLOSET
AS FOR HIS COCK NOT KNOWING WHAT IT WANT I CANT BLAME IT
THE OWNER IS AN ASSS
REALLY MAYER GET A LIFE
SO STOP ATTRACTING FALSE ATTENTIONS
LMAO it's eating you alive that he is getting so much press (from you included) for this… Give it up Perez –you lose.
So far I count three news items about John Mayer on today's blog…..I'd call that a psycho-sexual lap dance…..tip Perez on the way out…
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