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Dear Amanda

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Our response to Amanda Bynes telling us to go kill ourselves - and calling us ugly, of course.

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100 comments to “Dear Amanda”

  1. drerock says – reply to this


    good for u! your hair looks amazing btw

  2. lisa4569 says – reply to this


    Perez, this was a very heartfelt message. I'm proud of you, although you could have left that comment out about the mouth thing. LOL Obviously this girl needs as much love and help as she can get, whether she wants it or not. Sending good thoughts and prayers will help. Good for you!

  3. 3

    Grow up already. She has issues. She needs help. You are not helping. You are evil.

  4. Jesse says – reply to this


    Perez, please take her advice.. Your child will live a peaceful life.

  5. 5

    Why even bother? There's clearly some mental illness going on. i) She won't understand and appreciate all that you've said and ii) because it is clear that she won't understand or appreciate due to mental illness, I wonder what was your motivator? Just ignore her, unless that is, you have real access to her and can persuade her to go get the help she so badly needs.

  6. Amber says – reply to this


    I think it's awful of her saying things like that to you dear Perez, you are not ugly, i can tell you that for sure :)
    I hope she gets all the help that she needs, she is obviously very ill.
    Enjoy the weekend ♥ :)

  7. Isa says – reply to this


    she is a very weak minded person, and i don't feel bad for her. i pity her. and if she really cared about herself she would get help, not further seek attention through social media.

  8. drerock says – reply to this


    Re: Jesse

    you are a horrible person, why would you say such a terrible thing

  9. 9

    What drivel, just leave her alone. I guess some people will believe you, if not hopefully this will be your last words about Amanda.

  10. petersElliott says – reply to this


    That was beautiful Perez, positive and non judgemental (mostly). Now do not post anything more about Amanda. She will continue to post how ugly this one is and that one but the more bloggers reblog and talk about these tweets, the more it fuels her fire. It's sad, she's sick, you have said your peace, leave it alone :)

  11. 11

    I will admit, this was very big of you to do this, even if it has to be a video made publicly.
    Both of you have been in the wrong with lashing and attacking each other, but hopefully it comes to an end. And this is a start by your part

  12. 12

    Well said!!! I think she, and most of us just need a pick me up from time to time. In the words sung by Jessie J.
    Don't lose it all in the blur of the start!
    Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing,
    It's okay not to be okay.
    Sometimes it's hard to follow your heart.
    Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising,
    Just be true to who you are!

  13. Liza says – reply to this


    I cringe whenever I see someone telling another person to kill themselves. Seriously, you do not know what that person is going through, thinks or feels. And they just might do it.

  14. Karen says – reply to this


    This is rich, because it wasn't too long ago that Perez was HORRIBLE to people. What was his excuse? Oh, that's right. There wasn't one, except that he's (still) an asshole.

  15. 15

    Response to Perez Hilton.

    Perez, you are a nasty, vile, mean person. You have nerve preaching to Amanda Bynes..or anyone for that matter. Nothing about you is real or sincere. You are a joke. You stalk people on your supposed "Hollywood Gossip" blog and then you have the nerve to act all offended. Perez, you are truly despicable.

  16. 16

    BTW, that you tell Amanda that she is calling people ugly and saying ugly things and that deleting tweets does not make them go away…DUDE!! You have written and said so much worse! Where the F*CK do YOU get off…HYPOCRITE!!

  17. 17

    Re: drerock
    Because…you must know that Perez has said and done soooo much worse. How can you not know that? Maybe you should consider that?

  18. 18

    Re: Karen
    Wasn't that long ago that he was horrible to people? You're right…just today in fact. ;)

  19. 19

    Re: Jesse – You are disgusting!

  20. AMANDA BYNES says – reply to this






    I H8 YOU




  21. 21

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  22. Adom says – reply to this


    Hey Horseface!!! remember when you kept calling Hilary Duff horseface when she got veneers? well who is the ugly horseface now?! lmao. you're ugly. go die.

  23. jackwad says – reply to this


    Who gives a $hit about this mutant, let her die already. Decrease the surplus population of useless consumers that should be put to sleep immediately.

  24. nawtali says – reply to this


    Why did those celebrities willing to help her, if she needs any, hv to her "reach out" to her publicly?! cant they do it privately? In that way Amanda might hv appreciated the help offer if she needed? Its just for publicity and trying to make themselves look good at the expense of amanda. So quit pretending that u care, perez.

  25. jackwad says – reply to this


    Re: nawtali – Do you actually give a $hit?

  26. pastor d says – reply to this

  27. Rose says – reply to this


    You can get your friends most of whom have not posted on your endless blogs about Amanda to say a few kind words about you Perez, but there are those of us that have been following your treatment, your harassment of this girl, blog by endless blog. We're not having it Perez. You are no noble knight coming to Amanda's rescue. You are a cause of grief to her and we know it. I'm glad that people are standing up to you Perez. You are vicious and you are cruel and now you tread on sanctimonious.

  28. Cat says – reply to this


    Ironic how she's insulting the people who clearly are only trying to help. I say fuck it! Ta-ta Miss Bynes, it's a shame we have to see you go out so hideously dressed.

  29. Anonygirl says – reply to this


    Good for you for standing up for her. Amanda needs help and her behaviour is a result of mental issues.

  30. Joanne says – reply to this


    She's just not in a good state of mind and what comes out of her mouth is directed by her unhealthy mind. So people should not be surprised or shocked when she comes at them with the ugly comments.

  31. LoL says – reply to this


    You hater-posters are what is wrong with this world! You should be ashamed of yourselves. If you hate Perez that much, WHY DO YOU COME HERE? Go away losers. Take your hate speech elsewhere. When someone tries to do something nice- just STFU!!!

  32. LOL says – reply to this


    Re: Paulie – Do your folks know you act like this and are full of this much hate when you speak? I would be ashamed of you.

  33. LOL says – reply to this


    Re: Pacific Ocean Gal – OMG! lmao, if he is evil WHY are YOU fucking here?

  34. LoL says – reply to this


    Re: AMANDA BYNES – You are NOT Amanda and should be ashamed of yourself. ASHAMED.

  35. hayley says – reply to this


    I like this. Good for you. Some people will comment negatively on this, but I think this is one of the better things you've done and said.

  36. becki says – reply to this


    it makes me sad that she's calling everyone ugly and old as the bad things people say about others usually reflects the flaws they see in themselves. this is also apparent with her drastic image change. i hope she gets help and learns to truly love herself. maybe she is insecure as, although she is only in her 20's, she was known as a child star and may be scared of getting older/ losing her looks. I thought this was a great, positive video

  37. shelby says – reply to this


    i may have missed it but are you ever gonna comment on the things that kesha has said about you on her mtv television show?

  38. Satori says – reply to this


    you are pure evil perez. you are the incarnate of true pathological evil. you drove amanda to a tipping point and it was only a matter of time before she would excalate after what must have been trigger after trigger what you have been "concerned" and you have pushed her. you have hurt her. you have been hideous to her, and what is the most horrific is your ability to guise your defiling of her as some form of caring. It is clear you are a money whore, you hurt people…it is your nature, you feel humiliation when big celebrities seem to be turning on you, and you know just how to put the guise on and deflect the monster youare. I wish Oprah knew who the nature of you really is. your poor poor child. how will you delete all of the horrible things you have said and done before he is old enough to understand the natureo f you?

  39. LookatYou says – reply to this


    Pervez you are as phony as a $3 bill. If she needs help it's not going to come from a "celebrity" and least of all from you a wanna-be "celebrity" in your delusional mind. You don't have a sincere bone in your body. You're just a sasquatch looking squirrel trying to get a nut.

  40. Rose says – reply to this


    And for the record, Amanda has only mentioned Perez a couple of times, while he has posted 100s of blogs, videos, mugshots of Amanda. He has purposefully and gleefully goaded her into saying something about himself, because it made him a news story by association with a real famous person. This is what paps do. They goad.

  41. 41

    Perez, you took the high road in the situation, which some trolls on here can't even recognize because they are so caught up in the bully cycle and trying to bring you down. I remember how you used to be and how you are now. I give you complete credit for making a positive change in your life and encouraging others to do so as well. Keep the positive energy flowing and it will rub of on others. People need more positive messages in life!!!

  42. Victoria says – reply to this


    Wow!!! I have to say that is such an amazing response!!! Having been on the receiving end of being told to kill myself, it is so hard not to get mad! Your response is such an inspiration and hopefully people will start to understand the magnitude of what it is that they are saying. Though i might not agree with all your political stands i have no problem saying I LOVE YOU!!!!!! you are awesome and PLEASE PLEASE PLEEEEEEASE keep spreading positiveness, because it is contagious!

  43. 43

    This is the most petty expression of immaturity I have seen in a while, Perez. You have written terrible, terrible things about your 'friend', and as we all know, if you really wanted to help her you wouldn't release a catty video that all of your viewers can see.

    You are a father now. Amanda Bynes needs help. You are not on an even playing-field. Lay off of her and set an example for your son.

  44. Rose says – reply to this


    Re: BecauseIcan – Funny I haven't seen you before, but you are obviously not commenting on the 100s of cruel and spiteful blogs by your troll Perez, about Amanda.

  45. 5 cats 1 dog says – reply to this


    Well said my friend…

  46. Orionsangel says – reply to this


    I just hope you get help Perez. Help from a hair stylist and cut that strange perm/mullet.

  47. 47

    OMG I hope people aren't buying that as sincere. He's purposely antagonizing her. He's trying to act like he really cares (to the celebs I bet) but most know his agenda is personal and UGLY. She pissed him off and he has been going at her. I hope the celebs that do give him interviews, will stop and say no more to him.

  48. tig says – reply to this


    Re: Paulie

    Well at least everyone knows now that you're not getting F**ked, Paulie! Ha.

  49. Rose says – reply to this


    Re: IzzyLizzy – Sad to say, I think they won't Lizzy. They are reporting she's attacking him. Can you believe it? I have never seen anything like this. 100s upon 100s of stories on her by him. Sometimes a dozen a day. Most other media has shown some restraint, but not Perez hilton. If there's an ugly photograph, he'll post it. If there's an insult to be made, he's made it. And they are reporting she's attacking him?? Unbelievable. Truly he is ugly. Inside where they can't snip your nose or lift your face. Inside the soul. We've seen him torment, pick upon certain people…incur his readers to do hatchet pieces on them. It's unconscionable.

  50. Kayla says – reply to this


    I appreciate the thoughtfulness, but I feel like it's being ignored that this girl has a serious mental illness and as someone who works in the mental health industry. It's not a questions is pretty much a fact. From her behavior it seems very typical of bi polar with psychotic features or even schizophrenia. I am perplexed as to why someone in her family or a health professional has not attempted a 5150- severely out of control.

  51. Rose says – reply to this


    Paulie, I've tried three times to post this. Like will. I. Am. What he called him. Look up Perez and Sam rubin. Good laugh there.

  52. Regina says – reply to this


    Perez, leave her alone! You're provoking her and making the entire situation worse. Britney-gate 2.0. Also, she's sick! She doesn't know what she's saying. Come on, you know better.

  53. 53

    Perez Hilton is a bully……I dont think he was sincere at all.

  54. 54

    She needs god, Perez you are amazing the way you are never change for anyone, LOVE YOU !!! <3

  55. e says – reply to this


    that was a nice message, it's good to turn the other cheek in this situation.

    as someone with bipolar I I can tell you that being told over and over that you are fucked up and need help isn't going to help her, she probably just laughs at it and obviously gets pissed off. It makes things worse it's just as bad as tossing an insult. Telling someone they aren't in their right mind when they aren't is a delicate thing to do.

    Amanda needs someone who can empathize with her situation, someone who can say "god i can't imagine how frustrated you must be feeling" and get her to let it out. Maybe draw some parallels to their own experiences…

    How many of you take photos from a specific angle so that no one can see some slight imperfection on your body? She doesn't have that ability and clearly right now it's really an issue for her so some of her freaking out is kind of put in perspective even though the ranting seems a little "crazy" there is obviously a lot of fear for her.

    Obviously we don't know if she even has a mental illness but if she does going through it so publicly is going to leave her absolutely humiliated if she seeks treatment, be kind everyone.

  56. 56

    Why do you refer to yourself as "us"? You are ONE person, not two.

  57. HB says – reply to this


    Re: e – Nice message? Turn the other cheek. You must mean ass cheek. Perez is doing what he does best, rubbing salt in the wound and playing some sordid little victim role. This 'being' is completely self serving and vindictive.

  58. HB says – reply to this


    By the way, the whole suck your dick thing, was in response to Perez (in yet another photo of himself) wore a hat which read "duck my sick". Entirely rude, so Amanda was just saying what a lot of us were already thinking.

  59. reyes says – reply to this


    Perez,your one ugly looking lad. Growing up in LA, id be ashamed to call you my father.

  60. hawaiigirl says – reply to this


    @Rose "there are those of us that have been following your treatment, your harassment of this girl, blog by endless blog" (I hate you Perez…yet I must go to your website daily, sometimes (deep breath) hourly. I know, I shouldn't, I hate you but…I need you. I need you to keep making those vicious remarks, it's what drives me to come back. After all, if I were just interested in Hollywood news/celebrities I could go to People, or USweekly. No, it is a forbidden love..)

    "If there's an ugly photograph, he'll post it. If there's an insult to be made, he's made it. "
    (That's right baby, and I'm going to be right here to read all those horrible, nasty things you say..sigh…I'm going to hang onto your website like an anglerfish. Nothing can deter me. Nothing) I hate you, you vicious troll. (No I don't baby, I'm like a moth to a flame.)
    <3<3 Rose loves Perez .<3 <3 shhhhh..don't tell anyone though.

  61. max says – reply to this


    Perez nice message, but don't forget you are the guy that draws genitals on pictures & insults people too. Worse though, you make money off it. What's the difference?

  62. sophia says – reply to this


    I can't help but sense there is a sarcastic under tone to this message.. i have to agree with many comments on here, you have a large audience which means you are contributing to this girl suffering … she has obviously lost hope and is very angry/ill . I can't even imagine how humiliating it is for people to see you spiral out of control. Weed doesn't help either…. i hope she pulls through this and get support from family and friends.

  63. reagan says – reply to this


    Re: Jesse – lulz

  64. AMELIA says – reply to this


    Good god you're insufferable.

  65. annie says – reply to this


    I just love what you said to her perez. You are a good person.

  66. Rose says – reply to this


    Re: hawaiigirl – I don't hate anybody Hawaii girl, but there is something about the underdog, that gets me everytime. A lot of times in school I'd see a bully picking on a kid, watch how suddenly the whole school would suddenly, gang up on that kid. And I'd say something. It's not the easiest thing to stand up to a bully, because they are good at it. Most of us, just want to fly under the radar. And when I started defending Amanda, it seemed like no one was, and I felt bad for her. I feel compassion for a few people that Perez makes fun of, and, if something strikes me as the further degradation or objectifying people sexually, I speak up and say something too. I don't say it for Perez, I say it because maybe somebody else might read it, and commit to saying something too. Sometimes when you stand up to a bully, you attract that bully to yourself. Maybe sometimes you become a bit of a bully too. But maybe Amanda doesn't have good friends right now. Maybe in someway, a few of us here, are trying to be a friend.

  67. 67

    Why are we so easily distracted from the "real" news? This chick is just playing crazy and we are just eating it up, what a sad bunch we are.

  68. 68

    Its funny to read how Perez spams his own posts with fake supporters. So pathetic. He's too stupid to notice that they all sound the same and to avoid similarities. So pathetic.

  69. Austin says – reply to this


    Amanda said it but everyone else was thinking it! Although I do not think anyone should kill themselves u are ugly! U talk shit about ppl all the time then turn right around and try to kiss their ass. Ur so 2 faced. U guys can bash me for this if u want but u know its true.

  70. BobbieFisher2 says – reply to this


    Dear Perez:

    Thank you for that wonderful response. I think we all learned from the Britney Spears meltdown - that all doesn't appear as it seems. Mental illness is genuinely one of the worst fates for any human being. It appears that Amanda has schizophrenia - which typically strikes in young adulthood. One might know a perfectly sane person one year and then the next they will be hearing voices, talking to themselves, and out of control. It is the single most devastating illness - they hurt all the time, they are paranoid, they say and do things that are embarrassing to themselves and their family and they literally have their souls and brains ripped from their bodies. You are a good friend to her in her hour of extreme need. Please keep trying to help her. She is a human being with a terrible disease (no one makes fun of people with cancer) and deserves dignity as such. Poor thing. Schizophrenics usually die of suicide or neglect eventually - I hope someone helps her and saves her life. Bravo, Mario.

  71. 71

    Nice video, but I'm doubting she needs to try to start a music career right now. Honestly it seems like she's trying to follow in that teen mom moron's footsteps. We all saw how that turned out.

  72. 72

    wish you hadn't added the background music it made it unbearable :/

  73. onlinebabe says – reply to this


    Re: PaulieRe: Paulie
    Really? he is so nasty/vile that you subscribe to his commemts every day,how dare you insult the man and have the nerve to come on his site and get the gossip that he takes the time to get..do one.

  74. 74

    Re: Paulie – AMEN!

  75. 75

    Re: AMANDA BYNES – AMEN!!!!!

  76. 76

    My only comment is congrats for getting attention and comments. Calling out your friends/former friends in public is about as mature as a 10 year old.

  77. Harvey says – reply to this


    It's okay Perez, I'll suck your dick…

  78. That's right says – reply to this


    I say it's time for all of us to hit her with two by fours.

    My patience is gone with this silly bitch…and to get Courtney Love's sympathy? You know you are mucking.

  79. 79

    Perez, you are a leech / bully who stalks and preys on celebs. You provide a decent package of mostly stolen gossip (albeit with many typos and grammatical errors), so we come to your site. But that doesn't mean we condone your bullying and abuse of mentally ill celebs to sell ads.

    Amanda needs help. But so do you. You are one of the ugliest men on the planet (on the outside) but you are uglier on the inside.

    NONE of the celebs you THINK are your friends like you. They secretly DESPISE you but they ACT like your friends because they fear your bullying AND they hope for good press. Trust me, I know, they ALL hate you.

  80. Had to comment says – reply to this


    Re: Jesse
    Wow!! I am hoping you were replying to Pacific Ocean Girl and not what Amanda Bynes suggested he go do. If it was in response to Amanda's rant, then you are one disgusting person. I don't care if you have mental issues, it is never ok to tell someone to go kill themselves. There is a bullying epidemic in this country and your ignorant comment only helps for that kind of hate to grow. Grow up and go live your life.

  81. I'm Not Perez says – reply to this


    First @AmandaBynes and now @justinbieber lighting his own farts? It's becoming a celebrity trend

    @imnotperez #fart #celebrityfart

  82. 82

    Amanda Bynes is Suing Us. Check out the webcomic…

  83. awww says – reply to this


    i love u perez… u are soooooo sweet!!!!!!!!!

  84. julius says – reply to this


    perez i read your blog frequently because you have alot of celebrity gossip all in one place. but i dont agree with you trying to defend yourself from the wrath of amanda bynes. 1st it clearly shows she got under your skin. but you have made numerous comments not so positive about LOTS of celebrities and have even made some of them go through a drastic ordeal(ke$ha's past relationship) to name one. in your video you show how your feelings are hurt. take your own advice and stay POSITIVE all the time!! before your start throwing rocks at glass houses. if you cant handle the heat….. much love sent your way as well, because your a role model but then you shit all over yourself with negative comments to ANY celebrity. I get it you need it for publicity. but i liked the one year 2010 you were consistently positive Most of the Time. that's all :)

  85. nina t says – reply to this


    Problems or not, she is old enough to know how to treat people acceptably and how to speak graciously. Se has plenty of help on offer if she wants it, maybe she simply wants the attention. Either way, the only ugliness is coming out through her personality. Shame on her.

  86. Rose says – reply to this


    Re: paris knightRe: Paulie – His fake posts always start with a grading system. 'o Perez yo is so great.' The topic of Amanda is second behind complimenting himself. Very transparent.

  87. jakki says – reply to this


    Re: AMANDA BYNES – get help girl

  88. 88

    Perez that was a very heartfelt message to Amanda….Im sure it is really hard for you to see her going through all this weird stuff, of late. Let's hope she listens to someone, anyone that reaches out to her. She cannot go on like this forever. As like Britney Spears you go and go and spiral out of control and then Bamm you hit rock bottom. Maybe her parents need to intervene ? Hugs go out to you and AB.

  89. HB says – reply to this


    Oh Perez…this must be soooo hard for you. And after all your kindness and understanding. It must be just terrible for you to have people write you sympathy notes and interview yourself. If only more people were like you. I'll bet you haven't even had time to draw on any genitals lately. I am worried about you oh long suffering puddy baby.

  90. Serene says – reply to this


    Perez doll, stop referring to yoursef in third person you sound like a jackass.

  91. 91

    i couldn't even WATCH this, you are so fucking delusional, dude! she's OBVIOUSLY dealing with a serious mental breakdown and YOU're the one posting online about it more than anyone out there, totally constantly FUCK-UP-EDLY taunting her and making FUN of her (who the fuck CARES if you "knew" her, you don't get to do this a person when they're at their LOWEST, it's just mind-numbingly CRUEL). she probably told you to "go kill yourself" because your constant bullying of her HERE, on your trainwreck of a site, is making HER want to do that exact same fucking thing - who wouldn't want to fucking die in her state? you're fucking OBSESSED with her breakdown/meltdown, it's like you can't get ENOUGH! why don't you just do what any adult with any amount of compassion would do at this point and LEAVE HER THE FUCK ALONE???????? if something happens to her, if she DOES end up harming herself, or OD-ing, etc. - it's on YOU, and all the rest of the media circus out there who can't leave this woman ALONE.

  92. 92

    Re: onlinebabe
    Lol… I don't subscribe to his posts every day. WTF are you talking about? Don't make stupid assumptions twat. I visit here maybe once or twice a week. Moron.

  93. 93

    Re: onlinebabe
    And by the way camel toe…ANYONE could do what he does…he does not "get the gossip" you twit. Now go out and buy or rent yourself a clue ya nutter.

  94. Because its true says – reply to this


    When H.ledger died Perez sold tshirts with heaths picture and captioned ' why wasn't it Britney' to die.

  95. 95

    Re: Because its true – - he was horrid before and this just totally proves it - WHO could ever, WOULD ever say anything like that, let alone sell shirts with it splayed across the chest? he's a fucking bitter old sociopath.

  96. Heartbreaking says – reply to this


    Re: tateration2 – He spoke of how Amanda couldn't erase tweets and make them just go away. Ah me. Shakespeare once said, 'Methinks thou doth protest too much'. Meaning the tattler is usually guiltier than whoever they are tattling on. He, Perez does so much worse than Amanda does and the others, he tattles on. He's called people horrible names and happily ruined people's lives while bragging about it. Imagine condemning Amanda for calling him out when he sold tshirts wishing britney dead. No wonder that kid was crying when he made that video, 'let Britney alone'. We need him back for Amanda.

  97. rojasdiva says – reply to this


    Does anyone here think that Perez has accomplished the impossible and become uglier? Put a bag over that head!

  98. chel says – reply to this


    Re: AMANDA BYNES – You have scum between your toes? thats nasty bro.

  99. workonyourself says – reply to this


    Being Gay is a SIN! And you will answer to Jesus for it and in that order. You cant talk about Amanda because you have issues yourself. PS… You have a opinion and so does she, so what's the problem!

  100. Michelle says – reply to this


    She is defs crazy but your "response" was passive aggressive and fake and you could tell so easily. And you are older so you should know better