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How Does Dear Abby Answer When Asked A Super Bigoted & Homophobic Question?! In The Most Epic Way Possible, Obvi!

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This is SOOOOOOOOO full of wins!!!

The legendary Dear Abby column is known for giving advice to curious people on all sorts of topics from relationships to kids, even people's home lives and everything else in-between.

She's the QUEEN of advice and it looks like she's definitely staying on the throne because Abby was asked a SUPER tricky question by a seemingly homophobic couple and her answer was absolutely AH-MAZING!

We SERIOUSLY applaud it.

She was asked:

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I relocated to Florida a little over a year ago and were quickly welcomed into our new neighbors' social whirl. Two couples in the neighborhood are gay — one male, one female. While they are nice enough, my husband and I did not include them when it was our turn to host because we do not approve of their lifestyle choices. Since then, we have been excluded from neighborhood gatherings, and someone even suggested that we are bigots!

Abby, we moved here from a conservative community where people were pretty much the same. If people were "different," they apparently kept it to themselves. While I understand the phrase "when in Rome," I don't feel we should have to compromise our values just to win the approval of our neighbors. But really, who is the true bigot here? Would you like to weigh in? — UNHAPPY IN TAMPA


Seriously, we're amazed they even had the balls to ASK that!!

Well, Abby's response was EPIC!

She answered:

DEAR UNHAPPY: I sure would. The first thing I'd like to say is that regardless of what you were told in your previous community, a person's sexual orientation isn't a "lifestyle choice." Gay people don't choose to be gay; they are born that way. They can't change being gay any more than you can change being heterosexual.

I find it interesting that you are unwilling to reciprocate the hospitality of people who welcomed you and opened their homes to you, and yet you complain because you are receiving similar treatment.

From where I sit, you may have chosen the wrong place to live because it appears you would be happier in a less integrated neighborhood surrounded by people who think the way you do. But if you interact only with people like yourselves, you will have missed a chance for growth, which is what you have been offered here. Please don't blow it.

What a SMACKDOWN of truths!!

Abby 1 - Bigots 0

Such a win!!!

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18 comments to “How Does Dear Abby Answer When Asked A Super Bigoted & Homophobic Question?! In The Most Epic Way Possible, Obvi!”

  1. Helly Dolly says – reply to this


    Perez you are a dick…

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    You go on and on about Abby, but you have no clue that she DIED early last year. Nice work.

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    So it wasn't OK for them to discriminate against the gays, but it's perfectly OK for the gays to discriminate against them??????

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    Re: lnweezer – Her daughter (think her name is Jeanne) had been writing the column for some time, maybe she still is. Personally I like Ask Carolyn better.

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    Re: divinah – SInce when are straights discriminated against? They can marry after knowing one another for a few hours but gays and lesbians cannot after knowing each other for decades? Please…sick of ignorant straight people thinking straights are discriminated against…Get an education and live amongst some diversity. Are straights beaten up or killed because they are straight? Nope…please…Do not even go there. You have no idea what some people go through…

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    Re: yea yea – What the fuck are you preaching about???? I was commenting on the article specifically, not about gay politics. I don't give a rat's ass about the stupid plight of your kind, you homo or lesbo. You people can die for all I care. Discrimination is a two-way street!

  7. PD says – reply to this


    Re: divinah – Um? Discrimination:the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things. The couple made their choice to NOT include them based on unjust bias. The remaining neighbors, who obviously showd up to the gathering asking where the gay couples were, collectivly decided to NOT include the new couple in further interactions based on their unjust choice of excluding their friend. That's not discrimination, that's a choice based on a person's character and bigotry

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    Re: PD – i don't give a fuck dear

  9. PD says – reply to this


    Re: divinah – HAHA. It seems appropriate that a bigot like you would sympathize with your kind, dear.

  10. sc says – reply to this


    Re: divinah – Okay tard, I'll keep it simple for you. The other couples in the new community (that means neighbourhood, or people who live near them fyi) do not want to have anything against these bigots. There are only two (that's 2 for you) of those couples are gay. The rest are straight. The straight people do not like bigots either. Get it? Face it, you're kind will soon be extinct - you have the inbred genetics which don't give you the best chance to begin with but your retardation will ensure that no one will want to breed with you. thankfully. now go fuck off off of a cliff.

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    Re: divinah – hey sexy.wanna have buttsex? i know u love it! mmmmm! ill fuck u just like ur daddy did when u were a child. you will cum like u did when u were pleasing ur father. come out of the closet so we can do it in public!!!

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    Re: divinah – The gays didn't discriminate against them. Re-read the article. All their neighbors welcomed them-but the new couple DIDN'T invite the gays when came their time.

  13. 13

    Nice one! If there is a group of people who should be discriminated, it's the BIGOTS! They deserve to be discriminated and their outright ignorance frowned upon! Homophobia have no place in a civilized world. The neighborhood should do something to force this vile ignorant couple to move out.

  14. 14

    Moronic uneducated bigots can't even see they have done anything wrong. If they had any sense they would go and apologize to the gay couple and do want the agony aunt suggested, step outside the square and get some diversity in their lives…It's about time people were called out for being bigots and these assholes that use God as their excuse to hate on gays need to be discriminated against for belonging to the cult known as Christianity or any organized religion maybe more apt. GOD never hated gays the church did and anyone with half a brain cells should know the church does not serve god it serves itself

  15. misty says – reply to this


    Wait stupid ABBY, one cannot be themselves? Sorry Perez to each their own and not everyone believes what you do is politically correct, so don't judge someone as the gay couple is actually judging the straight couple??? LOL

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    Re: misty – its so cute to watch someone TRY to justify the fact that they have an elementary education and the fact that they are a bigot! it happened all the time in Nazi Germany and Alabama in the 60s. u r sooooo cute! but u just keep being you and 'standing up' for your right to be a bigot.

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    The straight couple wasn't discriminated against because they were straight. They were "discriminated" against because they're assholes. If someone didn't invite me to their party, because they disagreed with my PERSONAL life, then hell no, I'm not inviting those people into my home to make me feel uncomfortable and unwelcome at my own party. Would you invite some bitch to your party?

  18. BritneyQueen90 says – reply to this


    This is amazing, really… but WHAT DOES BRITNEY HAVE TO DO WITH ALL THIS? I think maybe just because you used that GIF?… I thought she was the one who replied to those bigots… LOL! xD