Cheryl Agrees To Go To Counseling With Her DICK Husband!!
If this is true, then she is effing STOOPID.
Apparently the disgusting, cheating douchebag that is Ashley Cole has managed to convince his wife Cheryl NOT to divorce his sorry ass, and she's AGREED to go into counseling with him!!
No!!! WTF is wrong with you, Cheryl??
According to sources:
'Cheryl has agreed to see a counselor with Ashley to hear his issues. She think he deserves to be heard and understands how he could think that she let him down as a wife. In essence, she is starting to accept his claim that it is not solely his fault their marriage collapsed. He has managed to persuade her that he's not a cad - more a victim of circumstance. She's now starting to think he's vulnerable and immature and easy prey for predatory women. Of course, Cheryl is devastated and furious at what he's done. But she accepts she owes it to their marriage to talk it through with him.'
SHE OWES HIM NOTHING.
It doesn't matter how much YOU think she let you down, you piece of shit, nothing gives you the right to cheat on your wife MULTIPLE times and then act all shocked and broken when she doesn't want to stick around anymore!!
Besides - what kind of therapist is going to sit there and let a woman take responsibility and blame herself for a husband's infidelity? Isn't that like saying, "Well, it's my fault he hits me??!"
Whatever.
If Cheryl is sad enough to take responsibility for HIS cheating, and can't muster enough self-respect to leave his ass, then they deserve each other.
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Tags: ashley cole, divorce, douchebags, england, sad, therapy
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For once, well SAID!!!!
shes a fool and deserves everything her weak minded ass gets if this is true
WHO?
Why would she go back to him? This is sad
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Who the fuck are these people?
WTF do YOU, Parasite, know about marriage? You've got no one, and aren't likely to change that anytime soon. You are an ignorant ASS. It takes TWO people to fuck up a relationship. And while her failings may have been more passive than his, no one is blameless when things go wrong. It's not about taking responsibility for what HE'S done wrong. It's about trying to repair a relationship to which you committed for life. A good therapist will help BOTH people work through their issues. Is there a bigger douche than YOU on the planet? No.
gawd, i hate that shiteous outfit
Re: Pammie8 – IF. Parasite isn't known for accuracy, nor does he have any knowledge of the relationship. All he does is speculate and pronounce his judgements based on little or no foundation (and even less life experience). There's always more than meets the eye, and the only two people who know the whole truth are the two in the story. Don't get me wrong … I like gossip as much as the next person. But I hardly think that someone like Parasite needs to moralize, considering all the hate he spews and the hurt he causes other people.
Um… at this stage I'd imagine their issues are beyond the magic of therapy because that little thing called trust disappeared in a puff of smoke a long time ago. Oh dear. There are none so blind as those who don't want to see……..
It quite easy to judge someone else…but in all honesty, love is the culprit here….. that damn feeling makes us do stupid stupid things….and we ALL have been victims of that.
only she knows what shes feeling.
very sad
some people take marriage seriously mario and not just something "kewl" to do cuz they think it's cute. it's an oath under God and it's a shame and quite pathetic that so many don't take that oath seriously. on top of that, wtf do you know about marriage? the closest friend you have walks around on 4 legs (and I'm not talking about Gaga)
EVER HEARD THE TERM ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER?? THIS GUY IS A COMPLETE DOUCHE BAG AND HE DESERVES NO PITY OR EXPLANATION. AND NOT ONLY DID HE FUCK UP ONE TIME, IT WAS MULTIPLE TIMES,UMMMM LOSER! HE'S ONLY SORRY HE GOT CAUGHT, IF HE'S SUCH AN AMAZING GUY YOU'D THINK HE'D ACTUALLY OH I DONT KNOW, FEEL GUILTY? OWN UP AFTER THE FIRST TIME AND TRY TO WORK THROUGH IT?? NOPE, HE'S JUST SORRY HE GOT CAUGHT, HIM AND TIGER NEED TO SHACK UP SOMEWHERE AND SWAP STD STORIES!!
I want to counsel Cheryl if you know what I mean.
By that I mean I want to do her.
Good luck with that!
dont judge. you do not know these people. they have not spoken to you personally about their problems, nor will ANYONE ever trust you with their problems. you have no idea what marriage means. like someone said before me, it takes 2 people to fuck up a relationship. yes cheating is wrong but you have ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT to call her stupid and what not. you do not know these people… the majority of hollywood FUCKING HATES YOU. the only good thing you got going is the fact you can spin entertaining shit. nothing more.
Re: La Garse – Agreed
HOORAY PEREZ! the best speach from you to date. you said it perfectly. she's a complete dumbass, what a message to the young females, its our fault they cheat? fuck lol lmao
@LA GARSE you're just as ignorant & weak minded as she is. you idiot
her and elin nordegren need to change their names to RUG because they are letting their men walk all the fuck over them. pathetic. grow a backbone, ladies.
she is so fit. I want her wear my helmet
WELL, CHERYL THINKS SHE CAN SING TOO… SHE SUCKS YET CONTINUES TO DO SO. NO SURPRISE SHE THINKS HE CAN STOP CHEATING TOO. PAST BEHAVIOR IS DETERMINANT OF FUTURE BEHAVIOR. MARIO AND PEREZ = DUMB AND DUMBER.
i've been in this situation, and it's really hard, they have a hold over you that takes months, even years to break out of. her hubby is obviously a manipulator and a liar and insecure to boot, and he's got her so twisted up that she can somehow still believe in him. but trust me, it will wear off and she will leave eventually. she's just not ready to yet. and from one with first hand experience, i understand totally. but i also wish i left right away, now looking back. i just couldn't let go…she is in the same spot. poor thing…
Re: La Garse – Ashley has cheated on her numerous times , it wasn't just a one time thing and afterall why is it that when the woman cheats on the guy everybody urges him to leave her but when a man cheats on his wife then the wife should give him another chance (to cheat on her obviously) and 'work on the marriage'.
Ridiculous, he has no respect for her and they are both public people, she shouldn't have to go through this. If he needed something then he should ask it from his wife and talk about it with her. Cheating on her won't resolve matters. He's just a smug asshole.
Wow….dick whipped much?
some people just cant let go. i understand she doesnt want to give up on marriage at every obstacle but this is the millionth hurdle!
she only wants to stick with him coz she wants him name…otherwse she'll have to go back to cheryl TWEEDY….not an attractive image selling name.
oh Cheryl, move on and get someone better! so, so sad!
Uhh, from all accounts, Ashley is the one who was pursuing those women. Not the other way around. Perhaps the women who came forward are only the tip of the iceberg and there's many more that at least have enough class to their mouths shut to the press. She is right about one thing though. Hes obviously immature. The money, fame, and footballer status got to his head and inflated his ego like it does with MOST people who live that kind of life. Not only is he a spoiled habitual cheater it also seems that hes got a few screws loose to try and make HIMSELF seem like the victim in all this. Marriage counseling is not the only thing he needs.
Wow, Perez - I'm very pleased with this article you wrote (or whoever wrote). For once you hit the nail on the head. I can't believe his mental abuse is going to work on her. I was in that position once and I dropped his ass faster than a hot potatoe and didn't look back. He's still abusive and a cheater, and I'm happily married to the man of my dreams. Cheryl needs to get the hell out. Marriage & cheating do not go hand in hand. Lots of things can and should be forgiven… but not cheating.
Amen to THAT, Perez!
Re: tigrrrlilly – you said it!!!! disgusting, isn't it? poor message to be putting out there to the weak minded slobs who let their men walk all over them. for those out there talking about lifelong committment - check your marriage vows. Most say they will never fuck another - if someone breaks those vows, the marriage is lost. Don't enter into a contract if you can't live up to the demands being placed on you.
And La Garse, I didn't realize one had to HAVE someone to know anything about marriage. You can read a friggin' book and know what a marriage should entail. Secondly, how ignorant are you to assume it takes two people to fuck up a relationship? That isn't necessarily true.
Perez is entitled to an opinion just like everyone else is here. Who cares if he's speculating? That's all you, and everyone else on this message board is doing, as well.
do people who come to perez's blog with the sole purpose of screaming "DON'T JUDGE PEOPLE!" really think any of us give a fuck? do you people think you have some kind of magical power to "shame" us in some way? why are you even here? go look at pictures of puppies and kittens if you can't handle the heat of perez's blog and his commenters. you are wasting your oh-so-valuable, self-righteous, holier-than-thou time here.
very well said Perez, you have been giving decent advice/opinions lately…. i just want to say one thing from the female perspective, everyone wants to believe in love. And everyone wants to believe that there is good beyond the bad, and the truth is- yes, i am sure he does love her, love has nothing to do with it. He may even believe himself that he will not do it again, so he is telling her his version of the truth when he says it. But, he will do it again, that is his nature. The bottom line is the bottom line. Yes, she is a beautiful girl who can do better, but, it destroys a womans confidence and self esteem when a man cheats/lies, everything they believe gets flipped upside down and then they dont even trust themselves/ what they think. She doesnt think shes beautiful and she can do better, trust me. Ask anyone, Halle Berry was cheated on, so many beautiful women everyday, very nice women. It breaks the womans spirit, and only when they find it within themselves to love themselves, thats when true love walks in. Look at Halle now, shes never been happier, she radiates love.
VERY WELL SAID PEREZ!!!!
«She's now starting to think he's vulnerable and immature and easy prey for predatory women.» LMAO I think I just peed on myself… The poor guy has been abused, for sure!
Sounding like she deserves him if she thinks that way. Quite sad - and Ashley kind of, ugly, like John Terry. UGH.
Re: RobPnMeShouldB – If you knew anything you'd know that Cheryl did take her oath seriously. She has stated time and time again that marriage is something you work at, hence her taking Assley back after he cheated back in '08. She's been the one trying to rebuild their marriage and making since then. Granted what you said is true for a lot of people, it most definitely is not for true for Cheryl.
dont like her, never have. and if his is true MUG. but then again, if she aint gonna put out, people like him and anyone else famous will get it else where. guys like him have girls throwing themselves at them 24/7 and if they arent getting it at home, they will; get it else where. no different to any other couple. they just have the money to delude themselves that they are still in love through 'counselling'
little harsh there :S shes clearly just vulnerable and loves him alot dispite what hes done, shes done nothing wrong, so dont say they deserve eachother.
AMEN!!!! WELL SAID
Re: azuramer – who are you? her lawyer? her p.r. hack? her mom? president of her fanclub? get a grip, please.
Re: Lar1896 – Spoken like someone who's never been married. There is no book that can tell you what a marriage will entail. That's like saying that there's a magic book out there that can tell you how to live your life without ever making a mistake. If you haven't experienced marriage and the problems that go along with it, then you're not able to give an experienced, informed opinion. Which means your ignorance is showing … not mine. It does take TWO people to create and have a problem. Her contribution might have been a passive one (like looking the other way, for example), but it was there. Go back to your relationship books, hun.
What an ignorant post. YOU ALL REALIZE THIS IS PEREZ' SISTER AS OF MONTHS AGO RIGHT?? what an ignorant way to look at theraphy, thats not what its all about RETARD!!!! WILL STOP LOOKING AT THIS STUPID PAGE. SICK OF ALL THE MISINFORMATION & STUPID THINGS 'SHE' POSTS.
Have to say it people…..SHE DESERVES WHAT SHE GETS THEN!!!
There's no counseling a willingly deceiving loose zipper problem; sorry. It goes to intent; and then back to 'getting caught.' She should be prepare herself for more of the same. She's masochistic, imo.
Re: La Garse – actual loser, do u have nothing better to do than go on a website u apparently hate & abuse people?
u don't like it? eff off
Re: tigrrrlilly – take a look at who you are before you go asking questions. I was just pointing something out to someone who's obviously never heard much of Cheryl Cole. You read way too much into the statement. You need to get a grip kid.
Stupid is as stupid does - and I don't care…..
SHE DESERVES WHAT SHE PUTS UP WITH!! WHAT A WASTE OF A BODY…GIVE IT TO SOMEONE ELSE WITH BRAINS!!
She could do so much better than him with someone like me!! Any of you others who think you've got a better chance of winning a date with her should back down and stop posting comments on askcherylout.com…she's mine!!!!!!