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Melissa Says The Breakup Was Mutual, But Tammy Disagrees!

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There are two sides to every story!

Melissa Etheridge told Oprah earlier this week that her breakup with wife, Tammy Lynn Michaels, was "as mutual as those things can be." However, Tammy has posted something much differently on her blog, mentioning that she was "blindsided."

Tammy, who occasionally writes under the pseudonym, Hollywood Farm Girl, wrote in her blog on Friday:

this will be the only place
where you will get the truth
Hollywood Farm Girl
is the only one
who gets
it right
who won't spin
won't lie
won't act like there was
and that's all.

This was after writing another entry in February that said:

i am missing a piece of me
that is so large
the absence of which
makes me cripple…

i walk around
half of what i used to be
maybe less
one side blind
one eye blind
i can see very little beyond
the half of me bleeding
the inside of me
pouring outside

So sad!

We hope these two can see eye-to-eye for the children's sake!

[Image via WENN.]

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51 comments to “Melissa Says The Breakup Was Mutual, But Tammy Disagrees!”

  1. 1

    "So sad!" that YOU Mario would ride the pain of 2 of your fellow "gays"


  2. 2

    Oh Tammy, what goes around comes around. Karma is a bitch.

  3. 3

    No one cares…

  4. 4

    they're both trannys

  5. fiona says – reply to this


    Personal drama is sooo boring.

    Particularly gay drama. *sheesh*

  6. 6

    Wow. Never thought Melissa E could break a heart.

  7. 7

    I'm not into the whole gay drama thing, but, that poetry is striking. And it's pain…agony. rather…is very real.
    I hear ya, Tammy. God bless you, girl.
    And, yes, karma is a cold cold bitch and she's comin' to getcha Melissa.
    How come people don't do this stuff honestly. Say that you are not happy with things from the start.
    Don't keep a secret counsel with yourself, emotionally detaching on the sly over a long period of time and then…SUDDENLY…tear someone's heart out when you blindside them on the way out the door. It's EVIL.
    I have been blindsided before. It was by faaaaaaar the most intense (and long lasting) pain I have ever felt.
    I would rather have been killed outright.
    "Oooh, child. Things are gonna get easier."

  8. 6one9 says – reply to this


    Bet Melissa found ““““ another! just sayin & shit happens “` sometimes.

  9. 9

    I have come to discover that Melissa is a dishonest person. So sad. :(

  10. 10

    I don't know why two women wanna be together. Don't get me wrong i'm gay friendly but not lesbian friendly lol. I mean they don't even have real sex. At the end there can't be love without a dick. I always feel like it's a publicity stunt just like Lady Gaga and Katy Perry

  11. 11

    that chick kinda looks like kendra

  12. 12

    who are these people? they obviously lack class.
    stop posting their picture.
    so bc theyre gay theyre newsworthy?
    enough posts about them.. dull….

  13. 13

    if you need to find a girl that looks and acts like a dude, then why not just find a dude ?

  14. 14

    omg. Tammy was in Ryan Murphys late 90's show, Popular. She was amazing in it. LOve that girl.

  15. 15

    Re: evancalo – You're funny! :D

  16. 16

    Re: evancalo – Actually babe, it's the dick that takes love OUT of the equation! Right out of the mouth of a SADLY straight chic! Sucks being a straight women and I ENVY lesbians especially since most of us just want our pusses licked GOOOOD! No dick is really needed and if it is, dildo.

  17. 17

    Oh puke, these two fur-burgers should shut the fuck up and keep their private matters out of the newspapers. AS IF ANYONE CARES ABOUT THEM ANYWAY. Desperate assholes….

  18. 18

    Re: CorkyCringle – No dildo can make up for a dick. And it's not the dick that takes love out of the equation its the woman's obsessive control over the man and the man's desire to have all women at the same time. That's why i am gay friendly. Men and Women are not meant to be together, Just ask divorce lawyers.

  19. 19

    Melissa looks like she stinks…like ten day old tuna mixed with rotten cottage cheese all over her soggy and over worn flaps…..just sayin'.

  20. 20

    Re: evancalo – Sweetheart, you're not gay friendly YOU'RE GAY!!!!! Beyond gay if you ask me! you're a big ol' dick lover!

  21. 21

    For straight women the dick is USUALLY secondary, and it's all about the tongue, so that's why I'm sure most straight women can relate to lesbians. Just the facts.

  22. 22

    Wow, with that kind of nonsense if I were Melissa I might have made the same decision… why would you post this on a public website? She should handle it quietly between herself and the ex, who is trying to keep things low key and amicable for the kid's sake, and quit writing bad angsty teenage poetry.

  23. 23

    She sound like she converted to become a devil worshiper. The words r right there. If u read Vigilant Citizen then go to Run This Town- Online. U would see what i mean.

  24. 24

    Stupid dykes..it was no marriage anyway! Marriage is HOLY matrimony bewtween a a man and a woman. Theres nothing Holy about this shit thats for sure! Do they even know how stupid it sounds when a chick calls another chick her WIFE?! bwahahahaha Its so retarded!!!

  25. 25

    Re: CorkyCringle – You are closeted my dear!! lol

  26. 26

    What is it with every famous lesbian couple in hollywood? Can anyone last? Aside from Ellen and Portia?! Rosie, Melissa, (lol Lindsay!) who next?

  27. 27

    Cut me a break with your "so sad" crocodile tears "Perez." Everyone knows you detest lesbians. Like you could even care that a lesbian couple broke up. You're probably clapping your hands and jumping up and down with glee like a little girl.
    On the other hand, that was some lovely writing that Tammy Lynn Michaels did, but it's still a "she said, she said" thing and the only people who really know are the two involved.

  28. 28

    I'm sure the settlement won't be mutual!

  29. 29

    How can they be gay when Melissa is a man?

  30. 30

    These two need to give their vagina's a long deserved rest.

  31. 31

    Come on now dears … A woman can get sex just about anywhere from either an animate or an inanimate object. With the majority of men out there, you're probably better off with the inanimate object anyhow. If you're looking for true companionship and loyalty without sex, I'd suggest getting a dog.

  32. 32

    I'd T-bag the one on the right!!!!!!!! :o )

  33. 33

    Hook her up with Rosie O'Donnell, they can write crappy cryptic poetry together.

  34. 34

    I know these two freaks. They are into the sicked most depraved lesbo S&M scenes imaginable. There are dogs, cats and midgets involved, lots of fisting and cutting and purging all over each other. The love scat and eat it for breakfast every day. They are too sick for words.

  35. 35

    Melissa was all boo hooing after Julie Cypher left HER! Boo hoo. Get over it. It happens all the time. She will probably be better off without Melissa in the long run. Unrequited love is such a bore.

  36. 36

    In a breakup it's always because of one person…usually the other person (lol)

  37. 37

    To me these two were always a creepy couple. For whatever reason I just don't think they look right together. Melissa almost looks like some old letch standing there holding onto a much younger looking girl.

  38. 38

    Tammy can do better anyway. She's so pretty and young, she has years ahead of her. Hey, maybe she should swap partners with Ellen DeGeneres. Tammy and Portia would look much better together than Ellen and Portia!

  39. 39

    Re: kissmyassobama;) Well Evancalo MOST DEFINITELY IS closeted! I was making my point to counter IT'S creepy dick-adoring point!

  40. 40

    good lord, melissa broke her heart!

  41. 41

    I feel sad for Tammy. The partner who does the dumping calls it a "mutual decision." That's what Shania Twain's husband called it after he left her. According to Shania, as well as Tammy, it's anything but.

  42. 42

    I can picture Ellen just lapping away at Tammy's clit like a thirsty dog; I really can!

  43. 43

    Ellen is one nasty Bull-Dyke!

  44. 44


    I wish everyone would get their lives straight BEFORE they have kids.

  45. 45

    And why is this big mouth Etheridge taking advantage and blabbing on Oprah? Her music's crappy, and she's a crappy person.

  46. 46

    Terrible pic of Melissa; she looks like Grampa on the Munsters!!!!!

  47. 47


  48. 48


  49. 49

    Melissa got tired of eating tuna and wanted to try some salmon.

  50. 50

    Re: rejco100 – LOL! I AGREE!

  51. 51

    another celebrity scumbag cheater, maybe?
    come on, tammy, tell us what really happened.