Ummm, then perhaps she shouldn't have rushed into this marriage??
Considering Bethenny Frankel has been stuck in a nasty divorce battle with Jason Hoppy, it might've been best for her to think twice about marriage if she already knew going into it that this kind of sort of maybe wasn't the man for her.
At the very least, Bethenny could've let Jason know what she was feeling, including that she had already left the love of her life behind! Instead, she's letting her talk show audience know as she revealed some scandalous deets:
"I know who the love of my life is and I am not married to that person and I was the love of this person’s life, too, but we would not have worked in a marriage. Did anyone ever see the movie, The Way We Were? Barbra Streisand and Robert Redford, they were the love of each other’s lives but that doesn’t mean it’s going to work, so do not spend the rest of your life fantasizing. It’s chasing the dragon, drug addicts do that, to chase that one original high, and you are never going to get that. You don’t have to marry the love of your life."
Next she's going to tell people Santa doesn't exist! LOLz!
But srsly, there's no problem holding out for the love of your life because, from what we see, marrying someone who isn't that person doesn't always work out either.