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Maybe Xtina Isn't Dating Her Burlesque Assistant

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Her former set assistant's mother sure doesn't think that is the case.

Sources have contacted Kathleen Rutler, who is the mother of Matthew Rutler, who is the alleged lover of divorcee Christina Aguilera to get some confirmation on their supposed romantic relationship.

Yeah, not so much.

Kathleen told sources that as far as she knows, her son and Xtina are "absolutely not dating" and are just "friends." She admits that her son has told her that "Christina needs a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen to her problems," and that is exactly what he's doing for her, nothing more. Kathleen added:

"He is a wonderful son and a very loyal person, who hates seeing anyone upset. There is no doubt he enjoys Christina's company, as a friend! That is what she wants right now, a friend. Matthew has told me she really finds it hard to find anyone genuine to listen to her. Despite what it may seem like, she is finding this split very tough."

Then it's good that Christina has him.

We're still not convinced that she couldn't also be leaning on him for OTHER needs. A grown son doesn't have tell his mother everything!

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16 comments to “Maybe Xtina Isn't Dating Her Burlesque Assistant”



  1. 1

    well we all know why she got the divorce then.. can't imagine someone that hurt after a break up or a divorce would be dating someone already.. shouldn't of gotten married if you weren't ready and you really didn't mean "till death do you part"…..



  2. 2

    Who knows? The guy may be gay and his Mom doesn't know it. Christina may feel comfortable because he is gay and can confide in him. Anything is possible



  3. 3

    OH MY GOD people r so gullible. People..from now on ANY guy Xtina is even SEEN with the media is going to spin it to make it as if she's dating him.
    It's all for the rumors and money. So many ppl on this site rele love 2 judge and call a woman who was with her man for 8 yrs a slut wen they have NO idea wat even happened. Some of u ppl really just LOVE 2 hate this woman….sum of the comments r just so immature, hateful, mean, catty, bitter, etc.
    Like how do u guys know that this dude isn't gay? how u dont know anythng about the situation so be4 the XTINA HATEFEST begins why dont some of u grow up.



  4. 4

    NO MATTER WHAT SHE IS FUCKING HOT!!!!!! BREAKING NEWS BREAKING NEWS BREAKING NEWS>> THE 48.000.000 ALBUMS SOLD,5 TIME GRAMY AWARD WINNER ::XTINA:: IS ALREADY WORKING ON HER 5TH STUDIO ALBUM. WITH PRODUCERS LIKE PRINCE STUART, DAVID GUETTA, JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE, THE NEPTUNES & DR. LUKE . IT WILL BE AGULERAS BIGGES COMEBACK, AND EXPECTING TO HIT THE STORES IN THE SUMMER OF 2011.



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    Re: Gagalo0 – jeez get over yourself .. idk if you were talking to me.. but i guess you were since my comment was kind of negative.. not everyone has to agree with you.. and what i said wasn't even that bad.. but you know it's true.. if your not ready to stay together forever.. then you shouldn't get married.. people are entitled to their own opinions.. if you don't like it.. going to a gossip site isn't really smart…



  6. 6

    She looks so pretty without all that red lipstick :)

  7. IVIV says – reply to this


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    Re: jennycakes – I dont think Gagalo0 was referring to you personally, this site has had a lot of Xtina hate because of Perez's hate campaign he launched against her & Gagalo0 is just 1 of the people who came to stick up for Xtina. & like you said, everyone has an opinion & your opinion of marriage obviously isn't the same as Xtina or a lot of other people. & yes this is a gossip site which is why some people signed up here, to refute some of the false posts or to agree with others, if someone says something that isn't true people are going to speak out against it, that's just normal



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    Re: jennycakes – its easy to say that you'll stick it out ’till death'..but no one knows what the future holds, and at the time things may be great and going just fine and you can honestly think you'll make it. but anything can happen. she easily could have been ready. there were together for 8 years..and married for 5. alot can change in that time..there not gunna be the same people that they were at 25.



  9. 9

    Re: IVIV – well i can appreciate that, thank you for being mature



  10. 10

    im happy for her!! friend or lover hes good to have!

  11. IVIV says – reply to this


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    Re: jennycakes – of course & you're welcome! and xoxo_anonymous I agree with you, not only can't we predict the future but our lives are different than Xtina's & other celebrities, she did the best she could at the time. there's a lot more involved in what you experience & the type of people in your life, many different factors in their lives than in ours what we do or how we handle things is very different than they, our every decision isn't at risk for being mocked or ridiculed by the world. we are very quick to judge. The reason I liked Xtina in the first place was cause she is very relateable, I find it sad if she gains a few lbs, goes out without makeup, the wolves come out & tear her to shreds but when she does normal things like that, goes out with a few extra lbs & no makeup I think "good for her" & we all can relate to that, & then people preach about how we should stop holding ourselves to these high standards of being sickly thin like celebs & they need to stop photoshopping in mags etc, then a celeb shows shes comfortable with herself & we the people shred her, very hypocritical & sad.



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    Re: jennycakes – i was actually responding in the Xtina post be4 this one..i guess the login took me to this page and i wasnt payin attention..go to the last post about her and read the comments then tell me 2 get over myself! lol all im tryin 2 do is call ppl out 4 being so cruel towards her.
    Re: IVIV – agreed! u always make such good points! =)



  13. 13

    she's a disgusting whore
    who cares about her?
    she's nothing



  14. 14

    REALLY?????? This is so dumb. You use your support system of family and girlfriends to help you through a divorce, not a new man.



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    Re: kimmygirl – thats not always true, theres been a few times that someone outside my circle had a stronger shoulder to learn on



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    lean*