Damn, this girl is good!
In the classiest way she could, she gave her ex one final "screw you" by calling him out on cheating with at least nineteen other women before expressing her forgiveness and fuzzy bunnies.
Today I encountered the 19th girl to add to the list of people Jesse cheated on me with during this last year.
There was a time when I was confident and excited at proving the world wrong, because I believed so deeply in people's ability to change for the better.
I know I deserve a big fat "I told you so,” from everyone, and wish I didn't have to say, "You all were more right than you'll ever know” but you were.
I think it just made me sad today to imagine him still in that dark place - where seeking validation through the attention of women takes precedence over being a good father, a sincere friend, a better coworker, and a happy individual.
Time is something you can never get back, and what we do with this very present moment is the most real thing we have. So if that's the lesson Jesse forced me to face and learn by all of this, than all I can say is Thank You.
We'd like to thank Jesse too. We'd like to thank him for sending this message to the world: if you're getting into a relationship with the kind of man who would cheat on someone like Sandra Bullock, you need to run, girl! And don't look back unless you wanna end up looking just as dumb as the tool your big heart believes in!
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