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Taylor Swift Dear John Mayer

The new, more mature John Mayer has been back in the limelight for less than a month … but boy does it seem like longer!

In this Friday’s Rolling Stone, the much maligned musician mouths off at his ex-girlfriend, Taylor Swift, who wrote the heart-wrenching ballad Dear John in 2010 about the bitter end of their relationship.

Mayer vented:

"I didn't deserve it. I'm pretty good at taking accountability now, and I never did anything to deserve that. It was a really lousy thing for her to do… I was really caught off-guard, and it really humiliated me at a time when I'd already been dressed down.”

You were caught off guard??

She was 19! You were in your 30s!

RS asked him specifically about the song’s line, "Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?" ,but John didn’t have much of a response.

He said:

"I don't want to go into that."

Is John overreacting?

Taylor took no lyrical cheap shots. She never referenced unflattering odors or sexy-time performance issues.

She was a doe-eyed teenager who got her heart broken by a veteran rock star that she thought loved her!

Which artist do U think has the right to be upset??

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91 comments to “John Mayer Publicly Reprimands Taylor Swift”



  1. 1

    In other words, Taylor lost her virginity to John Mayer and now she's a Sex Crazed Whore & Tramp and can't stop….

    Congrats Taylor, you are now a member of the Kim Kardashian FUCK the SLUT Club.



  2. 2

    He should have kept his mouth shut. Sounds like he hasn't changed much at all. The mature thing to do when asked about Taylor's song would be to acknowledge that he hurt her more than he realized, and maybe even express some regret for causing her pain. Even if he did nothing wrong, it would still be the gentlemanly thing to do.

  3. dreamssweetly says – reply to this


    3

    She was 19 and him in his 30's and she thought he loved her? She's retarded, that's why her music is too. She tells herself its love so quickly, maybe to feel better about putting out, but then they break up and she writes a song. Doomed to die alone.



  4. 4

    She was young, she is allowed to write what she feels. He definitely took advantage and if a song is the worst thing that happened…get over it!

  5. kell says – reply to this


    5

    if she thinks she was to young to be messed with the girl should NOT have been dating someone more than 10 years older than her! she is NOT innocent, she's just a teenager that makes money off of whinning about her boyfriends! how is she innocent if she has SO many songs which equals So MANY boyfriends!



  6. 6

    Taylor Swift is a dumb bitch. She knew EXACTLY what she was getting herself into with dating the Hollywood Bad Boy that he was/is. Also, a 6 minute song? REALLY? The song was completely unnecessary and its not even that good.



  7. 7

    Re: sarahbella246Re: kell – I completely agree! The media always try to make her look so innocent when she is the complete opposite! And the song isn't heart wrenching, it's utterly pathetic and sad. I never knew some girls could be so pathetic and weak! The blame is all on her! I doubt John forced her to date him!



  8. 8

    Re: kell – It makes her a SLUT!



  9. 9

    I can't wait for her song she writes after dating Charlie Sheen….

  10. Charmaine says – reply to this


    10

    John Mayer is the one who should feel sorry . FUCK HIM . thats all i gotta say



  11. 11

    Taylor Swift has always come off to me as phony. She's a whore.



  12. 12

    John Mayer is a DOUCHE!!



  13. 13

    He was old enough to know better and clearly didn't care. He also had to have known about her tendency to vent through her songs. She is old enough to know better than to do that and she knew he had a reputation for being a complete douche. They're both wrong, and Mayer has changed like Perez has, which means he's not one bit different. He needs to STFU until he can learn to use some discretion.

  14. dodgyend says – reply to this


    14

    cry some more, john. Dear John shits on entire mayer discography. Its brilliant.



  15. 15

    Sounds like he is getting a dose of his own medicine - I'm thinking Jennifer Aniston and Jessica Simpson are loving this song! He is such a whine ass Girl



  16. 16

    I can't wait for Taylor Swift to grow up and see how stupid she was to write all these songs about her ex-boyfriends. Unfortunately, she's a lot like Perez and probably won't grow up until she's 50. It's embarrassing to watch.



  17. 17

    If you say "HE should have known better" then you have a problem. She wasn't 15. She was a big girl! She had all this fame and money and she could have easily said NO. He probably wasn't the best boy friend ever, but he didn't call her a dumb b*tch or something.
    There is so much of a double standard! if he wrote a song called "dear taylor" then OH MY GOD, it would have been SO ABUSIVE AND RUDE. But if she does it.. no one cares!



  18. 18

    The truth hurts doesn't it John? Put Your Big Girl Panties On and Deal with It

  19. liz says – reply to this


    19

    you all suck. he was a dick and now he's bitter because he's being put on blast for his actions. this is what taylor does, and hes just trying to get publicity for his new album.

  20. jt99 says – reply to this


    20

    He had it coming. I mean he's angry to be talked about? What about the time where he discussed intimate details of him and Jennifer, or Jessica Simpson. He had it coming. By the way YES he was SUPPOSED to be the MATURE one. Guess not, even a 18 yr old at the time surpasses him on maturity



  21. 21

    They're both idiots.

  22. beach girl says – reply to this


    22

    Who the hell is he to say anything. He was the worst about keeping his mouth shut about anything. What goes around comes around. IDIOT. Yes, he deserved it. He's an ass.

  23. AC44 says – reply to this


    23

    John Mayer may have been old, but it was extremely childish of Ms. Taylor Swift to put him out like that. Mayer may have been a d-bag, but you don't see him writing songs how much of a crybaby Taylor probably was. Taylor Swift is not some innocent little bee, it's clear by her dating track record. She just ran out of stupid stuff to write about and needed some attention.

  24. Joanna says – reply to this


    24

    He messed with her!!! He tried to bang her, like another girls, but she don't let him! And when she did that he just throw her in tramp, like he don't need her anymore. She loved him, and believed in everything that he said. What he is expecting? That she write a song apologizing or showing that shes regretted for not giving him 'EVERYTHING'? he should be expect a song about him. He broke her heart, a 19 songwriter heart, it's completely normal that she write a song about him, and he knows that she's probably do that. And seems like he just heard that song, but in fact Taylor wrote 3 more songs for him: 'superman', 'Ours' and 'The story of us'!
    i really think John a great musician, but as man, he worth 0. what kind of men describes sexual relations with a ex-girlfriend to the media? Right now, he just wants to people talk about him… I think it's a little bit hypocritical because 2 years passed since Taylor realized the song… so, Taylor its not innocent as people think she is, she just a normal girl who writes what she felt in a moment, she's a AMAZING songwriter (like John) as the song tell what she felt whe he left… so I think its time for Mayer grown a little, deal with his mistakes, say sorry, move on, and don't come to the public eye deal with old questions and humiliate a ex-girlfriend who had 'balls' to tell the truth!



  25. 25

    She was 19, not 12. If, looking back, she thought she was too young for the situation, then she is wise enough to know that it was equally her decision and everything that came along with that was her fault. It is off-putting that a 30 year old would have a relationship with a 19 year old, but she was a willing participant and it was petty to publicize it in a way to make her look like the poor, naive girl who got taken advantage of by Big, Bad John.

  26. J says – reply to this


    26

    Re: LaughingOutLoud1 – if you have such a big issue with Perez get off his site you dumb bitch.



  27. 27

    It's hard for me to feel sorry for either. John Mayer called out everybody in Playboy a few years ago back and he was a lot more graphic and forthcoming with the details. So don't be a freaking baby! As for Taylor Swift, it's going to get to a point where no man in Hollywood is going to want to touch her because she'll blab about it in one of her song that all sound the same. It's one thing to draw inspiration from you relationships, but to immediately hit the studio the second your relationship goes south is juvenile. Keep in mind that we have yet to hear the chronicles about Jake Gyllenhaal which I'm sure is coming.



  28. 28

    Re: rosebud99 – I agree! He should have said it was a misunderstanding or he didn't see the situation in the same light as her, but as you said, sorry he hurt her. Saying it wasn't cool of her to say that makes him look like a narcissist. The public only knows Taylor's part of the story, so by him not elaborating on it, it makes him look like a huge a-hole. This is coming from a huge John Mayer fan too. :(



  29. 29

    Re: J – Laughing out loud 1 is entitled to an opinion, is entitled to dislike Perez, and is entitled to express that dislike. The dumbest person on here is the one who is intolerant of expression that disagrees with one's own, and so that person is YOU today. If you don't like the comment, don't read it. But equal rights for all also applies to freedom of speech, dumb ass. Try to be less of a loser. I know it's an impossible reach for you, but try anyhow.
    .
    Re: Joanna – Wow. You're a bit too emotionally invested in this situation. That's just scary.



  30. 30

    What a little prick! The proper response would be, "I'm sorry I hurt her so much." He hasn't learned.



  31. 31

    Re: J – You never said I was wrong though.

  32. blah la la says – reply to this


    32

    does any one else find if hilarious that on the same record she writes about two heart breaks? she's just young and thinks she's in love with every person to come along. don't get me wrong, I love Taylor… but you can't sing passive aggressive love songs on one record about two different people.



  33. 33

    Neither Taylor nor John should whine. He has always had loose lips and she's known for having a loose coochie. Count her songs of heartbreak by ex-boyfriends and you'll know how many celebs she's f*cked. And she's only 19!!! America's sweetheart my a*ss!! Those are just the guys that we know about. Don't think she hasn't met gorgeous fans and f*cked them too. Was Jake Gyllenhaal too old for her? From what we read, she's been trying to get back together with him. Sounds like she has daddy issues.

  34. McMuffin says – reply to this


    34

    I hope that Joe Bro and all the other poor bastards that were stupid enough to date her would grow a pair and out this little b*tch too. Enough is enough, Mayer got owned for running his mouth off ~ but he certainly didn't sell any records for it. She gets grammies for this sh*t



  35. 35

    Re: dreamssweetly – Were you that smart at 19? At that age NO 19 year old is ready for a sexual relationship with an older man. If a 30 year old guy is dating a 19 year old, we all know what he really is looking for. His behavior was creepy and disgusting. Of course she believed him, at that age especially with someone who has an award-winning way with words and a silver tongue, he took advantage of her plain and simple. He's a creep. Hell, what I don't get is he has had soooooo many starlets around his age, why was he fiddling with a 19 year old virgin anyway? That's sexual predator behavior.

  36. eddie k says – reply to this


    36

    There was never a romance between these two. it was thought up by their management (especially his team). People were talking about him being gay and he wanted people to quit so all of a sudden he is suppose to have this relationship.

    Remember he sucked face with Perez Hilton awhile back too!!!!



  37. 37

    Every guy south of the North Pole knows Taylor Swift writes about every damn relationship she has, whether it's real or imagined. And girls even smarter than Swift (and you know she's a smart girl for having so much success) have been fooled even worse by older guys. But whatever actually happened between them is moot at this point, because she was upset by it and he was oblivious to hurting her.
    And obviously John Mayer has not learned his lesson if he is still running his mouth about personal matters. Technically, Taylor never officially stated that that song was about him and suggested it was based on the generic "Dear John" letter. We all KNOW it's about Mayer, but since she never officially said it was, it could be another one of her fabricated things, so Mayer is the one making it more personal. He deserves another dressing down.



  38. 38

    Taylor! She has no right to just turn and reveal personal things like relationships to the entire world to try and make him look bad- no matter what he did.

  39. McMuffin says – reply to this


    39

    And I'm shocked that he was shocked and caught off guard. Is he really that guilable. This is her deal. She's like the musical version of USweekly. Glossy paper, staged photo OPs and covergirl ads, filled out with musical one sided stories. How could he not see this coming?

  40. todd46 says – reply to this


    40

    I'm sorry but what moron in her right mind would date a douche like John Mayer???

  41. Anoud r says – reply to this


    41

    First of all ,people who calls her songs whiney are just jealous ! John was acting unproffesional with what he said! He cant call her song writing cheap because 1)she has fans who adore her song writing 2)she won grammys for her song writing 3) he handed her an award for her song writing !
    And if you call her songs whiney, then hes whiney too ! They write about the same stuff. if you say than hes not and she is then you're a sexist
    Second of all for a person like joh who has been in this business for so long to know that saying shes a cheap song writer !
    Third of all she didnt publicly say the song is about him. it obviously is but she didnt say that!
    Im on team taylor in that , she acted like the bigger person in this deal !
    Shes proving how mature she is to you guys! and haters dont matter , critics love her and so does legends like deff leppard and Jon Bon Jovi !

  42. Nikki says – reply to this


    42

    John Mayer should have known if he fucked with her heart she would write about it. Everyone who bitches about how dumb Taylor is, is infact an idiot themselves. She writes what she feels and makes millions off of it. She's obviously doing something right.



  43. 43

    Here is my thing. Taylor Swift is not a new comer to music. Therefore any guy who dates her(just like anyone who dates ANY SONGWRITER) can't be surprised or shocked when they end up in a song. It happens. Song writers should be free to vent or write out any hurt or pain they feel in song. She didn't go on every talk show and blast him like she did with Joe Jonas. I don't think the song was that harsh. It states she was too young to be messed with and played which is right. She was a 19yr old kid and he was in his 30s. Not to mention he doesn't exactly have a stellar history to make me believe him. After what happened with Joe Jonas in particular, how can John be shocked that he ended up in a song when he seems to have messed around with her? I'm still not buying that she lost her virginity to him because it seems much more likely she lost it to Joe Jonas, which makes her Last Kiss song(which shes stated to be about Joe) make sense and how she reacted to the break up. At this point, and shes stated this repeatedly, anyone in her life can't be surprised to end up in a song. Its up to the guy as to how the song may be written. It isn't always a bad thing. She wrote songs about Taylor Lautner and Adam Young, neither of which were negative. She has also been clear that her songs are like her journals. Its a bit dumb to be shocked when her boyfriends/ex-boyfriends.

  44. rolltide says – reply to this


    44

    Dear Lord.. all of you who are taking up for Taylor need a reality check. This chick writes about NUMEROUS boyfriends that she has but yet the media portrays her as this sweet little innocent kid. Well I call that bullshit. If SHE knew she was too young, why the hell did she keep seeing him? It's really a shame that her mediocre songs and mediocre voice wins Grammy's and CMA's. Such a shame. I do not see the fascination with her.. And about the song, I've heard it and I wouldn't be insulted if I were John. The song is crap and drags on for a good 6 minutes. IS that really necessary? Grow up, Taylor.

  45. Julissa says – reply to this


    45

    Most of you are so deeply disgusting I can't stand it. He's allowed to fuck anything with 2 legs but shes the whore?! She was 19 why wasn't she allowed to do and fuck whoever the fuck she wants? Sure she was naive enough to get hurt but he knew very fucking well who he was sticking it in and maybe he should have thought with his head and not his Dick and known what would happen if he acted like he always does. This pathetic slut shaming isn't helping us gain any ground or equality. Maybe think about what you're typing first. You are poor pathetic excuses of human beings.



  46. 46

    John Who??? Oooh, you mean mr. 2002?? ya, I forgot all about him…



  47. 47

    Taylor needs to grow the f*** up! I want her off my fricken radio. Her songs are immature and whiny.



  48. 48

    delta goodrem pulled the same kind of stunts all heartbroken oh im so young wait till taylor hits late 20s and still noone wants her and still churning out the same old songs like delta ..mayer shouldnt of been near her neither should of gyllengal but i still prefer john mayer ..dont forget he was a hot stud not this weird looking creature he is now…



  49. 49

    Okra Panfry Bucket-O-Wings can shut the fuck up and stop being jealous. Cause appartently your life sucks so you are gonna talk shit about other peoples secs lives cause you dont have your own.



  50. 50

    Re: sarahbella246 – I swear everyone on her has no life and just wants to bash everyone for mistakes we all make. Id like you to say you've never had sex or been played before. And if song writing is her way to vent them so be plus she makes millions cause you can honestly say you wpuldnt if you were her

  51. Jodi says – reply to this


    51

    What I get from his comments and her song was that he courted her and as soon as she fucked him he threw her out. She was the "forbidden fruit" as soon as he ate it he got rid of it. Is John a douche? Yes. Is Taylor swift an immature closted whore without any tread left on the tires? Yes. Bottom line? They both should have known better.



  52. 52

    Dear John 30 million people really dislike you at the moment

  53. Shortbread13 says – reply to this


    53

    "if boys don't want me to write bad songs about them, then boys shouldn't do bad things." plain and simple, they were both dumb and in fault. Taylor for going for him to begin with knowing what she knows about him and his relationships, and what did John expect? She writes EVERY SONG about men in her past happy or sad cause it's relitive to everyone. He knew it was coming. Maybe she should say in the begins of the relationship "you will be a topic iny song one way or another. hoestly John Mayer is being a whiney bitch about it, get over it. You mashed up creatively with her, she's all over tabloids… If any celebrity gets into a relationship saying 'I had no idea that _____ was going to Happen and I'll show you a compulsive liar

  54. Sunnyyellow says – reply to this


    54

    John Mayer is a loser. Caught of guard by a 19 year old? Come on who is he kidding. And after a hiatus of 2 whole yrs, then he came out to speak abt this. He admit the song is abt him when TAYLOR NVR SAY THE SONG IS ABT HIM AT ALL. This show that what taylor write about him is true, thats why he is so guilty and feel "humiliated". Furthermore, he is a guy. No matter how humiliated he felt, he shld be a man and let it go. He shld handle this in a more professional way; by saying taylor songwriting is "cheap" doesnt make him look any more professional either. His songwriting attract way less audiences than the song Taylor write. Gotta admit that and be a man John.

  55. Jaymee says – reply to this


    55

    I love how all you call taylor a slut and a whore, when in fact she is the opposite, she takes pride in how people view her and has not done one single thing she should be called out on. John Mayer is wrong, she was 19, i'm 19 and i understand exactly where she's coming from, some girls do fall hard quickly, and it's completley up to her how she vents her pain, i personally thought it was a brilliant song and many people can relate to it, the thing that got me however is that John Mayer waited two years to respond to the song. pffft. any way to get back into the limelight i suppose.

  56. LauraM says – reply to this


    56

    boo hoo taylor swift "got some" from hot john mayer and then he walked…she had a few conquests before him y'know and why isnt anyone saying anything about why would a "innocent" 19 year old even want a 30 ish grown man in the first place? maybe americas sweetheart isnt so sweet and hes not the douchbag. i know i'd do him and send him on his way…AFTER he played some guitar for me!!!!

  57. Deb O says – reply to this


    57

    It is cheap songwriting to be so obvious about who you are singing about. I mean, how bad would it be if Carly asimon wrote "Warren is So Vain?" It would be dumb..and a cheap tactic to get publicity..It is the only reason we are discussing that mediaocre song still.



  58. 58

    LOL why is he being so sensitive? FAKE

  59. LauraM says – reply to this


    59

    Re: TiffaniHart – dear tiff…30 million people must like him cause he has the #1 album in the country right now and even after all this nonsense about miss vicitim swift, id still do him good !!!!! hot hot man !!!

  60. LauraM says – reply to this


    60

    Re: rolltide – AMEN>>i agree COMPLETELY with you !!! spot on !!!!



  61. 61

    Aw wrong John…you can dish it out but you can't take it…Maybe you should have thought of that before you started treating women badly…Lucky for you, you didn't meet up with Miranda Lambert and her gunpowder n lead! Get over yourself!



  62. 62

    Funny how he's now talking about this OLD NEWS now that he has a flopping new album out. Isn't he like 40 now? Grow up and stop getting involved in this teenage drama. Taylor is like 20 years younger than you OLD MAN! Sickening…

  63. vivi says – reply to this


    63

    Don't date somebody who's more than 10 years older than you. Does she have daddy issues or wtf???

  64. Matt says – reply to this


    64

    John is a prick I would bust his lip if I could, learn to be a man you tool bag and treat woman with respect. Love you Taylor keep writing your heart out.



  65. 65

    poor dykey taylor never ”deserves” anything!! lmfaooooooooo!! the bitch is a phony twat cleaner who plays the ”innocent” well but we all know she's a cock whore!! :-)



  66. 66

    Re: WittyinMI – she really is retarded and totally fake!!

  67. FeedTheMachine says – reply to this


    67

    He speaks about this only 2 years after "Dear John" as been released (and not even as a single)? Talk about seeking peoples attention…

    If he had, like he claimed, been so hurt, humiliated or whatever, about this song, why not speak about it earlier, instead of 2 years later, especially just a couple of weeks following the release of his new album? I bet since no one really acknowledges his existence in general, he needs to find other ways to get the attention pointed back to him. He's how old again? 34? I think he's the one that has some growing up to do.
    Plus, criticizing Taylor's song writing? It is what it is, but what does that have to do with anything?

    Once a douche, always a douche.



  68. 68

    lyrics
    him and gylangel hanging round
    said theres a new gal in town
    her name is ta–y—lor and we want to nail her

    chorus
    wah wah wah wahhhhhhhhhhhhh

    screwed me in the bum
    i said please dont tell my mum lalala laaaaaa

    wahh wahh wahh wahhhhhhhhhhhhh

    dumped me there soon after
    i heard their laughter

    wahhh wahh wahh wahhhhhh

    so i wrote a songgg tell the world i was strung alooooonggggg

    wahhh aaa ahhh aaa aaahhhhhhhhhh

    fade out…



  69. 69

    Re: perez posse member 777 – LOVE YOU!! TAYLOR IS SOOOOOO FAKE!!!!

  70. bless says – reply to this


    70

    "She was a doe-eyed teenager who got her heart broken by a veteran rock star that she thought loved her! "

    oh come on perez … don't you think that she's way too immature? she seemed to fall inlove with every guy she had dated, what's up with that? always acting like a victim.

  71. tellison says – reply to this


    71

    as Marvin said I am taken by surprise that a mother able to get paid $5344 in 4 weeks on the internet. have you read this web link



  72. 72

    *shrugs* I think he should just write a song about what an immature brat she is.

  73. SincereLost says – reply to this


    73

    @Okra Panfry: You sound like a racist ignorant something (wont say human being or person), Whats the matter, your white boy john you are in love with dared to go out with a white woman. Grow up, you sound like a sex crazed whore, that's the only reason why anyone would give you the time of day.

  74. WantToHearIt says – reply to this


    74

    This is so like John Mayer to involve another woman and play the victim here. Another famous woman is getting cursed at by all these stupid blind fans of John Mayer, you morons, he's treated people and women like crap and here you all are falling into another Drama created by this douche, Tool. He always pulls this crap and his music simply sucks!!! He's definitely not a looker if you know what I mean, what good is he unless he creates this tug of war between him and a female ??? If you ask me, he's quite useless. Hope he doesn't tour for a long long long time. For a man to pull these stunts time and time again, he is GAY!!! and he dislikes women.

  75. guest says – reply to this


    75

    Taylor had to write a song about John clearly sent a message that she was not over him. And John Mayer had to respond also indicated he had a thing for Taylor. I would not be surprised if they will go back to date each other again. I don't care John Mayer dated dozens of actresses. But I hated him dated Jennifer love hewitt the most. Jennifer Love Hewitt is beautiful and sweet. What a waste for her to date this classless trash. Little sorry for Jennifer Aniston as well. She was openly dumped by the trash. But Jennifer Aniston obviously were not over Brad Pitt as went on dating men forever. She should have learned from Sandra Bullock. Dump the man and adopt a baby. Her life might turn around.

  76. tampaswifty13 says – reply to this


    76

    Re: rosebud99 – I agree 100%

  77. tampaswifty13 says – reply to this


    77

    Re: Nikitty – True that

  78. tampaswifty13 says – reply to this


    78

    Re: TiffaniHart – 30 million and 1

  79. Britt says – reply to this


    79

    Okra you sound dumb where the hell do you get that she's some sex freak for losing her virginity that's so dumb to even say and ignorant please shut up and get a life

  80. Brittany says – reply to this


    80

    AnoTher thing John Meyer is only saying all this shit to start another up roar so she can be back in the spot light he has tried dating all the A list females and was a nasty ass dog to all of them and now the spot light has been off him because of what he did to Taylor that now he started talking about the song that's
    Been out for 2 years… Talk about a social whore… Give up John Meyer and retire you are one ugly ass guy and I'm surprised that any of these woman even liked you they were all to beautiful for you.. You would make a good couple with a chihuahua … The end

  81. girlcrazy says – reply to this


    81

    The "she asked for it" mentality is a little frightening to me. Taylor was just like hundreds of other women you know. They are your sisters, friends and other women you love. She was young, caught up in the moment and ultimately fell for a douche, who frankly doesn't seem to respect any females at all. When he said "Because I didn't deserve it. I'm pretty good at taking accountability now, and I never did anything to deserve that. It was a really lousy thing for her to do." That's a pretty good indicator he hasn't changed one bit. Taking your lumps for being hurtful to someone you care about is being accountable for your actions. The problem with putting yourself in the public eye is you open yourself up to public scrutiny.
    However, she's a creative person and when her heart was broken wrote a song about her pain. Which is something HE knew about her going into it. So who really asked for it? He's just upset because Karma is a bitch that's bigger than the one he is.

  82. Taylor sux says – reply to this


    82

    I don't feel sorry for either of them. Everyone know that John Mayer is THE biggest douchbag in Hollywood, yet Taylor went for him. She did put herself in that situation.
    Taylor herself is also not as sweet or innocent as she seem. She cheated on her boy friend at that time - Taylor Lautner, who did cared and loved - with John Mayer before dumping him. So really she have herself to blame.

  83. dreamssweetly says – reply to this


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    Re: SullenWhirlGirl
    I was married to a man I had been with for years who I am still married to. Good try though, and I was much smarter than that.

  84. dreamssweetly says – reply to this


    84

    I was the "asshole" friend who got dropped for telling my friends to be smarter than that. That these guys are perverts and are just going to drop them. Either she doesn't have a friend like that, which sucks. Or she dropped that friend and did it anyway.

  85. rosiecutie says – reply to this


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    i don't know WHAT has gotten over this world. to all of you who say she is a 'dumb bitch' or a 'slut' who 'knew exactly what she was doing': okay, I'll for sometime agree with you. but then, HE should've got enough common sense to make it out that she was freaking 19! he was so old! Have a heart, people!

    P.S. have you all heard of a little song called MEAN?

  86. adam says – reply to this


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    oh c'mon people. Taylor Swift made a song with the intent to hurt AND humiliate someone - and gets praised for it. John Mayer gets ASKED about how the song made him feel, answers completely honestly, and gets loads of hate because of it.
    Taylor writes every song she has about her ex boyfriends, and yet you all sit here saying John is the one complaining? gtfo.

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    I've reached a point where Taylor Swift's fake good girl image where she's always, ALWAYS the victim is just annoying. I hope this bitch goes away. I literally hate her.

    She is the only person to ever make me side with John Mayer, and that is never good. I find him the biggest douche since Perez outed that gay american idol guy.

    She and her fake surprised look after winning so many awards, her sour expression when she doesn't win an award, her mediocre talent to write songs where she's the victim despite her dating so many men annoys me. What annoys me more is that people buy her phony sparkly crap.

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    Re: TheFemmeFatale – nobody ever said he forced her to dumb bitch. get your facts straight before you say anything

  89. Celeste says – reply to this


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    Re: reply to this – oh please grow up we are not in a virtual world to do th whole *action* thing.

  90. it's me says – reply to this


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    Oh, shut up Hilton. It's obvious you hate John Mayer just because you couldn't suck his when you tried. By the way, getting to the point, he said what he felt just as she did. You can't blame him for saying he felt offended and humiliated and defend her because "she was 19". She has AGENTS. They tell her what things to do and not to do and teach her to take decisions. She wrote the song and, not happy with that, she VENTED it was about John Mayer. So who was the first to throw the rock? Plus, I knew perfectly what I wanted when I was 19. So she was. Stop thinking she's an angel just because she writes about farytales. She's a woman just like everyone else and does good and bad things. That's it.

  91. Swifty4life says – reply to this


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    Fuck all of u who call her a slut and a whore! Taylor is my best friend she is a virgin!!!! John broke her heart,her music reflects her heart and those of you who are to heartless to care shut the fuck up!!!