Stupid! Oksana Sends MELtdown A Comforting Email In Response!
Welcome to the Dumb Bitch Club, Oksana Grigorieva. We might bump you straight up to Vice President for this shiz.
So, you know how Mel Gibson's Russian baby mama has been going all over town, telling lawyers and cops what a royal piece of garbage the actor is and providing all this evidence to prove that he treated her like crap and beat her down? According to her iPhone, she doesn't really believe all that!!!
Sources have come across an email sent from Oksana to Mel on March 1, 2010. It's a crummy lil' message, filled with underserving praise, comfort and spelling errors. At the same time, she was telling police officers that she feared for her life. Now, we know she's been playing the two-faced game.
Oksana's email was sent to Mel less than 2 hours after he had sent one to her, calling himself a "fucking failure." From her iPhone, she wrote back (verbatim) :
"Please don't torcher urself like that, please!!!! U dint do anything to be so hard on urself. U r amazing man and always will be in my eyes and I will make sure Lucy knows it. U r an anusually extraordinary person. Ur versitile talent speaks louder than the words! U r capable to make a masterpiece about jesus and to build the church for him! U r just one person, but u did this! In itself it's a lifetime wearthy atchivements, but for only chosen one. I love u, that doesn't change. Even if u don't want it anymore."
What. The. FUCK????
You love him??? After he beat the hell out of you and called you a slew of things even we had trouble listening to?! You love the man that you are trying to suck the money dry from every account he's ever had?! And could you perhaps name some of these "wearthy atchivements" you speak of??
And are you dare trying to call him the chosen one?! The chosen one of what, ASSHOLES?!
Ugh! Our stomach is heaving at the thought of this woman trying to validate all the crap he has done to her, while she's also dragging his name through enough mud to make bricks!
Disgraceful! That poor child you two brought into this world! Imagine the kind of parenting she's going to get!
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Tags: domestic abuse, email, iphone, meltdown, oksana grigorieva
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oksana made a booboo
If my GF had grammar that bad I would also beat her…
easily explained away by fear that he would hurt her so she sent him something nice to appease him.
"sends a comforting e-mail…." Why wouldn't she? Why poke the monster in the cage?
Yes, it's gross, but doesn't statics show that abused women go back to their abusers a lot? I mean, maybe she was so scared of that last blow he had given her that she was back peddling trying to avoid the next one?? I think this may just be one small part of a bigger picture…
Or, maybe he didn't hit her. His email sounded like he was apologizing for screaming at her, not hitting her. She is a liar…once a liar, always a liar.
Oksana should just go to shouldidumphim.com and let the universe decide once and for all!
Am I the only one who thinks this woman is ugly???
lol i love how you still like to say that he has beaten her!!! lol
he never hit her, all of this is fabricated bull from a bitter old whore that was tossed aside and now wants money!
shes a succubus that wont die…and you are just pathetic for believing any of the words that come from her fake lips.
clearly she was kissing his ass in that message, because he is sick mentally, has severe insecurities and self doubt, and she was playing on that weakness to make herself needed and important to him…
she took advantage of a mentally ill person, and she wants the public to like her for it!! lol
just you wait, one day we will find out about which mental illnesses he suffers from and you all will have to eat crow!!
mentally ill people say all sorts of offensive shit, they cant help it! they are sick!
perhaps all you who condemn him now, will one day suffer from this kind of illness and suffer at the hands of a cruel and unsympathetic society.
wouldnt that be justice.
WOW, this dumb, money grubbing, mail order bride whore has been sucking a married American man's dick for how long? and she still can't speak english properly? dumb slut!
Yes Perez, and didn't you crucify Mel from day one. You believed all that came out of Oskshaggall's mouth, like there was no other side to her story. Yes you Perez, yes you! Team Mel (from day one!)
Women in domestic violence situations frequently try to appease the abuser. It's a well known cycle of violence. Come on, Perez. Don't blame the victim here. When you are the one being abused you frequently find yourself just trying to calm down the angry, violent person. It's a mindfuck to be in a situation like that, especially with a child.
You are assuming guilt. It looks more like he did not beat her at all. Some of us knew that you would be eating your words. I bet you words tastes like poopoo.
there both STUPID..they deserve eachother!!!!!
Oh Perez, your naivety shows sooo much when it comes to love. I don't think you have ever been in a mature mutually giving relationship and it shows. I am in no way defending Oksana's e-mail to Mel, but your responses to so many things are incredibly juvenile and immature.
Really Perez? Did you already forget about your precious RiRi and how she responded? Didn't you see her interview? If so, you would've learned that its NORMAL for victims to go BACK to their abusers. It makes perfect sense that she would send him that email. Anything to calm him down. Chances are if a man beats on a woman, he is insecure about himself as a man. The last thing she needs is for him to be insecure and beat himself up cuz - guess what - that means its THAT MUCH EASIER for him to snap again. Smart move if you ask me. Calm him down, build up his esteem, try to keep him in a "happy place." Sounds like a woman in survival mode trying to keep her child safe. Yeah, its better if she leaves, but that's easier said than done.
Quit being such a douche.
Don't forget Perez…it's never easy getting out of abusive relationships for women & she was probably trying to mend fences, as to not become homeless or dead!
Can't they just be locked in a room together to eat each other alive
because he didn't beat her. DUH. He may have done something that indirectly caused her to bust her fake teeth, but he didn't beat her. The pictures are pretty clear that there was nothing wrong with her. She's a fakey twat and you tards embraced her.
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Now, don't get me wrong, Mel's a colossal dickhead, but he didn't beat her.
P-Dawg
You're not very physiologically minded, are you? She was placating him. Trying to keep him calm. She was trying to deescalate the fight. Keep the blow out defused. If she wrote back in a tone holding him accountable… he would have gone OFF again…You can't reason with someone as sick as Mel. It would be like trying to teach an infant algebra.
When one is abused they will say anything to survive. It is not until the person if truly safe and.. truly away from their abuser that they will speak the truth about the abuse and the truth of how they feel about having been abused. That text is her surviving. She does not feel done with having to deal with him at that point. With him being famous with her having his child.. all connections.. Her feeling his power over her is clear. Reading anything else into that..shows your low emotional intelligence.
Her spelling… Wow.. that is another thing totally… You don't expect someone with that kind of $$ and access to everything… not to be interested in learning… That grammar is indicative of a minimum wage job not someone with the opportunities she has had. That befuddles me.
How stupid are you Mario she was setting him up by using his anger against him are you really that stupid because if you are i have a bridge id like to sell you.
/sing song voice/ we told you so, we told you so, we told you so, we told you so, we told you so —- fuckwad.
Many women do this who suffer abuse. They fall for all the lies of apology and they themselves are made to feel guilty.
ANUSually, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Its NORMAL for a women in a situation like that to do this. Why would so much women stay with men that are violent with them if they would believe 100% of the time that he is a real asshole? Many women stay in situations like that for many years, always taking the blame on them - to calm the situation, but also because the guy usually says "its your fault", and by hearing it so many times they believe it. But now, she is taking a real big step foward, so good for her!
She needed the money, so she kept on sucking up.
Both sides are correct. I honestly don't believe this woman is the only "victim" in their relationship. She seems very manipulative. Personally I think she is playing both sides.
I would like to state that I agree with most people on here, there are way to many women who have been abused who go back to their man because they have been so emontionally and physically damaged. That being said I do think Mel is crazy but I also do believe this lady is playing the situation up to get media attention and money.
Hopefully I am wrong, but if not she is one of those women I would like to smack. If she is faking an abusive relationship I hope women who have been in one give her a talking to, it isn't a joke.
You obviously don't understand abused partner syndrome…if you visit any shelter for abused women you will hear the same stories over and over. After these monsters get you to "fall for them" they play serious mind games with you. After their violence comes the sweet, repentful man they knew before. They have a way of making you feel like you might have provoked it and they come to you for comfort. It's a crazy cycle that these abused women get sucked into. It isn't easy to understand, and I only got it after witnessing a friend of mine go thru something very similar to Oksana. Hearing all the evidence she's come forward with I truly believe her. These monsters seek out weaker, maternal women to prey on. Hence, that's why she kept going back and consoling him. Until you understand what abused women go thru with the mind games these men play on them don't jump to conclusions.
The fact that she sent this so long after the alleged abuse means she really meant it , I think. On one hand I can understand the abuse victim mentality this email could exhibit. On the other hand (much more likely) she is a golf digging liar and and manipulator, extortionist - with very very bad grammar and spelling skill. And too much plastic surgery. Mel has won this PR war and congrats Oksana, you have just made things worse for all the real victims of abuse out there. Whatever the case, Mel and Oksana are two messed up people.
Also - Perez: No text message is ever truly gone even if you you delete it. If Law Enforcement gets your cell phone, or even knows your number - they can see every text you ever sent or received. Same with email. There is no deleting completely your electronic communications. Well, there are ways to keep them private, but much too geeky to get into here.
It's not unusual for a battered woman to show affection to her abuser after the fact. It takes a while before you actually realize what happened.
If you know nothing about then shut your fucking mouth.
For those who slam her grammar … well english isn't her native language , how many of you speak and write in a language other than your native ?
torcher?…like a torch. idiot.
anyone who types like that deserves to get the shit beaten out of them. "torcher"? oh god, curbstomp that moron.
Surprise?
I always said she was a home wreking lying skank who was out for money!
Shes not afraid of reprisals. Theres a court order separating the two. Sounds to me like maybe he wasnt the monster she portrayed him to be. And lets face it, with that face, it must be hard to find fresh meal tickets. This helps her at least look nice on the inside.
I've said all along, that she is a GOLD Digger and that this is all BULL.
There is zero evidence that she was beaten. People who hate Mel Gibson were too quick to believe her. She played you all for fools.
I think that email bolsters her claim of being abused. If you've never been in an abusive situation, you wouldn't understand. Her behavior sounds normal for an abused woman.
Poor Perez the last one to know—–she is after his money–and always has been
to all the people commenting here that this shows that oksana was in a cycle of domestic abuse, and she was only trying to placate her abuser becoz she was in fear for her life, if that's the case then why is she still living in mel gibson's house? why is she still chasing after him, trying to get as much money as she can from him if she truly feared him? wouldn't a woman who was terrified of her abuser try to stay away from him as much as possible, instead of trying to do everything she can to provoke him more? and btw, if this woman was truly abused like you all say she is, then how come she's more concerned about her image to the public than what mel may do to her after all she's done to smear him?
wow someone that writes worse than desperez
and btw, how can oksana be a victim of battered woman syndrome when she never did live with mel gibson and she knew well enough to tape him during his rants, but never did bother sending it to the police even though she claims she was in fear for herself and her daughter's life. instead she hired a business lawyer and negotiated a settlement with gibson for 15 million dollars, which she backed away from when she felt that the money being offered was not enough. so instead of letting the courts handle it, she goes about and leaks the tapes to the public. is this typical of what a victim of abuse does? is it typical of a woman in fear of her life to taunt her abuser when she was recording him?
I've had enough!!
Perez, this is close to slander, you really need to stop on this, report it fine, have your say? Not so fine.
WE clearly have no idea what's going on. It could be that he's snapped it and did beat her - though, what evidence? Fake pictures?
Angry recorded phone calls, which could be true, or… they could be someone else - it's easy to mimic someones voice.
Mel is clearly keeping a low light on the situation - but who wouldn't? Each and every day new things come out about this stupid cow… Didn't anyone teach her to not lie… especially on this grand of a scale? It's too hard to keep your story straight and we can all see the truth coming.
That's no appeasing that's out right "sucka im takin yo money and running, but i'll still let our daughter know the real you"
Sickening.
Bad relationships go back and forth like this; especially when they're not succeeding. It's the dance of relationship death. Nasty things are said, people are sorry, more nasty things are said, someone cries, people are again sorry, nothing changes, and so it goes until it's done. This is par for the course when two people push the wrong buttons and want it to work, but it never will due to differences set in stone.
You dont have to like her but to b surprised and even hint that she has made everthing up is pretty sick. Victims of abuse will say often sweet talk thier abuses..I can't believe you would turn it against her. And hello English is her second language and if you are in a state then yr grammar wouldn't b the best would it.
You should never make a victim out to be the abuser it is WRONG
Re: NZWatt! –
nzwatt, she sure wasn't sweet talking mel gibson when she was recording him. did u hear how she was taunting him on the tapes? how weird is that, a woman who suffers from battered woman syndrome telling her abuser he was going to pay, and telling her abuser that he was in the wrong for abusing her, yet in the email she tells him he did nothing wrong to be so hard on himself. i didn't know women who are in fear of their abusers would be so inconsistent in how they treat their abusers, i always thought they ALWAYS sweet talk the abuser so they don't get riled up. and for an abused woman, she sure seems to be more obsessed with her pr, rather than what mel would do to her, especially since she's still living at his place.
What's the problem Perez?? Just finding out what we've all been saying from the beginning. That this bitch is nothing more than a lying conniving gutter whore gold-digging famefucker. As usual, you totally backed the wrong horse. Moron.
I knew she was a liar and always thought Mel was the honest one. I LOVE MEL!