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Preach It! Chilli Talks Cheating & Usher!

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Thought we all forgot about this, Usher! We surely haven't and neither has Chilli!

The former TLC songstress took to her blog today to give her thoughts on why cheating is stoopid and drew on her own experience with Usher to prove her point. Chilli writes:

"My general feeling on cheating, period, whether it’s a girl cheating on a guy—because they do—or vice versa is that I don’t really understand it. We live in a country where we can choose our mate so if you’re unhappy with your mate for whatever reason, then break up. It’s pretty simple. Cheating takes too much effort. You’re hiding and doing all kinds of crazy stuff. It’s just unnecessary and it’s extremely hurtful. It’s excruciating pain.

I’ll just say this: it wasn’t that I just experienced cheating with Usher because he and I never discussed that in detail. That wasn’t the first time I experienced cheating in a relationship. I’ve never cheated but I don’t know any woman on this planet who hasn’t experienced something like that, whether it’s cheating during the relationship or cheating during a breakup, which some people don’t consider cheating because you’re not technically together but you still haven’t really broken apart.

I think women are so afraid to talk about things with guys in fear of him leaving, but if he’s going to be afraid from having a conversation, then the hell with his ass! That doesn’t make any sense. I have every right to ask you questions, you have every right to ask me questions. Now if we want to give the answers, it’s up to us but there’s nothing wrong with that because how else will you find out?

A lot of people out there are really good at hiding things and making it seem like everything is normal so you don’t suspect that they’re cheating. Usually things don’t work out, not because of a cheating situation. It could just be just compatibility. Most people, in my opinion, that are together and even married shouldn’t even be together. A lot of times you just have somebody in your life because you feel like you need someone in your life. You feel like you need a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Those are your own insecurities.

When you truly, truly love somebody and it’s a healthy love, you always want to make sure you’re healthy yourself before entering a relationship and give that person your time. That’s why they call it dating. Dating doesn’t mean we’re sleeping together. Dating doesn’t mean I’m your girlfriend, you’re my boyfriend. It means that we are exclusively dating each other trying to get to know each other, figure out each other’s personalities, see if we click, if our morals are intact—all those things. And then you can graduate to the next level of the relationship."

Well said!

Take heed ladies! Girl knows what she is talking about!

Thoughts?

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20 comments to “Preach It! Chilli Talks Cheating & Usher!”



  1. 1

    I just fell asleep



  2. 2

    Well said….except for the "the hell with his ass" . It's " to hell with his ass" ;)



  3. 3

    Well said, but why the sudden interest in talking about cheating. Anyways she ended up better than he did in terms of relationships. He got his karma to him. So she should be happy lol jks.



  4. 4

    Seriously! How many YEARS must go by before a friend tells her to get her friggin' upper lip waxed. GEEZ!. Just gonna get worse… :-)



  5. 5

    I agree with Chili, well said bitch.



  6. 6

    She sure used a lot of words just to admit she is a dirty slut. Ha ha I much prefer her friend T-Bone…



  7. 7

    I like it



  8. 8

    Tell 'em Chilli!



  9. 9

    my thought is the only reason i read that whole thing is because im extremely high



  10. 10

    She's great!



  11. 11

    Whoa! This little girl needs to dial down the meds!!! Or just say "no" to crack!

    p.s. "Take heed, LADIES…." perez, your infamous sexism is showing again!



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  13. 13

    AMEN sister!!! hope you are doing well!!! xo



  14. 14

    COULD NOT HAVE SAID IT BETTER. CHILLI IS SO RIGHT. LOOK AT RIHANNA MOVING IN MATT. SHE BARELY KNOW HIM. HE DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT HER. THERE'S DIFFERENTLY NO LOVE THERE NOT IN 5 MONTHS. SOON THEY WILL BE IN THE MEDIA'S EYE FOR ONE OF THEM CHEATING. THANK 4 THAT CHILLI.



  15. 15

    Re: hamnip – i LOL'd



  16. 16

    I felt that her premise was lengthy, but very well said! I know so many people who are not compatible with their significant others. But they are trying so hard to make it work. Life is short. Why stay in a relationship with someone you're miserable with…just to be deceptive and cheat behind their backs. If it's not working…just simply end it!



  17. 17

    OKAY THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS "CHEATING DURING A BREAK UP"
    are you kidding me?



  18. 18

    What she is saying is so right. Also , nobody wants to be cheated on. And I have been on both sides.



  19. 19

    Well said Chilidog. She's a smart chicka.



  20. 20

    i still love usher
    but shes DEFF! right