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Diddy Says He Still Hasn't Found True Love

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Oh poor Diddy.

He is now saying that he's never "conquered love" even though he's been in high-profile relationships and has five children with three different mothers.

He says:

"I've had a lot of success and I've had a lot of material things, but I've never conquered love. I've never just had that always successful relationship. That's due to the fact of me working and not paying attention to the girl, or me also feeling that the girl doesn't appreciate me. And then I get a girl that really knows how to love me and I'll press the self-destruct button because it makes me feel uncomfortable that she's loving me so much."

He admits that money can buy him everything, but having a true love is one thing that will really make him happy.

"I just want to be happy. You know what I'm saying? I just want to be happy and I want to be able to make somebody else happy. I don't think I need a ring or picket fence or whatever society's definition of happiness is in a relationship. I just want to be happy in my heart."

You need to take some time off if you want to find that special girl, Diddy!

Or just throw a couple million dollars her way…

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93 comments to “Diddy Says He Still Hasn't Found True Love”

  1. 1

    he loves himself too much to pay any attention to loving anyone else as an equal

  2. 2

    you can't have everything…

  3. 3

    he kinda already admitted it himself.. he doesnt réally want to be happy, otherwise he wont be pushing a girl that (supposedly) loves him away… he ends up hurting them in the end, in any case.. so maybe he knows himself he doesnt really want love. just fooling himself into thinking he does.
    in any case, i always kinda got the gay-vibe from him (lols) so maybe he's looking for love in the wrong courtyard? lol

  4. 4

    Love isn't something you 'conquer', it is more like something you succumb to. His attitude is all take no give - love will not happen with that approach.

  5. 5

    …he is not dead yet???…especially after that shiteous performance on Idol….what a blight on humanity….

  6. ohboy says – reply to this


    Can you say egocentric? This kind of guy *thinks* he wants true love, but what he really wants is a drop-dead gorgeous doormat.

  7. 7

    The is a total tyrant, he is also a business mogul but his attention to himself can be very overwhelming. When I watch his shows you can tell he is a hard person to work for and live with but he is not super human just a super jack ass! If he would find love he would probably end it with a "Your fired!" even though it's marriage. I hope he finds what he is looking for but he needs to center his Chi and then maybe women wouldn't run from him like a building on fire. good luck diddy!

  8. 8

    Puffy Puff Daddy P Diddy Diddy

    You need to figure out who you are before you can expect someone else to love you.

  9. 9

    Perhapsthe fact that he's an egotistical douche has to do with it.

  10. 10

    i still think he's gay….

  11. 11

    throw me a couple of million diddy and i'll love you long time :P

  12. luvu2 says – reply to this


    can't stand this guy He's a total narcissus

  13. 13

    is puffy gay,or p ditty..sounds gay to me

  14. 14

    cassie must be pissed lmao!!!!!!!

  15. 15

    Re: luvu2 – I thought exactly the same, all he needs is to buy a mirror.

  16. 16

    Diddy…Puffy…Comby…SEANJOHN .. they're ALL TOO GAY FOR HOLLYWOOD! Pick a personality and stick with it Sybil, maybe that's why you can't find a steady fuck!

  17. 17

    Ditty should lay off the girls and find a woman. He sounds very immature.

  18. 18

    L-O-V-E is something RICH people look for
    While B-A-N-G-I-N-G the S-N-O-T out of tons of women
    You G-O D-I-D-D-Y

  19. 19

    Yeah.. I thought he was gay too

  20. 20

    Yeah yeah take some time off, Diddy.
    Dude is disgusting. Why anyone takes him seriously or buys anything he's selling is beyond me.

  21. 21

    Re: rosebud99 – I loved this answer!

  22. 22

    Re: ohboy – Wow!! Loved it.

  23. 23

    He wouldn't know what true love is if it hit him in the face.

  24. 24

    yes he has, himself

  25. 25

    diddy will say anything to stay relvant, dont he have kim and cassi.

  26. 26

    Come on people!!!! You haven't figured this out yet and how it all works??????? The people of Perez need to be smarter than this. This is just another one of his retarded publicity stunts where he professes how lonely he is and can't find real true love and then he and MTV or VH1 come up with a f-ing reality show called "For the Love of Diddy" Or something lame like that LOL!!!! I'm disappointed I had to point this out to you all. Remember you heard it here first!!!!!

  27. 27

    Re: PixieCullen – diddy is bi the entire new york city knows this.lol

  28. 28

    I think it is hard when you have a lot of money and is famous like him because woman/men now a days are just gold digging publicity whores. So u wouldn't know who REALLY LOVES YOU AND NOT YOUR MONEY!!!! Guess money can't buy TRUE LOVE!!!!

  29. 29

    Come on Diddy, no matter how much money you spend on your whores, they all have a major problem with a black man with a really small peen; sad, but true!

  30. 30


    He should be sterilized at this point…and who the eff cares if he has/hasn't found LOVE??

    I'm sure he has looked in the mirror. He should look closer…ahhh, there is your true love!

    He is completely retarded. (and a sociopath).

  31. 31

    PFFFFT. Whatever. 5 kids by 3 different women. Are we supposed to feel sorry for this jerk?

  32. 32

    Yeah, waaaaaaaaaaah. I'm a lonely billionare who buys bugattis for my sons birthday and I can't find love waaaaaaaaaaah.

  33. 33

    who would ever put up w/ his little bitch diva attitude? honestly.

  34. 34

    This guy sickens. He is the dumbest moron ever. He can't speak or talk, its embarrasing. The only reason any women would give his ugly lazy eye ass the time of day is for MONEY…he has nothing else to offer a women. Hello…Jlo was only with you to further her career and your stupid ass fell for it. why dont you crawl back in the cave in the ghetto you came from and stop looking for publicity and attention!

  35. 35

    He's too self centered to find real love. He will eventually like all the others find a gold digger that will put up with his ego.

  36. 36

    you know, there are some guys who have love and are indeed IN love, but they don't realize it. maybe they overestimate what 'love' really is…wow, that was deep…hahaha

  37. 37

    He loves HIMSELF so much, no woman could ever compete! Get yourself a dog, diddy………..

  38. 38

    Re: PixieCullen – I agree with "Pixie", I always thought that he was gay.. he is barking up the wrong trees

  39. 39

    SHIT! I"LL BE HIS TRUE LOVE! lol, promise ;) just lemme meet him. yum! Diddy has the most swagg of anyone….well him and my man T.I.P. of course.

  40. 40

    low intelligence…I see cheater all over his face…easy decision to make a bunch of kids (with 3 different women!!) how did he get so rich this guy is a such a moran. No level what so ever.

  41. 41


  42. 42

    m - a - n - i - p - u - l - a - t - i - o - n
    when you have not had a ripoff hit in a very long time and want to create buzz for yourself

  43. 43

    Isn't he gay? That's why he pushes them away.

  44. @v@ says – reply to this


    Aww. Even the Diddy hits the 'love' wall. Hey, we all know how it feels.
    Love isn't something you conquer, lol, although I know he just means he hasn't managed it yet…imo, it's something you choose to give freely, because you want the other person to be happy. When you make it more about the other person than it is about yourself, you'll have a better chance of lasting, because it's a noble love. Honor still matters, too, if you're truly interested in long term. Letting the little things go, and sometimes turning the other cheek and forgiving, but clearly clarifying and expecting better next time helps. All of the long termers speak of loving unconditionally. Not many short termers do. If both partners have a core belief that the other is of good character, and that they treat each other well, expected differences can be shelved or celebrated or ignored or accepted.
    My three cents.

  45. 45

    Maybe if he got a woman instead of a "girl", then the relationship would last.

  46. 46

    awwwww…poor diddy!!! now he needs someone after he realized that his music is crap haha

  47. 47

    P diddy is filty effen rich he should jus stay single and keep makin money, maybe one day he will make his own theme park for little kids and hire a live in doctor with fresh ta def needles.

  48. 48

    Re: HiHater
    GAY as a picnic basket!

  49. 49

    Maybe because no decent, self respecting woman in her right mind would look at him twice…. All he needs is a mirror and a fleshlight…

  50. 50

    Re: XTiffNAyminaj – that's exactly what i thought. But Cassie just seems like a weirdo hipster-like project he created. Kinda like Kanye with Amber Rose. Make her dress up in weird shit and shave her head, or at least partially.

  51. 51

    Tupac Karma.

  52. 52

    sure he'll find someone he is………..never mind i doubt it he loves himself to much

  53. 53

    i think it's because he's kind of a douche. you can't be all like "HAY GURL, YOU LOOKIN FINE, I'M P-DIDDY BEND OVER" and then expect to get a quality woman. of course nasty (but moderately to very attractive) sl00ts will jump on his dick because of who he is. But the real women, the ones that you MARRY and stay with for life (or at least have a healthy loving relationship with and then part amicably if it fades) are not easy for piggish rap stars to find 6_6

  54. 54

    What is he talking about he found true love the first time he looked in the mirror. That is the only person this idiot is capable of loving!

  55. 55

    He said it himself when he does get a right girl he hits the self destruct button aka he treats her like shit so she leaves… so basically hes gettin what he asks for.

  56. 56

    Gee I wonder if he is to blame for his situation?

  57. 57

    That annoying no-talent is still looking for the right girl. One with a cock.

  58. 58

    I actually do feel kind of bad for him. I doubt he will ever truly be in love. I'd rather be alive and loved then loaded with cash and despised.

  59. 59

    What a moron! He has conquered LOVE!!! He loves the shit out of himself. On top of that, he's a work-a-holic so that takes precedence over his relationships with women in terms of nurturing the relationship which takes time…and one has to wonder with 5 children, he's father-child(ren) relationship can't fair any better. You can't be a productive DAD and a work-a-holic and it be a rich relationship either!! BUT guess that's what baby-mamas are for!

  60. 60

    That's cause he is looking for love in all the wrong places. Just let it happen!

  61. 61

    grow up old dude! and come out of the closet….perez is ready…

  62. 62

    He can't love because he has a bifurcated dick. Also, I hear it's less than an inch long. What a loser, this Diddy.

  63. 63

    Why, I can solve all your problems? You wanna make someone happy? You give me 10% of your money, and I'll be singin' in the rain happy! C'mon, only 10% - I'm not greedy!

    Honestly, think of all the problems faced by humans all over the world this manchile's out whinin' ’cause his bazillions of dollars and tons of women and children and cars and boats and so on just don' buy him love. Christ.

  64. 64

    It's not that hard, idiot. You just still wanna f a lot of chicks.

  65. 65

    You're too hard on him, even monsters have right to love..

  66. 66

    To be really ready for love you need to be able to risk getting hurt, to be vulnerable, to hear and accept critism, to listen, to give and receive. Women have always been there to satisfy his sexual needs or to accessorize his lifestyle. I believe he is the type of guy that realizes in hindsight that the woman he lost could actually be the one for him. But by then these women have had it up to here with him and his antics. And when she's fed up..she's fed up. Doesnt matter how much money or gifts you throw her way. I betcha that's how he always thought he could win a woman over….but you cant catch a real woman with that. His mogul personality doesnt really allow for that true love even though he says he desires it. His lifestyle might be too overstimulated to appreciate or even see the little things that matter. Seeying what he said shows me that he is on the right path….but he needs to strip himself from all the BS and yes-people in his life and truely commit to someone that will take him on a path of growth…

  67. 67

    I would never make a comment about his blackness and the fact that black men seem to have a very hard time recognizing love when they see it. Vote for me!

  68. 68

    he hasn't found a true career either

  69. 69

    Re: Norman Bates – You're pretty smart! I hadn't thought of that angle, but its a good idea…

  70. 70

    you have to make compromises to make a relationship last… sometimes daily compromises. he's not accustomed to having to bend, i'm sure. hence why it's highly unlikely he'll find "the one".

  71. 71

    Diddy, you might find love when you stop acting like a self-absorbed, narcissistic douche who thinks public displays of out-of-control ego and anger are they way to conduct your personal life.

  72. 72

    Hasn't had the greatest luck with the women in his life so he should just get more serious about & with the men in his life…Let his true self live alittle, or alot!

  73. 73

    It is what it is - you can't have it all, Diddy. Sorry.

  74. 74

    Re: 2commit
    AMEN, 2commit!

  75. Jai says – reply to this


    Once you achieve a certain level of financial success, it would be difficult to find someone who truly loves you. You would always wonder if your partner truly loved you or was just into the money/lifestyle.

  76. 76

    Because a relationship with your right hand doesn't qualify as love.

  77. 77

    Just count the "I"'s and "me"'s in his statement. He is too self centered to LOVE back. Women do not need this type of man in todays world.

  78. 78

    What decent woman would want him? Male whore, and out all hours in bars, drinking. Never picture him a family man, that's for sure.

  79. 79

    I'm sure the five kids will be thrilled to know he never loved their mother(s). Idiot.

  80. elo says – reply to this


    Doesn't he have that male assistant who has been waiting for a proposal since just after Biggie died.

  81. 81

    ugh, he's responsible for the worst music trend…stealing popular musical hooks and then laying in some inarticulate rapper/hip hopper on the vocals. go away diddy.

  82. 82

    oh lawd. he's homely, he changes his monniker with his diamond-studded underwear, and he's egotistical to a fault. sure–he's got money. any woman of value–and worth loving–would be automatically be turned-off by his developmental shortcomings. wihout money, he'd be sneaking fat high school girls into his "lair" in his mama's basement.

  83. 83

    J.Lo must be crying in her overpriced wrinkle creme about this

  84. naima says – reply to this


    Diddy cant find love because it's all always about him, him and him. He's so self-centered and arrogant and it's not a suprise why women dont stick around for him. Even the most desperate of the women that fought to be with him, aka Kim Porter finally left him, and he was an idiot that cheated on her every chance he got. Thankfully, the skank channel VH1 will offer him a reality tv show in which he will be searching for his next baby mama hoe, titled" Who wants to puff daddy"

  85. 85

    Who cares? His money would not be enough to make me want him with his big gums in small teeth. I think he is unattractive and self absorbed. He will do anything to make a buck.

  86. 86

    Sure he has. He loves HIMSELF.

  87. 87

    well, maybe he should realize love is a give and take.

    all take no give= diddy alone.

  88. 88

    He is to self absorbed to ever love anyone else. True love at times requires selflessness, something of which I am certain he knows nothing about.

  89. 89

    when everyone finally stops lying and admit that theyre gay, then people like diddy will be able to find their true love. and im sure they would be happier people. i mean its called gay for a reason!

  90. 90

    i don't think he wants to

  91. 91

    he says in his own words that he isn't capable of forming a loving relationship. i.e. he probably had true love and just doesn't know how to keep it. a THERAPIST would be a really good idea. And some people are just way too in love with themselves and/or their careers and doing his own thing his own way to have a "true love" sort of relationship. i don't see him being willing, able or interested in a woman being his soul mate. He can buy whatever he wants but not that and it pisses him off because he feels entitled to get whatever he wants. And sometimes I think part of it is luck that you meet someone you click with and function well with in a partnership. And also.. maybe Hollywood sold us the idea that everyone finds true love.. i think probably most people don't. Good Book: Getting the Love You Want - Harville Hendrix.

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