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Shocking Deets In J.Lo's Divorce: Cheating, Low Self-Esteem, And Emailing Ben Affleck!

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Among the many problems they faced as a married couple, we're now learning that cheating was one of them - on HIS side!

According to numerous sources, Marc Anthony cheated on his wife with a stewardess back in 2009!

The trial of discovery almost shook Jennifer Lopez to divorce him then, but he begged and pleaded for her to stay. She truly loved him, so they went to marriage counseling and moved forward.

Unfortunately, despite her regaining trust in him, he never fully trusted her. If she was around anyone who was mildly attractive, he would linger and watch over her.

Not only that, but he took advantage of her insecurities. J.Lo may have a diva persona in public, but behind closed doors she has incredibly low self-esteem.

He really played into them, and that's why she endured the emotional abuse for as long as she did. She never felt strong enough to be without him.

So what's a gal to do when she's had enough? Why, get her mom to email her ex-fiance of course!

Guadalupe Lopez seeked out Ben Affleck's help. Always being a fan of his, she knew she could trust his advice.

Ben quickly replied wishing her the best and offering all he could.

Three days later, the divorce bomb dropped.

WOW! What an ordeal. We're so glad she was able to get out of that hot mess!

Nobody deserves to suffer through that kind of abuse. No-bo-dy.

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56 comments to “Shocking Deets In J.Lo's Divorce: Cheating, Low Self-Esteem, And Emailing Ben Affleck!”

  1. 1

    I have no idea how he scored Daynara (twice) and then Jenny . . . He truly is ugly. Not that that always matters, but it does when you are an a$$hole.

  2. 2

    Seeked out? You mean SOUGHT out, idiot. You've mentioned in a couple posts that you went to college; if I ran the institution you attended, I'd never admit that you were a student there because your language skills are so awful. You are an embarrassment to your school. As for the claims of Lopez being a "victim" of Marc Anthony, I think it's bullshit. This is speculative spin, pure and simple, not unlike the spin Halle Berry tried on her daughter's father. The fact is that we don't know what went on, who the bad guy was (if there was one at all), and the dynamics of their relationship. And you know what? I don't want to know. Neither individual is relevant to me.

  3. 3

    What would you do without the other gossip sites and magazines as your sources? You certainly don't do any fact-finding on your own. You're no different than your readers.

  4. 4

    These so called sources mean nothing. No-one except the couple knows what goes on behind closed doors - they may confide in those closest to them, but people like JLo have been around long enough to know who to trust. They would not confide in someone who will spill the beans. These sources are really just speculation and guessing.

  5. 5

    That cover makes it look like she is blaming him for the divorce but it is just a bunch of garbage rumors. I think she was just too much for him.

  6. 6

    it terrible that this still happens to people. but good on her for going public with it. she probably save someone else :)

  7. 7

    ”seeked advice” perez, please hire a new editor.

  8. 8

    Re: Hairplugs for Hilton – If you dislike Perez so much and this site, why are you on it???

  9. 9

    I think it is VERY weird that it all comes out just NOW. We all now in Hollywood as soon as there is new gossip and new rumors, it immediately comes out! With every little thing that happens! So it is obviously not true and nobody knew shit about it, otherwise we had heard from it a long time ago!

  10. 10

    This is all hearsay at this point. The only two people that know the facts are J-Lo and Marc, and I highly doubt they are going to start talking about it anytime soon, so why even bother listening to this bullshit that could very well be totally fabricated and far from the truth?

  11. 11

    They are both assholes.

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  14. 14

    Whatever the reason for their divorce, it's still sad. I wish them both happiness. Just please be civil for the sake of those beautiful twins.

  15. 15

    And on topic…. I think J Lo's light shone fairly brightly on Marc… maybe a little too bright in the US. for his ego. Read between the lines of his American Idol stint, and performance with her Hoochie mama support (which I was impressed with). I would not be surprised to hear that he operates like this, but I am also not going to believe that poor J Lo is some victim. She is not a pauper, and is the controlling mother of two children, doesn't look like he physically beat her - and she wasn't sequestered in her house 24/7 like a lot of home bound emotionally abused women. This is just a way to pump up the drama, which benefits them both - and as was already reported, they are professionally committed to one another. So Readers Digest Version - Bullshit, not buying it or that rag mag.

  16. 16

    I doubt that any of that stuff is completely true.

  17. lolli says – reply to this


    this is absolutely LUDICROUS! LOL Wow what a 'story'

  18. 18

    Better leave Ben and Jennifer Garner out of this mess. They have a young family.

  19. 19


    Anyway, the same way you get a guy is the same way he will leave you. Karma came back to bite her in the ass. That's what you get JHO. Maybe you won't have affairs with married men anymore or all your relationships/marriages will fail. Evil bitch. Marc is a douche too can't believe he left his wife and kids for her. Both JLO and Marc are stupid conceited bitches.

  20. 20

    Re: POPSCIDICTATOR – Is that all you can talk about every time you comment on something? You need to seriously get laid you stupid slut.

  21. 21

    Re: Average Jane – Jennifer Garner is a boring cock cheese cleaner.

  22. 22

    Re: LE BAMBI LOU BOP SHE BOP – Yeah, you're right, I need to get laid. LMFAO!!

  23. 23

    Re: La Garse – I just did a Piggy Wiki search and it states that he earned his bachelors in Drama at New York University. So, he's just another drama queen and not worthy of our thoughts. He is a parasite and nothing is original about him. He is psychotic. His dual personas of Mario\Perez are most transparent to anyone who would step back to observe the over-all picture. He will have his fan base, much like $arah Palin has her bots. $arah wants celebrity and money, not the presidency. It's only her fans that think she will run, let alone win. Piggy wants celebrity and recognition and tries to achieve those things through a false veneer of "Gay Awareness", taking grifting to a low, low level ("…even one dollar will get you a chance to see Perez at his party….").
    I have begun limiting my posts and even how many times I log in during the week. Think if we all just picked any day of the week and didn't visit this site.

  24. 24

    I agree that we have no idea what went on and that right now anything might have happened, but I read someone say that if she'd been abused we would know. I would just like to say that not all domestic abuse is physical - a lot of it is emotional and that's the hardest kind to spot if you ask me. in my opinion, we wouldn't know if she was being abused if it was emotional, because it's not 'obvious'. Oh, and to those people who think it's embarrassing for perez to have been to college and not know 'sought ' - I go to a pretty good college in Scotland and to this day I still don't know the difference between a colon and a semi-colon or a noun and pronoun and I'm doing just fine with essays ;)

  25. 25

    so your sources are star magazine, people magazine and us weekly and other gossip websites wow perez some journalist you are your no different than the readers. you are also no journalists or reporter thats for sure.

  26. 26

    Re: La Garse – agreed but you know what i think that marc might've been emotional abusive but i doubt ben affleck played any part in this he has his own family to take care of and worry about. marc has done this shit before he is a douchebag and not even a sexy one at that to put up with his bullshit but jlo is no angel she has done some pretty fucked up shit too so its all karma getting back at them.

  27. 27

    Re: POPSCIDICTATOR – Your claims and constant comments on the male anatomy have lost the effect…you say it about ANY male…we know you are perverse, but come up with a new schtick already…geesh….So glad JLO got rid of this ugly man….I knew he had ugly husband syndrome…he felt inadequate and had to cheat to feel validated..and attractive….Jlo will be just fine…hope the kids will be too.

  28. 28

    Re: LE BAMBI LOU BOP SHE BOP – I can assure you POPSIDICTATOR is not a girl/woman….that is a dude…waaaaay too perverse to be anything BUT a dude…Just ignore his posts….

  29. 29

    I don't believe any of this crap. It is US weekly reporting this. They are only one step above the Enquirer.

  30. 30

    Re: sanfran1 – Lost their ”effect” so much that you commented on ME…TWICE!! Lmfao!!

  31. 31

    Wow… this is getting duuuuuurty…..

  32. @v@ says – reply to this


    Look, it takes two to tango and push each other's buttons. Demonizing Mark solely just isn't honest. Sometimes it works, and other times it doesn't. Moving apart with grace and privacy benefits the children AND the parents, but would leave your column threadbare.

  33. 33

    Jlo is a dirty filthy cow. How much can a guy take sex tapes and doing black dudes, ugly kids. You will have a great life Marc thank your luck stars

  34. 34

    how selfish on their part to drag Ben Affleck into this!
    he is a married family man who doesn't need dragged into this by email or phone call or anything else
    if she wants adice she should contact a lawyer and a spuchologista

  35. 35

    how selfish and inconsiderate on their part to drag Ben Affleck into this!
    he is a married family man who doesn't need dragged into this by email or phone call or anything else
    if she wants advice she should contact a lawyer and a pshchologist- not a former flame–

  36. 36

    Re: Average Jane
    RIGHT ON!!

  37. 37

    I'm sorry that the marriage is ending, but honestly, what did JLo expect? Marc had a history of cheating and being "mentally" abusive in the past. Why did she think she would be any different? Once a jerk, always a jerk. I hope that the kids come out of this ok.

  38. 38

    karma is bitch

    j lo is a home wrecker
    she stole him from his ex wife
    now he is cheating on her

  39. 39

    Re: McLunzie
    Anyway, the same way you get a guy is the same way he will leave you. Karma came back to bite her in the ass. That's what you get JHO. Maybe you won't have affairs with married men anymore or all your relationships/marriages will fail. Evil bitch. Marc is a douche too can't believe he left his wife and kids for her. Both JLO and Marc are stupid conceited bitches.

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  41. 41

    ……poor skeletor……

  42. 42

    sounds like someone wants to be the victim ….booo jho.boo to ur sad stories

  43. 43

    He seems like the type of guy that would call Jennifer fat and ugly. Just a shallow, petty man.

  44. auds says – reply to this


    UGH, first of all Marc is nasty & I don't know wtf she saw in him anyway. I'm so tired of hearing shit about these ugly dudes who cheat on their gorgeous wives. Secondly, J Lo needs to back the heck up off Ben Affleck! Leave him and his beautiful family alone!! EW!!

  45. 45

    Oh come on, J. Lo has a low Self-Esteem? I don't believe a bit. A woman who likes to show off her body means that she doesn't have a low Self-Esteem. Definitely, J. Lo still can't get Ben Affleck out of her mind. It seems to me that she loved B.A. more than she loved M.A. I still remember that when ever there was an event and they (J.L and B.A) were together, J. Lo looked so happy and so in love with B.A. At that time she was sooooo ready to get married with B.A. Good for B.A. he got another Jennifer who is so sweet and beautiful and doesn't like to show off her body. I don't know how is the reality, but to me M.A is too skinny and his face is just like somebody who use drug and has a hangover all the time.

  46. 46

    Of course he cheated that's how they got together,remember he had just renewed his vows with his ex Wife Dayanara (crying like a baby) then like a week later he announced his divorce and that he was rekindling his romance with J.Lo. Karma gets you every time.

  47. 47

    watch her star fall now …personally ive always liked marc anthony and found him sexy
    she seems set on regaining stardom even thou it faded long ago.she needs to wake up and smell the coffee .

  48. 48

    as i recall ben said something like being with her was like being eaten alive by a python something to that effect i guess all is forgiven.

  49. 49

    Denise Richards's baby girl is cute

  50. 50

    THIS IS BULLSHIT…her PR ppl, aka Benny Medina are in overdrive, trying to get her sympathy…she cheated with him and broke up his marriage so if its true KARMA is a bitch…this ho was probably cheating too…there is no way this ho has low self esteem..watch, she will release a statement denying all this, how wonderful Marc was blah blah even THOUGH SHE LEAKED IT…WHO CARES? SHESNOT ANGELINA..and shes going for that Camille Grammer sympathy ughhh

  51. 51

    I agree with Wendy Williams, it is for publicity!!!!

  52. 52

    JLo has NO problems with self esteem..soo obvious she adores herself. The problem is, she is a fame whore. Didn't like the "mommy" role @ home and wanted to be back in the spotlight. The problem with that is, she is not a good singer or a good actress. The IS a good dancer and that's what she should have stuck with. She was given the opportunity to do so much more due to…..her butt, basically. But, Kim K. came in and took that role, so now she's left to "reinvent" herself (new crappy album, American Idol) and now the whole "victim" of a bad marriage, so she had to divorce. I don't buy the bullshit!

  53. 53

    Jlo needs to hop off Ben's d*ck. He's a happily married family man!

    Jlo is NO angel! She's been married TWICE before. Come on, now! Get your sh*t together. Jlo is a real B*tch in person, not the sweet person she portrays on TV.

    Why divorce now, if you've been wanting to divorce since LAST year?! Anything for publicity.

  54. 54

    Re: McLunzie – Totally agree with you!!

    Jlo and Marc got married FOUR days after his divorce from Dayanara Torres and then left his kids to start a new family with JHo. They're both to blame and KARMA has definitely bit them in the @ss.

  55. 55

    Re: MizKari BABY – Agree. She's totally portraying herself as the "victim", but she's been with Marc before many years ago before they got married so she must have known what kind of person he was and decided to get married and have kids anyway. She'll do anything nowadays for attention, but regardless no one is really buying her sh*t. Her album is STILL FLOPPING and got NO nominations for VMAs for "On the Floor". That must have hurt her ego.

  56. 56

    J-Lo is undoubtedly pissed that Winehouse's death is stealing her thunder from her "devastating" marriage breakup and her "I'm a victim" bull crap publicity spin.