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Military Man Tell His Father He's Gay

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This is so touching!

A young Alabama man serving the United States Military is currently stationed in Germany.

There, one of his pastimes is making YouTube videos. He's made a number of them dealing with DADT, and most recently, he filmed one of himself making a very special phone call.

He calls his father, who is sitting at home in Alabama around 7:45pm, and tells him he is gay.

The young man starts the conversation, "Will you love me? Like no matter what?"

Watch his video confessional above to see the reaction from his father and where it goes from there.

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64 comments to “Military Man Tell His Father He's Gay”



  1. 1

    What a hot piece, I'd let him fuck me.



  2. 2

    this is a sweet, and timely video. i really don't enjoy the comments posted above, they serve no purpose.



  3. 3

    Good for him, but I don't know how fair it was of him to tape his father. His father might have preferred that to be a private moment.



  4. 4

    I'm already getting emotional :')



  5. 5

    Re: Pretty Boys Are Forever – gawd, you'd fall for anything. don't u watch basketball wives?? lol



  6. 6

    Re: likewhocares
    You really think someone who pushes acceptance of gay people is trying to convert everyone into becoming gay? Really??



  7. 7

    Re: likewhocaresRe: buck – Ignorant idiots you are….so straights must also just want to "sniff" the buttocks of the opposite gender too then? And NO ONE is "cramming" anything…Simply reporting news….looks like you are one big phobe who reads a gay issue news feed and gets all defensive and uncomfortable…poor you. Get used to it hetero, cause gays are here to stay…



  8. 8

    Hate to break it to you kid, but your folks probably werent that surprised. Next time edit your video.



  9. 9

    Re: buck
    And what is the name of your mental disorder? Or do you just have a really low IQ?



  10. 10

    "I wanted to tell you in person but ….THIS WAY, ON YOUTUBE IS WAAAAY MORE EFFIN DRAMATIC, AND THATS WHAT MAKES ME GAY!"



  11. 11

    Re: POPSCIDICTATOR – Ha, I thought the same thing. He obviously made this video to become a gay star and to attract lots of hot menz to fuck when he gets home. Good for him I say, hot bitch!



  12. 12

    Re: buck
    Homesexuality is not a mental disorder, it was removed from the DSM IV years ago after people were more educated about it. What is the disorder that people like you and likcwhocares have? Those that are filled with hate, prejudice and anger. I call it ignorance and unfortunately that isnt in the DSM IV and there is no cure. And thats coming for a Mormon housewife in the great state of Utah. This is Perez's website, he can do as he pleases, if you dont like it, dont visit the site!

  13. Rohan says – reply to this


    13

    Great celebrity news!



  14. 14

    Wow. A lot of cynics on here today. Well, I'm straight and I thought it was really sweet. At the end of the day, we are all people. Why does someone's sexual orientation matter? As long as you aren't messing with kids, I really don't care. Good for this kid and his dad. It says a lot about society today. Ignore the idiots who like to post their nasty comments on here (which is just to get a reaction). Those people are few and far between these days.



  15. 15

    Maybe because I have never experienced it, but It's hard for me to believe that the parents of children/men who are gay, and come out well into adulthood- don't know, or didn't even suspect their child was gay. Perhaps because they were living in denial? It's just hard to believe that some parents never even had the slightest suspicion..



  16. 16

    Re: POPSCIDICTATOR – You are vile, as always….seriously, you are troubled.Re: TrannyTakesATumble – Ditto….again, you thinking gays are just doing something out of motivation for sex is just one ignorant stereotype that some people have about gays…..stop spreading your ignorance all over this site. Thank you.

  17. buck says – reply to this


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    Re: shaylee26 – nope, pretty much normal. i put my peenis where 98% of all males want to put their's



  18. 18

    If this video is real (and I hope it is) it is a testament to parental love that I would pray ever young person who comes out would receive from their parents. And no I am not a liberal, I was born and raised and continue to be a Christian and conservative Republican in the South. Don't believe the sterotypes - there are many of us who feel this way.



  19. 19

    I would suck him dry.



  20. 20

    Re: JOFAM74 – Well said. You give Mormans a good name. Thank you!

  21. d.f. says – reply to this


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    Re: JOFAM74 – sure it is.



  22. 22

    Re: la2la2 – Good for you. Thank you!



  23. 23

    Re: buck – All of your posts are anti gay. If Republicans have taught me anything its that the most outspoken on this issue usually are in the closet. Is there something you'd like to share with the class??



  24. 24

    Wow! My heart was in my mouth.
    What a great DAD!

  25. buck says – reply to this


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    Re: phoenixfreak92 – damn! outed on perezhilton.com



  26. 26

    Re: sanfran1 – and by ”vile” you mean spot-on 100% correct?? ;-) lolZ!!

  27. buck says – reply to this


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    Re: JOFAM74 – you are wrong..do a little research beyond what the progressives will have you believe. in many cases homosexuality has actually be cured through therapy and counciling but liberals don't want you to know this.



  28. 28

    Re: JOFAM74 – ROFL. That is the biggest load of bullshit that has ever been spewed..We're animals..Animals only have one purpose in life. That is to reproduce. If someone is born being attracted to the same sex they cannot reproduce. The majority of people are straight. Being gay is a mental disorder considering science nor nature intended people to be that way. We do not understand how it works rather its a chemical imbalance in the brain or faulty wiring. But sitting there saying its not a genetic disorder is completely idiotic. I do love how gays one and only comeback is "you're so ignorant" but yet you cannot accept that you're basically a genetic screw up. Oh the irony.



  29. 29

    Re: nolachick – Well said.



  30. 30

    Underwhelming. This has happened more times in my family and with more drama than I care to count.



  31. 31

    Re: POPSCIDICTATOR – YOU ARE MY NEW HERO, lol!!!!



  32. 32

    Re: sanfran1 – This site is filled with ignorance. Fuck you if you don't like it…..LEAVE and stop readiing so much into this nonsense.



  33. 33

    touching and so proud of him. wonder what the military gonna say about this.



  34. 34

    Seems real to me. This is pretty awesome! I am glad he had the courage to do that. I never got the chance to tell my dad in person.



  35. 35

    honestly i think this is disgusting. Im more pro gay that anyone i know but to publicly videotape your outing confession to your father and then broadcast it to the world on youtube is just about one of the most inconsiderate selfish things i have ever seen. His father has a right to privacy, that conversation was personal and just goes to show what an attention seeking twat that kid is. awful !!!



  36. 36

    Poor father.

    How sad to know you failed as a father by having a gay son…..there is no pride in having a gay son….knowing he is bending over and letting another guy fuck him in the ass……



  37. 37

    This is so sad wow, if you dont believe in homosexuality somehow you are now the minority.



  38. 38

    Re: buck – what the hell is your problem, go to hell



  39. 39

    Re: NookiesWA

    I'm straight as they come and what you said is so blatantly wrong.

    I don't know if you checked the news but humans have evolved since they were wild animals. We feel emotion, and ENJOY having sex, being intimate. Animals do it for one reason, to make more animals.

    Because humans are emotional, and actually enjoy and get a good deal of pleasure from being intimate, it's becoming so that being attracted to the same sex is a very real possibility.

    It is NOT a mental disorder, and if you even took three seconds to think what you said through, you could come to that conclusion too.



  40. 40

    I am a retired Airborne Army 1SG with 5 years of combat time and I have to tell ya'; I think that's the bravest man I've ever seen in the military. Good for him and good for his dad. He didn't do this for fame. He did it to show the fear one has in coming out to and the strength it takes to do so. He wasn't worried that his dad would disown him, only that he would stop loving him. It's true sentiment and unscripted. Way to go!



  41. 41

    When he says everyone here knows and is ok with it, what he really means is that he's not a flaming, lisping, makeup wearing, cross-dressing, effeminate little pansy like Hilton. People don't hate gays who don't have an agenda, who don't think being gay gives them the right to push that agenda, who don't call straights homophobes because they don't support everything said by a gay. It's why Hilton is hated so much and this guy is respected.



  42. 42

    Re: buck – by cured do you mean getting married, having kids, and sucking dick on the down low? Thats not cured (because gay is not something anyone should think as being treatable anyhow) thats just lying to yourself. And just a small question, since you seem so sure being gay is wrong. Why are you on Prezhilton.com? This is like the epicenter of gayness.



  43. 43

    You hear so much about parents being upset their children being gay, or even disowning them because they are gay, this truly makes me happy that his father told him right away that he still loves him and their relationship wouldn't change. It's beautiful.



  44. 44

    I'm absolutely appalled at some of the comments on this page. Mental Disorders? A father failing because his son is gay?

    You're not gay, so what the hell do you know about it? Are you so unbelievably arrogant that you presume you know what it feels like to be a homosexual? The only ones who truly know what it is to be a homosexual are the homosexuals themselves, so if you're so convinced that you know what the truth is, I think you're about to land in a world of self discovery and you're not going to like what's coming for you. So which is it? Are you people just closed minded or actually gay, yourself?
    If homosexuality is a choice to you, why is it so impossible for you experience homosexual desires? The answer is because it's not a choice, and you know it, unless you admit you can experience homosexual desires.



  45. 45

    Call it a mental disorder, call it a sin, call it whatever you want, but don't begin to tell me that your way is right and my way is wrong. I'd rather 'suffer' from this 'mental disorder' than go through life like you, filled with hate for a group of people who have nothing to do with me. If you're not gay, then simply shut up. Stop voting against my right to love, my right to serve, and most importantly, stop telling me how I'm supposed to live my life. Go out, find who you're attracted to, and build a family, and I'll build mine. You teach your children to hate, and I'll teach my children to love.

    The only clear agenda I see is homophobia, and as long as my rights are taken away while you keep yours, I will fight for equality, while you fight against it. And unlike what Perez seems to think, it's not homosexuals vs heterosexuals. The enemy is homophobia, and as long as our country continues to support homophobic laws, we are a homophobic nation.



  46. 46

    Re: POPSCIDICTATOR – you are a sad, broken person who needs to gain wisdom and compassion



  47. 47

    Almost cried in the end, I'm so happy for him. He seems to have a lovely family, he's incredibly lucky, as it's a rarity.



  48. 48

    pff. ikr. this dude is looking for sexy men. this is his add. YO, IM RIGHT HERE.
    GET.IN.MY.BED.NOW. naked please.
    ugh. he made me horny. love him. so sexy.



  49. 49

    Re: sanfran1 – You've already been outed as Perez so stop hiding behind this phony alias to make it seem like you actually have a fan. This dude posted this video on the same day that DADT was revoked to seek mega attention. If you don't realize this you are dumber than I thought. BTW we know that now all gays are sex seekers, I mean look at you, 40 years old and still a virgin whose only friend is his Mexican mama. What an empty life you have Mario.



  50. 50

    Re: NookiesWA – Seemingly, there is no such thing as coincidence in nature, everything has its purpose - that includes homosexuality. That said, it is not a mental disorder. Ironically enough, you seem closer to such a diagnosis, than most with a homosexual preference.



  51. 51

    Wow. I do believe I shed a tear or two watching this. What a sweet father.



  52. 52

    DAMNIT! aaahhh.. he's hot!!!
    thats really sweet. it was hard to watch, i was nervous for him! lol



  53. 53

    I love this video alot. Next video I wanna see is a minority do a video like this and come out to their dad. That would be a perfect sequel to this. I'm glad this guy's family's as open minded as what the world america is supposed to be like ideally. Let's hope others follow suit. For America has ALOT more things to worry about than who's attracted to who.



  54. 54

    He is SO HOT. Too bad he's gay, I would like to hit that not just be a friend.



  55. 55

    Re: joethehobo – I agree, plenty of Straight people(though I'm straight myself) buy whores, watch porn, have sex before marriage, lust, have one night stands, that is sin right there is it not? Gay is considered a sin right? The difference between those sins and being gay is, gays CAN'T help who they are attracted. Those sins mentioned before can DEFINITELY be avoided unlike being gay. If you are without sin than you can say something about gays. But you obviously are not I'm sure you've done one of those if not most. Follow the bible completely. GOD SAID NOT JUDGE. WE ALL ARE SINNERS. I know I sound religious but not JUST FYI.



  56. 56

    gayconversionforum.com - being gay isn't a choice, but becoming straight may be.



  57. 57

    Re: crustian – thanks, crusty!! xo



  58. 58

    I think it's funny how all the people out there condemning the homosexual lifestyle have quite overlooked the fact that most of america up until the early 1900's didn't consider a male having sex with a male prostitute gay. so long as the man was giving and not receiving, no homosexuality was assumed simply because it was considered the "man's place" to be in the giving position. there are plenty of instances in american history of the military coming in huge numbers to different ports around the country and having sex with male prostitutes because there simply weren't enough female ones to satisfy the clientele. so before you go saying it's a genetic abnormality or that the lifestyle is disgusting, take a second to read a bit about out history, especially in the military, and have some respect for other people's chosen lifestyle. it doesn't matter if it's nature or nurture, the point is that it's a lifestyle and everyone here should be welcome to it regardless of how "mainstream" it is.



  59. 59

    Such a great video. As for the negative comments, quit trollin!



  60. 60

    Re: likewhocares
    I disagree I dont think it is perez hiltons intent to cram homesexuality down our throats, it is an issue that is dear to his heart just as advicates for PETA go full force with animal cruilty. Honestly Perez Hilton has never been shy to express how he feels about "this gay issue" and I think for people who struggle with expressing how the feel to their parents and friends is very tough and that this just a sign of encouragement instead for people to shun and allow the sucide rates for teen homosexuality to increase.



  61. 61

    I cannot believe some of the ignorant comments on here. Love your neighbor. Treat others the way you want to be treated. We're in the middle of a war and Americans, instead of being encouraging and supportive of one another, are fighting each other. The past few years have shown that bullying and prejudice is killing our youth and ruining lives. Please consider what someone is going through or has ben through before you try and bring them down or make them feel less than what they are - a human being, just like you.



  62. 62

    I find that this is the case for alot of gays coming out. i know i experienced the same thing. Im latino and i expected my mom to more accepting and my dad not to happy since my brothers are married with kids.. my dad was the most loving caring dad and it didn't matter that i was gay . as for mom she was none to pleased eventually she accepted it.. AS FOR YOU PEOPLE POSTING RUDE REMARKS AND HOMOPHIC COMMENTS : YOU ARE THE REASON YOUNG TEENS ARE TAKING THEIR OWN LIVES. HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF THAT YOUNG TEEN WAS YOUR LITTLE BROTHER OR COUSIN.. ITS UNACCEPTABLE. i was bullied in school (OR THEY TRIED).. but it never got to me and if there was ever any kind of touching or shoving.. its on for me i didn't let it happen i fought back i was a touch kat.

    BTW he is hot. but good for him and thank god DADT was repealed

    THIS IS NOT A GAY ISSUE THAT IS BEING FORCED UPON US. THIS IS AN ACCEPTANCE ISSUE .. TREAT OTHERS AS YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE TREATED . ITS CALLED TOLERANCE. TRY IT SOMETIME.



  63. 63

    @Kim K's SAGGY Ass

    you are an unbelievable piece of work. ur just upset cuz ur not gay and your own father still doesn't like you . I'm glad to say my own father is very accepting as many fathers are.

    FYI not all gays like it up the butt. I bet ur one of those many DL guys out there. and in this day in age. the rate of men living on the downlow has risen due to a homophobes such as your urself.

    go do something worry about more important issues like getting a job or figure out how to take urself off from using only EBT CARDS from the government. worry bout how distressed this world has become we are in for a huge financial downfall and baby if yu think th economy has hit rock bottom you don't even know. so how bout less worrying about how people choose to live there life and worry about how you are going to pay child support to ur many children I'm sure you have



  64. 64

    Re: buckRe: buck – do your math idiot. The average estimates were that 21% of men are gay and 22% of women are lesbians. In fact, roughly a quarter of the public thinks more than 25% of men and 25% of women are homosexual

    dumb ass u probably failed in school and repeated senior year twice