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Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger Does More Harm Than Good On Joy Behar!

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Okay! She needs to just shut her mouth!

She is doing far more harm than good!

Patti Stanger is in serious damage control mode after making some pretty offensive generalizations about gay men and Jewish people during her appearance on Watch What Happens, but during her interview on The Joy Behar Show in response to the controversy, she attempted to clarify what she meant, which ended up proving that she, in fact, pretty much meant what she said, and continued on with yet another horrible tirade!

Ch-ch-check it out (above)!

Seriously? All gay men "whip it out at eyelock?"

And then you're going to scold the entire homosexual New York community for not taking advantage of getting married?!

Wow, gurl.

With those kind of ignorant generalizations and an attitude like that, it's a wonder you're a successful matchmaker at all!

We sincerely hope you take some time to think about what you're saying, and change your tune. Fast.

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55 comments to “Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger Does More Harm Than Good On Joy Behar!”



  1. 1

    I can't stand her. If you dont do exactly what she says she stomps her feet and yells.
    What grown woman does this?

    She walks around charging like Miss Bossy but half the people she puts together split up after the 2nd date.
    She "Has an eye for chemistry", how fucking hard is it to tell that 2 people like each other by their body language?
    Helen Keller can do that.



  2. 2

    I don't like her, but what she says is kinda true. Gay men do tend to be sluts.



  3. 3

    She should stop talking because she is digging herself into a deeper hole that she doesn't even deserve to be in in the first place. She didn't have much to apologize for to begin with. From the get go, all these people need to say is, " I shouldn't have said what I said". Unless someone makes some severely outrageous and incredibly discriminatory or racial comments, that's all that needs to be said. It's not like she went out and said gays or jews were subhuman and shouldn't be living or working amongst society, or anything over the top like that. People say weird shit. Sometimes they mean it, sometimes they really don't. Stop the hypersensitivity and nitpicking.



  4. 4

    lol shes acting like she invented gay dating!!! shes a mess and sooo ugly that surgery did more harm then good she needs to take some of her own advice. plus wheres her life partner?!! THATS RIGHT YOU DONT HAVE ONE!!



  5. 5

    While not ALL are like that, what she is stating is true for the most part. I'm gay and have a really hard time finding any guy who actually wants to go on a date.



  6. 6

    And of course what Everyone points out is that she fixes up people but has noone herself. What man would put up with this woman?

    Its a shame because she she's nice she's very likable, but she is SO bipolor and just switches into psycho bitch so fast, noone would put up with that.

    being a "Matchmaker" who is single for years is like bring a dietician who is 40 pounds overweight.



  7. 7

    This chick is so obnoxious and a matchmaker fraud. Why can't she have an opinion? OMG she said her opinion….She had gay men come to her, (I wouldn't want to hang out w/ her) but this is what they showed her???? Does she have to keep it a secret?



  8. 8

    you need to shut up. you'll be rude to anyone unless their either GAY or a GAY advocate. i cant stand it anymore. and why do you care so much about what one person as to say. move on a live your life your fucking annoying

  9. albee says – reply to this


    9

    What an asshole….



  10. 10

    facts are facts asswipe. how many guys you banging? you in a relationship? ever been in one? lets make it about her instead of reality. you dont like to hear about reality. what a douche



  11. 11

    She came off as a TOTAL DOUCHE on Watch What Happens. Andy looked like he was ready to crawl out of his skin and then made her his Jackhole last night. This is her BOSS for christsake. I've never liked her show anyway. I think it's time for this chick to retire.



  12. 12

    im gay. she's totally right. truth hurts, people



  13. 13

    What she says is TRUE TRUE TRUE. Just because you might not be getting any doesn't make it not TRUE TRUE TRUE. I would even do YOU Perez.

  14. yeez says – reply to this


    14

    That was hardly a tirade. "Tirade- A long, angry speech of criticism or accusation"
    She was calm and coherent and simply explaining her side of the story and her frame of reference for a remark that was only marginally offensive to begin with.



  15. 15

    what the hell is her problem? seriously?



  16. 16

    I'm gay and I'm in a 100% monogamous relationship. Cut the Stereo type Ms. Stanger.

  17. @v@ says – reply to this


    17

    She does generalize, but is basing what she says on what her gay friend has told her. Patti
    shoots from the hip, and isn't afraid to say politically incorrect things; but of course there are gays who wish to settle into monogamy…and particularly the older ones who have seen enough and are now looking to be more settled. She did feature gays before anyone.



  18. 18

    maybe shes offensive, maybe shes blunt….but shes RIGHT! biologically speaking it makes sense…so you shouldnt knock her for pointing out the obvious…men in GENERAL are obsessed with sex, but when you have two men in a relationship the dynamic changes and it is more likely that since, all guys want SEX, and its two guys who both want it, they dont have to play the games that men and women do. it is what it is…doesnt mean that gays cant be in committed relationships, but realistically does mean they rush into having sex.

    i love patti!!! speakin the truth



  19. 19

    Normally, I am on the fence with her…her style is atrocious and her hair is sometimes wack, but why can she not have an opinion as a matchmaker on these two groups? In her opinion, she stated some generalities about gays not usually settling down with just one person and Jewish guys lying. In her experience, that may be true, so why is she getting beat up about it? She is never polite to anyone and often tells people they dress poorly, need to lose weight, or are frumpy, so why all of the sudden are people bent out of shape with her opinion? Strange.



  20. 20

    What a dumbass. She can't even have a successful realtionship of her own, why would someone pay her to play matchmaker? Silly twat.



  21. 21

    omg! I cant believe she said that on national television. She definitely is losing business and loyal viewers already.



  22. 22

    ALL gays ARE sluts. well MOST of them anyway. Look at Perez, he's a trashy slut. Not many gay men want to commit, they are disgusting. The way they behave is why people are homophobic. Because they act horny all the time and they take that shit to the street in public. Be decent about it, dudes.



  23. 23

    Get off of her already. Geez.
    Free speech doesn't hold if it comes to gay people these days, it's disgusting.



  24. 24

    Where's the explaination of her stereotypical and offensive comment about jewish men??



  25. 25

    She was the FIRST one…what a self indulgent BITCH!!!
    Let's just say she's right, her delivery SUCKS…please cancel this "show" of "Dating"
    It's not about love with her, its only about money.



  26. 26

    Joy Behar is trying to make something from nothing! Her perspective is so far out there! Does she comb through current things looking for someone to pick on so she can have a show? Who watches her anyway? She seems so angry in life always looking to jump on someones s***. Poor miserable woman!



  27. 27

    Cut Patty some slack and stop being to sensitive. There's truth to what she says and I know I'm as gay as they cum.



  28. 28

    Re: yogirl22 – So i guess that explains why there shouldn't be such a thing as marriage in the first place no? If all men want is SEX and are obsessed with SEX, then it makes it ok for them to cheat on their wives because after all, according to you it's something all men are obsessed with…..so why even bother getting married if it's going to end up in men cheating and then divorce huh?….just saying

  29. ozmed says – reply to this


    29

    There is a lot of promiscuity in the gay community, but I could say the same about the straight community.



  30. 30

    so true… some gay men are ususally very forward. Perez your makig Gays look weak and pathetic for all your bias views



  31. 31

    It's like watching a train wreck.



  32. 32

    I think she is always offensive. Very rude bitch. She puts other people down constantly yet, look at her! When she said she shopped at Ann Taylor I thought, there is no way. Not only is she very unattractive in the face,all her procedures only emphasize all her bad features. She has always dressed so tacky tacky tacky, she has lost a little weight but shes grossly out of shape, so before you go attacking other people look in the mirror Mother Hen, Old Maid. She needs to get CANCELED PRONTO!!!



  33. 33

    the deal here is, that men in general are pretty sexual - and forward. In a heterosexual dynamic you have the woman there to often tone things down, and it's changes up the game. In a gay relationship you'll often find - since you're dealing with two guys - they will indeed get to the action pretty quickly.

    I don't really think that's stereotyping, it's just how men (in general!) tend to work. Does it mean gay men have any less desire to find someone meaningful to spend their lives with? No. Does it demean our ability to love? No. there's just a different way of working in the beginning.

    Honestly, heterosexual men would very likely have the same dynamic if womens sex drive worked the same way. Thankfully they don't though, or we'd have too many babies. Often, it's the evolutionary imperative of the woman to filter out undesirable guys - she's has to be picky.



  34. 34

    The fact is almost every gay relationship is mostly open or committed but play together. So in essence, what she said is true. But since when does Perez care about the truth?



  35. 35

    You need to just shut up. Remember, she is constitutionally guaranteed her right to say whatever the fuck she wants! She's a hell of a lot more 'Real' than most people. She has more balls than most men and especially has more balls than you dipshit.



  36. 36

    She's backtracking and lying. This woman is such a narcissist, does she think everyone but her is stupid?



  37. 37

    who the eff cares if the gays are all up in a tizzy over these stupid comments. Get over yourselves.. what a buncha sissys!



  38. 38

    Re: MsJules – if someone in the public eye makes disparaging comments about any group of people that have been marginalized be it gays, women, jews, blacks, ect…..everyone should be in a "tizzy" about it. the more people stick up for each other the better. and for you to use terms like "the gays" or "sissys" is just rude and clearly shows where you stand on the subject of certain people being stereotyped.



  39. 39

    Ah what she is saying is very true. How many guys in West Hollywood "Creep" on their boyfriends, spouses, partners etc etc…… A LOT! She can be annoying but she is only telling the truth. So now the Gay man's secret is out…Life goes on.



  40. 40

    People don't like gays. Deal with it.



  41. 41

    I love Patti. Shes blunt and straight forward. She's a woman who has seen it all in the dating world. Quite frankly, people need to stop being so overly emotional about all things related to the LBGTQ community. If people want to change stereotypes, instead of whining about it, they need to change their behavior. Which is exactly what Patti is enforcing. She wants to gay community to find love and get married, and stop sleeping around. Its a noble and selfless cause.



  42. 42

    Her comments were ridiculous and rude– basically saying that all gays are pigs and shouldn't expect a monogamous relationship. Well, bitch, I'm in one and have been for years. Where's yours? Vapid, shallow troll.



  43. 43

    i live in Los Angeles and what she's saying is %100 right. Perez think about it your single and always in front of your computer she know's the deal in LA. No one here goes out looking for a relationship at first they want sex then after sex they decide if they want a relationship which most of the time they don't. I agree with her completly and everyone needs to backoff her!



  44. 44

    Re: Sexsai – so absolutely true. a person has better luck finding a mate relying on plain simple luck than being on her show. she strikes me as someone who doesnt seem to like herself and projects her inner hatred to other people.



  45. 45

    Re: crustian – i agree with you 100%. its really a guy thing or a testosterone thing than anything else. that being said, i still do not like this woman because she is simply too bitchy, bossy and childish. plus, her success rate is extremely low. im shocked she even has a job. she cant even find a man for herself.



  46. 46

    I read that in general men are more promiscuous. So I guess when men date men… you can double that. Lol. Whether gay or straight men always want to fuck some one first and then they try find that great relationship. That's most likely why some men can never find some one. Note the jab is only at gay men. Not lesbians. Lol.
    I think she's doing this for publicity… seriously. But if you want a politically correct celebrity don't expect her to kiss your ass. She's got an opinion and she's not afraid to state it like she views. Sadly, I agree with her.



  47. 47

    Her comments to Andy and Joy put her on the National map. What's that old saying?…No such thing as bad publicity in Hollywood. Patti's Google hits skyrocketed and she's made the headlines. Bravo is not known for its tasteful programming. The whole "Housewives" series? Come on! I think that this was planned.

  48. @v@ says – reply to this


    48

    Re: crustian – Good comment.



  49. 49

    Nothing hateful about her words, Gays can't handle being called on their ways. All gay men I know are sluts. It's freedom of speech, she can say what she wants and you can whine about it all you want. Her words don't change anything. GET OVER YOURSELVES.



  50. 50

    Re: AttFinch – doesn't show where I stand on anything…. people in general now a days are fkn sissys.. everyone throws a hissy fit every time people make generalizations- like who the eff cares- generalize all you want about me, lump me into a group of people (I am jewish fyi- heard many anti semantic things, and don't get all pissy over it) at the end of the day, words are just words and opinions are just opinions. You give them know power if you pay them no mind. I mean really, look at how up in arms peta, GLAAD, naacp just to name a few, get whenever anything even smells a little bit discriminatory. This whole damn world needs to toughen up a bit and stop taking everything so god damn personal. teen suicide on the rise due to bullying.. this has to say a lot about how how thin skinned people are…



  51. 51

    She marches women "dates" in her office and oogles them, making fun of some of their outfits or hair. The male clients have it even worse, where they get to hear her call them names, mocking them, making fun of them, etc. She's terrible, I can't stand watching her anymore. There's a difference between constructive criticism and bullying and this bitch has no clue.



  52. 52

    Re: MsJules – the way you had worded your comment about "the gays" being in a "tizzy" and being "sissys" certainly came across as rude and stereotypical even if you profess you didn't mean it that way. not everyone is as thick skinned as you say you are. i can remember you having some heated exchanges with me and others on this site over things that had been said about you so for you to now say you don't give a eff about what people say is actually kind of funny. why would you have even responded to me in the first place if you truly believe " words are just words and opinions are just opinions. You give them know power if you pay them no mind". i think if you really felt that way you wouldn't be checking back all the time to see how people respond to your comments.



  53. 53

    Re: MsJules – and the next time you describe gay people as sissys try to remember what that word actually means. and how many young boys and men have been taunted with it.
    *
    Sissy is a pejorative term for a boy or man who violates or does not meet the traditional male gender role. Generally, sissy implies a lack of the courage and stoicism which are thought important to the male role. A man might also be considered a sissy for being interested in traditionally feminine hobbies or employment, for displaying effeminate behavior, for being unathletic, or for being homosexual.



  54. 54

    So because she believes that gay people have the fundamental right to get married, she's allowed to make sweeping statements like "every gay man in LA is a slut incapable of monogamy".



  55. 55

    K, here is my 2 cents… gay, straight, black, white, purple or frickin' pink it does not matter….
    1) she totally DISRESPECTED Andy, she kept putting him on the spot and kept wanting to validate her "generalization" by putting him on the spot
    2) promiscuity(sp?) is everywhere, straight, gay, married, single you name it is there or could be there…. are some people more promiscuous(sp?) than other's? YOU BET, but it has nothing to do with being gay or straight!
    3) Bottom line, she made an ASS out of herself on the show, she had a "know it all" attitude and acts like she is better than everyone else….. well Miss Patti, ya ain't! maybe you will be knocked off your high horse when Bravo fires you….. which I hope is soon! By the way what happened to her saying she would "never" get plastic surgery??? I think she owes many a women out there an apology for humiliating them on TV for having done exactly what she did!