Have You Heard Of Virginity Repair???
No? Well, allow us to enlighten you on the most ridiculous thing we have ever hear.
Across the pond, sources are reporting that an alarming number of women are signing up for controversial "virginity repair" operations before they get married. According to reports, thousands upon thousands of woman are paying big $$$ to have the surgery that will fool their husbands into thinking they are virgins on their wedding night.
The "virgin repair" procedure is technically called a hymenoplasty. It involves the hymen being stitched or reconstructed so that it will tear and bleed again on the woman's wedding night. In the last five years, 116 hymen repair operations have been undertaken!
WTF!!! Ladies, it is 2010! Who cares??? Your vajayjay is your business!
According to the source, not only are women actively seeking out this procedure, but many of them are having them done under NHS. (Think our Medicare.) So taxpayers are paying for women to hide the fact that they've gotten busy with other people besides their hubbys!
Sources point out the the majority of women who are looking to preserve the illusion are Muslim and some even take the charade a step further by buying chastity certificates to "prove" that they are virgins. One doctor explains:
"The majority of our clients are Muslim women. They worry about having had sex and their fiance and family knowing that they have been touched before. It is more cultural rather religious. If the bride is not a virgin and does not bleed on the wedding night, it is a big shame on the family. The woman fears that the husband will walk out, divorce or humiliate her all her life. There have been honour killings in extreme cases."
OMG! How awful!
We can imagine putting your body through such an ordeal just for the sake of some archaic belief system. These poor women!
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Tags: hymen, muslim, surgery, virgin repair, virginity, women
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So which is it? Thousands upon thousands or hymen repairs or 116 in five years?
Religious nutz will stop at nothing! Most virgins don't bleed anyway. Just wait, this will catch on over here with the Fox Noise crowd. Maybe Palin's daughter could get one for her marriage to Levi.
Is there one for the anus??
yes, the surgery sounds wrong but i understand why some women are choosing to get it.
After reading the book "Burned Alive", which is about a woman who was set on fire by her family and left to die..all because she was not a virgin, i understand why women are going to such measures to ensure that they do become a disgrace to their family.
its sad to see what some women have to go through
People do much worse to their bodies for much stupider reasons.
this may sound really mean but, if these women know they HAVE TO be virgins when they are married…why not just stay a virgin and avoid all the trouble of getting a surgery??
Jeez they'd have to get 3 inch steel cable to fix Kate Hudson.
the only way we can kill all these OLD AND IRRELEVANT THINGS,
(MOSTLY WITH RELIGIOUS BELIEFS) is COLLABORATION WITH THE GAY COMMUNITY, who have also experienced similar OLD and IRRELEVANT BIASES.
Have you been living under a rock? This is going on for decades in Europe or Eurabia… muslim style. Oh how clueless the US is…
Are you a woman Perez?? NO…so shut up! I know you wish you were one of us but you're not and that's why you judge us by the barrel full. Many women regret giving their virginity to the douche they chose and wish they could take it back. This is as close as you can get. So until you actually have a hymen that can be popped…shut the fuck up!
This is pretty stupid, because even if you have never had sex, you can break your hymen doing anything like sports, or using a tampon.
They grew up in this religion, they knew what the consequences were, they shouldn't have opened their legs in the first place.
That's disgusting. Either keep your legs closed or just fess up.
It's so stupid. Not all virgins bleed when they first have sex anyway. Another reason why I f n hate religion.it's complete BS.
excuse me, didnt u read what the doctor said PEREZ, its CULTURAL — not RELIGIOUS. geesh. i tink ur brain is infected with all those fats.
you totally only posted this because its been on tyra all day.
You make this sound like a ton of people are getting this done…the stats you give mean that there are 20 a year. How is that newsworthy?
Re: ThtBreGirl – I completely agree. They could just say no and not have to worry about getting this surgery later. Rape is a different story, because it wasn't the woman's choice to have sex. Otherwise, all a chick had to do was keep her legs closed. And even though the hymen is replaced, it does not take back the experience of having sex, the memories, or the emotions. So, the woman is still not a virgin after having this surgery. She'll just be lying to her husband and family. Also, (as a previous poster has stated) not all women bleed when they lose their virginity. Therefore, the husband could still have doubts even if his wife truly was pure before their wedding night. Perhaps instead of spending money on the surgery, the women who fear punishment for not being a virgin on their wedding night should spend the money on moving to a part of the world where they shouldn't have to fear such repercussions.
National Health is not like Medicare.
Where have you been Perez? Oh Yeah, up someone a bunghole.
This has been going on for a few years now.
On a side note: It's so funny how much everyone is scared of one news channel. Not content with the rest of the media whores for your Guy??!! Oh gosh, bring down the one diverse channel. Boogity, boogity, boo!
How is 119 surgeries in 5 years translating to "thousands and thousands of women" to you?
"Your vajayjay is your business!"
Um, EXACTLY. This is a private matter, and if a female decides to have this done it is her decision. NOT the decision of Perez Hilton. Why on earth do you think it's okay to berate women for the private choices they make about their bodies? Unless you have a vagina yourself, I suggest you don't get an opinion on this.
Now if a woman is having this done because she feels her life and reputation is at stake, of course that is worrisome. However, that isn't the case with every woman who undergoes this procedure. Perez, please quit pretending like you are some kind of rights crusader and go back to dishing gossip about celebutards.
I don't think its awful, it gives these girls a second chance. It has more to do with culture than religion though..
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this is not a new surgery. Not every girl bleeds when they first lose their virginity..it's so stupid.
okay as a Muslim, I would like to precise; it is a TRADITIONAL thing……The Men are not virgin for most of them….;we cannot see if they are virgin or not. Of course it is good to stay virgin but for God only like in any other religion But this seriously tend to dessapear…..116 in five years it's nothing. thousands and thousands of Muslim women get married and they re not all virgins….
Re: bongo – Too funny! Love it!!!!!
What's really awful is you commenting on the situation. If they need to lie to their husbands, then that's their thing.
What I DO disagree with is TAXPAYERS having to pay for it. It is cosmetic surgery; you can't put breast implants on NHS can you??
"We can imagine putting your body through such an ordeal just for the sake of some archaic belief system"….Is waiting until marriage really that weird to most people? Jeez no wonder this world is going to sh*t!
P.S. I think you mean we CAN'T imagine
Re: ThtBreGirl – what if they were raped? being raped is very shamful for the victim in middle eastern culture.
Re: HarleyDexter – what if their hymen was broken by a bicycle or a tampon??? You are dumb and know nothing about anatomy obviously, many girls hymens are broken before they have sex.
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this is the problem with most women. They refuse to keep their damn legs closed.. what whores
Re: Ü!!!SEMICOLON!!!bergeist – Actually, you moron, U.S. news agencies have reported on this in the past. Just because Perez Hilton reports about it now, doesn't mean it's new to everyone that lives here. USE SOME FUCKING COMMON SENSE MAN, WE HAVE THE SAME EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM AS THE REST OF THE WORLD. You sound clueless making a statement by generalizing a whole country based on a few bad apples. fucking moron.
Wow, are you presenting this as new information or something? I knew about this when I was 13.
Those poor women? Are you fucking kidding? If they are that concerned about being divorced or killed for not being a virgin on their wedding night, then all they need to do is not fuck around before they get married. Problem solved.
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Perez says: "…WTF!!! Ladies, it is 2010! Who cares??? Your vajayjay is your business!"
Then should it be a personal decision if someone wants to come out of the closet (without public pressure)?
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You do know how muslism are about women and virginity, right? In their bible (as well as ours) there is a part about "token of virginity". Google it.
If she is found out to not be a virgin, she would be stoned….
Now, if not punished, she is sanctioned by her society.
I say let them 'repair' themselves for the stupid men out there.
You should look into the matter further, Prez. You know you would love your behind tightened up like new.
Re: Bushwack – well said
Re: Reallynowcmon – Exactly! nothing like it
I was in college in the early 1990's, and I had a friend from high school who had this girlfriend we never saw much of when I came back home for breaks. We asked about her but didn't think much of it…anyway, I finally did meet her a few times and she was a nice and very shy but American dressed girl of what looked like middle eastern ancestry–I didn't really think much about it at the time. We lived in a major metropolitan area, she was dating a white middle class typical college boy friend…anyway, after they had been dating a couple years he was freaked out and told us his girlfriend's mom was giving her a virginity test and her doctor would have to sew her back up…totally crazy and very outside of my realm at that age! But that wasn't really that long ago, at least we considered it modern and somewhat enlightened times! I guess she was afraid of getting disowned if they found out she was not a virgin and her doctor was willing to make it look like she was. So crazy but apparently somewhat common!
If you think that's bad, try waxing or giving birth to a football sized object.
Re: kenzie6t4 – I actually do know a lot about anatomy and do know that many women break their hymens before having sex. However, I am stating that not all women bleed their first time. Also, this article is pretty much saying that women who are ashamed to have had sex before marriage are the ones pursuing the surgery, not girls that broke their hymen with a tampon. So, in my stating that women should just keep their legs closed if they want to be seen as a virgin is correct. I don't think they'd be as apt to get the surgery if they broke their hymen in a way other than sex. They probably wouldn't even realize what they have done if they did break it by a different way.
old news. Like really old news. Must be a slow day if you're resorting to writing blogs about stuff that's been discussed years ago! Seriously, try to be more "current" for a change
I sure as hell hope that Muslims aren't using American tax money in this country to pay to have the're fake virginity reistated. Its bad enough that their men parade around our country spewing their religious hate towards their women while in America. If the men wanna do that,they can go back to their own damn country and maybe let our troops give them an "honor killing"
That still doesn't make you a virgin.
this has been going on for a looong time..! where have you been?
Re: @v@ – Amen to that! That will give them something to scream about!
that doesn't even make sense, not every woman bleeds when they lose their virginity. so these women are wasting their time and if a women has been killed in an honour killing because she didn't bleed then the men are morons, too.
Not only is this extremely sick, but most girls (Yes, I'm presuming from my friends & myself) don't even bleed their first time! Fallin on the bar of your bike is the biggest perpetrator, as are horses, athletics, and serious injuries. Also, no hymen is the same. I can't believe I'm explaining this in 2010. Some woman have very thick hymens that are very difcicult to break & do bleed, some have very thin ones & they don't bleed at all. I guess they'd be candidates for an "honor killing." Are men really still that stupid? I was in so much pain my first time that I wanted to die -but I didn't bleed. They should get the fuck over it.
last time i checked you can be a virgin and have a broken hymen. inserting a tampon will break it, riding a horse can break it, so not just dicks up in vags do that.
Re: crashr10 – Just like female circumsicion, honor killings, as well as honor killings for not being a virgin, are cultural, not religous. Neither is sanctioned in the Koran.
Little late huh? This news article was on BBC News in early spring.
urban myth! As a woman not everyone bleeds. Yet just another stupid procedure. A girl bartending with me had it done and she had kids. She was such a priss and wasted money on something so #@%^*^&/
Re: HarleyDexter – Wow. You are one backward ass. Just not spread their legs? OK, just for a minute, I'll pretend you didn't try to make your point using a crass, old, misogynistic double-standard. Abstinence, yeah, that's working real well in their parts of the world. Save their money and move somewhere else? And pray tell, where are these young girls whom are being married of going to get the money to relocate? The same dear Daddies and brothers that would shoot them if they weren't a virgin, or even possibly didn't bleed although they were a virgin?
Re: kenzie6t4 – I just saw a 20/20 report a few months back where a man had been just released from prison b/c he'd shot his sister 5 times in the face after she had been raped. He was proud of it, and didn't believe he should have had to spend any time in jail b/c honor killings had always been viewed as expect and also as the only way for the family to regain their fucking honor. He said; the shame was killing his mother; disgracing his family and that his sister was now useless. He even went so far as to use the example of smashing a plate on the ground saying, "See, you must eat off a plate, but what good is it now? You must be rid of it, as you can never put it back together again.
Re: HarleyDexter – Are YOU a virgin?? Do you keep your peen/vagina to yourself? This article stated NOTHING about Muslim women having this done exlusively b/c they have had sex. And please stop saying "if they just kept their legs closed"; it exposes you for the idiot you are.
This isn't new. You're years late on this one asshole.
ridiculous
This is just one step up from the female genital mutilation that is going on in some tribes in Africa. They hold down the little girls and cut off/out their outer genitals so the girl is unable to experience pleasure. They think it's the only way to keep a woman faithful. These men of these tribes and these certain Muslin men have in common a psychotic fear and hatred of women and off the charts insecurity over their sexual potency. Not so long ago, in the western countries (yes, the USA), the way a woman was dressed when she was raped was used as a logical explanation and a get out of jail free card for rapists. Remember the old "she was asking for it." My point is this: ALL of this comes from the same ugly seed.
Two Things:
1) As everyone else has said, this is very, very old news.
2) If you think this is so "awful" then why did you choose to use a picture of a Jonas Brother giving a thumbs-up as the picture to go along with it. I get they're virgins or whatever but they're dudes, first of all, and the thumbs up is more than a bit tasteless.
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dumb.
Girls are dumb..This just proves that..Not only that but they are lying to their spouse..Isnt the whole point of marriage is the ability to share things with and be HONEST? Yeah dumb.
this is off the topic but why did you put a picture of the jonas brothers for this story???? they are neither women or have a vagina to have that surgery with. i thought the topic would be about anal reconstruction or something LOL!
ummm this is REALLY old news perez!
i heard about this at the start of this year/end of last year
Re: Kelbie – The NHS doesn't cover this procedure - Perez is an idiot.
You fucking idiot - the NHS is not like Medicare!
ALL WOMEN SHOULD UNDERGO THIS. WHAT GUY IS GONNA WANT A CHICK THATS HAD A MILLION COCKS IN HER?
Anyone who claims to be a hardline muslim should be given an all expenses paid, first class ticket to a beautiful mediterranean island. And then the rest of the world should aim all of their nuclear weapons at it and blow them the hell of the face of the earth.
wtf is wrong with ppl
Re: MarioMonjack – the girl would still have had a million cocks in her it just wont be like throwing a hotdog down a hallway anymore
Lols Perez. OLD news.
Re: ThtBreGirl – Go back to your fucking cave.
Women should stop marrying these guys !!!
Re: MarioMonjack – You sound like you had a million cocks in you.
What a woman does with her own vagina is her own fucking business.
Maki Sov: "I say let them 'repair' themselves for the stupid men out there".
Well, how stupid is it to be with a "stupid" man, especially if you have to change who you are in order to be with someone like that. Just marry someone who appreciates you're same values. Simple.
Re: cutefuzzy – Their culture IS their religion - they do not differentiate - which makes it even more fucked up.
A hymen can break even without having sex. Falling off a bike could even break it. This is just unneccesary only because of a theory that the hymen is the means all ends all about virginity.
Culture pressure though, that's what causes this. The worst part is, from an article I read a couple years ago, they get the surgery a few days before the wedding night but you're supposed to at least wait a few weeks before having sex.
Is any man simple enough to believe his wife is a virgin?
Re: old men are gross – Is that back on? I can't keep up.
Re: In Theory – Hickory Dickory Dock… Your comments all suck cock!
Re: Mabel Leaf – ha!!!! nice proofreading..
Omg, stupid ignorant americans. It's written like you didn't know any of this happened before you heard it was going to be on Tyra. Pick up a book or a real newspaper once in a while.
Re: BritBrit61384 –
And I'm a women and maybe you should get over the overrated and outdated "saving your virginity" bullshit.
perez how can you expect people to be tolerant of your lifestyle and beliefs when you criticize others religions. how about we let people do what they want.
Re: fairwindsandfollowingseas –
arent u generalizing 'their' as in muslim to apply that set of mentality. dude, gurl or w.e u are…start using ur brain.
culture and religion have a big different.
I'm from the UK and I've only heard of this happening twice, and both times for religious reasons (not an issue particularly foreign to the States). Also, I have never heard of this happening on the NHS.
Perez, I love you, but please don't alienate a whole heap of your fans/readers by sensationalising an issue like this
F x
This "news" is literally 10 years old.
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Any man that wants his woman to be a virgin before marriage is a FUCKHEAD.
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Any woman that would have such a stupid operation to please a man is also a fuckhead!
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Your hymen can be broken ridding a bike, a horse or a million other ways ITS SO FUCKEN STUPID!
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PROMISE RINGS SUCK ASS ALSO!
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"Thousands upon thousands of woman" are doing this? Whatever Perez, you never back your shit with proof other than citing "reports." Show us the reports then. And why is this even on here? How is this pop-culture or entertainment related? Get a grip. And no one likes your stupid self-serving Lindsay videos. You're no better seen than heard.
"It is more cultural rather religious"…….. The word "than" called, Perez. It says it needs to be in that sentence!
Stoopid Muslim women and their families are doing this in Germany and the rest of Europe all the time - sick in their heads somehow! LMAO
and these women are not "poor" but STUPID and brainsick in my opinion! Otherwise they would not do this or let their male relatives do this to them!
Re: Ash-P – A lot of Muslims are born in the USA. Just like there are a lot of Jews, Hindus, Buddhists, and, (unfortunately) racist, narrow-minded so-called Christians like you born right in the US of A. If you're white, you're the offspring of people from some other country, so stop saying they should go back where they came from, because your ancestors were immigrants. And if you are in fact a Christian, your religion is just as backwards, sexist, and intolerant as any other religion. Get an education. For the love of GOD get an education. School and libraries are free in the USA.
Perez, you may not like the idea of this practice, but in case yu didnt know, in many countries in the world, this rite is part of their culture and society, and it is too of a big deal for the women, who are expected to remain virgins until the day of their nuptials. It's not only an honor for the future husband but also for the family of the bride. Women are doing this because if it turns out they are not virgins, there could be repercusions and they could face even death. I think it's cute that you are standing for the women but they are doing it for the right reasons and for their own sake. Perez, please learn a few things about other cultures please, while on your computer, google stuff you dont know and learn it ok, dont just be an ignorant bloggin diva.
That's insane. Many women's hymens are broken without having sex. Just riding a bike or playing sports can do it.
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