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The Origin of Oksana's Mel Recordings

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Oksana Grigorieva only wanted to plant a tree.

Instead of a tree, though, she inadvertently planted the idea into Mel Gibson’s head that she was flirting with the gardener, which caused Mel to storm off his own property.

Following the incident, the craziness ramped up, and Mel began to call Oksana repeatedly.

According to sources, Oksana’s mother was the one who recommended she record the calls, just in case anything happened to her or her daughter.

A source had the following to say about Oksana’s original intentions with the recordings:

"At that time, all that was on her mind was trying to protect him. She didn't want anyone to know what he had done."

Even if your intentions were always to release the recordings, we’d still back you up, Oksana. It seems like Mel gets crazier by the millisecond!

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54 comments to “The Origin of Oksana's Mel Recordings”



  1. 1

    It personally kills me when I read women sticking up for Mel.



  2. 2

    I wish Mel would beat the shit out of you Perez



  3. 3

    Mel Gibson = Monster



  4. 4

    Perez, why do you always post comments such as "we" still back you up? You always seem to be speaking for many people. Exactly who are you speaking for?



  5. 5

    I see the apple doesn't fall far from the tree! Oksana's mother is just as conniving as she is, and no wonder her sister Natalie helped her release the tapes, they are one big scheming family! Her true colors are slowly but surely being exposed for all the world to see and that she is not the 'innocent victim' she is making herself out to be!!!



  6. 6

    Not only did she flirt with Julio, the gardener, she gave him 2 blowjobs and he fucked her up the ass. That's why Mel got mad.



  7. 7

    What Oksana was receiving, should receive, versus what she "wants".

    $15 million is $833,000 a year or 69k a month, more than double what she would receive according to California guidelines (calculator online). Guidelines calculate Gibson's payment to be only -27k a month (using an exaggerated amount of tax free high interest income on $370 million, support is calculated by income, not assets, I calculated assets as well.) On top of that Gibson would pay for the child's education (25k yearly), insurance, and as we can imagine many extras.

    After much negotiation, Oksana signed the $15 million agreement. During the entire negotiation, Gibson had complete access to his daughter without any visitation restrictions.

    Oksana then decided $15 million wasn't enough money…and the extortion, media blitz and accusations of abuse began. However, she NEVER once called the police.

    POLICE = $ 4 Million Total for 18 years

    NO POLICE plus recordings = $15 Million



  8. 8

    Team Oksana! Mel is an abusive bigot.



  9. 9

    Mel got pissed off. Since when is that against the law. His wife went on the record he was never violent in 30years of marriage. And now that this gold digger appears all of a sudden he is the worst. right. And instead of calling for help when he got angry she records his stupid rantings on the phone and remains totally calm. Are you really that blind perez.



  10. 10

    Re: LisaRose

    It's not that women are sticking up for Mel, it's more that people are against the sneaky tactics used by Oksana. This is nothing more than an extortion attempt. People go through nasty breakups all the time. I am sure Oksana said and did terrible things also during this break up, but Mel did not have the benefit of a very one sided attempt to record her at her worst. Russian women are very devious.



  11. 11

    who cares why she recorded them.. thank god she did
    this way as far as the public is concerned it is not a he said she said.. everyone gets to hear what a monster he is..
    hello especially the voicemails.. no way for her to be keeping it going,, and no way he didn't know he was being recorded
    even if they don't allow the tapes in court his public image is ruined
    (except of course you nut jobs that want to say it's her fault she was abused because she was a gold digger)
    hello its his fault he was with a gold digger because he left his wife to be with a younger, prettier, faker, up and coming star.. (hello that has gold digger written all over it)
    sorry but don't feel sorry for men that dump their wives for a newer model and then get all butthurt when they realilze the younger model is just after their money..



  12. 12

    Oksana is a liar. People are so blind.



  13. 13

    Re: betty.boop – HE HIT HER IN THE FACE. I don't care if she's the biggest swindler in the world or Mother Theresa. HE HIT HER IN THE FACE. Everything ends with THAT. NO ONE has the right to do that to anyone and where is his mug shot??



  14. 14

    Re: LisaRose
    LisaRose, you are right. When I read women or men sticking up for Mel and calling the victim of his deranged rants and physical abuse a gold digger, it makes my blood boil. People cannot recognize a vain psychopath when they are confronted by one. He is a dangerous man who should pay for his criminal activity.



  15. 15

    Re: betty.boop – Oksana being "sneaky" and "devious" is BESIDE the main point. Which is that Mel is insane, clearly violent, and racist. Yes, nasty breakups happen everyday. No, not everyone, Oksana included, acts like Mel.



  16. 16

    Mel Gibson is a dangerous person. His former wife, Robin, has always known about his crazy behavior, but she has a lot to lose if she admits that he is a nut case. You can see by the interviews from the past that he has a name for his evil personality (can't remember the name, but I'm sure someone here will recall the name).



  17. 17

    Re: LisaRose
    No need for a court system when we have people like you in the world is there? He is clearly drunk and she is clearly trying to get him to say certain things. You do not know if the tape is edited and if that comes out, wont you feel stupid? Pull your head out of your arse and try and be fair.



  18. 18

    Re: TorontoBitch

    No, Oksana is WORSE. We do not even know yet whether her claims are true and I doubt that they are. The tapes are of a drunk man and are clearly one sided. He is being goaded into saying certain things and she is way too controlled. I hope they are found to be edited and she goes to jail.



  19. 19

    Re: gc071410 – The "axe-murderer" is what Mel himself calls his "other side". Nice.



  20. 20

    Re: betty.boop – Yes, Mel was drunk. But that is not an excuse for bad behaviour. How is she "trying" to get him to say certain things (you're saying she is ASKING to be harassed????) Because she is calm and he's a maniac, she is provoking him? WHAT? If someone abused me, harassed me and threatened me, I'd tape them too, to get proof. You sound like the type of person that thinks if a woman is wearing a short dress and flirts, she "deserves" to be raped. No matter how much of bitch or gold-digger Oksana might be, it doesn't for ONE second excuse what Mel has done. NOTHING can change the fact that Mel said racist things, told her she "deserved" her beating. And, most shockingly, threatened to kill her. But I see. You think she somehow "provoked" this abuse. As someone who witnessed her mother being abused by her step-father (of course, my mom "made" him do it) you offend me.



  21. 21

    Re: betty.boop – One more thing. So what if there is editing? I'm sure there is. Re-recording some portions of her voice, to make it more clear. Removing stuff that isn't relevant. Shortening here and there. Doesn't mean for ONE SECOND that Mel didn't say what he said. It probably will make the tapes inadmissable, which is too bad. But it doesn't change a single thing about good 'ole Mel. The only thing that would change my opinion is if it was an imposter on the tape. But it's Mel alright.



  22. 22

    Re: TorontoBitch

    "SO WHAT IF THERE IS EDITING"?????? ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME???? I would hate to be a man negotiating the minefield of relationships if this is the attitude of stupid women such as yourself. What if the entire thing has been edited to rearrange words, you idiot? Why not just dismantle the court system entirely? You know everything.



  23. 23

    Re: TorontoBitch

    So can people say and do anything and never have to face consequences? Is that what you are saying? Men who choose golddiggers should just pay up and shut up? Oksana should be able to present one sided allegations and we should just accept them at face value? His ex wife of many years has said that he never lay a finger on her. He was never violent and was an excellent father. Suddenly he is a violent, dangerous man?



  24. 24

    mel is an ass.

    but she is a whore.

    she tries to make him out to be a monster.

    trying to sell it that he knocked her teeth out but he did not do that.

    he was asking did you get them fixed after they did that to you.

    she said yes you did trying to trick him into saying he did it .he did not fall for it. he was askingfor proof



  25. 25

    Re: betty.boop – OMG! Mel, is that you? LOL! There is a BIG difference between editing for the purpose of clarity, and cutting and pasting words. Let the experts decide how fake the tapes are. Why so quick to doubt an alleged victim of violence? I'm an entertainment journalist. So I'm not stupid, thanks. I'm educated. And I'm familiar with Mel's reputation. And you are very right about one thing. Mel didn't just turn into an abuser at the age of 54. His ex-wife is obviously covering for him. His temper is LEGENDARY. Don't you remember his tirade at the cops when he was arrested a few years ago? Last weekend Mel was interviewed by the cops about Oksana's allegations and he pled the fifth. LOL! Innocent people usually are eager to clear their name. Also, Oksana has emails from Mel in which he incriminates himself. Like you said, people have to face the consequences of their actions. Hopefully, Mel will get his. There is, however, no law against being a golddigger. What makes you think Oksana is one? I don't claim to know one way or the other. But you know this for a fact. Interesting. You say you don't believe the tapes….but you conveniently believe it when Mel screams that at her. How selective of you.



  26. 26

    A few days ago there was a not so blind item (blind gossip i think it was) about the tactics of a male actor concerning his image damaging scandal.he pays people to spend time in different blogs so they would write positive things about him, to make it seem like not the whole world now knows his mentally disturbed.lets seek them out, shall we?: Angel007 is defnitley and without any doubts on Freakout-womanbeater-wifecheater gibsons payroll.
    Next is betty.boop.
    selling their souls to the dark lord of nonsensical blow-job-demands!



  27. 27

    a few days ago a not so blind item( blind gossip) said a male actor in the midst of great scandal is paying people to spend their time in blogs and write positive things about him, so it doesnt seem as though the whole world knows he is mentally disturbed.lets seek them here: angel007 is definitley on freakout-womanbeater-wifecheater shitsons payroll. betty.boop as well!
    selling their souls to the demonic incarnation of sexcism and racism , in hell otherwise known under his codename: " fuckingblowmenowBITCH!"

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    Re: Alasen – Don't you think his team paid his ex-wife to say "mel was never abusive or mean"



  29. 29

    Re: Mr.Wilson – You crack me up!!! First off, you don't know anything about me so don't go jumping to unfounded conclusions! Secondly, I have a right to say, do or believe anything I want, and I don't need your approval. I have said this time and again, the physical abuse allegations are just that - allegations, meaning they have not been proven! Apparently Oksana's word for it is as good as gold for some! The fact that he uses profane language in her regard does not mean he was capable of hitting her! There is a huge difference between verbal abuse and physical violence! Thirdly, on those tapes, despite all the ranting and the anger, it is obvious that Mel was extremely hurt and disappointed in her for some reason. It is a fact that when people have had a little too much too drink, together with hurt feelings, mean things are said! I don't condone the way he talks to her, nor do I say she deserved it, yet I believe there is more than meets the eye in this case and Oksana is conveniently leaving out some details.



  30. 30

    Hey Mel,
    At one time, I was too fell deeply in love with a much older man and married him. I gave him a child that he had never had. But, he too became abusive due to him being "unsure" of himself, just like you Mel. I got hit, beat, kicked and spit upon, because he knew I had no place to go and could do nothing. I had done nothing to him but try and love him, but it didn't stop the abuse. He has since passed on and I am older and look back at it all now.
    It is really simple what I would do now if I could "do over" again. I would turn him in to the police for abuse and if the abuse continued after that, I would have put " a CAP in his ass" and let him see it coming. It is too bad that I had to get older to get wiser. Oh I know some will say that it is not wiser, but I guess you just had to be there "before" you know just how it "really" feels to see someone that you love put their hands on you and hurt you for no reason and do it because they can. You are scared, helpless and no hope. You are always scared because you never know when they are going to snap and hurt or kill you. Yea, Oksana, you acted like a real lady and just taped him instead to defending your self and your child by taking him out like you had the right to do to protect you and your child. God Bless You and Yours.



  31. 31

    Re: angel007 – Angel, yes you have the right to think, speak and think anything that you want to. But, I guess that is just the whole point of all of this, so does Oksana. Mel himself stated how he wanted her to dress, what she could do with her own body, what he demanded of her to do to him (sexual favors), what he wanted her to do with her breasts, called her 12 year old names and scared this poor child to death. Yes, he had his rights, but not at the expense of Oksana's rights and everyone else around her. If you have never been abused for no reason at all and been put into that environment, you really don't have a clue what it is like. Abusers "count" on people not believing they are doing such things. They deny and act so kind outside of the relationship then behind closed doors the monster comes out and abuse goes into full blow. Yes, I believe in Mel's rights, BUT he has stepped WAY over the line. Hope justice is served and not let money stand in the way of that justice.



  32. 32

    Re: betty.boop – there is no presumed innocent when it comes to public opinion.. even if she loses in court.. she won because now the people who work and support the entertainment industry consider Mel Gibson a leper.. no one will touh him for a while in any project lol…
    so even though our system might be flawed so he might not be held accountable.. his racist and violent rants have been released to public and those can never be erased from the public's eye..
    I'll say it again.. you innocent until proven guilty fools must believe OJ was innocent..
    her character has no bearing on whether he said racist, violent, and psychotic things.. I could care less what he does but I can thank her for opening my eyes to Mel Gibson so I can make sure that no dollar I pay to watch a movie will go to a racist bigoted pig



  33. 33

    Re: amandaloveperez – YOU GO G I R L !!!!! COULD NOT HAVE SAID IT BETTER !!!!!



  34. 34

    Re: BabyBumbleBee – You are right, I thank my lucky stars that I have never been physically abused, and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Nobody should ever have to go through that and I am sorry that you did :( I also understand that when someone falls victim to a monster, one is prone to take sides with the alleged victim, even though they do not know the whole story. In this case, we do not know for sure what really happened between these two and if things happened the way they said they did. It is just a battle of words between Mel and Oksana. As yet, there is no evidence of physical abuse, they are allegations which have not been proven. The photos of Oksana's teeth and the alleged bruise on their daughter's face are questionable to say the least - there are a million ways one chips a tooth and a baby is prone to spots, especially if breast-fed. The fact of the matter is, arguments like this, where one party calls the other and hurls abuse, is commonplace. The only difference here is that Mel is a celebrity and his girlfriend conveniently leaked the tapes. Those tapes were recorded on purpose, and I don't believe she feared for her life, she recorded him to use it as leverage over him, to play on people's emotions and to garner sympathy. I think there are many details which Oksana is leaving out of the picture. I too hope that the truth prevails and that the true, unaltered story comes out so we can lay this to rest once and for all.



  35. 35

    Re: BabyBumbleBee – thanks.. it just erks me when people think that her actions could make the things that he said any different
    it really reminds me of a rape vicitim being scrutinized for her sexual past or her clothing..
    she may have been a gold digger and so what???
    I am not pro-Oksana.. I am anti RACIST BIGOT PIG
    after all this country has done to further civil rights and race relations your going to allow a public figure to drop N bombs and make other racial slurs about mexicans and african americans and just let it go becuase he was mad or hurt or drinking.. come one people open your eyes



  36. 36

    Re: Mr.Wilson – Mr. Wilson.. thank you for saying this.. it hadn't even occured to me and I was soooo confused as to how ANYONE could be standing up for this racist pig.. but now it all makes sense



  37. 37

    Re: amandaloveperez – Lol yeah Mel must be paying me to defend him, you really are a fool if you believe that HONEY HAHA!



  38. 38

    Re: angel007 – well i was giving you the benefit of being paid isntead of just being that big of a fuckin idiot lol
    only an idiot would stand on the side of a racist man who makes racial slurs against blacks, mexicans, and jews.. I am italian but i still am offended!!!
    Keep making excuses for him HONEY, who knows maybe you're a racist yourself that's why his racial bigotry doesn't bother you.. I guess that's an explanation
    You keep calling me pro-oksana on all these articles.. can you not read.. i said she is a gold digger..
    I hate copy and paste but since it was my post and you obviously can't read I'll repeat it
    she may have been a gold digger and so what???
    I am not pro-Oksana.. I am anti RACIST BIGOT PIG
    after all this country has done to further civil rights and race relations your going to allow a public figure to drop N bombs and make other racial slurs about mexicans, jews, african americans and just let it go becuase he was mad or hurt or drinking.. come one people open your eyes



  39. 39

    Re: angel007 – even if he never touched her .. the tapes are enough.. That is verbal abuse.. he is an abuser

    Secondly.. like i have been saying this whole time.. i have not listened to her.. i have listened to him.. and the racial slurs have been my point.. he ruined his image by being a racist bigot.. the fact that he is most likely a woman beater as well is just icing on the cake..

    ps.. most people understand that it is not a huge leap for someone that psychotic and as you put it hurt and angry.. to turn to physical violence..

    you are so busy hating her that you don't realize you are defending a racist, bigot, hypocrite of christian values, and verbal abuser of women.. just because he may not have hit her.. does that change the rest.. no..

    even if i conceded on the physical violence.. which I don't… the point is moot
    the rest is enough



  40. 40

    Re: amandaloveperez – How mature of you to stoop to name calling, I'll take the high road and not stoop to your level! HONEY what you still don't get is that Mel isn't running the risk of being charged with being a racist, it is being alleged that he is a woman beater! I'm not a racist and I don't condone racism, yet I'm sure Mel isn't the only American who's made racist remarks! It just so happens that he's a celebrity and his gf recorded him to play on people's emotions and to garner sympathy! You keep bringing the argument back to him being a racist when that has nothing to do with the case! Maybe you're living in a different planet but the allegations being made by Oksana are about physical abuse! You say you are not pro-Oksana, yet your comments tell a different story. You choose to believe her unfounded allegations simply because he made racist remarks, therefore in your eyes he is automatically guilty of being a woman beater too! What kind of reasoning is that?! How many times do I have to say that verbal abuse and physical violence are completely different?! And no, just because someone uses racist speech and hurls abuse, it does not necessarily equate evidence of physical violence!!! Obviously talking to you is like talking to a brick wall, so I won't keep wasting my time. Like I said, it would be funny if it turned out she was lying and you'd have bought her BS!



  41. 41

    So the entire family of Oksana is in to this extortion from the beginning. Oksana will set up Mel to go crazy then record him.



  42. 42

    Re: angel007 – What is wrong with Oksana"garnering symapthy"?? I would also record someone who calls me 30 TIMES (!) in one night to unleash his temper. They've known each other 3 years; I'll bet my life it's not the first time she's had to deal with this. She's sick of it and wanted everyone to know what an ass he is. Good. Power to her. Why should he get away with it? Unfounded allegations??? In one tape she says, if regards to him hitting her, "what kind of man is that?" and he says, "you deserved it". Combined with the photos, that's compelling evidence. You ask, "what kind of reasoning" is it that would assume just because Mel has a horrific temper, he would hit someone? Any right-thinking person would come to that conclusion. After all Mel himself said "I'll put you in a f**king rose garden; and I have it in me to do that"…..



  43. 43

    Mel is worse than chunks of vomit. I hope Oksana is safe and protected from the devouring and pathetic bought-off lawyers Mel will pay to try to destroy her.



  44. 44

    Re: Mr.Wilson

    Grow up, I have been posting here for ages. Plenty of people hate the injustice being done to people like Mel Gibson. It may very well turn out to be 100% accurate. However, do we want this to be the way people go about custody or court settlements? There is a child involved in this. These tapes are on the record for eternity. How is the child going to feel when they are older and able to understand? You simply cannot play out events like this in public. Oksana did this to try and get Mel to pay hush money. You cannot have people behaving like this. There is no real evidence that Mel has assaulted Oksana. Her cleverely worded tapes do not prove anything. Oksana has been there and done this before.



  45. 45

    Re: TorontoBitch

    "His ex wife is obviously covering up for him" Now why would she do this? How would you know. Oh, because you made it up! Why aren't I hearing any similar outrage against Charlie Sheen who has committed even worse offenses against partners?



  46. 46

    Re: betty.boop – You aren't hearing anything about Charlie here because this is a post on Mel. I hate what Charlie has done. He's beat more than one woman. He's worse than Mel. But Charlie's bad behaviour has been making headlines for so many years, it's no longer shocking. People are shocked about Mel because this info is fresh. Why do I think his ex is covering for him? Many reasons. His temper is well known. Look at how he talked to the cops that arrested him. Another mistress has come out of the wood-work and make similar statements about him making rage-filled phone calls full of threats. There seems to be a pattern. Also, it is very common in Hollywood that confidentiality clauses are signed as part of a financial settlement. And Robyn got/will get a huge divorce settlement. People don't develop Mel-sized anger management issues at the age of 54. I'm not saying that he's beat Robyn, necessarily. But she most likely has witnessed his insanityl. Anything that I say here on Perez is not stuff I'm "making up". I don't know these people; I don't care enough to get that involved. Like everyone else, I just come here to share opinions. I don't claim that anything I say is 100% fact.



  47. 47

    No need to take sides here … the lesser of two evils is still evil.



  48. 48

    Team Mel. Oksana is after the money and has lied/manipulated others in order to get it.



  49. 49

    Re: TorontoBitch – thank you.. my point exactly if some psycho stalker left me 30 voicemails and I had an outlet to share with the world what a lunatic he was.. damn straight i would.. at least someone is putting themselves in the place of the VICTIM!!!! instead of making this a celebrity vs. his gold digging girlfriend



  50. 50

    Re: angel007 – if you had paid attention the racial slurs and verbal abuse are all I have really posted about.. also,,, I have said time and time again that it doesn't matter what happens in court becuase she hit him where it hurts by destroying his image by showing the world what a bigot and racist he is using his own words..
    How dare you say that just because he is not the only racist person out there that is should be overlooked..
    I am very involved in civil rights working for a university and helping students get involved in the protection of ALL our citizens civil rights.. and to see a man blatantly use racial slurs just because he doesn't think the public will here them is absolutly deplorable.. I mean truly disgusting..
    What I have said is there is a much smaller burden of proof in the public eye than the courtroom.. there is a presumed innocece in a courtroom but not in the public.. people in hollywood make money of their image
    also.. like i said before..



  51. 51

    pt. 2.. sorry it split it
    a reasonable person can hear how verbally abusive, threatening, angry, and hurt this man sounds and it is not a stretch to think that someone this verbally violent would not be physically violent as well
    but that aside.. my point this entire time.. if you go back.. has been that due to the racist, bigoted, and violent WORDS Mel Gibson used.. he tarnished the image he had in hollywood and people should not support or endorse a man with such backwards views that go against everything this country has been working toward for civil rights… we can not allow public figures to hinder our forward progress toward civil rights by glazing over their racist views becuase they are hurt by their ex.. you sound like an inteligent person you would think you could agree with that



  52. 52

    Re: amandaloveperez – Amanda I understand your point, racism, no matter how it is used or by whom, is unacceptable in a democratic society. I do not tolerate, nor condone, nor justify any behaviour which is disrespectful towards others and I definitely don't think that just because Mel is famous, that his verbal abuse, be it racial or otherwise, should be overlooked. What one needs to understand is that what differentiates this case from any other is the fact that one party is a celebrity, therefore his actions are scrutinized more than that of a normal person. Mel being a celeb does not justify nor excuse his behaviour, he should not have said what he said, plain and simple. Mel's being a celebrity does not give him free reign to say whatever he pleases, and it is unfortunate that he spoke the way he did. There is no denying that this has hurt his career, but then again, it is up to the audience to decide whether they want to continue supporting him or not. One cannot impose one's views on others, people are more than capable of making up their own mind.



  53. 53

    What I think is unjust is the fact that some tend to believe that just because a person utters racist remarks and verbal abuse, then it is assumed that he is definitely capable of hitting a woman. One cannot rule out the possibility that he may very well have hit her, but one also cannot jump to that conclusion simply because of words he used. Oksana has not provided solid evidence to support her claims of physical abuse, so as yet, Mel should not be labeled a woman beater. Yes the court system has its flaws, but one should have faith that the truth, and nothing but the truth, will come out so that we can lay this to rest once and for all.



  54. 54

    Re: angel007 – no you cannot say that he absolutly did.. but this is all evidence to his character..
    and it is true he is more scrutinized but that is a good thing… people look up to the people in the public eye, especially children and we have to be careful what messages they are getting