Katy Perry And John Mayer Pack On The PDA At Pal's Party

This guy is such a creeeeep!!! I can't believe Katy Perry would lower herself to sleeping with a man that has had so many women. Oh and don't forget the ones we, the public, don't know about. GROSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

he must be great in bed

Re: Nesa – Get serious. This isn't just about his career. He wants love in his life. So he's messed with some girl's heads. It's not as if women will practically give it up for him (trust me, there are still plenty that would) I don't think he set out to alienate women. Maybe he was a bit confused. Geesh. I think he may have strong feelings for her. Kty posted an interesting Tweet during the time she and John were supposedly broken up. She wrote, "Hate the game, not the player". I LOVED that Right on woman! It sounded as if she REFUSD to hold a grudge. She's a big girl. She can take good care of herself.

Re: lolling hard – Right on! I agree. Name one honestly non celebrity gorgeous woman who is sitting around mourning over these two and I'll give them a kick in the arse and remind them of how scandalous he is and why they should get better men. When I finish with them, they'll be thanking me and hating themselves for taking Mayer seriously and for giving him the time of day. I bet there are girls who giggling themselves into a coma over this Perry and Mayer pairing. Women wake up and haul it away from the guy. Katy thinks she's got such a keeper. Poor Katy darling. Mayer's not in demand by anyone except KatyKat. I gotta admit that women get out and get hotter men. Hotties are out there who won't play games and are really sweet guys. Mayer let down so many women. These women Mayer deeply disappointed had enough with his nonsense and drama. They're not trying to win or get Mayer back. who would?

I still stand by my "Hate the game, not the player" comment.

I agree with V. Even fireworks dissipate and turn into smoke, as will mayer and perry. This is smoke. JM has a large appetite for an assortment of women. He should keep his options vast and being that he has wandering eyes, this could be to boost his career. Affectionate PDA means nothing to men. They can have pda with a girl for three days, go missing and be with another woman. That simple. Was jm drinking? Alcohol makes men horny and clingy. Men like jm can be with one woman, but want another woman. I wouldn't be shocked if he hasn't set a tentative breakup date with her in his iPhone already. If a woman will put out and give up the booty, then the man will be there for the taking of the booty, but will be wanting other booty from else where always. Wonder who JM was driving around Malibu looking for or checking up on? It won't last with Katy. His attention span with women is that to a nat. She shouldn't get too comfortable, but enjoy her place while she's it.

Re: Malibu Beach – Re: Malibu Beach – That bad, eh? >"that to a nat" I wonder if KP knows about some of these other stories? I got the impression from one of the posters here that other celebs may know somethings the general public isn't privy to. I wonder if she is choosing to overlook and just has it bad for the guy. Maybe she really believes in him and is providing him with a lot of emotional support, good sex and friendship,right now. Maybe she has a wandering eye too. Heck if i know?

Re: Brooklyn Wise – How do KNOW it wasn't Katy? Are you a mind reader? Were you there? How can you be sure of this, or do you just SUSPECT based on some inside info? Maybe he didn't want to be rude and text in front of his friends. Maybe he didn't want to have fans running up to him so he tried to look busy.

Here's something to ponder everyone: What if his ex doesn't want John back and hates him? Maybe that's why he's settled with Katy because he knows that he seriously f-ed up for an eternity with the ex gf and that he can't repair things. What if he doesn't have a choice, but to be with Katy. Did anyone EVER think about that possibility? Did anyone ever question the possibility that John has f-ed so terribly that his ex hates the very sight of him, the mention of his name, his music and that there's NOTHING he can or could ever do to right his wrongs with her? He may be sorry for what he keeps putting her through, but I'm guessing that this time that she doesn't want him back. I would love to think that she'd never trust him again. I did hear that he's sorry for hurting her, but that sorry isn't good enough for her and she doesn't believe him or trust him. Mayer couldn't get his ex back not even if he tried. It's beyond a grudge I suspect. That must be a tough thought and possible reality for John to swallow and digest. I'm just guessing on what I've heard from my sources. Now I'm not saying that I'm 100% sure about the ex finding a new few men, and hating Mr. JCM, but it could happen and may very well be. I wonder if he can sit and surely ask himself with confidence if she hates him? Most women end up hating him. They hate the player and the game. Maybe he should ask his ex if she hates him for sure. I would!

Re: What IF……….. – Uh, wow. I can't really say anything, but the ex has been linked with another hollywoodish male and she was in a few magazines for recent product ads. She models her own hair for shampoo brands too. They use her as a hair double from the back for commecials with celebrities. They show her usually walking in from the back and use another model or celeb for the camera shots. She does do print modeling. I'm not sure about her hating JM though. That's an area that I'm ignorant to. Who would be privy to her hating him?

I Re: keeping quiet – I don't this she is his only ex.

Re: Honesty – I beg to differ regarding the hatred. Maybe he hasn't got the courage needed to get around to truly ask a few whether they hate him or not. He should ask the ex or maybe he's afraid to ask her. Jenn isn't THE EX from what I've seen. Jenn is happily planning her nuptials. She's not thinking about Mayer. I hear from sources that he's done plenty to be hated.

Re: Honesty – more like the unknown ex. doubt that that theraphy will ever make him accountable for his actions. A woman will tell a man that she doesn't hate him out of fear. She will pretend that she still loves him while she despises him. It seems that Mayer uses one woman to protect himself from the ruined reality with the last. That's why he goes from women, to booze, to music to women, all over again. It's all a distraction. He will infuse Katy into his life, involve himself in her on goings and more just to use it as a psychological shield to forget what he's done to the last woman. It's replacement substitution. Using one woman, dating and having sex to ignore his inner psyche, guilt and past. He doesn't have the ability or courage to confront his past or admit to hurting anyone. In his world and mind, it's all about what makes him happy and not about if he's hurt someone else.

Re: Psyche – I would love for William Shattner to get a hold of mayer and drill him about his long list of unknowns that he denies to his Hollywood rat pack. I respect the fact that Shattner is a recovering alcoholic with a sensible heart and mind. He knows right from wrong. Mayer doesn't.

Re: Imagine That – Oh my god, really? I'm actually beginning to buy into what some of what you people are saying here, but as a somewhat Mayer fan i need a bit more convincing. Care to supply any more info? It might help break the, ahem, spell.

Re: Psyche – Man that;s neurotic and so UNhealthy. I can't believe it. My mind automatically wants to say, "What a pl***r!" . Just can't say it. It makes everything Taylor swift got on her megaphone about sound healthy, although calling him out in front of millions is a big step…perhaps its all Karma. She sure is "shining like fireworks all over his sad empty town".

Re: behold – Oh honest to God. That's just ridiculous.

Re: Interesting – I'm a woman, not Mayer, thank you very much. I am just saying it is only hurting the women who are doing the hating.
I guess if they all need to get it out of their system they should form a I Hate Mayer for Screwing Me Over Club and just plot their revenge.
I don't recommend the wronged ladies let it go so mayer can feel comfortable at all. I recommend they do it for them, their lives, which are the only things they have any control over. They can't control making Mayer feel bad. He seems to have psychic defense mechanisms in that department

Re: now we know – Okay, I'll come clean. I'm a fan who is a little too obsessed with JM…not romantically. I am looking for ways to be turned off to him so i can move on with my life. That's what I meant by that word. You can't be serious by saying I'm Katy Perry. I wish! Not because she's dating Mayer. I'd just like to have her lifestyle.

It seems weird to me that these two are never photographed showing any real affection towards each other. There are always reports of it or "sources" saying they were kissing, holding hands, etc. When he was dating Minka Kelly, they were photographed kissing and holding hands. I think he was this way with Jennifer Aniston too. Maybe Katy and John will attend the American Music Awards together and that will be their big first outing as a couple.

All this talk about how the ex feels or what she should feel or do is not anyone's place. That's something that's between she and John. Everyone is so quick to say how the ex should feel and how the ex should hate him. That's not right. Those two should work things out and talk it over. None of us know where she/the ex stands with John or if he's in discussion with her, whether he's sexing perry or not. This could be for publicity. Two people can still be close and still love/care about each other through some harrowing incidents and circumstances like this situation. Who knows, he may reunite with the ex and secretly smooth things over, if he hasn't done so already without Katy's knowledge. She can't keep an eye on him 24/7. That's for certain. Things could be great with him and the ex. Maybe she's just laying low, loving Mayer, and doing her own thing quietly. I doubt the story about her hooking up with some Hollywood guy. We don't know.

What's your point? You pinpointed the words "friendship and natural seducer" as "redeeming qualities." Are you saying that he's a good friend to Katy and that he does have the tendency to land himself in trouble because of his flirtatious behavior with women, who tend to misinterpret his actions, causing them to think he's in love with them, fall hard for him? Women do have the tendency to misinterpret sex and affection for love, right??? Now what's your take on his standing and situation with the ex??? Be honest, clear and thorough and answer straight, this is critical, maybe your last chance and one shot…

Re: Just Thinking – "Be honest, clear and thorough and answer straight, this is critical, maybe your last chance and one shot…" <<<what the heck is that supposed to mean? Stop being so suspicious. i get the feeling you think I know something. I know nada. Wish i did though.

Re: No One Important – I have had a few encounters with the man. He has always gone out of his way to be very thoughtful and kind to me and I appreciate it very much. He also has had moments where he has seemed quite sexist, IMO and a put down artist. "Insensitive" is the word that comes to mind. He's a player, no doubt. I think when he fancies a lady he can be on his very best behavior. His big brother is a major jerk-off. Can't stand the guy.

With all of the dogging of him in the press, I wouldn't be surprised if he tries extra hard to make this thing work with Katy. That is unless she ends the relationship, or somehow his "ex" comes back into the scene. Either way, if this thing ends with Katy the media might just go crazy with it.

Re: Me – Do you really think his ex will come back or go back to John after this constant onslaught of hurt and humiliation he's raked her through? Is it possible for she and him to get through this all? I've heard of miracles like that happening, after one pereon has hurt another person the way I've heard John hurt his ex gf. What's your take on things?

Re: JT – I have no idea. Sounds like our boy has some major sobering to do.

Re: Me – Do you think he wants his ex to come back and is he the type of man who would put in the "work and care" needed to help her heal? Very sad about "the sobering." How much do you think or believe he cared for and about his ex? Do you think he has a lot of guilt?

Re: Me – Thanks for your honesty. Maybe his ex should cut all communication paths with him then, making it impossible for him to contact, find and reach her? It's just a hunch or a guess. I'm not sure if he still has viable means of contact with her. I could be wrong.

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