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Jwoww Admits Her Ex Was Abusive

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If you haven't watched last night's Jersey Shore, let us warn you - it's heartbreaking. The bulk of the episode is focused on Jwoww's tortuous breakup with longtime BF Tom and to be honest, we had no idea how bad of a person he was until we saw it for ourselves.

After the show was over, Jwoww and her bestie Snooki made an appearance on the after show and talked about the split a bit more. In a gut wrenching confession, Jenni reveals that not only was Tom emotionally abusive, but physically as well.

We know Jen and while she comes off as a tough cookie, she is nothing if not the sweetest girl ever. She doesn't deserve this. (Nor does anyone really.)

Check out the clip (above) to hear Jwoww explain her situation in her own words.

The past is behind you, girl. You have a bright, happy future ahead of you, totally detached from this guy. Forget all about him. He's not worth a millisecond of your time.

62 comments to “Jwoww Admits Her Ex Was Abusive”



  1. 1

    WHO GIVES A FUCK?!?!?!?!?!? And then you are shocked 2nd graders are giving each other bjs?!?!?! Look at the shit you are promoting on a daily basis? Grow up Perez!!!



  2. 2

    i hate jersey shore and everyone in it. but that did put tears in my eyes. i know what its like to be in a realationship like that and it is horrible.



  3. 3

    This is rich coming from a girl who goes out and gets drunk beats and abuses
    total strangers. It's called Karma…. you attract the kind of people that you
    behave like. It's no coincidence this abuse story is coming out the same time
    the jerk is going around trying to sell nude pictures of her…



  4. 4

    i completely empethise with her (despite having no idea who she is). i spent 4 yrs in hell with a violent bully, and nobody believed me when i said what he was like…he never bruised in obvious places and mental abuse is hard for people to grasp. i say WELL DONE! im so glad she came out and told the truth, maybe she'll help others get out of that hell. bullies are v carismatic and hoodwink everybody. i lost a lot of friends when i left him, they refused to believe me. hope she can move on, become a stronger person for it and never get into that situation again. good luck girl xxx



  5. 5

    YAAAWN, OF COURSE WE DONT GET TOM'S SIDE OF THE STORY… JUST CUZ JWOWW HAS ACCESS TO MTV CAMERAS DOESNT MEAN SHE'S TELLING THE TRUTH. WE KNOW THAT FROM THE ASS SHAT CELEBS WHO GO IN THE MEDIA TO RAT THEIR EX'S OUT WHEN THEY KNOW FULL WELL IT'S A LIE OR EXAGGERATED TRUTH. CAN WE SAY OKSANA, MEL, OR LINDSAY?? NEXT.



  6. 6

    Karma is a bitch! I hope she moves on to bigger and better dicks! I mean men :D



  7. 7

    This tiny ugly dude knew he was WAY out of his league dating someone like her and had to try and control her anyway he could…even with physical force. I wonder if that tough guy would try that stuff with a guy…of course not! He and every guy like him will only ever abuse a girl like that and unfortunately some girls like her sit there and take it bc of their poor self esteem. That guy will never find true love but this girl finally looks like she has some self esteem and can stop fighting battles with violence…

  8. Blunt says – reply to this


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    oh whatever, she's looking for a pitty pass



  9. 9

    if i was her boyfriend id smack the shit out of her twice a day every day for being such a dumb worthless whore



  10. 10

    thats fucking awful :(
    that broke my heart



  11. 11

    I feel so sorry for her. No one deserves abuse like this



  12. 12

    what did she do to her face? lay off the botox girl ur too young



  13. 13

    we dont know the side of his story but i can tell she is telling the truth because i have been through that and i can see it in her eyes and hear it in her voice that he really treated her like that. she may be an unclassy famewhore but i feel bad for her on that part.



  14. 14

    NOBODY deserves what she went through. I don't care how famous or unknown you are that IS despicable.



  15. 15

    i lived with an abusive husband for a year and the two worst things are when people dont know or believe you and when girls lie about being abused for sympathy and make a true sufferer's case less believable. if this really DID happen im so sorry it happened no one deserves to be treated like that and am so glad she got out of the bad situation. if it DIDN'T happen i hope she burns in hell. it's bad enough trying to prove the bruises are from a moment of violence and terror, we don't need women saying "oh yeah he was so mean, he beat me" and making it harder for us who have been afraid to sleep at home to get someone to step in or believe us.



  16. 16

    WHATS UP WITH THE LIPPS? SHES STARTING TO LOOK LIKE A CAT



  17. 17

    Who cares She deserves she's a skank drunk whore anyways. Don't compare her so called abuse to the real women who are treated badly. No one deserves remarks please she should get in line with Oksana bunch of fame whores they deserve it even more. Punch her in the face someone please



  18. 18

    How sad. Why couldn't Sammi go through this? LMAO. Anyway no one deserves to be abused.



  19. 19

    Poor JWOW. I could totally tell he was like that based off his phone calls. He was looney! I'm glad she's away from him and I'm glad her dogs are ok. I love Jen. She's my favorite on the show. You do you, girl!



  20. 20

    For those of you that say "we don't know his side", well the cameras don't lie. We SAW that he did steal her things and trashed her place and threatened her dogs. WE SAW ALL THAT ON THE SHOW!!! What more do you need to see??? And those calling her a violent bitch and other worst things - She's NOT violent, she defends her own. There's a difference. If someone's threatening to beat you up or whatever, what is she suppose to do? Of course she's gonna defend herself. We don't see her running around beating people up. STFU



  21. 21

    she's a good girl and doesn't ever deserve this crap. i hope Tom falls and breaks his neck.



  22. 22

    Is this actually true? Why are u so quick to believe her?



  23. 23

    If she was my GF, I'd beat her too!! She's such a fucking skeevy, phony! WTF happened to her attitude on the show intro, "After I have sex w/a guy, I rip his head off!" WTF is THAT about???? That new guy seems waaayyyy too nice and classy for her…unless he's using her for the 'exposure'. In which case, you go boy!!!

  24. NH603 says – reply to this


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    no one deserves to go through this and it's awful some people, girls definitely included, are saying that she deserved it. Violence and controlling behavior are never any ones fault except for the person who is committing the violence. I've been through an emotionally and at times physically abusive relationship and it's something you wouldn't wish on anyone. I hope she comes out a stronger person because she's got the whole world at her hands to help her out.



  25. 25

    that punkass tom needs the grenade whistle blown on his ass



  26. 26

    gosh how about you guys shut up. no matter who you are, you dont deserve to be beat. stolen from. or talked to like you are trash. Jenni is the least sluttiest girl on jersey shore and if you watched it you would know that. he stole her watch that he neither bought nor gave her. he stole her hard drive with pictures of her and her ill mother. but thats okay right? no. its rediculous and the last thing she needs is people called her sluts on the internet. get a life alright? k thanks bye.



  27. 27

    i feel so bad for her but at the same time who knows what jenni did to him? she does hit other ppl, so she could have been hurting him as well. if her story is true, my heart goes out to her, but at the same time this is the girl that went on a date twice and kissed an ex and forgot about her bfs anniversary only to get home the same day and be shocked he broke up with her and say: "I DID NOTHING WRONG."



  28. 28

    for those of you who are doubtful you must not have seen how he lefter her dogs alone, locked in the house for 2 days and he locked HER out so she couldn't get to them. (i'm not even an animal person but thats awful. who tf does that) you also must not have seen that he stole the watch she got for graduation (a gift that had nothing to do with him that he did just to hurt her) AND he destroyed the hard drive with her family photos on it. even if he wasn't physically abusive all the time (which i don't think he was) there was something wrong with him and he treated her terribly. so for all of you who say she "deserves" it and "who cares" you are just as bad as him and hopefully you won't have to go through the same things.



  29. 29

    Glad she's away from him, she can do much better!



  30. 30

    I don't understand how she's a "skank ass whore." They never showed her hooking up with any guys & she had a good job before the show.



  31. 31

    No one deserves that but she is VERY lucky to be able to get away from it. Not many do.



  32. 32

    Wow, that guy is evil. Too bad we don't know his last name.



  33. 33

    If it's true I feel really, really bad for her. The only reason I give pause and question is because most reality shows are edited..I mean we didn't actually SEE him trash the place, they just showed us the place trashed. She seemed genuinly upset with real emotion, but you can never be sure with reality shows.



  34. 34

    Jpoww is as fake as those cow bags she bought. 1st season she punched the hell out of the situation; 2nd season she beat sammi and bullied angelina; this season she has already beat sammi again. i can't imagine her being abused by anyone.



  35. 35

    doesnt fuckng matter . 1st she didnt beat up or bullie anyone the fight was a two way street! 2nd of all no person deserves this! 3rd of all you guys can all go to hell saying that she deserves it because she doesnt . SUCK MY DICK ALL OF YOU WHO SAY THAT …love you jWOWW



  36. 36

    It's so damn hypocritical of her to go on Sammie for staying with Ronnie. Ronnie doesn't beat Sammie and he's not as much of a dick as Tom. JWoww was with a dickhead like Tom for waaaay longer than Sammie was with Ronnie. For her to say Sammie is a weak bitch is the pot calling the kettle black because she's just as bad as Sammie if not worse. Next time JWoww wants to go and give relationship advice, she needs to make sure she's in a good one. Like Ronnie said she's a Hypocritical Bitch.



  37. 37

    as someone who was in 2 incredibly abusive relationships i can totally empathize with her. i hate that people think it is so easy to leave an abuser, or that the experience doesn't change you for the worse and leave you feeling like you aren't worth anything. jenni is an intelligent woman and she is living a persona out on the t.v. for a few months out of the year; to assume you know anything else about how is a downright shame. i feel horrible that she lost all of her childhood memories. that fuck-face obviously wanted to hurt her and he knew exactly how to do it. i hope she finds the help she needs to recover from falling for assholes, because women who have been abused often keep going back to men who abuse them.



  38. 38

    he was lucky to have even been within earshot of her. onward and upward girl!!

  39. open says – reply to this


    39

    I have a friend who just broke up with a very controlling, obsessive boyfriend after three years… and it's not a little jealousy.. these people get into your heart and then into your mind and gain control over your entire life until you don't even realize you are being controlled.. and when you figure it out and try to change it or leave, they then become physically abusive. it's such a hard thing to get out of and over and can really destroy a person.. when they showed her BF there on the last episode and he got SO pissed right off the bat and walked out on her, i though.. omg, he's just like my friends BF.. I am glad she's done with him.



  40. 40

    Re: ilovejames – "out of his league"? LOL



  41. 41

    OH PLEASE!!!!!!!

    All she wants is pity. She was giving Sammi such a hard time for going back with Ronnie but yet she stayed with Tom even when he was hitting her and being verbally abusive. What a stupid ass broad. Big time hypocrite !!



  42. 42

    this poor girl. she really settled down for him and he seems like a complete asshole. i know what its like to be in that spot and it's awful. glad she's finally done with him though, kudos to her for not being afraid to talk about it either



  43. 43

    Too messed up… He even took her money, and he left her dogs alone for two days! Wtf!! I would of called the cops to get all my shit back that he stole. I Love Jwoww shes laid back and fun, and did not at all deserve this. Plus chick is making bank where as Tom ugly ass isn't. She is was too pretty and famous for him and thats why he took it out on her.



  44. 44

    Re: Chasenip – It seems to me that you know nothing about class judging by your photo.



  45. 45

    yeah right Jenn. Funny how she lets all this out now, after he humiliated her and is trying to sell her skanky pics. Trying to get even huh Jenn? I don't believe her.She is as fake as her nasty hair and bolt on tits.



  46. 46

    as much as i hate jersey shore, no girl deserves this….ever. my prayers go out to her so she can get strong in a healthy way.



  47. 47

    this is only half the story.. clearly their only gonna show what makes jwoww look good.. tom's a good guy and always has been jWowws an effing lying bitch whose lucky MTV portrays her as the "victim"



  48. 48

    she is lieing her ass off because he left her slut ass.

    she leaves him to do a tv show and expects him to love her all the time and beg for her love while she is out trying to find new guys to fuck.

    he should have taken everthing not just a few things he bankrolled.
    he should have sent the dogs out for adoption she. abandomed them with him.

    she is a fake give me attention whore

  49. open says – reply to this


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    Re: FayeRiffic – NO.. she was giving sammi the B a hard time because sammi begged her and snookie to tell her about ronnie and his actions and when they did, she turned on THEM and not ronnie.



  50. 50

    oh, shut up bow-wow……..just hit him in the head with your rock-hard fake tits and knock him out cold !



  51. 51

    she is such a fucking hypocrite after all the shit she talks about sammi she had the same kind of situation if not worse ? what a dumb bitch . I dnt feel sorry for her at all . KARMA is a BITCH .



  52. 52

    i don't feel sorry for her because she was so quick to get on sammy's case about staying with a man that's cheating on her but yet her dumbass stayed with a man that was emotionally and physically abusive to her like get otta here with that now j-woww your the dumb bitch



  53. 53

    She is one of those girls that beats her man all the time, and the one occasion he defends himself and tries to protect himself from being abused, she cries abuse!

    She is a very, very violent person and only a moron would beleive that it was him initiating. Can't wait for her to get in trouble for her abusing people when she gets angry.



  54. 54

    IF YOU BELIEVE THIS, HAVE YOUSELF CHECKED FOR MENTAL REDARDATION…she has a clear propensity for violence. What she calls abuse is him holding her hands down to stop the punches, or doing anything to protect himself and stop her from abusing him.

    Be her fan, if you must, but don't be a fool.



  55. 55

    Please!! JWOW always gets in fights and she looks pretty strong. How do you know she didn't hit the boyfriend? They were probably BOTH abusive to each other. She shouldn't air her personal business on TV anyway. NOT fond of her at all!! When she attack my little Kim Kardashian I knew Jwow was a jealous, competitive beeyotch!



  56. 56

    for people saying that she's a hypocrite for criticizing sammi/ronnie relationship: I was in an abusive marriage and you put on a mask and pretend everything's fine and try to hold on to some part of yourself while your S.O. is beating you down and tearing you apart. She was in the wrong for judging others; however, you don't know what it's like to be in a relationship like that and not be able to leave. The manipulation and control —- ya'll are assholes.



  57. 57

    Anyone that said she's doing this for fame is a FUCKNUT. YOU have no right to assume that, YOU have probably never been in that situation (nor would I wish it upon you). No, we don't have Tom's side of the story, but people that understand what she's going through obviously believe her. RELATIONSHIP ABUSE IS A TERRIBLE THING.

  58. lolli says – reply to this


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    mind control is a son of a bitch… you can be the strongest bitch but when someone starts poisoning your mind and has a grip on you they can really destroy you. TOM IS AN EPIC DOUCHE! She should press charges he stole her property you dumb hamster! lol



  59. 59

    JWoww - stay strong, girl. Tom will get his.
    To the haters - stop watching the show and stop being mean to Perez for posting these stories. Keep the negativity to yourselves, please.



  60. 60

    I found it hard to sympathize with whatever she was going through with Tom on that EPI when she was basically sneaking around behind the guy's back with her ex. JS.
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    But watching that vid of her talking about it you can see even though she has a tough exterior she was emotionally affected by it. And even with Sammi, I think the reason she would never take her apology wasn't because she was angry it was because she was hurt by how Sammi treated her. But I'm glad she's out of that relationship and into a better one. No one should have to go through that.



  61. 61

    I'm sorry but I don't feel too bad for her.

    Did you all not see the way she cheated on Tom and treated him like complete garbage on the show? & that was on TV! God knows what was happening behind the scenes. Of course he was concerned she would cheat again, dress slutty and perhaps get involved in a bad situation.. He loved her and didn't want her to screw up again or get hurt! What is wrong with you people!??

    There are two sides to every story and it's a shame, Perez, that you don't get a statement from Tom before you allow this girl to bash his name.

    Disappointing.



  62. 62

    Also, before we all jump to conclusions and decide that she IS telling the truth and tom ACTUALLY was the one who locked the dogs in the house, let's think for a minute. How do you know he did that? How do you know he took anything??! We don't. All we hear his her side.

    Again, 2 sides to every story. I actually feel kind of sorry for this guy who doesn't have the opportunity to speak up for himself.