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So couldn't she have written in her book something along the lines of, get a safe word and role play and have a dominant and submissive role in the bedroom because a lot of women like it? Rather than saying hey fellas, if your woman says she doesn't want it, she really means she does so just dominate her. That sounds super rapey to me. Also her husbands comments afterwards.
Not normally a fan of Melissa's, but I agree with her statements
The truth is, she and her husband are right!!! This is normal man/woman stuff! If a woman were to insist that she help herself sexually to her husband, nobody would call it rape…and I have certainly heard of many men waking-up to find their women on top of them riding their manhood, or giving them head or a hand job as they sleep, etc. This isn't rape, it is called "love and passion"…and sexual tension between a couple comes out in these types of aggressive ways. It's an extremely thin line between that and rape, and both people in a relationship are perfectly aware of this, even lesbian couples have these issues to deal with–all of them–near everyday–so this isn't limited to straight couples alone; it is just normal lust and romance–which may even sometimes cross the line within a relationship. Emotions…mixed with hormones, pheromones, sexuality, alcohol, etc., offer up some very powerful stuff to deal with and try to successfully navigate–thus misunderstandings will happen in the bedroom. Damn a "safety word", you should be adult enough to be able to read when your partner is not okay with something and stop if they wish; it is as simple as that! If you want to keep your partner happen, let them enjoy you, or lose them to someone who will.
PS: That's "happy"…not "happen". And BTW, the dominant thing vs. submissive…is more often than not, what a woman wants–and even demands of her man, although most women will not openly voice this to a male lover. Either her man understands her needs, and gives it to her that way, or she will find a man who will offer her that–with him being in control and dominant. It is a major mistake for a male to be too polite in the bedroom, as a women will assume him to be lacking and unfit. This is animal instinct stuff, but it is nonetheless true–something that the authorities and media don't want to talk about because t can be controversial in terms of blow-back, but it is quietly understood behind closed doors. This is the reason why the TV show "Scandal" and the book "50 Shades of Grey" are so very popular with women.
Re: zip – I'm sorry but what a bunch of crap. Not every woman wants to be dominated in bed. Not saying some don't, and I'm not saying any woman wants a man that's polite while in bed but…there's a huge jump in between the two. And pretending there isn't is just stupid. In bed I like guys who share control, simple as that. And unless it was an actual game we played, I certainly wouldn't be okay with my husband ripping my clothes off me after I've said no. I also don't believe in a woman or man having sex just to keep the other one happy, especially when they're really not in the mood. I'm all for a man being a man but that doesn't mean complete control.
Oh and I hate 50 Shades of Grey…it's horribly written and that kind of thing honesty doesn't turn me on.
I'm all for a hot marriage, but I don't think that's what these two have. I think they're both totally dysfunctional. He seems to have no respect for women and she's making a fool of him. If he lost his money, I guarantee, he'd lose her too. This isn't a marriage. It's an arangement.
Soo, are bygones just bygones for Taylor Swift and Lorde now or what?
The two new besties were spotted making nice hanging out and grabbing dinner at the Hibatchi Japanese Grill restaurant in Melbourne, Australia.
Swifty, being the sweet little angel she is, has not hung out once, but now TWICE (to our knowledge) with the Royals singer!
We can't imagine befriending someone who openly disses us in public!
That shiz is cray cray!
But we do applaud TayTay for being the bigger person here!
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