Someone's having a growth spurt!!
Look, we love Swifty as much as we love intensely decorated cupcakes, but it's a well-known fact that the gurl just loves to love.
And sometimes she can love a little too hard for her own good.
But hey! She's recognizing that fatal relationship flaw now! Like, recognizing it in detail!!
When asked about her relationship patterns, Taylor Swift admits she loves without thinking things through, saying:
"I don't think there's an option for me to fall in love slowly, or at medium speed. I either do or I don't. I don't think it through, really, which is a good and a bad thing. You don't look before you leap, which is like, 'Yay, this is awesome! Let's not think twice!' And then you're like, 'We used to be flying. Now we're falling. What's happening?'"
We've all been there, gurl. LOL!
But now, since she has had so many boyfriends, she's questioning which ones were real loves and which were simply infatuation:
"I tend to think things are love and then look back and reevaluate. I know how many people I've said 'I love you to' to. I could probably count it up, but I don't feel like it. Part of me feels like you can't say you were truly in love if it didn't last. If I end up getting married and having kids, that's when I'll know it's real — because it lasted."
Whoa!!! Hold up there… why are we talking about marriage so fast??
Please, Tay… elaborate:
"People think I want to get married really young — I don't know why. I'm a romantic person, but that doesn't mean I want to miss out on being in my young 20s."
Phew! She's smarter than some may think!
And hey, it's a good thing she's realizing all of this now. Some people still have these complexes when they're in their forties!
So maybe now the One Direction fans can relax about her puppy love with Harry Styles. We know it's gonna be hard no matter what, Directioners… but at least you know marriage isn't on the horizon! Ha!
Speaking of Harry… Taylor did confess what she likes in a man. And we think all of Harry's fans will agree he fits the bill on this one:
"There's a really interesting charisma involved. They usually have a lot to say, and even if they don't, they know how to look at you to say it all. I think every girl's dream is to find a bad boy at the right time, when he wants to not be bad anymore."
Oh Taylor… we hope everything with HAYLOR goes lovingly well for you.
We know you need a good one. But if this one ends in heartbreak… just focus on the INCREDIBLE career you have and real love will come when you least expect it!
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