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34 comments to “Chilli And Jill Scott Debate Open Relationships On Twitter!”

  1. Bytch says – reply to this


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    Marriages may fail, but most relationships in GENERAL fail. Marriages don't fail because of monogamy!!! Open relationships are lame…it means "open" to nasty STD transfers, "open" to getting knocked up and left high and dry, "open" to someone else's selfishness. TEAM CHILLI!



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    Open relationships sound good in theory, but in reality, jealously almost always erodes the relationship, or, one of the partners will fall in love with someone else and it will end. I can see this working for a business arrangement type marriage, but not one based on real love.



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    Will and Jada do it really? I have never seen Jada that she wasn't giving a sermon about s/thing seems out of character( that she puts out there).



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    I side w Chilli…..If you want an open relationship why not just be single and do whoever you want?



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    i didnt know that will smith did that…



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    And think of all the std's going around. Ew gross. You can still get and pass HPV w a condom…….



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    Please say NO Jill, you are worth more than sharing yourself with more than one person in a serious relationship. I do agree with one of the comments below, today there is such a real possibility of STD's, etc. Your first priority is making sure you stay true to yourself, this is the example you want to set for your son! Remember, 35 years, one husband, 2 sons, 2 daughter-in-laws and 2 grandsons :-)



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    Do Will and Jada really do this?? I am surprised. I have never heard that. I thought they were very into each other



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    I am equally surpised about Will and Jada. My husband and I have been married 12 years, 3 kids and I don't think we would even have the energy to hook up with somebody else. To me an open marriage means that you are still looking for someone better. I have found what I need and don't want to look anywhere else. I am not jealous in general and never had to think about an open marriage, but I would wonder what my partner is looking for he cannot find in me.



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    I agree with Chili. A marriage is two commited people, not several uncommited people dating.



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    Re: xoblondeisbestxo
    I didn't either!! Does PH have his facts straight on this one?



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    Will and Jada Smith DO NOT do this and neither did Rebecca and John Stamos — he was out with someone other than his wife ONCE and this rumour started. Grab a brain folks and remember who's website you're on here! Perez gets 99% of everything WRONG!



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    Though Perez and the truth are rarely friends I have been reading ome quotes and it seems Will and Jada do have an open marriage w/ permission(Jada"s OK). YUK anyway…Why get married?
    "Will: Ask your wife before you cheat on her."



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    HELL NO!!! Im with Chilli…if you really love the one you with…just get freaky and kinky with that one person but don't go doing it behind the others back…or bring in a playmate wink wink cheating sucks!!



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    While I know it's not for me at all and I want monogamy when I get married…I have to say to each his own. As long as both people agree to it and it works for them and they're both being safe, I don't see why it's anyone else's business. Different people look for different things out of marriage and if all they want is a stable place to build a family while going out and sleeping with other people and the other person wants the same I don't see any harm in it. It beats the alternative of cheating.



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    Part of marriage is self control. Sleeping with other people may fulfill sexual desires but the mess it creates causes far more damage than good. We as ADULTS must learn to not do some things even though our private parts tell us to.



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    An open relationship should mean not being married in the first place. WHY get married if you want more and more from others??



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    Jada Pinket is Bi-sexual and has been for years…as for Mr Smith…I can't imagine who he would do, other than Tom Cruise>.:0But Mr Cruise will sue Perez's ass of if he even thinks about writing that one…:(



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    John and Rebecca have stated MULTIPLE times that they DID NOT have an open marriage!! That was just a joke between John and Howard! Try googling something before you post about it!!



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    Gross, and how do you know Will and Jada do it? There was a rumor a long time ago that they did but they said it was false.

    This shit is unhealthy for you both and your marriage/relationship. Nobody wins in the end, if you aren't hurt by your partner cheating than you really don't love them, open or not it's still cheating.



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    Folks, Will and Jada DEFINITELY have an open marriage. Perez has his facts right on this one (for once!). Ive known that Will and Jada have an open marriage for years. Jada has even publicly spoken about it.



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    [re=5826616]Re: chloenickolson[/re With WIll and Jada, is it a marriage or a business arrangement?



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    god these comments are so typical. americans are so provincial when it comes to sex.



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    I think ANY women would consider being an open relationship is just insecure and fears being alone.



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    Jil Scott speaks a lot of sense!! Do Will and Jada really have an open relationship? Just curious.



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    Re: AttFinch – agreed! And this is coming from an American!



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    Did you ever question the judeo-christian belief that monogomy is the only right way to live? Maybe you've been brainwashed by a judgemental, repressed, hypocritical society. I think if you want to be monogomous great, and if not just be honest about it and find someone who feels the way you do. I mean really why does what other people do in the privacy of their own bedroom, or kitchen, or car, you get the point, make most people feel so insecure? I predict the next big thing, after the gays have full equality, will be acceptance of polyamory as just as viable a life choice as monogomy, homosexuality or even celibacy. Live and Let live!



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    Monogamy is just my thing I guess. When I am in a relationship I'm happy in and want to stay in, That person is the only person I want to be with and I don't want to share them with someone else. If I'm not happy, if I want something else, I end that relationship. That is just me. If an open relationship works for some couples I guess to each their own, but I know myself, and I couldn't be truly happy in a situation like that.

  29. luvu2 says – reply to this


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    I remember I (very briefly) dated someone who turned out to be married(!!!) they acted like it was no big deal because the partner didnt care and also dated outside of the marriage. the whole situation completely creeped me out. Its creepy to me. cant articulate why I think this way, as usually I have an open mind about things but it creepes me out. it would take a flexible mind to wrap around that idea IMO. more power to those people that "dont care", live and let live and all that,just leave me the heck out of it(!!!)



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    NOPE NOPE NOPE, not for me. I'm selfish and will not tolerate my lover's tongue down another persons throat! Aint gonna happen LOL



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    If someone wants to have an open marriage then what is the fucking point of getting married in the first place?

    Both parties know their vows and they KNOW what marriage is. Thats why whenever some married famous person gets caught cheating and they get taken for millions I call them an idiot. If you want to screw everything in sight THEN DO NOT GET MARRIED. It's as simple as that. Marriage is completely voluntary, no one is holding a gun to ones head forcing them to get married and follow the vows of said marriage.

    If you even remotely think that you will not be able boinking just one girl or guy then DON'T GET MARRIED. Stupid 20 somethings is really starting to ruin marriage.



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    Re: AttFinch – Shut the fuck up. You're probably some judgemental foreign fuck who's in the filthy habit of generalizing all Americans. A few voiced their opinions about how they're not in favor of open relationships, so to you that all of a sudden makes all Americans "provincial". It's called having an opinion, freedom of speech, which we have a right to over here in AMERICA! Grow up, and get your mind out of the gutter. Prick.



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    Will & Jada are not in an open relationship, they are just allowed to fantasize (as everyone does anyway).



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    Re: AttFinch – Your comment is typical too. Insult the US..blah blah blah…and this debate is about relationships which here in the provincial US entails more than sex. Now that my country has been pulled into this argument - who's going to play the race card? Come on people - this is PerezHilton.com and we have to stick to the schedule!